nothing to fear, kids today just browse around youtube
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 23:44 (eight years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NFxiZjayyZg
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 23:46 (eight years ago)
it's telling how these writers didn't wait for a provably false accusation before declaring that it's all gone too far. the backlash didn't even wait for, like, a famous man to suffer legal consequences for sexual assault
― while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 03:32 (eight years ago)
i don't even want to unpack whatever that video is
― Nhex, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 03:40 (eight years ago)
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/15/opinion/aziz-ansari-babe-sexual-harassment.html
― Nhex, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 07:00 (eight years ago)
https://theintercept.com/2017/08/31/nyts-newest-op-ed-hire-bari-weiss-embodies-its-worst-failings-and-its-lack-of-viewpoint-diversity/
― while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 07:14 (eight years ago)
https://elladawson.com/2017/12/09/bad-sex-or-the-sex-we-dont-want-but-have-anyway/
This piece came out in response to Cat Person, but it gets to the heart of the Aziz Ansari situation better than any of the recent thinkpieces on either side of the argument imo.
― Roz, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 12:16 (eight years ago)
Landis seems to have gone silent in the last month. No Twitter activity or statements about the allegations. I wonder if he thinks he can wait it out.
― jmm, Monday, January 15, 2018 3:08 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
Did specific allegations ever come out? I was confused about this one.
― Winter. Dickens. Yes. (Jon not Jon), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 12:56 (eight years ago)
xpost Thanks, Roz - hadn't seen that and really appreciate it.
I'm wondering if after this winter we'll start establishing very set, specific language and rituals to give green, yellow, and red lights with sex.
Bad sex is the result of a society that makes discussing pleasure, desire and consent impossible. In the US, we do not teach young people how to enjoy sex. We don’t teach them how to talk about sex before, during or after. We don’t teach people how to say no, and we don’t teach them how to say yes.
― ... (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 13:06 (eight years ago)
Another take, re: Ansari:
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/jan/16/aziz-ansari-story-missed-opportunity
― pomenitul, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 15:21 (eight years ago)
this is p good https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/compost/wp/2018/01/13/ladies-lets-be-reasonable-about-metoo-or-nothing-will-ever-be-sexy-again/
― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 15:31 (eight years ago)
I'm paywalled, is that one ironic or sincere
― Simon H., Tuesday, 16 January 2018 15:35 (eight years ago)
Enough is enough, I say, and mean. I read something by a French person that said “ONE DAY MORE,” and that is what I think men deserve. Let us return to business as usual now, before any more valuable masculine careers are damaged. There is nothing brave about any of this speaking out. It is just a mob. No one criticizes or threatens women who speak in public, certainly not myself, right now.
― Mark G, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:09 (eight years ago)
so it's serious
― Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:10 (eight years ago)
^^ Kind of B-level Borowitz/Keillor.
― ... (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:43 (eight years ago)
aw it's better than that
― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:47 (eight years ago)
not really
― President Keyes, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:48 (eight years ago)
Alexandra Petri is usually funnier than that but you're allowed to be less funny when you're angry
(full disclosure I competed against Alexandra Petri in Washington DC area quiz bowl competitions on several occasions circa 2004-2007)
― The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:02 (eight years ago)
I really liked the Jill Filipovic piece in the Guardian that pomenitul posted
― flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:15 (eight years ago)
I did think that Raven Symone's appearance on Master Of None episode about the sexual harasser seemed like an attempt to improve her image too.
― Robert Adam Gilmour, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:36 (eight years ago)
You guys realize tv shows are not the singular product of their stars, right
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:48 (eight years ago)
Like, these are collaborative things. I don’t really think there’s tons to be gleaned from picking apart how his show was put together
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:49 (eight years ago)
they have some woke catering tho
― President Keyes, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 18:00 (eight years ago)
Ned shared this on twitter & it’s quite a read. I always knew it could be gross but it’s awfulto see it laid out so plainly :(https://www.rollingstone.com/country/news/inside-country-radios-secret-history-of-sexual-harassment-w515439
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 18:49 (eight years ago)
You guys realize tv shows are not the singular product of their stars, right― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, January 17, 2018 4:48 AM (one hour ago) Like, these are collaborative things. I don’t really think there’s tons to be gleaned from picking apart how his show was put together― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, January 17, 2018 4:49 AM (one hour ago)
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, January 17, 2018 4:48 AM (one hour ago)
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, January 17, 2018 4:49 AM (one hour ago)
who are you addressing
(and, though I similarly don't see that it's a fruitful line in this thread, since you brought it up: which show are you talking about that Aziz acts in and is not the co-creator, executive producer, co-showrunner, primary writer and sometimes director of?)
