It is oft repeated & bears repeating always that I and millions of women have heard and/or experienced stories like this our whole life. yup, thank you for saying it VG
i'd also like to promote the idea of using the word predator in lieu of creepcreep is mushy, shapeless -- no one wants to be one but it's difficult (impossible) to properly define (unless you define it as "someone who violates consent in objectifying or interacting with people" which is the way I define it) predator is more accurate, stings harder, sticks longer, and might change the way we think about the way we interact with each otherthat's my hope at least
a creep is just a delusional predator so let's just call them predators
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:12 (eight years ago)
predator it is then :)
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:23 (eight years ago)
fuck bret stephens forever
― a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:24 (eight years ago)
NYT really getting the most out of their hate read columnists these days
― flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:31 (eight years ago)
ok i'll stick to a few particularly stupid sentences from that column
Perhaps it should come as no surprise that an industry built around pretended characters and scenarios could have pretended for so long that nothing was amiss. Perhaps it should be no surprise, either, that its concept of ethics is every bit as ersatz and inconstant as most everything else in Tinseltown.
same thing happened at Fox News, Penn State, BBC, & the Catholic Church.
The outrage over Mr. Weinstein also has a whiff of opportunism. In recent years, notes New York magazine’s Rebecca Traister, Weinstein has “lost power in the movie industry” and is no longer “the indie mogul who could make or break an actor’s Oscar chances.” Lame horses get shot.
??... the paper you write for "shot" Weinstein. he wouldn't have been fired if not for that story and Hollywood wouldn't have abandoned him.
The important truth is that he was just another libidinous cad in a libertine culture that long ago dispensed with most notions of personal restraint and gentlemanly behavior. “I came of age in the ’60s and ’70s, when all the rules about behavior and workplaces were different,” Weinstein wrote in his mea culpa to The Times last week. “That was the culture then.”That line was roundly mocked, but it contains its truth.
That line was roundly mocked, but it contains its truth.
no it doesn't idiot
Hyenas cannot help their own nature. But the work of a morally sentient society is to prevent them from taking over the savannah.
holy shit lmao
― flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:38 (eight years ago)
they might as well have given Weinstein a guest crack at the op-ed page
― a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:41 (eight years ago)
Weinstein accuser Rose McGowan's Twitter account suspended
fuck you twitter! there is a fucking asshole i see that tweets hate daily, try pulling his fucking account you fucks !
― (•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:07 (eight years ago)
i thought the bar was somewhere above threatening nuclear war with North Korea
― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:13 (eight years ago)
Seriously, that was my first reaction. McGowan gets temp banned for taking a stand against serial abusers, but serial abuser in chief gets a pass? Fuck twitter.
― Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:22 (eight years ago)
Wow, are you fucking kidding me? Yeah, Twitter needs to be obliterated.
― the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:24 (eight years ago)
Twitter needs to be obliterated nationalized.
― a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:27 (eight years ago)
The AV Club OTM here:
“It’s not clear which specific one of the actress’ tweets was targeted and reported to Twitter, and was apparently so offensive that the company decided it’d be a good idea to silence a woman at the heart of an entire scandal based around women being hushed-up and ignored.”
― Position Position, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:28 (eight years ago)
My guess (because I think this is how it works) is that enough people aggressively flagged her that the twitter robot acted. But that is bullshit, anyway. Twitter is a bunch of craven, capricious asshole hypocrites, like the rest.
― Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:28 (eight years ago)
Goddamn. It happened after she said fuck you to ben Affleck it seems (link
― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:29 (eight years ago)
JiC, that's my guess as well. Which is vile.
If Huff Post's reporting is correct, this is a very serious matter for NBC— and for all NBC journalists. https://t.co/pwc6XSnzKO pic.twitter.com/wZMQo9PptM— Jay Rosen (@jayrosen_nyu) October 12, 2017
― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:00 (eight years ago)
Lol did he just figure out this was very serious Also since Twitter is clearly absolute garbage why is literally everyone still using it constantly
― El Tomboto, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:14 (eight years ago)
twitter is the worst. you won't find me on there! the world must live without my tweeting.
i really hope harvey goes to jail.
― scott seward, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:28 (eight years ago)
twitter has its uses but it's hopelessly managed
― a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:29 (eight years ago)
though not looking forward to horrible courtroom coverage. with harvey in a wheelchair and a neck brace. gotta have the wheelchair and the neck brace.
― scott seward, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:30 (eight years ago)
From that HuffPo piece:
“Saturday Night Live” executive producer Lorne Michaels was criticized for not including any Weinstein jokes
I get the NBC entanglement but this is just silly. SNL now compelled to make specific jokes?
