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the word "alignment" used to describe where your life is at

"hope you find alignment"

this kind of pillowy language can fuck off

damn this is wack and smacks of west coast

flappy bird, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 20:59 (nine years ago)

I'm west coast 4 life and I've never heard this. Here we have lots of "balance" and "healing"

sarahell, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:06 (nine years ago)

^ lol

i'm west coast too sarahell :-)

Unchanging Window (Ross), Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:13 (nine years ago)

Re-Brand/Re-Model

blog haus aka the scene raver (wins), Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:14 (nine years ago)

xp cool

sarahell, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:22 (nine years ago)

lots of artists here now describing themselves as "healers" ... doesn't really annoy the shit out of me, but it's a trend I've noticed, and it doesn't really fit my sensibility

sarahell, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:25 (nine years ago)

there's always been this new age-y obsession with "healing" like the whole scene is a hypochondriacs' convention

more polls about food and reactionary art (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:30 (nine years ago)

I guess it's the result of the artists' desire to have their work do something other than just be "art for art's sake" -- some sort of functional role. I feel like it's more aspirational than realistic.

sarahell, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:33 (nine years ago)

it's like being the unacknowledged legislators of the world just isn't enough for some folks

more polls about food and reactionary art (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:36 (nine years ago)

alignment is for chiropractors

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:42 (nine years ago)

1. re punching up/punching down, there was a Slugger O'Toole post last week calling out* "mischaracterisation and 'punching down' of Ulster Protestants", which v much confused me until I noticed the article refers to caricatures in Punch magazine of old

* apologies if "calling out" is a phrase that annoys the shit out of you, I'm not that keen myself but always seem to end up using it because I can't think of a similar suitably vague alternative

2. as a hypochondriac of nebulous imaginary woes which are undiagnosable as actual illness but I could still do with "healing", I can live with its use in new age treehugging contexts, but for art... I don't like it

I like art to rip me a few new wounds and ruptures I s'pose (NB not really but it sounded cool to my inner teenager), and don't you tell me whether your art is effective in any positive or negative sense

a passing spacecadet, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:43 (nine years ago)

Punching up is to brighten a script. If it's a comedy, add in more jokes! If it's a drama, heighten the tension!

Punching down is a dance move at hardcore shows.

I like to say of an overworked script "this could have used a little punching down"

blog haus aka the scene raver (wins), Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:45 (nine years ago)

xp u get a pass on most things spacecadet <3

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Wednesday, 5 July 2017 21:57 (nine years ago)

<3 <3 tho I might need a list of the thing I don't get a pass on, for research purposes

a passing spacecadet, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 22:01 (nine years ago)

or even things plural

perhaps there is only one but that's not a great list

a passing spacecadet, Wednesday, 5 July 2017 22:02 (nine years ago)

O don't worry you'll know when it happens

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Wednesday, 5 July 2017 22:23 (nine years ago)

imho the punching up/down metaphor has proved legitimately useful and valuable for, e.g., female comedians pointing out to male comedians that rape jokes aren't funny. is it the most precise and on-the-money way of making this point, idk, but ime it's not really about finding an "excuse" to do anything.

﴿→ ☺ (Doctor Casino), Wednesday, 5 July 2017 23:48 (nine years ago)

u get a pass on most things spacecadet

I got this joke

El Tomboto, Thursday, 6 July 2017 01:21 (nine years ago)

?!

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Thursday, 6 July 2017 07:39 (nine years ago)

The idea that jokes "work" up the power structure, but not down the power structure, is a good one imo. You don't have to call it punching up/punching down but it is still a good principle.

That said, this view is yoked to a specific theory of comedy, i.e., funny = unexpected inversion/subversion of the received social order. The king on the throne is banal; the village drunkard on the throne is amusing because it upends the normal hierarchy.

The main competing aesthetic of comedy is quasi-Freudian, i.e., funny = what you were thinking anyway but were too polite to say out loud. This view embraces down-punching "jokes" like haha Mexicans are dirty or haha women can't drive well. But it doesn't accommodate surprise, absurdity, or relief, all of which feel to me like important components of "funny."

gin and chronic (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 6 July 2017 11:12 (nine years ago)

i've said it before but bergson nailed it 100 years ago
http://www.authorama.com/laughter-1.html

