Brothels - should they be legalised everywhere?

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Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 16:16 (twenty-two years ago)

It was the GMB (General Manufacturing and Boilermakers) I believe.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 16:36 (twenty-two years ago)

who the hell would program a robot whore to menstruate? i don't care if some guys claim to be turned out by that, it's too niche to be considered for generic specifications for common models

stevem (blueski), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:00 (twenty-two years ago)

Ask RickyT, it was him wot did it!

Citizen Kate (kate), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:03 (twenty-two years ago)

Hey, I never said anything about my self-replicating lego robots of doom being ho's.

I mean, just cos they dance the go-go...

Ricardo (RickyT), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:11 (twenty-two years ago)

Apologies for apostrophe redundancy, my hands aren't following my brains instructions too closely today.

Ricardo (RickyT), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:13 (twenty-two years ago)

who the hell would program a robot whore to menstruate? i don't care if some guys claim to be turned out by that, it's too niche to be considered for generic specifications for common models

have you been to germany?

teeny (teeny), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:25 (twenty-two years ago)

Prostitution (and brothels) should be legal because the government has no legitimate interest in controlling the actions of consensual adults, assuming that the behavior is not fraudulent or otherwise criminal. There is no reasonable difference between paying for a fuck or paying for a massage; penetration is hardly relevant as long as it is on a consensual basis. Same with nudity. And assuming that these activities take place in private, community standards are an oblique legal ruse designed to patrol state-sanctioned morality.

don weiner, Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:35 (twenty-two years ago)

Pinkpanther,

I think you were misled on the program you watched. I was under the impression that prosititution and brothels have been legal in certain counties in Nevada for a quite a long time (ie, decades). Someone please correct me if I'm wrong.

gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:39 (twenty-two years ago)

the argument here for legalized brothels seems to be the same one used for legalized drugs, ie people will still do it anyway so there might as well be some regulations over it in order to make it a safer activity---for those involved and for society as a whole.

oops (Oops), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:42 (twenty-two years ago)

i just thinks it's s shite expolitative way to make a living and i saw these programmes - the 21-year-old who looked much younger seemed borderline retarded, one of the women had had a fucking horrendous life and was an alcoholic, i swear the guy who ran the place would have punched one of them if the cameras weren't there. it's not a choice anyone should have to make, really, regardless of whether they say the like it. i don't believe them.

I admit what I'm about to say is a bit of a stretch and uber-pedantic, but i can think of many office jobs in the U.S. that are analagous to this, yet never receive the same criticism or scrutiny. The only difference being the mental toll as opposed to the physical toll.

(disclaimer: i may severely regret this post later as those more wise than me will point out more obvious differences, but I'm starting to get more defensive of people who choose an "exploitive" career, when so many "accepted" career choices in america are just as "exploitive" but in different ways)

donut bitch (donut), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 17:54 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm in favour of legalisation - I can't see too much drawback, but we lose one more case of the government making sex into a bad thing, we gain a better chance of offering protection and health care and health checks, of removing an awful lot of the worst dangers and risks of walking the streets and violent criminal pimps. Yes, we won't eliminate streetwalkers and underage prostitutes, but if you could legally and safely pay to fuck someone, how many will take the risk of going illegal? I think it will reduce those bad sides a good deal, and allow policing to focus much more on the really bad stuff.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 20:44 (twenty-two years ago)

gygax!, I think you are correct.

tokyo rosemary (rosemary), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:06 (twenty-two years ago)

Even in places where prostitution is legal in BROTHELS it is usually illegal on a freelance, i.e. streetwalker basis. Amsterdam, Hamburg, Berlin, come to mind. I don't think that legalization, regulation, and, oh, please, unionization, will in the least affect the number of streetwalkers plying their trade.

Prostitution shouldn't be legal, it should be mandatory! Oh, wait, that sounds kind of.......

Skottie, Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:10 (twenty-two years ago)

I can imagine that these supposed legal brothels would need really good legal representation. And it would seem that, as a matter of safety, each prostitute should have a room monitor or some other way to ensure that a client could easily be kicked out and/or sent to jail if they stepped over the line.

