It was a brief but memorable run at the top for Vertigo.
― I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Thursday, 13 September 2018 14:44 (seven years ago)
@ Treeship, I do have an example for you about what I'm talking about-- because it's my own story, and betrays nobody's privacy but my own-- but I'm going to post it in another thread
― fgti is for (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 13 September 2018 15:52 (seven years ago)
we can hope. gonna be a lot of canon cleaning first
Couldn't come any quicker for me.
― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 15:55 (seven years ago)
Ok fgti. Please don’t share anything unless you feel you definitely won’t regret it (coming from an ilx oversharer). I don’t doubt that people are abusing the metoo moment for manipulative ends; I guess the kind of uncomfortable discussion is how to address thay without undermining the sea change that has been the force behind this movement, ie, giving the benefit of the doubt to accusers rather than accused. Reading about les moonves it was obvious that something serious needed to change—the things people shrugged off were horrifying
― Trϵϵship, Thursday, 13 September 2018 15:59 (seven years ago)
what is harpers fuckin problemhttps://harpers.org/archive/2018/10/exile-4/
― maura, Thursday, 13 September 2018 20:41 (seven years ago)
Whatever my troubles, I think it is an exciting moment at a time when so much has changed in our understanding of gender. I feel blessed to be a father at a time when my daughters have the means, like never before, to be safe and empowered as they grow sexually. I feel proud to believe that my sons will be among the most sensitive and sensual males to have ever walked the earth.
Yeah thanks bro.
― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:02 (seven years ago)
The Sensual Sons Of John Hockenberry
― omar little, Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:05 (seven years ago)
Worst podcast ever
― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:10 (seven years ago)
but a good Sturges flick
― The Silky Veils of Alfred (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:11 (seven years ago)
In my brief experience working at magazines in the 00s (I was a digital editor at a small mag with Harper’s ties), every office had a Hockenberry or multiple Hockenberrys. If not sexual harassment, non-sexual harassment was PFTC
― Chuck_Tatum, Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:34 (seven years ago)
Oh hey, remember this guy?
I am hearing that Jian Ghomeshi is apparently writing an upcoming cover story for the New York Review of Books. I only have one and not two sources, but my email is very easy to find if you have confirmation or “lol r u crazy?”(Would love it to be the latter.)— Nicole Cliffe (@Nicole_Cliffe) September 13, 2018
Update: I can now confirm that this is happening, and soon.— Nicole Cliffe (@Nicole_Cliffe) September 13, 2018
― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 22:15 (seven years ago)
Wow.
― Trϵϵship, Thursday, 13 September 2018 22:19 (seven years ago)
nyrb has been v. worried about the slandered innocent for years
https://www.nybooks.com/articles/2015/02/05/rape-campus
― mookieproof, Friday, 14 September 2018 01:31 (seven years ago)
I've been pissed at Harpers since their cartoon graphic cover of the women of the alt-right made them look like angelic greek goddesses.
― Yerac, Friday, 14 September 2018 01:40 (seven years ago)
Probability favors the construction that someone claiming victimization is more likely to be telling truth than lying, but Every three year old has discovered how to lie, so dismissing the possibility of untruth in any aspect of human interaction is not a credible position. Can't we all agree that justice is better than injustice and proceed from there?
― A is for (Aimless), Friday, 14 September 2018 02:12 (seven years ago)
i've already let harpers and the economist lapse and now i've sent the nyrb a pissy yet extremely otm letter about this crap
guess i really will be living in an ilx bubble soon. good mourning!
― mookieproof, Friday, 14 September 2018 02:16 (seven years ago)
Hmmm.
"I'm Julie Chen Moonves. Goodnight." #BB20— Andy Dehnart (@realityblurred) September 14, 2018
That's how Julie Chen signed off Big Brother, and it is not how she usually signs off. It was a clear reference to her husband, Les Moonves, being forced to resign early this week in the wake of sexual assault and harassment allegations. #BB20— Andy Dehnart (@realityblurred) September 14, 2018
― Ned Raggett, Friday, 14 September 2018 02:19 (seven years ago)
a reference how? don't think I care what Julie Chen Moonves says or thinks
― Dan S, Friday, 14 September 2018 02:38 (seven years ago)
Worthless.
― I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Friday, 14 September 2018 02:41 (seven years ago)
Harper’s also likes to publish the work of irritatingly dense probably anti-trans “just covering the story” douchebag J3ss3 S1ngal, and they had that blow-up about exposing the Bad Media Men list’s collator. I remember them maybe publishing something sympathetic to the “HIV doesn’t cause AIDS” conspirators long ago. Readings and Harper’s Index and Findings are all classic but the actual features seem like the editors are being undergraduate-level contrarians a bit too often. xps to something or someone
― faculty w1fe (silby), Friday, 14 September 2018 02:42 (seven years ago)
I am the person here honestly saying "big brother is still! on!?"