However spontaneous it seems, laughter always implies a kind of secret freemasonry, or even complicity, with other laughers, real or imaginary. How often has it been said that the fuller the theatre, the more uncontrolled the laughter of the audience! On the other hand, how often has the remark been made that many comic effects are incapable of translation from one language to another, because they refer to the customs and ideas of a particular social group! It is through not understanding the importance of this double fact that the comic has been looked upon as a mere curiosity in which the mind finds amusement, and laughter itself as a strange, isolated phenomenon, without any bearing on the rest of human activity. Hence those definitions which tend to make the comic into an abstract relation between ideas: “an intellectual contrast,” “a palpable absurdity,” etc.,--definitions which, even were they really suitable to every form of the comic, would not in the least explain why the comic makes us laugh. How, indeed, should it come about that this particular logical relation, as soon as it is perceived, contracts, expands and shakes our limbs, whilst all other relations leave the body unaffected? It is not from this point of view that we shall approach the problem. To understand laughter, we must put it back into its natural environment, which is society, and above all must we determine the utility of its function, which is a social one. Such, let us say at once, will be the leading idea of all our investigations. Laughter must answer to certain requirements of life in common. It must have a SOCIAL signification.

it's really worthwhile to read the whole thing but the basic idea is that laughter is a social corrective that identifies a rigidity or inelasticity in the mind or body of a human being - it calls out the mechanical in the body of the living

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 6 July 2017 11:23 (nine years ago)

I think that's a viewpoint that insists on structure in a fluid human field where structure can only be implied and applied from a relative perspective and is therefore, in the very essence, incorrect if it attempts to be a universal rule.

I mean you can do it, of course. It's just....why? As soon as you do it you're milking the plaudits from the people who agree with you. Well and good but you're predefining humour as a tool of whatever policy in itself, which is valid but hugely limited as a wider definition of the art.

It seems a masturbatory exercise of the highest order to in any way (even the lightest) insist that there be political or etc elements to how humour should/must/does succeed outside of 'lol thats funny'

tldr you are flogging a dead cart

xp

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Thursday, 6 July 2017 11:27 (nine years ago)

putting the gift before the horse

Autumn Almanac, Thursday, 6 July 2017 11:46 (nine years ago)

It is a bit weird that "comedy is only funny if it's punching up" has become kind of an accepted rule of humor when it's really a reflection of cultural change. Probably 90% of jokes throughout history--the ones not about kings and lords--were punching down. Certainly nearly every joke I heard in school would be considered punching down, except those about teachers (who likely made less $ than our parents.)

President Keyes, Thursday, 6 July 2017 12:48 (nine years ago)

Not sure when it's considered punching up, down or sideways. Is it just social position or more about a specific situation? If Prince William tells a funny joke at the expense of a deserving stereotypical loony lefty, is that punching down?

I've got a fear that I'll involuntarily laugh at a crying person or a disabled person making odd faces and movements, or someone with a bizarre voice. Is that just nervous laughter?

Robert Adam Gilmour, Thursday, 6 July 2017 12:59 (nine years ago)

A rule that doesn't identify what makes people
laugh but rather what people should/shouldn't consider funny is not a theory of comedy but one of social control.

Mordy, Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:30 (nine years ago)

If Prince William tells a funny joke at the expense of a deserving stereotypical loony lefty

I..

uh...

o_O

emil.y, Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:31 (nine years ago)

RAG on fire today.

weird echo of the falsies (Tom D.), Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:38 (nine years ago)

I struggled for examples but I just meant an extremely privileged person making fun of a George Galloway type, who probably aren't that rich and powerful in general.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:42 (nine years ago)

Everyone makes fun of George Galloway, he gets punched from all directions.

weird echo of the falsies (Tom D.), Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:43 (nine years ago)

I guess it's about "social control" as much as advocating for any ethical platform is. The basic point is that if you are in a powerful in-group and you make your money exhorting that group to laugh at the suffering of a less powerful out-group, you are not some transgressive rule-breaking rebel, but a participant in the normal functioning of everyday oppression, and a bully besides. Framing it as ''rape jokes aren't funny'' isn't a first step towards writing a binding codex of comedy, it's a way to get that point to land in the mind of the comic in question, or to get it down succinctly enough that it's something a heckler can use to deflate the whole bullying sham.

I really recommend Lindy West's /Shrill/ on this point, as she really writes this from within the world of stand-up and conveys the stakes very well (and often humorously, natch).

﴿→ ☺ (Doctor Casino), Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:48 (nine years ago)

The point I'm probably by now labouring is that you are still insisting on a framework

"____ jokes aren't funny" depends on whether the joke is funny, not on ______

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:52 (nine years ago)

"exhorting that group to laugh at" again seems to me to be a very deliberate framing.

You're a comedian, you write funny jokes as best you can.

I'm sure we've done this to death on the "tyranny of humour" thread tbf

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:54 (nine years ago)

won't someone think of all the hilarious rape jokes that might never get a chance to make bros chortle if people succeeded in persuading other people not to tell them. what a dystopic nightmare.

﴿→ ☺ (Doctor Casino), Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:56 (nine years ago)

Sarcasm of course is famously....