Hmm... What about S&M? What if one woman in her contract says it is ok to, I dunno, bite her for example. And some client bites her neck too hard and she bleeds to death... Hmm...

Sarah McLusky (coco), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:37 (twenty-two years ago)

Prostitution has been legal in NV for a while. Salon article...

Last roundup at the Mustang Ranch
Bordellos R Us: In the Nevada desert, a new management style is coming to the world's oldest profession.
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By Douglas Cruickshank


August 12, 1999 | "It's sure been a wild ride," said a former working girl on Monday as the feds shut down America's most famous legal brothel after its owners were convicted of fraud. "It's the end of the road for the Mustang Ranch," she sighed.

The Mustang, a 104-room bordello on a 440-acre spread near Reno, Nev., was established by Joe Conforte, a onetime cabdriver, in 1955. Sixteen years later, he won a court case that paved the way for the legalization of prostitution in Nevada -- where whether to sanction or forbid the establishments is left up to county government. Twelve of the state's 17 counties now permit the operation of bordellos. Indeed, not since New Orleans' legendary Storyville has prostitution in the United States had such a large, legal land base, and Storyville was a mere neighborhood on the edge of the French Quarter, not a vast slab of sagebrush-dotted desert.
http://www.salon.com/people/rogue/1999/08/12/mustang/

Skottie, Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:47 (twenty-two years ago)

Hmm... "$300 a pop and up..." I wonder what a "pop" would be?

Let's all have a bake sale to save Mustang Ranch.

Sarah McLusky (coco), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:49 (twenty-two years ago)

you know damn well what a 'pop' is

cinniblount (James Blount), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:50 (twenty-two years ago)

Oral?

Sarah McLusky (coco), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:51 (twenty-two years ago)

Art Bell's compound is located next door to the Chicken Ranch outside Las Vega$.

gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:51 (twenty-two years ago)

that man is a saint

cinniblount (James Blount), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:52 (twenty-two years ago)

Sorry dude, Art Carney already has dibs on "Saint Art."

NA (Nick A.), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:53 (twenty-two years ago)

but what if ALL chicks decided to work in one

dave q, Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:53 (twenty-two years ago)

I've read a statistic, several times, that during the victorian period in England, fully 25% of all women earned their living as prostitutes. This was loosely defined to include such occupations as being kept by a rich dude, but still. One out of four. Victorian morality!

Skottie, Wednesday, 12 November 2003 21:56 (twenty-two years ago)

Even in places where prostitution is legal in BROTHELS it is usually illegal on a freelance, i.e. streetwalker basis. Amsterdam, Hamburg, Berlin, come to mind. I don't think that legalization, regulation, and, oh, please, unionization, will in the least affect the number of streetwalkers plying their trade.

This is true - basic market economics really. Prostitutes in brothels are technically employees, street-walking prostitues can be self-employed. Therefore, brothel owners and staff are taking a cut of any fee, the prostitutes themselves would make less than they could make on the street. And who becomes a prostitute unless they are desparate for cash.

Or do brothels charge more?

Matt DC (Matt DC), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 22:03 (twenty-two years ago)

people will always fall through the safety net; be it in textiles, drugs or prostitution. But the more legislation you in place the less sweatshops, mules, & slave trade can flourish. So PP I'd have to say legalise.

Jack St E (Jack St E), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 22:27 (twenty-two years ago)

"Honey, I've decided that now the kids are in college, I'm going back to work as a prostitiute."

Sarah McLusky (coco), Wednesday, 12 November 2003 23:36 (twenty-two years ago)

But the more legislation you in place the less...
I disagree with this line of reasoning on a fundamental basis. Legislation doesn't ever change anything. It can only mirror a general societal trend and fine tune it, make it run better, etc. As long as the basic economic/market forces exist, the situation won't change. Even something as extreme and stark as say Lincoln's emancipation proclamation didn't free the slaves. It memorialized the North's willingness to fight a war to do so. The paper didn't free them, the Union Army did. If we just had more laws, things would work better. I don't think it works that way.

