i feel like living in los angeles my voice has zero impact, i don't talk to anyone in person who needs convincing. everyone pretty much agrees on how shitty this all is. meanwhile, somewhere else everyone is agreeing on how awesome it is. and we'll only meet online and that never ends well.
― nomar, Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:10 (nine years ago)
We're all caught in a tidal wave and some ppl are saying we just need to bail the water out with our little beach buckets and that'll keep us afloat. I posit a. we are at the mercy of an unfolding history that we can only observe not effect and b. that history is complex and we barely understand enough of it to even know what we're looking at. Actually I think Benjamin's thing is probably closer to what I want to express here --
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/4/4b/Klee,_paul,_angelus_novus,_1920.jpg/240px-Klee,_paul,_angelus_novus,_1920.jpg
― Mordy, Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:11 (nine years ago)
io is especially otm here but yes to everything posted in the last 30 mins. Even patient arguing feels like a privileged response
― more fun than an Acclaimed Music poll (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:12 (nine years ago)
The protoypical voter who decided this election was a white, middle-class Rust Belt independent who voted for Obama in 08 and perhaps 12, then switched to Trump in 16. (Think Ken Bone.)
These are decent people and not deliberately racist. However, they often hold certain unexamined assumptions that are startlingly bigoted. Obama was able to reach them, partly through patience, partly through even-handedness, and partly by simply embodying in his person an effective counterexample to many of their worst prejudices.
Clinton, who had a more imperial, entitled tone, was not.
― it me, Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:18 (nine years ago)
tbqh, although personal outreach (particularly to friends and family) is useful wherever possible, it's never going to be sufficient. The idea that universal tolerance at an individual level would mean the death of racism is one the areas where i think a lot of well-meaning liberal analysis goes off track. As things stand, i don't really see much alternative to trying to proactively forge solidarity through mutual self interest - whether that's organised labour, breaking down barriers to education, healthcare, etc. It's obviously easier said than done but that has to be where the left's attention is.
― Bubba H.O.T.A.P.E (ShariVari), Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:36 (nine years ago)
I think that's right. Approaching racism as an individual moral failing may be accurate but it doesn't address that a lot of it is driven by a zero-sum attitude towards access to dwindling resources. If your race is your one and only ticket to be part of the "in" group, the ones deserving of protection, then to attack a racist directly will in fact exacerbate that anxiety. You can't demand empathy from others unless you offer it first.
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:48 (nine years ago)
Even patient arguing feels like a privileged response
Over here in brexit land, behind the racism is usually big personal problems/money problems/mix of that the person has and I wd say you shouldn't feel like you have to be able to tackle those problems if you aren't their psychologist therefore perhaps engagement on an individual level should be swapped for something else
― Never changed username before (cardamon), Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:53 (nine years ago)
I should add: you are under no obligation to offer empathy to a racist
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:57 (nine years ago)
That's fine, I have no intentions in that direction anyway.
― The Doug Walters of Crime (Tom D.), Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:58 (nine years ago)
I rarely have political arguments with people I disagree with this much and there are people I know who it would take such a heroic effort to possibly convince them that you'd be throwing away your own life in the process, so I just end up barely talking to them at all. My brother has worn down my father about some things but it taken a very long time and they're always around each other.
Again, I'm not the most experienced but I'd suggest trying to appeal to people's compassion if they have any. There was a guy online I was friendly with who did this racial caricature on an art site and I asked him if he had any black friends and how they might feel about his drawing. He said that convinced him to take it down but if I called him a bigot I think he may have stubbornly kept it up. I'm not sure though.
Today I tried on another forum to get the Trump supporters to consider the non-whites who have been physically attacked by Trump supporters and they were incredibly dismissive and made a bunch of piss poor arguments, including a middle eastern guy with scary far right sympathies. It's going to be weird there because those Trump supporters are some of the most frequent posters.