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Thursday, 6 July 2017 14:57 (nine years ago)

dr casino it's interesting how someone making a self-evident point - that you're making a social/ethical intervention, not a humor intervention - compels you to try and shame that person again not along the lines of humor/comedy but along the lines of whether it is worth sacrificing X for the sake of the greater good. you were almost even honest too. just admit - "yes, this is not about comedy, it's about political correctness. and there's nothing wrong with that" and go on yr way. bc all the other stuff is just disingenuously clouding the issue.

Mordy, Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:02 (nine years ago)

I bumped the relevant thread, if it helps.

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:04 (nine years ago)

there is surely no sound sweeter to the human ear than 'political correctness'

ogmor, Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:08 (nine years ago)

"it's about being sensitive to the needs of marginalized groups" if that sounds sweeter

Mordy, Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:10 (nine years ago)

A rule that doesn't identify what makes people
laugh but rather what people should/shouldn't consider funny is not a theory of comedy but one of social control.

― Mordy, Thursday, July 6, 2017 9:30 AM (thirty-four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I first encountered the 'punch up/punch down' concept within a milieu where people come to Chicago from say the deep south to study comedy and would need to be told pretty explicitly why they could expect to lose an audience and/or their fellow performers if they wandered down certain roads. Not so much a theory of comedy as a performative guideline.

Duane Quarterdump (Old Lunch), Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:11 (nine years ago)

Fair enough, that!

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:14 (nine years ago)

the problem is that those jokes worked in the south but no one moving to the south is getting a primer like "hey down here ppl love if you punch down at these groups" bc the entire punch up/punch down framework is designed w/ a moral judgement in it (bc who doesn't think it's more ethical to punch up - afflict the comfortable - than punch down?) but it's masquerading as neutral performative advice.

Mordy, Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:18 (nine years ago)

I myself directly described it as an ethical issue and a matter of persuading people along those lines? And ime so do the people I've read on this matter, they do NOT frame it as neutral performative advice at all.

If anything disingenuously clouds the issue it's your refusal to engage with questions like this without seeing them in terms of "political correctness" and "control,'' and those only on the part of the critics. As if asserting the A-OKness of the punching-down jokes is not a political claim; as if the bully comics' screeds about ''political correctness'' are not an attempt by them to retain control.

You could just as easily ''go on your way'' and ''be honest'' by just saying ''the women and POC who brought in this language of punching-down to try and make the content and social scene of comedy less toxic and hostile to them are wrong and should all shut up.'' If that's not the position you want to defend, feel free to clarify as I have no idea how else to take your apparently very heartfelt concern on behalf of the comedians who will be shackled by this ''social control.''. (Which is sorta funny cause this whole thread is about asserting that certain language should be purged from contemporary conversation - I think we all accept that there is some valid push and pull around what we would like to hear people say, socially! God forbid it should be motivated by an ethical impulse and not just us getting IA around corporate blogospeak or whatever else.)

Like...I mean this language comes from a specific context and historical moment, which is why I found the West really helpful to fleshing out what's going on within comedy and why this would be important to people (as I am not a comedian). To me articulating that context is not ''other stuff'' but essential to understanding what ''punching down'' means and is about in 2017.

﴿→ ☺ (Doctor Casino), Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:22 (nine years ago)

Google results for:
conservatives aren't funny punching down
About 9,530,000 results (0.46 seconds)

President Keyes, Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:26 (nine years ago)

the problem is that jokes aren't funny or not funny based on what direction they're punching. that's a misnomer meant to obscure that they can be funny or not based on the political leanings of the crowd hearing the joke. you can punch down all you want if you're punching down at the right group (like at neckbeard pepe memesters living in their parent's basement), and you can't punch up if it's at the expense of the wrong group. the honesty comes when you say "i find jokes funny when they don't upset my natural political sense of who are the victims and who are the violators in society" but framing it as a some kind of platonic rule is dishonest bc it's not true. esp since it clearly depends on the political commitments of the audience. you're confusing issues because we can talk about whether it's a rule for comedy (here are jokes you can tell in chicago vs. jokes you can tell in birmingham) or we can talk about whether ppl should censor themselves for the greater good (i.e. no matter how it plays anywhere) but they're two distinct conversations. one is pragmatic and the other is ideological. i'm ok with you making either case - i don't really care - but i'm not okay with making both cases at once and pretending they're the same case.

Mordy, Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:30 (nine years ago)

Did someone do that? I don't know if anyone did that.

Duane Quarterdump (Old Lunch), Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:36 (nine years ago)

ftr I'm ok with whatever its just joeks and ilx conversations

quet inn tarnation (darraghmac), Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:36 (nine years ago)

Yeah it doesn't seem like you guys are even disagreeing!

blog haus aka the scene raver (wins), Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:37 (nine years ago)

yes that's what happened upthread. i said that it's about who it's okay and not okay to punch and ppl argued that it's just about what is funny.

Mordy, Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:37 (nine years ago)

maybe i misinterpreted idk

Mordy, Thursday, 6 July 2017 15:38 (nine years ago)


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