And streetwalker almost never work for themselves. There's always a pimp lurking in the shadows ready to take 3/4 of the money. Also, it's supply AND demand at work. I don't think a lot of the customers will want to go to a brothel where they can be seen, recognized, registered, get their coupon booklet stamped, etc. They'll always get a quickie from a streetwalker in the car even though she almost certainly has AIDS.

I'm not against legalization at all: I'm mostly libertarian in principle on most issues. I just don't think it will change that much in this case.

Skottie, Thursday, 13 November 2003 08:06 (twenty-two years ago)

Wot about Prohibition and its repealing, Skottie?

oops (Oops), Thursday, 13 November 2003 08:08 (twenty-two years ago)

I think that's a good example, actually. The classic libertarian one, anyway. Societal forces weren't as a whole against drinking. It didn't work. The legislation in the repeal brought alcohol consumption back into the mainstream where it could be regulated more effectively.

This is different from prostitution in part because as I commented above, not everyone is comfortable walking into a brothel and being identified as a regular customer. People want the anonymity. That will make it hard to regulate. Even though it's always with us, prostitution is hardly part of the mainstream, whereas drinking always has been. But I'm still not opposed to legalizing prostitution because it may help a few people. Just not the ones who need it most.

Skottie, Thursday, 13 November 2003 08:36 (twenty-two years ago)

But isn't a big part of the reason why people aren't comfortable with being identified as a brothel customer because it is---and always has been---illegal? Cause, you know, if it's illegal, it must be immoral! Making it legal would take a big portion of the stigma away from frequenting a brothel. Maybe.
The same is true for legalizing marijuana. I wouldn't feel like a deviant for admitting to, say, my boss that I smoked it if it were legal.

oops (Oops), Thursday, 13 November 2003 08:48 (twenty-two years ago)

Sorry Gygax, I guess I must have misunderstood.

Not all women will choose this profession Dave q!!

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 13 November 2003 09:45 (twenty-two years ago)

But isn't a big part of the reason why people aren't comfortable with being identified as a brothel customer because it is---and always has been---illegal

yes, on a conversation with boss level. but no, not in a peer group level. i mean, no one is ever going to be embarrassed about smoking a joint or doing a line are they?

charltonlido (gareth), Thursday, 13 November 2003 09:56 (twenty-two years ago)

i think in some peer groups it's seen as a shameful thing to do, even by friends - either because a)you're seen as a sad loser if you have to pay to fuck someone or b) it's just seen as unsavoury and something of a health risk. perhaps both those views could do with being challenged further though.

stevem (blueski), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:22 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm not disagreeing with Steve or Gareth here, but on the train into work this morning I was trying to sleep through some bloke telling a female (!) friend how he and his mates had slept with three prostitutes each on a recent trip to Amsterdam. Granted he was a Burberry-clad wanker, but maybe its not as taboo as it used to be.

you're seen as a sad loser if you have to pay to fuck someone

This is the urgent and key point. But is it socially more acceptable on a trip to Amsterdam in a way it wouldn't be at home, like its all considered to be part of the whole decadent dirty party?

Matt DC (Matt DC), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:35 (twenty-two years ago)

it's always that little bit 'acceptable' if you do it when on holiday, esp. somewhere like Amsterdam.

stevem (blueski), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:37 (twenty-two years ago)

I think it is probably still frowned upon by the majority of ppl though.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:38 (twenty-two years ago)

i'm not sure that's true, i think it just depends who you are and the circles you move in. look at how Jamie Theakston was received after that tabloid scam with the hookers - he seemed to get sympathy rather than disdain, with the general attitude being more 'he's a young single guy so it's okay' rather than 'this guy used to present kids TV, what a disgraceful role model' etc.

stevem (blueski), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:40 (twenty-two years ago)

Well i wouldn't want to go anywhere near a guy that had been with a prostitute.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:44 (twenty-two years ago)

But would you consider a guy who's done that a few times to be far more unappealing than a guy who's just had a load of equally loveless one night stands with several girls, or perhaps even used a number of women for sex then jilted them callously when it turns out they wanted something more?

stevem (blueski), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:53 (twenty-two years ago)

plz stevem - girls LOVE the latter

cinniblount (James Blount), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:54 (twenty-two years ago)

but is there any real way of knowing whether he had or not? I suppose that's why the "want to" is in your sentence, then, isn't it?