― Robert Adam Gilmour, Thursday, 10 November 2016 18:59 (nine years ago)
I mean a crucial thing here is lots of these people believe that they are not racist (and that racism is a false charge always being leveled at them)
― Never changed username before (cardamon), Thursday, 10 November 2016 19:06 (nine years ago)
So they're primed to dismiss these criticisms
I don't think of arguing issues with people ad a solution so much as a question of moral honesty. I spend a lot of time, in pubs for example, with people I like and who want to talk about politics. Can't just nod and acquiesce.
― more fun than an Acclaimed Music poll (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 10 November 2016 19:15 (nine years ago)
i understand your point and i myself exercise that (but not most of the time). but nodding does wonders for understanding the inner functions of a person's thoughts, especially over a pint
― F♯ A♯ (∞), Thursday, 10 November 2016 19:29 (nine years ago)
My partner has profited from betting on Brexit and Trump now. I'm thinking of lumping on Le Pen just to jinx the fascist gravy train, or get myself out of the overdraft - not exactly win-win more like win-lose ore lose-win:(
― calzino, Thursday, 10 November 2016 19:46 (nine years ago)
there are people I know who it would take such a heroic effort to possibly convince them that you'd be throwing away your own life in the process, so I just end up barely talking to them at all.
"Behind every woke straight man are 25 exhausted feminists" or something like that.
― If authoritarianism is Romania's ironing board, then (in orbit), Thursday, 10 November 2016 19:54 (nine years ago)
in general I think you changes people's minds not through arguing points but by offering a more compelling picture of the world. the space and patience that requires are v difficult to find now that any attention space is saturated and there are so many stories out there that you can easily find an overwhelming tide of material to support any view. it's striking if you try to compare the rise of populist authoritarian politics now bears with the 20s&30s bc the people drawn to it now are living vastly more comfortable lives in much more stable polities. people are awful at realising in what respects they've got a good deal. an insomniac media doesn't help, and media/discourse/thinking in general is structurally predisposed towards alarmism and instilling a sense of crisis. this sort of politics depends on spectacle and society has become v spectacular, so it's easy to see why people's confidence in democracy has weakened
― ogmor, Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:37 (nine years ago)
booming post
― his eye is on despair-o (Jon not Jon), Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:42 (nine years ago)
Guys - I am not thread policing at all and I'm very happy if this thread can be used to give comfort of any sort to any/all of us working out our issues but I do kinda wonder if we could move more away from the question of "how to change things" to the question of "what is going on / why are things this way" and particularly with an eye on this as a global phenomenon as opposed to a uniquely American one. Because there are specific reasons Trump won that are unique to the US, but from a long view / as part of a trend / those unique reasons don't always follow. Or maybe the question of "how do you convince people not to be racist" would make more sense in broader terms if it was "how do you convince people not to be xenophobic" which is in some ways a much scarier question that is much harder to answer?
― Mordy, Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:43 (nine years ago)
nb that I do think the Internet and social media news has a role to play in this as well tho I wonder if its more amplifying these other things rather than being the source
― Mordy, Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:44 (nine years ago)
xxp I'm impressed you can even read it, at least today I can blame being so jumbled on being ill
― ogmor, Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:45 (nine years ago)
What ShariVari and ryan say resonates with me: building class solidarity is the task going forward, across communities. Then there's another way forward besides fascism and neo-liberalism.
― droit au butt (Euler), Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:45 (nine years ago)
Like I want to say is: what's going on globally is that communism remains discredited, but it's needed as an option more than ever.
― droit au butt (Euler), Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:47 (nine years ago)
in general I think you changes people's minds not through arguing points but by offering a more compelling picture of the world.
I've tried really hard to do this with some white parents at my school w/r/t their feelings about both Black Americans and our immigrant families. I've offered them the chance to be on a winning side as our programs succeed. I've tried to celebrate them pre-emptively for supporting minority groups. I've shown that this is the only tactic that will result in their OWN success as a parent organization and how robust their group could be if lots of ppl pitched in, how much of a relief it would be to share the work, and more.
