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Dunham has been trash tho

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Saturday, 18 November 2017 19:18 (eight years ago)

Yeah, and the fact that she doesn't believe the word of a black woman is the least surprising thing ever.

Frederik B, Saturday, 18 November 2017 20:48 (eight years ago)

I mean, know your own blind spots. If you have proof that makes you believe the woman is lying, say what they are. Dunham's statement was crap.

Frederik B, Saturday, 18 November 2017 20:49 (eight years ago)

she could have reached out to him privately; she could have said nothing at all. she could learn to read a fucking room

Simon H., Saturday, 18 November 2017 21:11 (eight years ago)

Yes calling women trash is obvs the way forward on a sexual assault thread

Chuck_Tatum, Saturday, 18 November 2017 22:16 (eight years ago)

Lena Dunham is an exception because ... wait I had it written down here somewhere ...

Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 November 2017 22:51 (eight years ago)

Dunham has admitted to abuse against her sister

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Sunday, 19 November 2017 00:08 (eight years ago)

What this series of accusations needed, really needed, above all else, is Morrissey's opinion on the matter.

Van Horn Street, Sunday, 19 November 2017 00:34 (eight years ago)

We need to get back to just burning it all down.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 19 November 2017 00:48 (eight years ago)

none of us know what happened. maybe dunham and konner know more- they said as much. the correct move in this situation is to say nothing. simon otm, dunham is just mind-bogglingly tin-eared, even if this is "mis-reported," wow, holy fucking shit, why would you ever jump the gun and make a statement like that when the optics are so bad, especially in this cultural climate. has she ever uttered the words "no comment"? again, they could be wrong, the guy could be guilty, but what's the rush in making a statement? it doesn't help his reputation or clear his name. it makes them and the guy they're supporting look really, really bad.

flappy bird, Sunday, 19 November 2017 00:51 (eight years ago)

voice of her generation iirc

j., Sunday, 19 November 2017 01:19 (eight years ago)

right, i mean she was a punchline from the very beginning, before Girls aired its first episode. she's certainly the most gaffe-prone voice of her generation

flappy bird, Sunday, 19 November 2017 01:22 (eight years ago)

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2017/nov/18/harvey-weinstein-secret-hitlist-sex-scandal

StanM, Sunday, 19 November 2017 10:04 (eight years ago)

This is a really hard read:

https://www.theverge.com/2017/11/19/16675704/morgan-marquis-boire-hacker-sexual-assault

Ned Raggett, Sunday, 19 November 2017 17:35 (eight years ago)

I know that guy.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 17:56 (eight years ago)

Gross.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:04 (eight years ago)

Marquis-Boire was a prolific speaker at security and human rights conferences, including the Aspen Ideas Festival in 2016. He sometimes used his considerable public platform to talk about the larger social problem of violence against women, and even stated that it motivated his recent work at Citizen Lab researching “stalkerware” or “spouseware” — spyware deployed against abused partners by their abusers. (In April 2017, he told Motherboard that he thought spouseware should receive more attention because it was common and widespread, and "the victims are everyday people.") Many of his best friends were women. He made casual, light-hearted jokes about misandry on Twitter.

In short, Marquis-Boire was supposed to be one of the good guys.

jesus what a fucking creep

It happens sometimes. People just explode. Natural causes. (bizarro gazzara), Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:22 (eight years ago)

Yeah. ugh.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:29 (eight years ago)

I feel a little stupid for feeling surprised, considering I learned about this last year: http://adamshostack.com/ and every time I bring the broader issues up with female colleagues they’re like, “yeah, duh? I’ve had the good sense to avoid the creeps.”

I feel like I should have better creep radar.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:36 (eight years ago)

flappy bird, Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:46 (eight years ago)

wow that adam shostack thing is pretty horrible.

akm, Sunday, 19 November 2017 19:33 (eight years ago)

And in both his case and Morgan’s you have guys who are doing their dissonant, LCK-ish thing of being public about how women deserve better and should feel less threatened in the boys’ club spaces they inhabit.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 19:52 (eight years ago)

Yeah, the people I know who know Morgan Marquise-Boire are some of the most feminist women I know :(

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 19 November 2017 20:29 (eight years ago)

I feel a little stupid for feeling surprised, considering I learned about this last year: http://adamshostack.com/ and every time I bring the broader issues up with female colleagues they’re like, “yeah, duh? I’ve had the good sense to avoid the creeps.”

I feel like I should have better creep radar.

― El Tomboto, Sunday, November 19, 2017 10:36 AM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

tbh i think this is just why some creepy men are both able to get away with it and get people to lower their guard in the first place: they don't give off any creep signals, either because they're extremely good at being emotional con artists or they've convinced or fooled themselves into thinking they're not creepy men. i'll tell you, i recently discovered that a friend of mine views women in ways that certainly do not jibe with his male feminist persona, which is the one he deploys in public life and w/his close female friends.

omar little, Sunday, 19 November 2017 20:40 (eight years ago)

i agree that some women are better at creep detection it's not a matter of "duh" -- you learn to sniff them out by exposure. no "duh" about going through shit in order to be able to smell shit

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Sunday, 19 November 2017 21:18 (eight years ago)

I just meant in relation to me and my ignorance. I don’t want to describe my colleagues as lucky, that feels wrong.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 21:34 (eight years ago)

