Buying A House: C or D?

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OK here's today's entry in "I don't understand this messed up process at all."

We look at a place. Our agent says "there's already an offer on this place, they're deciding about it tomorrow."

Could it be that the other offer is actually also handled by our agent?

I can see two possibilities, both of which sound terrible:

a) our agent isn't allowed to handle offers from two different clients on the same house; in that case, it seems like we're going to be shut out from houses we might want just because another of his clients is already interested?

b) our agent IS allowed to handle offers from two different clients on the same house; in that case, isn't it in his interest for us to bid against each other and send the price up? How can he possibly be effectively representing both of us trying to buy the same house?

Guayaquil (eephus!), Friday, 10 June 2016 03:30 (ten years ago)

Could it be that the other offer is actually also handled by our agent?

This is possible, but unlikely. Any ethical agent would refer you to another agent in their firm and not be the puppetmaster of a bid-off between clients. The information he/she was likely given about a pending offer was from the seller's agent.

Ⓓⓡ. (Johnny Fever), Friday, 10 June 2016 03:48 (ten years ago)

So you're saying if we're interested in a house and so is one of our agent's other clients, he would do a handoff of one of us to someone else in the firm? So I might get to bid on the house, but not necessarily through the agent I already know and trust?

Guayaquil (eephus!), Friday, 10 June 2016 09:01 (ten years ago)

Getting the house valued today. May be the beginning of that whole moving process again.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Friday, 10 June 2016 09:43 (ten years ago)

Hey Tomboto, do u mind saying where are you moving? (Sorry if I missed it)

full of grapes (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 10 June 2016 10:12 (ten years ago)

Nick didn't you just move?! (I remember it was around the time we did)
I dread the thought of moving again

kinder, Friday, 10 June 2016 10:53 (ten years ago)

November 2012, so just coming up 4 years. We thought this house would be 7-10 years, and it still might - we're debating whether to move, or whether to extend by freeing up value through remortgaging. Em would like a bigger, more accessible garden for Nora, and neither of us feel like we ever quite fell in love with this house. It's nice and it ticks all the right boxes, but it was a pragmatic choice, and after Bob died here it almost feels a bit tainted. Fantasising about 1930s semis with level gardens and maybe even a garage.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Friday, 10 June 2016 12:34 (ten years ago)

So you're saying if we're interested in a house and so is one of our agent's other clients, he would do a handoff of one of us to someone else in the firm? So I might get to bid on the house, but not necessarily through the agent I already know and trust?

I really, really, really don't know anything for sure. I've never even considered it before, because the part of Atlanta I bought in had houses sitting on the market for weeks or months before being bought and afaik I was the first and only person to make an offer on mine.

What I gather from the agent side of things, though, is that there are all kinds of ethical procedures they have to follow to make sure you're represented fairly to avoid having their pants sued off by you in the future.

Ⓓⓡ. (Johnny Fever), Friday, 10 June 2016 13:18 (ten years ago)

Planning to move to Shaw. So basically a half dozen blocks east and south from where we are.

El Tomboto, Friday, 10 June 2016 13:40 (ten years ago)

Cool. Good luck.

full of grapes (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 10 June 2016 14:04 (ten years ago)

re: agent with two buyers for the same house -- different agencies have different policies (and may differ from state to state as well). You should check the representation contract you signed to see if it's addressed there; if not just ask your agent what his office policy is when the situation arises. Some will rep both buyers, some will pass buyer #2 to the broker or another agent in the office. Whatever the policy I'd be uncomfortable with an agent who didn't at least disclose the situation.

early rejecter, Friday, 10 June 2016 14:24 (ten years ago)

I honestly want to know what the catch is with these Cleveland houses.

I'm used to decent houses costing $150-$200K, but they're decent - they don't look like these awesome houses with the hardwood floors, double stairs, little crooked nooks and big ol' front porches.

― pplains, Thursday, June 9, 2016 9:07 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

cleveland had a steady decline from the middle of the 20th century until very very recently, it suffered tremendously from disinvestment, white flight, crime, environmental problems, there are still large parts of the city that are decaying. the last census STILL showed population decline, though it has slowed down a lot. the city was also hit really hard by the foreclosure crisis.

that particular house in cleveland heights also has enormous taxes, like $9k a year or something, and that zip code also borders some of the roughest parts of cleveland, even though the surrounding blocks are gorgeous

marcos, Friday, 10 June 2016 14:25 (ten years ago)

Also Cleveland Heights schools don't have a great reputation.