― dinnerboat, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:30 (eight years ago)
The fuck? If anything it would be in poor taste to include "Weinstein jokes." "Weinstein jokes" are part of the problem.
― IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:34 (eight years ago)
Also, this broke last Thursday. Two days isn't a lot of lead time to come up with funny women-being- raped/abused sketches.
― President Keyes, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:36 (eight years ago)
The angle was dumb but LM's "it's a New York thing" was a predictably horrible response
― a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:40 (eight years ago)
Wtf @ twitter banning McGowan. they really do have shit management. It has to be that flag bot, otherwise I don’t get it - rationale for keeping her on is same as keeping Trump on: more clicks/attention
― flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:27 (eight years ago)
If it was a flag bot (was she getting more flags than Trump? idk), they ought to have been able to unsuspend her by now.
― jmm, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:32 (eight years ago)
aside but I've been seeing a lot of people lately posting about being temp-banned from facebook for violating "community standards" for stuff like calling out racism or posting a racist flyer that they received (in order to call it out). We're basically watching AI try to learn what is offensive, and in some cases that AI is people like Mark Zuckerberg.
― IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:34 (eight years ago)
Probably was a lawsuit threat.
― Eazy, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:35 (eight years ago)
It could have even been her much-quoted tweet about her film being distributed "by my rapist." Especially with Weinstein's legal team.
― Eazy, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:36 (eight years ago)
Yeah that seems possible.
― IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:40 (eight years ago)
I'm seeing that she tweeted out some phone numbers and then deleted them?
― President Keyes, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:46 (eight years ago)
http://www.slate.com/blogs/future_tense/2017/10/12/twitter_limits_rose_mcgowan_s_account_after_her_allegations_against_weinstein.html
Kate Beckinsale stepped forward today, said Weinstein was a bit inappropriate w/her when she was 17, then years later actually asked her if he'd done anything w/her at that time, bc he basically forgot whether or not he'd tried to assault her i guess?
― nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:27 (eight years ago)
damnnot surprising at all though
i'm sure most of the people who do this forget that/whether they did it or not. denial etc. from a personal perspective, i'm pretty sure there aren't a bunch of men out there remembering me, but i sure remember them.
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:30 (eight years ago)
the classic Max Ophuls film Letter from an Unknown Woman is relevant on this point
― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:32 (eight years ago)
this is maybe going to sound incredibly dumb, i'm not trying to be #notallmen or #reversepence, but these days i just don't like to hang out with a group of dudes for a night out, or a party that's all men, etc...the energy weirds me out a lot of the time. most of my friends these days all are couples and we hang out as such, but i have other male friends who will just socialize with THA BOYS and i find when i join them that the conversations just go places i'm not comfortable with a lot of the time, or the vibe is just weird, the balance is all off, etc. i don't like the "men's club" feeling. i don't know.
― nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:39 (eight years ago)
agree
― mookieproof, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:42 (eight years ago)
Yeah, I totally feel you. I am generally averse to 'dude hangs', particularly 'white dude hangs'. Speaking as a white dude, no demographic is more likely to creep me out than other white dudes.
― the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:43 (eight years ago)
same
― brimstead, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:44 (eight years ago)
I think the only time I'm in that situation is at band rehearsal but we aren't all white and we aren't all male so it's only intermittently when there's just a subset of us there. idk it doesn't bother me, there's no assholes in the band lol
― Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:47 (eight years ago)
Just don't hang out with assholes imo.
― IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:48 (eight years ago)
Did you see the cuts Harvey demanded?
― Anne of the Thousand Gays (Eric H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:48 (eight years ago)
"That's locker room."
― Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:48 (eight years ago)
men who feel the need to exclude women aren't usually up to anything worthwhile ime
where does the conversation go that makes you uncomfortable? i'll admit to being curious.
― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:48 (eight years ago)
I mean, IDK I haven't had that experience so much. I don't hang out with anyone that much these days, but I get together with a group of guys to play music and it's mostly just talk about music, being a dad, work sucks, and maybe football in which case I tune out.
― IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:49 (eight years ago)
Seems like a thread derail anyway.
yeah I think this is the real issue
― Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:50 (eight years ago)
I really hate the idea of stag weekends
― good art is orange; great art is teal (wins), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:51 (eight years ago)
in the future they will figure out a way to lower testosterone in unborn male fetuses. or something like that. i'm an optimist! #scifireader
― scott seward, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:51 (eight years ago)
the company i work for has a large salesforce of mostly men . they come into the office from all over the country for training and meetings and want to go out in the City while they are here . I only went once and never again , the worst part was that most of them are married but when they come here it's like they are on some fucking weied free for all, it's horrible .
― (•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:52 (eight years ago)