I never get anything more than tepid agreement for 10 minutes until a competing opinion/factoid is ranted by another person in the office. I've decided they don't actually WANT a better future. They like this one because it makes them victims and gives them something to endlessly complain and bicker about.
― If authoritarianism is Romania's ironing board, then (in orbit), Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:50 (nine years ago)
xp the 'personalized feed' structure of facebook, twitter, etc. certainly enables people to create their own echo chambers which makes it harder to fight back against viral misinformation
― ciderpress, Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:51 (nine years ago)
OTM the protectionism/victim-ism is coming from resource scarcity in ppl's lives and that is the fault of capitalism on an individual and a global scale.
― If authoritarianism is Romania's ironing board, then (in orbit), Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:52 (nine years ago)
I was listening to an interesting interview with someone (possibly Alex Zaitchik) who said that a lot of the Trump supporters he spoke to saw 'political correctness' not as a tool for combating racism but as a shared language used by liberals both to mask their own racism and to exclude anyone who didn't 'get it' from polite society. It's a bad take but probably one that needs to be kept in mind.
I think this view is very widespread. I used to work in a call-centre, the staff overwhelmingly white, overwhelmingly working class, mostly female, the people running the place and making decisions were remote and rarely communicated with us directly, but were palpably more middle class, and overwhelmingly male. Pretty much the defining feature of the place was that we were constantly being ordered to carry out our work duties in ways which seemed obviously counterproductive, or which seemed to have been decided by people who didn't properly understand what was going on at the customer facing end of the business. Instructions on how to do certain tasks were constantly being changed or completely reversed, usually with no explanation to us of why, people were very aware that they were not judged important enough for it to be worth explaining why a procedure had been changed, they were just told to get on with it. The general atmosphere was one of sullen acquiescence and resentment. Every year we would have this mandatory diversity training course and it was the exact same thing: being talked down to by middle class people, my co-workers often (genuinely imo) did not understand why certain things we were warned against were offensive, but there way a sullen acceptance and knowledge that arguing about it would not make any difference, awareness that they were not important enough to be given explanations why certain things were wrong beyond "because I say so", and the griping in private after it was finished. News stories about some celebrity being censured for a politically incorrect gaffe would be received in a similar way, as some remote capricious authority coming down on people for not following a set of incomprehensible and nonsensical rules. And a lot, most, of these people did have ugly hateful, racist views that needed challenging, I don't know how you go about challenging those without reinforcing this resentment.
― soref, Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:53 (nine years ago)
A lot of them had positive things to say about UKIP, though I get the impression that most of them thought the party was too incompetent to vote for. I imagine that a lot of them voted for brexit, and that this idea of a remote incomprehensible bureaucracy that was dictating their lives would have resonated with them.
― soref, Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:54 (nine years ago)
Alternatives to neo-liberalism, ones that are more humane and people-focused, need a rebranding. In the US words like "communism" and "socialism" carry too much baggage, especially since they carry the legacy of failed states and atrocities. I remember joining the YCL in 7th grade in the 90s during my more idealistic days, and dropped out in high school because a lot of people won't buy anything with the word "communism" or "socialism" attached to it. It's dead the in water, it was back then, and it still is today.
What I realized back then, and I still think it's true now, is that something entirely new needs to be created with new terminology. Until that happens I doubt we'll get our better alternatives.
― larry appleton, Thursday, 10 November 2016 20:58 (nine years ago)
it's striking if you try to compare the rise of populist authoritarian politics now bears with the 20s&30s bc the people drawn to it now are living vastly more comfortable lives in much more stable polities. people are awful at realising in what respects they've got a good deal.
been really fascinated by this idea for a while. how do you square the generalized anxiety in the air with the historically unprecedented levels of comfort and security? (this does not, obviously, apply to everyone but it does apply to most white people in, say, wisconsin.) the day to day experience of risk is low, and yet we are beset with overwhelming fears of catastrophic risk, system failure, encroaching dark futures. there's something about the current order that needs individuals to persist in a heightened state of alertness and anxiety in a way that i've been trying to track back to the protestant ethic but you needn't really get that academic about it. when people are pulled away from each other, when all we have is a cult of individual entrepreneurship, the result is this lonely anxious misery which inevitably finds its ready outlets. it's not just poverty imo, it's a kind of fear that and isolation that runs deeper.
