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going to the beach? Boring
hiking/exercise/any kind of outdoor activity? Never fun
Parties? Sometimes, but usually boring.
Vacations? BORING

I mean what is planned fun? Is planned fun going to a show, or going to see a movie with friends, or getting dinner with someone? That's all fun. I just despise pretty much all activities that prioritize fun.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:26 (five years ago) link

hiking/exercise/any kind of outdoor activity? Never fun

Depends on one's idea of 'fun'. If it means giggling fits, then sure no fun. If it means a deeply pleasant and satisfying day spent in nature, then... woo-hoo!

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:29 (five years ago) link

vacations are boring?

princess of hell (BradNelson), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:31 (five years ago) link

?????????

princess of hell (BradNelson), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:32 (five years ago) link

If it means a deeply pleasant and satisfying day spent in nature

yeah I've tried this it's boring as shit

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:32 (five years ago) link

of course vacations are boring, unless you're in a city. wtf are you supposed to do for more than a day?

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:33 (five years ago) link

flaking is bad and rude, imo you get 3 strikes and then you stop being invited... but spontaneity is worse. i love making fun plans

flopson, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:33 (five years ago) link

vacations in cities are the most boring vacations because all cities are the same

flopson, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:33 (five years ago) link

lmfao no

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:34 (five years ago) link

i used to be like flappy and not love vacations. all i can say is, i hope you see the light my man

flopson, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:35 (five years ago) link

I will never go to the beach ever again (if I can) but I would love to go back to Rome ASAP

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:35 (five years ago) link

all cities are the same is a major controp

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:35 (five years ago) link

The point of a vacation, in part, is to be a little boring.

The Silky Veils of Alfred (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:36 (five years ago) link

Seriously though what do you do on vacation when you're on like... an island or a beach town or something. There is nothing to do.....?

xp I don't understand

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:36 (five years ago) link

boring as shit

let's just agree we have different personalities and different ideas of fun.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:37 (five years ago) link

this is true

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:37 (five years ago) link

i am going to the beach this weekend

more beach for me

princess of hell (BradNelson), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:37 (five years ago) link

make sure to hop on this thread and report how dull the starfish are

The Silky Veils of Alfred (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:39 (five years ago) link

oh yeah that's another thing, even an empty beach gets boring after an hour. how TF can you enjoy yourself or be comfortable at a beach with strangers? I really don't get it but hope you have fun

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:39 (five years ago) link

I was at the beach five nights three weeks ago! I wasn't on the beach for hours. I'd read in the morning, swim in the pool for a while, lunch, hang out on the beach w/my friends till about four, shower and mix drinks, go out for dinner. It was awesome.

The Silky Veils of Alfred (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:40 (five years ago) link

the beach isn't on trial here sir

Noodle Vague, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:43 (five years ago) link

I have never really had a vacation so I can't really weigh in on that, they sound nice tho

wayne trotsky (Simon H.), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:44 (five years ago) link

Non controp: if you're bored, it's you, not the world outside you

Noodle Vague, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:46 (five years ago) link

The Oregon coastline really has nothing in common with anything on the Atlantic seaboard, or anywhere else on the Pacific coast I know about, for that matter. You wouldn't understand unless you spent a lot of time there.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:47 (five years ago) link

Apparently hating nature(?) seems to be the truly controversial opinion here

Evan, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:02 (five years ago) link

Usually plan my sexcapades

And on vacations in cities i sightsee, love walking, do some boning, eat nice food, drink nice beer

Idk maybe u dont kno how to vacay bruh

F# A# (∞), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:02 (five years ago) link

I don’t think I’ve been to the beach in about 30 years. I went to Brighton a few years ago but that’s not a beach, it’s the world’s largest rock garden, with waves.

grawlix (unperson), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:04 (five years ago) link

Boring things are good, cf “things that are boring but good” thread

There are gradations to flaking but in many cases it’s reprehensible. I’d rather someone flake on me entirely and tell me in advance than be more than 14 minutes late, though.