M Matos (M Matos), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:57 (twenty-two years ago)

well if he hadn't done the same to me then that wouldn't be a problem. Most ppl have had one night stands in their lives but i would be considering the health implications of the former. Although they are both a consideration (healthwise) the former seems more of a risk.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:57 (twenty-two years ago)

No there isn't but surely there is honesty in a serious relationship. If J suddenly announced to me that he had, then I guess we would discuss it and ultimately it would not affect things, but it may have made me think differently of him if I'd known inititally. I think you have a right to know if you are about to sleep with a man that has slept with a prostitute.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:59 (twenty-two years ago)

Steve, the level of exploitation of the woman in question is the big moral sticking point here, not the fact that money is changing hands or the level of emotion involved in the sex. Most prostitutes at street level, or in Soho or wherever, are drug addicts, or illegal immigrants under the thumb of very nasty gangs or whatever.

These are desperate people and its the idea that you are directly contributing to their misery that is the really offputting bit, not whether your mates would laugh at you.

In some way, this is the difference between yer average bloke on the street and the Jamie Theakston/Angus Deayton 'high class' hooker, which is a phenomenon I can't really even get my head around.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Thursday, 13 November 2003 10:59 (twenty-two years ago)

yeah, we can pretend legalizing prostitution is gonna make a whorehouse as safe and hunky dory as a hardware store but let's not pretend the mob isn't heavily involved in the prostitution industry or that they're gonna just suddenly disappear cuz it's legalized.

cinniblount (James Blount), Thursday, 13 November 2003 11:01 (twenty-two years ago)

I mean, the porn industry is legal for example

cinniblount (James Blount), Thursday, 13 November 2003 11:01 (twenty-two years ago)

i dont think anyone is saying that it's going to sort all of that out, but legalising something changes the way things are done. ppl are less likely to visit a street walker (where they risk getting robbed or vd of some description) than a legal place that is regulated and checked.

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 13 November 2003 11:03 (twenty-two years ago)

but these places exist (minus the regulation)(which really isn't as big a factor as is made out here)(ie. I don't think guys are going 'gee I'd like to go to a whorehouse - but I'm not sure how well they conform to osha' or 'are the girls paying their fica?') already - people go to streetwalkers vs. brothels cuz streetwalkers are going to be cheaper (lower overhead means we pass the savings onto you!)

cinniblount (James Blount), Thursday, 13 November 2003 11:09 (twenty-two years ago)

I've only heard one bloke talk about having gone to a prostitute, and the guys listening were somewhere between amazed/appalled/amused/impressed - but the one who was talking is someone we're used to for making the kind of out-there pronouncements everyone else would probably self-censor on (of the killing sister, smashing arsenal fans' faces in, &c type), so most of what he says tends to be taken with a pinch of salt and a lot of 'nah's.

But then someone else started going on about how wasn't it like sexual discrimination that there weren't male prostitutes for women (which I don't think would have been said if I wasn't there, mind), and I got the feeling that the general consensus was that going to a prostitute was seen as, you know, alright, really.

I think I suggested that maybe some people didn't want to be seen as unable to get sex without paying for it, but no-one really thought that was much of an argument. So it seems like there's some kind of ground-level acceptance - at least among this lot of guys at my college - of using prostitutes, but I still think they'd baulk at admitting to it.

Personally, although I don't approve of prostitution, I'd rather brothels were legalised if that meant there could be some measure of regulation and protection for the women (or men) who work there. I get the sense that the current system makes it too easy to arrent/punish the prostitutes, rather than their pimps or their clients - which is, in my opinion, insane, because the prostitutes are the ones most open to abuse, and I doubt that many people go into prostitution by choice.

cis (cis), Thursday, 13 November 2003 11:11 (twenty-two years ago)


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