outing someone's sexuality, when they don't want it public, is bad
Would you have made an exception for Roy Cohn?
― The Hon. J. Piedmont Mumblethunder (Dr Morbius), Friday, 19 August 2016 19:13 (nine years ago)
it comes down to the "people should be allowed to say whatever they want, as often as they want, even if it's abusive because that's still speech" position that twitter finally stepped away from by rolling out abuse mitigation tools to everyone (but not until yesterday!) https://blog.twitter.com/2016/new-ways-to-control-your-experience-on-twitter
then you have the "we can't out anyone, anywhere, ever, because that violates the social norms weapply to everyone" side
I think there's a line and it's somewhere in the middle and the conde nast dude article crossed my personal line
― mh, Friday, 19 August 2016 19:16 (nine years ago)
Morbs I sure as hell would
on the other hand, I could probably be convinced that since it's not my community, it's not my business
I've seen the argument that Roy Cohn, Peter Thiel and others who have pursued actions that could harm gay people who aren't well-to-do, closeted conservative types were presenting (or not presenting) their sexuality in a way that should be the standard. The same people tend to have ideas about proper roles for women and people of color.
― mh, Friday, 19 August 2016 19:21 (nine years ago)
my take on outing is that it's hard to base judgment on "what actually happens" or "who the person is" since those things are really hard to generalize about or know. in general i think it's bad because of the presumption that you're going to make that choice for someone.
― map, Friday, 19 August 2016 20:03 (nine years ago)
Morbs's point of Roy Cohn is relevant because that guy was making the choice for other people all the damn time!
Cohn and McCarthy targeted many government officials and cultural figures not only for suspected Communist sympathies, but also for alleged homosexuality. McCarthy and Cohn were responsible for the firing of scores of gay men from government employment, and strong-armed many opponents into silence using rumors of their homosexuality
Thiel funneling cash to anti-gay marriage initiatives, maybe not on the same scale? I don't know
― mh, Friday, 19 August 2016 20:13 (nine years ago)
i'm sure this is wildly off-base but thiel reminds me a bit of closet types i've known who seem to like hiding in plain sight because it allows them to fulfill more of their ambitions and there is definitely an understandable urge to bring them down to earth and back to the realities of sexual politics because of it. for one because they are very much lacking in empathy for anyone who looks different than the ideal they've built around themselves.
― map, Friday, 19 August 2016 20:16 (nine years ago)
I believe the catchphrase for that mindset is "got mine, fuck you"
― mh, Friday, 19 August 2016 20:21 (nine years ago)
http://gawker.com/the-only-thing-that-would-make-us-feel-better-is-if-you-1785515822
parting shots fired
― Crazy Eddie & Jesus the Kid (Raymond Cummings), Friday, 19 August 2016 20:32 (nine years ago)
haha damn
― map, Friday, 19 August 2016 20:52 (nine years ago)
max's article doesn't finger the real culprit that killed gawker which obv was ilx.
― Mordy, Friday, 19 August 2016 21:38 (nine years ago)
the thing is, it really was just thiel who killed gawker. like all these other things made everything harder and worse and pushed people out of its corner. but it wasn't the other stuff that made them lose the case, and the case was the binary option on which everything hinged.
― Salma Hayek's racist predatory lesbian taco (s.clover), Friday, 19 August 2016 23:12 (nine years ago)
Yup
― flopson, Friday, 19 August 2016 23:14 (nine years ago)
do we know if gawker dot com was itself profitable (or was it the vanity project bankrolled by gizmodo & co by the end), modulo hogan? I feel like the answer is yes and univision just don't want the present value of all future lawsuits
― flopson, Friday, 19 August 2016 23:30 (nine years ago)
my sense, based on absolutely nothing, is that it was profitable but in a *really* small peanuts way within the current media landscape
― mookieproof, Friday, 19 August 2016 23:39 (nine years ago)
Sounds about right
― flopson, Friday, 19 August 2016 23:56 (nine years ago)
pretty sure daulerio killed gawker?
― carthago delenda est (mayor jingleberries), Saturday, 20 August 2016 00:06 (nine years ago)
good-ass kinja failed to save gawker
― mh, Saturday, 20 August 2016 00:07 (nine years ago)
need a gawkeresque investigation into why denton so loved the name 'kinja'
wondered if it meant 'golden future' in some obscure language but it seems it might actually mean 'feces' in malay
what seems to be missing from most of this stuff is why terry bollea's -- let alone hulk hogan's -- violated privacy is worth $140m when (i'm told) wrongful death payouts average like $3.5m. florida courts, i guess?
― mookieproof, Saturday, 20 August 2016 00:22 (nine years ago)
juries, man
― 龜, Saturday, 20 August 2016 00:38 (nine years ago)
uh those people weren't famous wrestlers and they didn't have to live with any indignity. only die with it, obv
― mh, Saturday, 20 August 2016 01:04 (nine years ago)
i wonder if kinja was named kinja because it was a five-letter domain name that was available for relatively cheap in 2004. sites have been given names for stupider reasons.
