puffin, you have my sympathies. when your child passes the threshold of legal majority (18) you'll be faced with the thorny decision of whether to seek legal guardianship or conservatorship. in our daughter's case that decision was not in question. it had to be done. so we weren't forced to weigh the delicately balanced opposing sides of that question, as you may need to. good luck.
― a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Saturday, 19 December 2015 02:01 (ten years ago)
aimless: please append "i think i read something written by a racist fur trader once but i can't really remember" to your future statements about how "very often" oppressed people "displayed all the behaviors" genocidal colonialist attributed to them.
― home organ, Saturday, 19 December 2015 02:07 (ten years ago)
Westward ho, me organ
― darraghmac, Saturday, 19 December 2015 02:09 (ten years ago)
http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/pictures/2013/7/26/1374833496398/Stagecoach-001.jpg
― home organ, Saturday, 19 December 2015 02:15 (ten years ago)
now I am curious if you find that "unsatisfactory care in childhood" should be construed as a non-racist theory for the origins of alcohol addiction among contemporary native american populations?
― a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Saturday, 19 December 2015 02:15 (ten years ago)
I like to think twas being unprepared to meet paddy what done it
― darraghmac, Saturday, 19 December 2015 02:21 (ten years ago)
poch out
― i;m thinking about thos Beans (Michael B), Saturday, 19 December 2015 02:28 (ten years ago)
most people think that wanting to die is an unhealthy cognitive distortion
The average punter has no clue how excruciating living with mental disorders can be. And for some, there's no more cure than there is for end-stage chronic diseases.
― 50 Shades of Santa (Sanpaku), Saturday, 19 December 2015 02:35 (ten years ago)
― a little too mature to be cute (Aimless)
i live in canada. first nations people here account for about 4% of the population of the country, and first nations children make up 50% of children in care below the age of 14. first nations children's advocates have attributed this to the high rates of poverty among first nations people - and social services tendency to equate this poverty with neglect - as well as high substance abuse rates in caregivers that can be seen the legacy of the trauma caused by residential schools and the sixties scoop.
did a quick google and, although youre not a scholar, here is an interesting paper on the subjec of the overrepresentation of first nations children in canada's child welfare system (it is 11 years old so not totally up to date) https://francais.mcgill.ca/files/crcf/2004-Overrepresentation_Aboriginal_Children.pdf
i would suggest that being taken into care, for whatever reason, is not an optimal childhood experience.
― Karl Rove Knausgård (jim in glasgow), Saturday, 19 December 2015 03:16 (ten years ago)
beyoncé knowles is as boring as coldplay
― example (crüt), Monday, 8 February 2016 14:18 (ten years ago)
https://49.media.tumblr.com/8a9eb98c7d55555b5d88d6859d5631fc/tumblr_n8uo15RRCE1sy4wkto1_500.gif
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 8 February 2016 14:22 (ten years ago)
http://www.thestrut.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/jayzchrissmall.gif
― example (crüt), Monday, 8 February 2016 14:29 (ten years ago)
https://img1.etsystatic.com/030/0/8596301/il_570xN.566060515_5xru.jpg
― maybe even a little depressive (brony!) (nakhchivan), Monday, 8 February 2016 14:33 (ten years ago)
all of Mick Jagger's vocal performances are tied for 'Mick Jagger's worst vocal performance'
― small doug yule carnival club (unregistered), Monday, 8 February 2016 22:51 (ten years ago)
https://blog.creditkarma.com/wp-content/2015-01-26-Relationship-Btwn-Credit-Score-and-Credit-Limit-Update_GRAPH.png
― maybe even a little depressive (brony!) (nakhchivan), Monday, 8 February 2016 22:57 (ten years ago)
is ilx ready to talk about birth tourism
― F♯ A♯ (∞), Saturday, 4 February 2017 18:03 (nine years ago)
the vast majority of people on earth don't want to fight to make the world a better place. they just want to be be comfortable and not be starving. and watch every episode of Friends again on Netflix. okay, i was projecting with that last part...
― scott seward, Saturday, 4 February 2017 18:35 (nine years ago)
That last one seems pretty obvious to me
― ultros ultros-ghali, Saturday, 4 February 2017 18:49 (nine years ago)
I'd go further to say that the majority prefer freedom from decisions to freedom. Not many of us really care enough about minority viewpoints to fight for them. Martin Niemöller's lament will never lose relevance.
Also, having only seen the discussion of Friends on The Good Place, even season 8?
― my neurons made me do it (Sanpaku), Sunday, 5 February 2017 00:24 (nine years ago)
I do think that people can be amazing in emergencies and in times of trouble! But they are 90% selfish in general.