[there are 39 teleplay credits for Master Of None across 20 episodes; Aziz has 18, Yang has 15. He's directed 30% of the episodes.]
― Haribo Hancock (sic), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 19:54 (eight years ago)
That NYT op-ed is such trash
― change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 20:01 (eight years ago)
ya Master of None was just as much of an 'auteur' show as Louis C.K.'s thing
― flappy bird, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 20:03 (eight years ago)
Good (as usual) piece by Julianne Escobedo Shepherd:https://jezebel.com/babe-what-are-you-doing-1822114753?rev=1516127284762
― change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 21:39 (eight years ago)
^^ That Shepherd piece is excellent:
Reporting on sexual violence and misconduct is an incredibly delicate undertaking that requires a working understanding about how best to do it. At its most basic level, this means that reporters must be careful not to re-traumatize subjects, which includes consideration of the ways that their reports will be received
...gets to the weird grodiness of the Babe article - exploiting trauma rather than reporting on it.
― Chuck_Tatum, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 23:20 (eight years ago)
Yeah that definitely does agood job of expanding on misgivings abt the babe piece expressed upthread
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 23:33 (eight years ago)
The Babe piece is so surreal. It's a piece of gossip that they expanded during conversation. I hate it so much because it's making men all over be total assholes and terrible in all the ways they supposedly are against. I am still super bothered by the completely immature wine critique.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 01:06 (eight years ago)
Shepherd piece is great, best point of access to this particular branch of the story imo
― i believe that (s)he is sincere (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 01:45 (eight years ago)
hoo boy i made a real mistake scrolling down to the comments on that jezebel piece
― flamenco drop (BradNelson), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 01:46 (eight years ago)
people are so cruel
― flamenco drop (BradNelson), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 01:55 (eight years ago)
Here's the full email the https://t.co/YZ14Jca6FS reporter who wrote the Aziz Ansari story sent when asked to go on HLN with @TVAshleigh. It is really something.https://t.co/qTca5xA9m0 pic.twitter.com/usZBm0KnIr— Max Tani (@maxwelltani) January 17, 2018
so far, not too shabby
― mookieproof, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 21:31 (eight years ago)
Props to whichever editor wrote the headline for that, hard to get a concept like "Read the email the writer behind the Aziz Ansari sexual misconduct story wrote slamming an HLN anchor who criticized her" into just 20 words.
― mick signals, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 21:37 (eight years ago)
tbh i have never heard of HLN until that tweet
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 21:37 (eight years ago)
I swear, I can't believe people use "no holds barred" seriously. But she is 22 and not aware of the Hulk Hogan movie.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 21:43 (eight years ago)
maybe not *too* shabby but still: pretty shabby i’m surprised she didn’t include “pantsuit” and “chunky heels” in her ad hominems, jfc
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:02 (eight years ago)
There is a reason you have other people read important emails.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:16 (eight years ago)
there do not seem to be many winners in this ansari situation
appreciated that jawnita essay, have to let it sit with me some more
― k3vin k., Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:31 (eight years ago)
HLN is the channel next to CNN on cable, no? CNN Headline News?
― erry red flag (f. hazel), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:45 (eight years ago)
"Ashleigh, someone who I am certain nobody under the age of 45 has heard of, I hope the 500 retweets on the single news write up made that burgundy lipstick, bad highlights, secondwave feminist has-been really relevant for a little while,"
Seriously?
― treeship 2, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:58 (eight years ago)
A world where a putatively feminist journalist can’t see the problem in attacking another woman for her age and appearance is a world I no longer understand. And I am only 28.
― treeship 2, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:01 (eight years ago)
there's a lot of light between 22 and 28
― The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:03 (eight years ago)
Anyone who wanted to disperse any of the momentum gained since Weinstein broke.
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:08 (eight years ago)
"I'm 22 and so far, not too shabby!"
― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:19 (eight years ago)
Ms. Way's email isn't very mature.
― akm, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:20 (eight years ago)
I guess that's an understatement.
― akm, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:21 (eight years ago)
I swear, I can't believe people use "no holds barred" seriously. But she is 22 and not aware of the Hulk Hogan movie.― Yerac, Wednesday, January 17, 2018 1:43 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― Yerac, Wednesday, January 17, 2018 1:43 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
using it is one thing, but what is the meaning in this context.
― Dat Login was the dname u doofus (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 18 January 2018 00:01 (eight years ago)