― maura, Saturday, 20 August 2016 01:35 (nine years ago)
i think it was named kinja as a reference to the popular slang "good-ass kinja"
― Salma Hayek's racist predatory lesbian taco (s.clover), Saturday, 20 August 2016 03:42 (nine years ago)
it's an anagram of jknia, short for jkniajkflejjdsnsmsjjick, which is an expressionistic way to convey frustration by mashing a bunch ok keys
― Treeship, Saturday, 20 August 2016 03:50 (nine years ago)
given the chance gawker will always report on married c-suite executives of major media companies fucking around on their wives
— max read (@max_read) July 17, 2015
RIP
― salthigh, Saturday, 20 August 2016 03:53 (nine years ago)
ugh yes i thought max's obit was decent but for fuck's sake stop saying 'c-suite'
― mookieproof, Saturday, 20 August 2016 03:59 (nine years ago)
http://www.csuiteinsider.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/csuite-status-featured.png
― salthigh, Saturday, 20 August 2016 04:09 (nine years ago)
at least gawker stuck around just long enough to get another ilxor's legal name mentioned on st***f***t
― esempiu (crüt), Saturday, 20 August 2016 06:05 (nine years ago)
Starfleet?
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Saturday, 20 August 2016 06:44 (nine years ago)
max's continual usage of the phrase "c-suite" gives me ptsd
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 20 August 2016 16:41 (nine years ago)
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gawker dot com was profitable yes. i'm not sure if it was "really small peanuts" or just "small peanuts" but it's also always been a pretty small site on its own. there was only a small period where even 20 people worked there. so from what i've heard the raw revenue/profit number would not make your eyes bulge by any means but the profit margin was pretty good bcuz of pretty low overhead.
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 20 August 2016 16:45 (nine years ago)
so i guess you're saying it was....... nothing to gawk at?
― laraaji p. henson (Stevie D(eux)), Saturday, 20 August 2016 18:21 (nine years ago)
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand they're not done yet
http://gawker.com/report-trumps-real-estate-holdings-are-at-least-650-m-1785539977
http://gawker.com/hillary-is-asleep-thats-where-1785540817
http://gawker.com/judge-recommends-criminal-charges-be-brought-against-ar-1785542871
― Crazy Eddie & Jesus the Kid (Raymond Cummings), Saturday, 20 August 2016 18:22 (nine years ago)
Direct links and excerpts from investigative journalism in the NYT and Trump's twitter account constitute evidence of an active bullpen?
― thrusted pelvis-first back (ulysses), Sunday, 21 August 2016 00:27 (nine years ago)
http://gawker.com/fuck-it-1785571359
Nevermind.
― Crazy Eddie & Jesus the Kid (Raymond Cummings), Monday, 22 August 2016 12:46 (nine years ago)
Still waiting for a proper send off from Dog.
― El Tomboto, Monday, 22 August 2016 14:48 (nine years ago)
http://gawker.com/how-things-work-1785604699
― Crazy Eddie & Jesus the Kid (Raymond Cummings), Monday, 22 August 2016 21:57 (nine years ago)
Ugh
― poor fiddy-less albion (darraghmac), Monday, 22 August 2016 22:04 (nine years ago)
this is excellent: http://gawker.com/gawker-was-murdered-by-gaslight-1785456581
― Salma Hayek's racist predatory lesbian taco (s.clover), Monday, 22 August 2016 22:17 (nine years ago)
i'm really not gonna know what to read instead of working anymore :-/.
― Salma Hayek's racist predatory lesbian taco (s.clover), Monday, 22 August 2016 22:18 (nine years ago)
xp TL;DR - straining sinew and muscle, even more punchable than you can imagine an article called "How things work" by Nick Denton could possibly be. Their only flaw is that if anything, they were too awesome.
― Andrew Farrell, Monday, 22 August 2016 22:20 (nine years ago)
So close to an anagram of dick on net
― poor fiddy-less albion (darraghmac), Monday, 22 August 2016 22:29 (nine years ago)
good god Nick Denton still doesn't get it
― Tay, an artificially intelligent software chatbot (dandydonweiner), Monday, 22 August 2016 23:02 (nine years ago)
Also, this:
http://washingtonbabylon.com/a-gawker-post-mortem-the-inside-story-of-the-trial-its-dirty-pr-campaign-and-the-russian-oligarch-who-sponsored-nick-dentons-legal-case/
― Tay, an artificially intelligent software chatbot (dandydonweiner), Monday, 22 August 2016 23:12 (nine years ago)
Lol @ Nick Denton claiming "Gawker made douche cross over as a word." dude has never seen E.T. fuckin idiot.
― kurt schwitterz, Monday, 22 August 2016 23:50 (nine years ago)
rip ppl writing dumb things on the internet ~never forget~
― yolo mostly (sleepingbag), Tuesday, 23 August 2016 00:06 (nine years ago)
i'm really not gonna know what to read instead of working anymore :-/
jezebel, gizmodo, lifehacker, deadspin, kotaku etc etc etc
― kurt schwitterz, Tuesday, 23 August 2016 00:10 (nine years ago)
have you guys checked out fusion, pretty cool little site
― mh, Tuesday, 23 August 2016 00:25 (nine years ago)
@GladwellIf @Gawker is so important to democracy why don't they start it up again? It's not like they have to spend 300 million on printing presses.
*blinks*
― mookieproof, Tuesday, 23 August 2016 13:55 (nine years ago)
I mean, its a dumb thing to say but it's literally what the Ringer did
― Whiney G. Weingarten, Tuesday, 23 August 2016 14:31 (nine years ago)