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:17 (nine years ago)
Isn't this why inequality (within a given polity) is more poisonous than a notional standard of living, expressed globally?
― more fun than an Acclaimed Music poll (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:29 (nine years ago)
I was talking to my therapist a bit about this last night. I experience tremendous anxiety despite living an extraordinarily comfortable life and I think some of it is that in my gut I realize how tenuous and fragile society and our stability is and so this comfort almost feels like a forgery or a mirage - it's illusory and I'm constantly waiting for the fog to lift and see that no, actually we now live in the apocalypse. I wonder how much that is true for a lot of people - that it's not /normal/ to be so safe and so it feels like it can't be real. The other big component I think is the West's cult of individuality and the general lack of sittlichtkeit that people have. It seems like so many ppl feel alienated from their families and their communities. You hear all the time about how it used to be that everyone knew their neighbors and now no one knows their neighbors, etc. That kind of loneliness I agree probably has something to do with it. I think maybe the third thing is just that we have failed to provide meaning for people - we have mostly let religion become a side project that is less and less relevant to people's day to day life and we don't have much in the way of national cohesiveness. I remember reading that Israelis have some of the highest reported rates of happiness in the world because they believe that where they are and what they are doing and what they are a part of is important and meaningful.
idk, ryan I think a lot of this overlaps with your post but some stray thoughts on the topic. I remember we discussed this question a little bit on the political philosophy thread not that long ago?
― Mordy, Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:31 (nine years ago)
as an addendum: i don't know how afraid to be but the apocalyptic reaction on the left strikes me as possibly just feeding the same beast that's causing all this. i choose to be optimistic and see this moment as the traumatic birth of a new progressive political movement--hopefully a ferocious one. here, now, is a moment to articulate alternatives.
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:33 (nine years ago)
I was listening to an interesting interview with someone (possibly Alex Zaitchik) who said that a lot of the Trump supporters he spoke to saw 'political correctness' not as a tool for combating racism but as a shared language used by liberals both to mask their own racism and to exclude anyone who didn't 'get it' from polite society.
this is not so far out of step with how the term was originally used by leftists
― electric wight dorkestra (crüt), Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:36 (nine years ago)
that's all very well said, mordy. i lead a reasonably comfortable life too and suffer from lots of anxiety. part of my way of coping with it is to academically study the sociological roots of it. i'd like to go back to the likes of christopher lasch, auden's "age of anxiety," more weber, etc.
we need marxism without history, christianity without god, a pragmatism of compassion. not holding my breath.
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:40 (nine years ago)
we have mostly let religion become a side project that is less and less relevant to people's day to day life
Or see it primarily as a weapon used by the right.
I absolutely get the lack of community as a driver of anxiety though - I live in a university town 2,000 miles from where I grew up. Nobody I know (primarily university faculty and staff) is from here originally, and the school is just big and well-known enough that everyone always has one foot out the door thinking they could end up somewhere even bigger or more prestigious; my wife is being recruited by two places right now, both much larger and one of them is probably top three in her field prestige-wise.
So nobody has any real long term community, or never puts down roots that go too deep. I know my neighbors fairly well, but they're all in the same situation - always pondering the next move. It makes me feel constantly edgy and unsettled despite having an objectively worry-free life.
― joygoat, Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:52 (nine years ago)
"we need marxism without history, christianity without god, a pragmatism of compassion. not holding my breath."
or other ways of living those practices. See Charles Taylor's Ethics of Authenticity (originally The Malaises of Modernity) and A Catholic Modernity, and his A Secular Age for an even fuller story. Weber is important here.