― scott seward, Sunday, 5 February 2017 02:39 (nine years ago)
A Tribe Called Quest's "We the People" is kind of terrible. (Not actually controversial, but I'd have a hard time finding anyone who agrees with me.)
― clemenza, Sunday, 5 February 2017 02:43 (nine years ago)
Apart from a couple awkward stresses in Phife's verse, I can't find anything wrong with it, so I'd love to see this opinion developed.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 5 February 2017 02:55 (nine years ago)
Musically, I don't get anything out it. And it seems really preachy and obvious to me.
― clemenza, Sunday, 5 February 2017 03:01 (nine years ago)
we the people is a fantastic song
― Karl Malone, Sunday, 5 February 2017 03:02 (nine years ago)
that is a good post for this thread though
― Karl Malone, Sunday, 5 February 2017 03:03 (nine years ago)
Agreed.
Preachy and obvious is the intention; what sounded like projection in November ("Muslims and gays/boy, we hate your ways") is prophecy now. Also, the snare backbeat and the details in Tip's lines (Ramen noodles, "niggas in the hood livin' in a fishbowl") are pleasures.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 5 February 2017 03:26 (nine years ago)
I'm not a huge fan of the Mellow Candle album. THERE, i said it. consequences be damned.
― scott seward, Sunday, 5 February 2017 03:31 (nine years ago)
I don't think I've ever listened to an entire Tribe Called Quest album. that's not a controversial opinion though. a surprising fact, maybe.
― scott seward, Sunday, 5 February 2017 03:33 (nine years ago)
Post a Surprising Fact
― clemenza, Sunday, 5 February 2017 03:40 (nine years ago)
haha
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 5 February 2017 03:52 (nine years ago)
Angela Merkel is hot
― flappy bird, Sunday, 5 February 2017 05:09 (nine years ago)
James Brown has a song about being black and proud, but isn't this kind of obvious?
― mh 😏, Sunday, 5 February 2017 07:06 (nine years ago)
i'm weirdly attracted to Kellyanne Conway despite thinking she's the worst human being alive
― Neanderthal, Sunday, 5 February 2017 07:14 (nine years ago)
Alex Lifeson is the greatest rock guitarist of the last 40 years
― Master of Treacle, Sunday, 5 February 2017 07:31 (nine years ago)
Well now, that's just common sense
― Al Moon Faced Poon (Moodles), Sunday, 5 February 2017 07:43 (nine years ago)
I've mostly liked the noir classics I've seen but I thought The Killers was surprisingly "meh".
― Robert Adam Gilmour, Sunday, 5 February 2017 11:12 (nine years ago)
Visual aid: young Angela Merkel:
https://timedotcom.files.wordpress.com/2015/12/time-person-of-the-year-angela-merkel-young-08.jpg
― my neurons made me do it (Sanpaku), Sunday, 5 February 2017 14:07 (nine years ago)
??? She looks human jerky that's somehow still animate
― I hear from this arsehole again, he's going in the river (James Morrison), Monday, 6 February 2017 00:31 (nine years ago)
Hence why it is controversial
― Neanderthal, Monday, 6 February 2017 00:36 (nine years ago)
NE have got this
― PressAnarchyToContinue (Ste), Monday, 6 February 2017 00:41 (nine years ago)
Lady gaga is garbage
― F♯ A♯ (∞), Monday, 6 February 2017 01:15 (nine years ago)
Now that's not controversial: she is awful
― I hear from this arsehole again, he's going in the river (James Morrison), Monday, 6 February 2017 02:15 (nine years ago)
Lorde is better than your favorite ilm-approved indietronic songstress (Grimes, Crystal Castles, Phantogram, Purity Ring, Sky, LDR, CRJ, Britney, Kraftwerk, Oum Kalthoum, I really don't care) and you are lying to yourself if you refuse to accept this.
― schrute dwyte (unregistered), Monday, 6 February 2017 03:28 (nine years ago)
that's just depraved
― Mordy, Monday, 6 February 2017 03:32 (nine years ago)
"songstress"
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 February 2017 03:39 (nine years ago)
The alluring indietronic of kraftwerk
― Karl Malone, Monday, 6 February 2017 03:59 (nine years ago)
and Oum Kalthoum!
― My Body's Made of Crushed Little Evening Stars (Sund4r), Monday, 6 February 2017 04:00 (nine years ago)
people should be forced to give a 30 second warning before cumming
― Neanderthal, Monday, 6 February 2017 04:02 (nine years ago)
ok, Sting
― flappy bird, Monday, 6 February 2017 04:33 (nine years ago)
that's excessive and impossible to project accurately...like a cable company telling you theyll be there between 1 and 5 pm
― if young satchmo don't trumpet i'm gon shoot you (m bison), Monday, 6 February 2017 05:44 (nine years ago)