― Yerac, Friday, 14 September 2018 03:00 (seven years ago)
dont remember: you arent watching big brother
― NAGL usa (darraghmac), Friday, 14 September 2018 04:04 (seven years ago)
yeah silby that was why i was expressing disgust. the shitty media men piece was by katie roiphe ffs! and it was awful because i guess contrarianism doesn’t need editing.
― maura, Friday, 14 September 2018 10:09 (seven years ago)
VG otm on Macdonald and his Fall of the Comedy Giants bullshit
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 September 2018 11:23 (seven years ago)
https://local.theonion.com/high-school-drama-teacher-already-has-pretty-good-idea-1829058955
― nickn, Friday, 14 September 2018 20:41 (seven years ago)
Buruma: unbelievable asshole
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2018/09/jian-ghomeshi-new-york-review-of-books-essay.html
― Chuck_Tatum, Friday, 14 September 2018 23:25 (seven years ago)
jesus fucking christ burn it all down
― Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 14 September 2018 23:38 (seven years ago)
yeah he certainly picked one of the worst possible writers to make an already quite murky point there.
― Ludo, Saturday, 15 September 2018 06:48 (seven years ago)
I know everyone just wants to get this one behind you, but I'm writing something on Hockenberry and Ghomeshi which means I have to read them and gaaaaaaaaahhhh. Even discounting for how wrong it is, it's just fucking boring and pointless. Hockenberry at one point just begins to list books he read in the sixties and then says that he likes Andrea Dworkin. 'More about this later'. It sounded like a fucking threat. Why on earth do we need these people in our culture?
― Frederik B, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:39 (seven years ago)
I embraced the freethinking spirit of Zorba the Greek when I played him onstage in high school. Was this wise?
Who the fuck cares?
― Frederik B, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:41 (seven years ago)
Why on earth do we need these people in our culture?
They were media personalities. They are our culture.
― A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:42 (seven years ago)
max hedrom would not stand for it
― | (Latham Green), Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:56 (seven years ago)
Unbelievably he returns to the Zorba the Greek story for three paragraphs later on. It does not get more interesting.
― Frederik B, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:58 (seven years ago)
― maura, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 22:25 (seven years ago)
i realize that does not exactly fit your (or my) definition of “need” but it’s the top explanation for why all these shitheads who are really mediocre anyway keep getting chances. same with the moonves board meetings. same with the defenses of shithead brett kavanagh. until masculinity gets fixed this is going to keep happening.
― maura, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 22:26 (seven years ago)
I am SO GLAD that there is now a term for this. Because seriously... this shit drives me crazy.
“The Straw Girl” a technique that “posits the existence of a hypothetical observer who is conflating things that should not be conflated. It discredits the testimony of real women by implying that other, imaginary, women are too stupid to know the difference between getting raped and having a guy be ‘creepy in the DMs.’”
― Yerac, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 01:12 (seven years ago)
ian buruma is no longer the editor of the new york review of books
― mookieproof, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 17:44 (seven years ago)
can’t wait for his 10,000 word thinkpiece
― Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 17:46 (seven years ago)
Truly a delight to see that happen. And to know Ghomeshi won't be getting any more traction.
― Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:24 (seven years ago)
I wonder if it was equal parts publishing the piece/clearly being clueless in the followup interview.
― omar little, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:27 (seven years ago)
maybe they just want to replace him with a cheaper 25-year-old dude
― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:47 (seven years ago)
Wow wasn’t expecting ian burma to be fired. Good, i guess-/that article showed bad judgment
― Trϵϵship, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:50 (seven years ago)
meanwhile, there's this, which is horrifying: https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/opinions/arlington-texas/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.a0513c899c30
(the "faith" part is the most horrifying because it is pretty emblematic of the lengths people go to make bullying/harassment seem not just plausibly deniable, but plausibly deniable to the point that if you indicate what it is actually happening, you look ridiculous.)
― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:56 (seven years ago)
that was a good article
― Dan S, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:01 (seven years ago)
know what else shows bad judgment?!?!?!!??!?!?!?raping someone in high school
sorry i keep getting these inappropriate outbursts that are becoming more difficult to control the more people try to defend him
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:15 (seven years ago)
I definitely never defended kavanaugh (not that you implied i did—just for the historical record)
― Trϵϵship, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:17 (seven years ago)
omg no i know, don't worrylike i said i am outbursting and my usual composure is compromised
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:22 (seven years ago)
xxp re: the Amber Wyatt piece, agree, the description of how cruel everyone else in the school and in the community was to her afterwards was sickening to read
― Dan S, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:23 (seven years ago)
i may never understand this whole small town football insanity
― Nhex, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:23 (seven years ago)
also WTF at this unrelated tidbit:
“We had cases where there were photographs and confessions from the suspects that were no-billed,” Johnson told me in 2015 in the tidy living room of her Fort Worth home. One case in particular stuck with her: A man admitted to giving a woman drugs that would render her unconscious — and then raping her after she had passed out and photographing the act. The victim was sent the photographs of her own rape, which she turned over to police. Still, the grand jury decided not to indict.
― Nhex, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:27 (seven years ago)