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:05 (five years ago) link

i think i learned to truly love vacation when i deeply hated my job/life. now i like my job/life but still love vacays. also i never get bored (this seems like an artefacf of pre-smartphone life? i’ve friends who literally go on silent retreats to reexperience boredom lol)

on vacation: sleep in, read, drink coffee, swim, tan, eat, drink, sex if it’s an option. like ill go on vacation in florida idgaf. im kind of a lazy vacationer don’t love a packed itinerary one light activity per day max. also i like “nature shit”, i do like 5 day hikes in the woods w my pals where we camp every night and eat gruel

flopson, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:09 (five years ago) link

if you feel like a vacation is imposing itself on you then you're doing something wrong

Noodle Vague, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:10 (five years ago) link

i will p much never cancel plans outside of being sick or having a car break down. makes you think harder before saying "yes" - if the option sounds like shit, just say "no" rather than saying "yes" and planning to make up some bullshit excuse day of

fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:10 (five years ago) link

Usually plan my sexcapades

And on vacations in cities i sightsee, love walking, do some boning, eat nice food, drink nice beer

Idk maybe u dont kno how to vacay bruh

― F# A# (∞), Tuesday, August 21, 2018 11:02 PM (six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

sorry to quote it but everyone is smashing FP on this right?

flopson, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:11 (five years ago) link

most of us have FPed infinity already in past weeks

fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:11 (five years ago) link

I would agree with a not-so controp that "unplanned fun is gd amazing"

Because it is

When you have low expectations for some walk in the park and it suddenly turns into a dog ballet with unexpected mushrooms offered and there's a surprisingly pleasant poet who appears and his poems are good enough to be worth your time but not-so good as to make you feel insecure and then a friend decides to treat you to an espresso-based beverage that you've never tried before and it is alarmingly good and you run into an old friend whose face you didn't even realize you missed so much but you did miss and the sight of it makes you emotional and then you drift into a second-hand store and find a pair of trainers that are staggeringly well-priced and you put one on and wear mismatched shoes over to the market and peaches are suddenly in season and just as you buy one the cashier recognizes that you last week chased down a dude who mooned her apropos of nothing and when you confronted him he tweaked your ear and shoved you but you stood your ground and told him to stop mooning people and the cashier remembers you and gives you free peaches and also some liquorice and you thought you hated liquorice but the liquorice is delicious

And at the end of the day you're feeling good about "kismet" which is a good thing when the world just comes together and shows you something beautiful

But you don't feel the sense of accomplishment of having planned a birthday party and had it go almost-entirely smoothly and seen real tears on the birthday girl's face when she realizes how much her friends care for her, enough that they all showed up and brought presents and the apps you made turned out perfectly and everybody contributes the right amount for the cost of groceries, that's really an amazing fun

flamboyant goon tie included, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:11 (five years ago) link

I'm with infinity p.s. all my boning has to be planned down to the minute, very important

flamboyant goon tie included, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:13 (five years ago) link

i believed in spontaneous fun in montreal but in vancouver youve got to take matters into your own hands

flopson, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:13 (five years ago) link

I hate fun and love boring shit and routine and doing the same shit over and over again and going on vacations to do things I’ve done before and go to the movies in a different town and eat at restaurants

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:14 (five years ago) link

Spontenaity is the worst, everything should be predictable

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:14 (five years ago) link

yeah what ever happened to predictability

princess of hell (BradNelson), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:19 (five years ago) link

gdi

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:20 (five years ago) link

I like going to different cities, but I don't really go to shop or see the nth church or plaza or huge museum. I just wander around and eat/drink/pet strange dogs. I love beaches. Snorkel, paddleboard, kayak, swim. A lot of beaches suck, but I still like to swim or read if it's not too sunny.

Yerac, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:21 (five years ago) link

oh yeah that's another thing, even an empty beach gets boring after an hour. how TF can you enjoy yourself or be comfortable at a beach with strangers? I really don't get it but hope you have fun

― flappy bird, Tuesday, August 21, 2018 10:39 PM (forty-one minutes ago)

weed helps

k3vin k., Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:23 (five years ago) link

The beach is really not the best part of the beach.

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:24 (five years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7RkxLOSS9c

Noodle Vague, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:24 (five years ago) link

flopson
Posted: August 21, 2018 at 8:11:01 PM

sorry to quote it but everyone is smashing FP on this right?


dude u basically said the same things i did copycat

F# A# (∞), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:27 (five years ago) link

so u wanna be a FP superstar

fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:28 (five years ago) link

and live large

fuck the NRA (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:28 (five years ago) link

Also truth be told i feel very strongly against yr all cities are the same comment nephew

It sounds like it stems out of a lack of travelling but i dont wanna call u out

So we coo fam 🤜

F# A# (∞), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:30 (five years ago) link

All towns are the same but they have different restaurants.

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:31 (five years ago) link

Maybe he meant all Scandanavian cities are the same? Or all cities in Japan?

Yerac, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:33 (five years ago) link


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