Living in a suburb outside of NYC in a much smaller house than the one in Cleveland Heights, I would be thrilled to be only paying $9k/year in taxes!

early rejecter, Friday, 10 June 2016 14:48 (ten years ago)

You should be grateful to be paying high taxes imo, they're good

Sean, let me be clear (silby), Friday, 10 June 2016 14:53 (ten years ago)

House valued at what I thought and not what Em thought (which is about 10% difference - I'm the optimist). Em's going to want to move.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Friday, 10 June 2016 15:19 (ten years ago)

you planning on staying in the same city?
sorry to be nosy. We did a ton of renovation and haven't really even finished, so feel like our 7-10 years is yet to start! value has risen loads and we could live cheaper elsewhere, which is tempting.

kinder, Friday, 10 June 2016 19:40 (ten years ago)

Almost certainly, although our perfect house is in Torquay at way under budget (would be at very top in Exeter). We'll consider towns and villages on the outskirts.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Saturday, 11 June 2016 05:08 (ten years ago)

It's gonna be a stressful few months. Found a house we really like. Em basically going feral.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Saturday, 11 June 2016 17:06 (ten years ago)

http://www.rightmove.co.uk/property-for-sale/property-42517287.html

argh

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Friday, 17 June 2016 11:02 (ten years ago)

It looks lush. Maybe we just take £10k out of the mortgage and do the kitchen amazingly.

But it'll never have a big garden.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Friday, 17 June 2016 11:04 (ten years ago)

nice! Your kitchen is perfectly fine btw!
We have finally taken down the 'squatter-chic' curtains we had draped over a bar in the living room for the past 18 months and put up a lovely blind. We still need tons of furniture. And another blind.

kinder, Friday, 17 June 2016 12:05 (ten years ago)

i was just in exeter recently, v pleasant little burg

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 17 June 2016 12:30 (ten years ago)

That's a nice house! My dad's side of the family seems to be re-convening around Devon/Dorset and sometimes I'm tempted to head that way myself...

They've just decided to build a 9-storey building right opposite our flats in an otherwise fairly low-rise part of town. It probably won't be that bad but sort of wondering if I should be trying to move ASAP before it knocks the value of my flat down (if it hasn't already).

a passing spacecadet, Friday, 17 June 2016 12:37 (ten years ago)

Someone's viewing it right now, which is insane, as it only went online at about 11:30.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Friday, 17 June 2016 14:02 (ten years ago)

We let the son of one of my wife's cousins live in her old family home rent-free for the last 10 years — in return he was supposed to keep it in good shape. He completely failed to do that. We're about to put it up for sale, for about 30-40% less than we could have gotten if he'd kept up his end of the deal. Fucking asshole.

pleas to Nietzsche (WilliamC), Friday, 17 June 2016 15:48 (ten years ago)

We have (almost) bought a house! People are suggesting we bail until prices drop post-Brexit but tbh we need somewhere to live and the process was stressful enough already.

ǂbait (seandalai), Saturday, 25 June 2016 01:32 (ten years ago)

again just slightly out of our price range but holy shit what a gorgeous arts & crafts house, i fee like i would never get bored living in this place

https://www.redfin.com/OH/Lakewood/1081-Cliffdale-Ave-44107/home/66122958

marcos, Monday, 27 June 2016 18:02 (ten years ago)

could use better photos though

marcos, Monday, 27 June 2016 18:03 (ten years ago)

also, realtors, stop padding the list of included appliances with things like "smoke detector"

but wow, this room......

Lee626, Monday, 27 June 2016 21:28 (ten years ago)

hey dawg i heard you liked wood

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 01:02 (ten years ago)

I totally wood

ǂbait (seandalai), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 09:50 (ten years ago)

Has anyone got any experience in lowering an offer? We are fairly advanced down the buying process. It's a decent flat in a seriously good location (overlooking green space in what's generally considered one of the most desirable parts of SE London) so it looks like a a good investment, and in any case it's somewhere we'd be very happy to live for a good few years. Given the clusterfuck the country is in right now we would expect it to lose 10%+ of its value almost immediately and are wondering whether it's worth negotiating the price down at the cost of jeopardising everything. How does one even go about doing this?

I wouldn't expect the vendor to have much trouble selling the flat, even at a reduced rate, although who can tell right now? We were due to exchange this week fwiw, going to kick that can a couple of weeks down the road whatever happens.