― droit au butt (Euler), Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:59 (nine years ago)
I imagine that a lot of them voted for brexit, and that this idea of a remote incomprehensible bureaucracy that was dictating their lives would have resonated with them.
I read a thing correlating Brexit voting with an external "locus of control", the belief that you don't have much control over the things that happen in your day-to-day life:http://www.britishelectionstudy.com/bes-resources/brexit-britain-british-election-study-insights-from-the-post-eu-referendum-wave-of-the-bes-internet-panel/#.WCTq9_mLTIU
which I found interesting though I'm not sure how much can be read into it
(in general psychological terms I have a p. external LoC myself and kind of think "I have no control over the direction my life or anything else in this country is going in, so it would be nice if there was a structure outside this insane country to appeal to")
― a passing spacecadet, Thursday, 10 November 2016 21:59 (nine years ago)
thanks Euler for the reccs! will check those out.
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:03 (nine years ago)
yes - the death/absence of faith is v important. I feel like a patronizing dick when I tell people who have faith that I admire it but don't share it, but the problem I think isn't insincerity but an inability to articulate a secular equivalent. And I think we really need a secular equivalent
― more fun than an Acclaimed Music poll (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:06 (nine years ago)
yeah I mean I'm a practicing Catholic and I think secular alternatives are needed too
― droit au butt (Euler), Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:11 (nine years ago)
I really hate to link to the_donald on here, so I'll just screenshot this to show you what they are up to today. Yeah, it's beyond grim.
http://i.imgur.com/lYCrktY.jpg
― Camaraderie at Arms Length, Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:15 (nine years ago)
Thanks for sharing that. They understand that the stakes are worldwide so we should too. I've been doing a lot of thinking along the lines of what this means for the international order going forward. I feel like no one really bothered to think through it because no one really expected Trump to win. What will be the role of the UN and will it continue to exist / what is the new role of international authority / will all international relationships now boil down to might makes right. And what are the consequences of that for every major current geopolitical tension dormant and active? I think I read today that Trump was already making conciliatory gestures towards NATO and our Asian allies?
― Mordy, Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:34 (nine years ago)
I think there's still an underlying assumption - and I'm probably clinging to it - that Trump will be reined in by the orthodoxy
― more fun than an Acclaimed Music poll (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:41 (nine years ago)
even the Republican orthodoxy though could seriously upend things. how long have they been calling for us to kick out the UN or withdraw funding? they like NATO because they like putting pressure on Russia but they dgaf about 99% of international diplomacy otherwise
― Mordy, Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:44 (nine years ago)
i dont know about "reined in" but it's really less trump himself who scares me (i think he's a psychologically weak person and it's probably dawning on him at this very minute that he doesn't want this job anymore--he clearly has no capacity or patience for it) but the monstrous true-believer hacks to which he will delegate his authority. he strikes me as a fairly easy person to manipulate. he will be a weak president, but that doesn't mean his administration will be, unfortunately. the best case scenario strikes me as most likely: a really bad republican administration of the likes we have experienced before but one that will get rolled "bigly" in 2/4 years. (this is me bargaining with the future)
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:48 (nine years ago)
(i mean, im no expert on this stuff, but there's certainly a way of interpreting the results of the election that spell major trouble for the GOP very soon. this crazy election was the 10% chance and it paid off for them...that kind of "luck" wont repeat itself) (again indulging myself here)
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:52 (nine years ago)
another way of putting that is that it's hard to say it's a right wing "wave" when it's more or less the same minority of people who always vote republican who turned out. there was just inexplicable complacency on the other side. if trump pulled obama numbers i'd say otherwise.
― ryan, Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:53 (nine years ago)
midterms not looking that great for gems http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/nationworld/politics/ct-election-results-senate-20161108-story.html
incumbents usually win elections and in the next presidential election president trump will have the republican machine behind him 100%
we have no idea who the democrat candidate will be
― harold melvin and the bluetones (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 10 November 2016 22:55 (nine years ago)
lol dems even