I feel like, especially in the IT space, I have known men like that Morgan guy. Men who are effusive and charming and feminist-friendly but actually massive assholes behind the scenes. The fact he was in the Auckland goth scene made me sad lol.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Sunday, 19 November 2017 22:49 (eight years ago)

man these stories are depressing

Nhex, Monday, 20 November 2017 04:33 (eight years ago)

Glenn Thrush suspended amid sexual harassment complaints https://t.co/cjwdkUZ3pF

— Justin Miller (@justinjm1) November 20, 2017

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Monday, 20 November 2017 15:53 (eight years ago)

C/D: holding a phone in front of your face as if it were a slice of pizza

you had better come correct (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 20 November 2017 16:12 (eight years ago)

rolling fedora 2011

mookieproof, Monday, 20 November 2017 16:18 (eight years ago)

ticks a lot of boxes that picture, it's true

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Monday, 20 November 2017 16:41 (eight years ago)

I had to zoom in because I knew I recognized that lanyard design from somewhere

Footnote: Lanyards for the
press passes still have “What’s
your SPIN?” imprinted on them.
That initially seemed a pejorative
knock on journalists. But it’s actually
a reminder to staffers to use
their Senate PIN numbers, which
are being swapped in for Social
Security numbers to reduce the
risk of identity theft.

El Tomboto, Monday, 20 November 2017 17:13 (eight years ago)

Oh fuck, not Charlie Rose now.

... (Eazy), Monday, 20 November 2017 21:53 (eight years ago)

The young women who were hired by the show were sometimes known as “Charlie’s Angels,” two former employees said. Rose frequently gave unsolicited shoulder rubs to several of them, behavior referred to among employees as “the crusty paw,” a former employee said.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Monday, 20 November 2017 21:55 (eight years ago)

I don't quite know how to formulate the thoughts swirling through my head around all of this. It's equal parts "failure of society", "these disgusting abusers have no self-respect", "how often have I been complicit in the normalization of this type of behavior", "this doesn't have to be a natural consequence of fame and power", and "fuck all of these people to the degree commensurate to their offenses"

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Monday, 20 November 2017 22:00 (eight years ago)

There is parody character of Charlie Rose in the Royal Tenenbaums (2001), and I’ve always assumed this scene was the sly explanation for why Gwyneth Paltrow only every appeared on his IRL show once (1996) pic.twitter.com/1jbfOXZv5M

— Glynnis MacNicol (@GlynnMacN) November 20, 2017

mookieproof, Monday, 20 November 2017 22:29 (eight years ago)

With Charlie Rose, this finally has made me physically ill. I've been watching the guy, off and on, for 25 years.

Sanpaku, Monday, 20 November 2017 22:34 (eight years ago)

I hereby consent to the forced extinction of males

ur-oik (rip van wanko), Monday, 20 November 2017 22:43 (eight years ago)

That article is well done; his producer basically confirms that he did it all.

Burn it down; salt the earth btw

horseshoe, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:15 (eight years ago)

Chilling. Note the women in it who left journalism. & also, again, consider power that Rose (& regular guests, incl Halperin, including Thrush) had to shape narrative of HRC. The news here isn't just individual; it's structural:https://t.co/ylmAq4ZEgx

— Rebecca Traister (@rtraister) November 20, 2017

Ned Raggett, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:23 (eight years ago)

In that Vox story this boiled my blood:
In the morning, Thrush sent me an apologetic email. I didn’t save it, but I recall it as similar to the one he would later send to Padró Ocasio’s friend in June. He said he was sorry, but he didn’t say for what, exactly.

A few hours later, I saw him in deep conversation with a number of men I worked with. My gut told me something was up. I worried he was covering his tracks by spreading a rosy version of the night.

I am reminded yet again of a "friend" of mine who came to my house some year back to tell me a woman had gone to the cops about him raping her. He told me he was freaed out, denied he had, told me shit like "you know I'd never do this right". This was a guy I was NOT close friends with and rarely saw, and I got the impression he'd done the rounds of multiple friends with this sob story. In the end apparently the woman in question dropped any charges but the fact she'd gone that far left me feeling he had done something really wrong. I havent been able to bring myself to talk to him properly since. I dont know what I'd say now if I did.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Monday, 20 November 2017 23:25 (eight years ago)

can't say I'm at all surprised about Charlie Rose

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6QKub4Fazk

Οὖτις, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:33 (eight years ago)

Sadly, my inbox is already flooded with women who have had similar, disturbing encounters with Charlie Rose. My email is a✧✧.britt✧✧✧@washp✧✧✧.c✧✧ Please reach out if you have any information to share. Our reporting continues. @irin https://t.co/i8fgF8wabB

— Amy Brittain (@AmyJBrittain) November 20, 2017

Ned Raggett, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:40 (eight years ago)

tbh the most interesting thing to me about all of these stories coming out is not really that they happened at all. I have a pretty low opinion of men in power in general, I guess. But what is interesting is that a new weapon is being wielded against them - whereas before the only recourse for victims was really the courts, which were hardly a sympathetic venue historically, now there's this other outlet in the court of public opinion thanks to social media and other shifts and it's having an outsize effect that no one really predicted.

Οὖτις, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:49 (eight years ago)

I guess the next question is, for everyone else whose harasser or assaulter isn't a celebrity or media figure, where do they tell their story?

Chuck_Tatum, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:52 (eight years ago)

yeah that is a good question

Οὖτις, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:54 (eight years ago)

facebook it's where all stories must be told it's the law

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 00:00 (eight years ago)


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