Matt DC, Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:21 (ten years ago)

(I think both our jobs are reasonably secure but who even knows)

Matt DC, Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:22 (ten years ago)

My gut feeling is that it's a bit cheeky to lower an offer you've already made unless you've found like, a rotting corpse in the shed or something. Maybe this is foolish but I wouldn't really worry about price falls in London? Even after 2007/8 prices didn't fall. And if you're looking to actually live there for awhile instead of flipping it in a year or two then I doubt you'll need to worry about losing money.

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:26 (ten years ago)

Prices did fall in London after 2008 but they rebounded in a couple of years I think. We did negotiate down by about £15k the first time round and I think that due to a confluence of factors (location, improved transport) it'll broadly retain its value. And in any case we're buying it as a home and not an investment.

I suppose part of me is wondering what will happen if things continue to tank in the economy and one or both of us does lose our jobs, but that's going to be an issue even if we rent. But is there anything to be lost by trying to lower the offer?

Matt DC, Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:33 (ten years ago)

Well, they could think "eff these clowns" and go with someone else who will pay more. Obv.

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:36 (ten years ago)

The flat could be lost, but it depends how you handle it. If you're this close to exchanging the seller could go one of three ways; 1; haha, no way, we're practically done, nice try: 2; fuck you, someone else will buy it at asking or current agreed price, the market is strong: 3; what's 10% at this point when I've made loads on this portfolio already, let's keep the buyer and push the sale through.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:37 (ten years ago)

Nothing in the survey you can hang a reduction on?

Horizontal Superman is invulnerable (aldo), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:39 (ten years ago)

We're in a similar position but nowhere near as far down the line; we've accepted an offer on ours and had an offer accepted on where we want, but it's more expensive than we fully wanted it to be. Seller hasn't had it marked as sold STC yet and hasn't found somewhere to move to. Somewhere similar has come on the market and we're viewing it Thursday. We may use that as leverage to negotiate down. But moving is the right thing for us to do now so we'll go ahead as long as we keep our buyer.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:40 (ten years ago)

But definitely go ahead if you're buying it to live in; people panic halting house purchases is what will cause issues with the market.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:41 (ten years ago)

Scik - well no. The other thing the seller could do is take the flat off the market and let it out while she waits for things to improve. She inherited the flat from her parents and has been living in it for nearly 40 years, is moving in with a partner in the country who is also selling his house, so the risk of doing that is relatively low. It's a big lump sum but I don't think the vendor NEEDS the money this minute now, and we're not in any kind of chain.

Matt DC, Tuesday, 28 June 2016 10:55 (ten years ago)

In which case I'd not risk it.

Hey Bob (Scik Mouthy), Tuesday, 28 June 2016 11:39 (ten years ago)

My colleague has also had her buyers suggest 20k lower price due to Brexit. She's a bit pissed off as basically being forced to sell and the survey was really good so is probably going to push back as much as possible. I think 10% is quite a big discount to ask for tbh

kinder, Tuesday, 28 June 2016 18:37 (ten years ago)

lol getting major funeral home vibes from the first floor of this house http://www.zillow.com/homedetails/13443-Detroit-Ave-Lakewood-OH-44107/2098080948_zpid/

marcos, Wednesday, 29 June 2016 14:47 (ten years ago)

lol is that where they shot My Girl?

Ⓓⓡ. (Johnny Fever), Wednesday, 29 June 2016 14:52 (ten years ago)

How is that anything but a funeral parlor?

Though I admit, I didn't realize funeral parlors had residences upstairs.

pplains, Wednesday, 29 June 2016 14:57 (ten years ago)

I have a very shaky grasp of personal finance but if the Bank of England cuts the base rate next week and there's scope for inflation in the future, would it make sense to remortgage now?

I still have 14 months left on a decent two year fixed rate atm.

On a Raqqa tip (ShariVari), Friday, 8 July 2016 13:24 (nine years ago)

dunno but the tracker we took out 4 years ago has been a blinder.

^ 諷刺 (ken c), Friday, 8 July 2016 14:36 (nine years ago)

Whether it makes sense to refinance usually depends on (1) how long you plan to stay (2) how much money you'll save compared to the refi fees. In order to know whether it make sense for you, you'd have to know what the difference is between your current rate and the rate you'd get, the fees you'd pay up front, and what your new monthly payment would be. I started to think about doing it again recently because it looked like I could get a rate that would pay for itself in a little over a year. In my situation I wouldn't want it to be much longer than that because we're still uncertain about how long we're staying, but I don't see moving in less than two years, so breakeven in a year saves us a good chunk of money even if we do move in two.

socka flocka-jones (man alive), Friday, 8 July 2016 16:06 (nine years ago)


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