"total garbage" sums that up pretty well, yeah.
― i too went to college (silby), Saturday, 14 September 2013 16:21 (twelve years ago)
http://mentakingup2muchspaceonthetrain.tumblr.com
― lag∞n, Saturday, 14 September 2013 16:57 (twelve years ago)
the whole thing is empty trains, whats the point
― sing, all ye shitizens of slumerica (k3vin k.), Saturday, 14 September 2013 17:05 (twelve years ago)
^ dude who takes up too much space on a train
― 乒乓, Saturday, 14 September 2013 17:07 (twelve years ago)
if there are empty seats you're gd right i am taking up two of them, taxpayer money paid for those seats and they will be used
― sing, all ye shitizens of slumerica (k3vin k.), Saturday, 14 September 2013 17:08 (twelve years ago)
ughh wide-stance sitting drives me insane
happens all the time to me at football games, assholes sitting with their legs splayed like they are waiting to be applauded for their huge dicks
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 September 2013 18:32 (twelve years ago)
i don't care abt empty seats but sitting right next to me & splaying yr legs is literally a dick move
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 September 2013 18:33 (twelve years ago)
^things that can only be said from the privileged position of not having a big dick xp
― sing, all ye shitizens of slumerica (k3vin k.), Saturday, 14 September 2013 18:35 (twelve years ago)
A very haughtily delivered 'close your legs' command takes them by such surprise that they actually close their fucking legs.
― aldi young dudes (suzy), Saturday, 14 September 2013 18:42 (twelve years ago)
Late to this, but ...
it just seems like rosin is arguing that feminists who speak out about gender inequality are just big irrational baby whiners who love to complain, and that any anger towards institutional sexism is overstated
Am I just missing the thing that makes it seem this way? I mean, from what I've read, it's certainly not the literal text of her argument -- usually, the core of what she's saying is that there have been these large and under-recognized shifts in employment, education, and family structure (especially among working-class women) that really complicate our old models of how this stuff works. Which, in an of itself, seems pretty evidence-backed and uncontroversial and actually really useful to a feminist project, just as a way of saying that some of the challenges are shifting, some women's needs are changing.
So I always find myself wondering how she's wound up discussed in such a super-contentious way -- obviously Slate's contrarian framing and headlines are a big part of it, but is there stuff she's actually written or said that's as aggressive as what comes back? Is there some sense that she's purposefully baiting or needling feminists and then hiding behind an innocent "but I only said this simple thing" facade? It just seems like whether or not people agree with it, the core idea she's trying to introduce into the conversation -- that facts on the ground for the average American women she studied no longer entirely match the way some people would frame those women's struggles -- shouldn't be such a flamey eye-rolling Rosin-versus-feminism argument.
Anyway, I'm mostly asking, here -- am I missing some really galling element of what she's doing? I grant that it's a little bit of a pose to be like "I wanted to convey that the 'patriarchy' was not a fixed monolith we could never get around but something shifting and changing and open to analysis AND THEN IRRATIONAL NUANCE-PHOBIC IDEOLOGUES YELLED AT ME FOR SAYING SOMETHING INNOCUOUS," but it's kind of a role other people have handed her just as much as she's adopted herself...
― ንፁህ አበበ (nabisco), Saturday, 14 September 2013 20:14 (twelve years ago)
(FTR I have not read her book, just lots of the ensuing discussion, so I am not being rhetorical when I say "did I miss something," I am very likely missing something)
― ንፁህ አበበ (nabisco), Saturday, 14 September 2013 20:27 (twelve years ago)
The Slate article is written by her though, and contains the line "In the real world it’s hard to find a young woman who spends her time scanning for sexist insults. But on the Web it’s a steady job."
― Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 14 September 2013 21:02 (twelve years ago)
Sexist insults just happen, unbidden, so it's not like women who note them are out looking around for them, on the web or off.
― aldi young dudes (suzy), Saturday, 14 September 2013 21:24 (twelve years ago)
if you have a tumblr collating instances of sexism/moderately wide leg stances i suppose you wld be on the look out for content somewhat. i think rosin is concerned w/ the way experiences are concentrated/filtered into rote forms (i.e. tumblr of male leg angles), & how the resultant taxonomy might shape ppl's subsequent experiences (becoming v aware of male leg angles)
― ogmor, Sunday, 15 September 2013 00:15 (twelve years ago)
But the reaction in my experience isn't "Oh I'll keep an eye out for that", it's "I recognise this, let me tell you about a dozen other examples I saw this week".
― Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 15 September 2013 00:26 (twelve years ago)
i don't think she's talking about individual conscious responses to those structures so much as their broader effect on discourse/ppl's collective mental architecture. as w/ discussions of patriarchy, individual instances are often ambiguous/weak but looking at them on the macro level you can do yr structural critique or w/e.
― ogmor, Sunday, 15 September 2013 00:41 (twelve years ago)
Ah come on now, at least stick a lick of paint on "I'd rather discuss theoretical responses than real ones". The quote above isn't talking about macro levels of critique - it's saying "These people (who exist) don't really".
― Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 15 September 2013 08:44 (twelve years ago)
I mean, the point is that no-one would describe themselves as "scanning" for sexist insults, but that's just question-begging in favour of the fucked worldview that you need to go out with the deerstalker and magnifying glass to track down the wily sexist.
― Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 15 September 2013 08:46 (twelve years ago)
i've not read to much substantial from her to feel very strongly about her, but, trollsome phrasing aside, pondering the effects & workings of structures that systematically/professionally dismantle the patriarchy for entertainment does not seem like 100% garbage. what i've seen of her's has been identifying things rather than analysis, but arguing about discourse and method is a healthy feminist staple, & there have been fairly pointed complaints raised about this recently cf. #solidarityisforwhitewomen
― ogmor, Sunday, 15 September 2013 12:24 (twelve years ago)
I'm kind of getting the impression you didn't read the article here? 'scanning' isn't just awkward phrasing - the last paragraph literally says "And you can, if you look hard enough, find some sexist bastard at a tech company or a hedge fund or a frat who says insulting things every day."
― Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 15 September 2013 12:45 (twelve years ago)
it's not awkward so much as indignant. i don't think reading her uncharitably is instructive
― ogmor, Sunday, 15 September 2013 14:37 (twelve years ago)
you can if you look or if you dont look really
― lag∞n, Sunday, 15 September 2013 14:37 (twelve years ago)
but who decides what counts as a squint, what's a glance? this is the real issue you are avoiding
― ogmor, Sunday, 15 September 2013 14:58 (twelve years ago)
i'm always squinting, that's my defense
― 乒乓, Sunday, 15 September 2013 15:01 (twelve years ago)
hey dyao when you've stopped making racist jokes could you let me know how far off i am in guess the city, cheers
― ogmor, Sunday, 15 September 2013 15:09 (twelve years ago)
you were misled by nakh, it's his fault really
― 乒乓, Sunday, 15 September 2013 15:11 (twelve years ago)
i'll never read his posts again
― ogmor, Sunday, 15 September 2013 15:23 (twelve years ago)
way to swear off ilx's most redeeming feature
― Mordy , Sunday, 15 September 2013 15:26 (twelve years ago)
that slate piece just seems to be about the old question of how you acknowledge and track the contours of progress while there is still work to be done with a side of eye rolling at the tumblrization of discourse
shes seems to be asking which patriarchy are we talking about the one from 1950 or is it different now what are its qualities
its def somewhat provocative but is prob highlighted by the classic set up of assuming youre talking to friends when no such mutual feeling exists on the other end of the conversation
― lag∞n, Sunday, 15 September 2013 16:51 (twelve years ago)
http://feministjosebautista.tumblr.com
― mookieproof, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 18:55 (twelve years ago)
A+
― druhilla (k3vin k.), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 18:57 (twelve years ago)
http://www.npr.org/blogs/13.7/2013/10/03/228809153/why-gorillas-arent-sexist-and-orangutans-dont-rape
― Mordy , Thursday, 3 October 2013 22:21 (twelve years ago)
according to this website i'm a fucking feminist. it seems a tad reductive to me tho?
http://www.amiafuckingfeminist.com
― Mordy , Wednesday, 13 November 2013 18:45 (twelve years ago)
^NO WAY SNA FOR PAY
― you can get fuckstab anywhere in london (wins), Wednesday, 13 November 2013 18:46 (twelve years ago)
http://theaerogram.com/surreal-media-reaction-today-show-marriage-proposal/
Thought this was interesting
― 乒乓, Monday, 18 November 2013 19:21 (twelve years ago)
http://www.salon.com/2013/11/20/in_defense_of_rape_fantasies/
― Mordy , Thursday, 21 November 2013 05:06 (twelve years ago)
no thanks
― ✓B (Matt P), Thursday, 21 November 2013 06:11 (twelve years ago)
dude
― flopson, Thursday, 21 November 2013 18:05 (twelve years ago)
that's kind of par for the course for the author, isn't it?
now if it were on slate, and by yglesias, THAT would be... something
― j., Friday, 22 November 2013 00:01 (twelve years ago)
by the same author: In defense of funeral selfies
― flopson, Friday, 22 November 2013 00:47 (twelve years ago)
Suddenly all the feminist rights advocates in my twitter are posting selfies as some sort of solidarity thing.
some of them are pretty cuet
― polyphonic, Friday, 22 November 2013 00:50 (twelve years ago)
― 乒乓, Monday, November 18, 2013 2:21 PM (3 days ago)
it's great and she is otm
― twist boat veterans for stability (k3vin k.), Friday, 22 November 2013 01:36 (twelve years ago)
it's sort of surprising that salon still exists.
― tɹi.ʃɪp (Treeship), Friday, 22 November 2013 04:54 (twelve years ago)
I've been too busy this week to think about this thread but I don't think I have a problem w the defense of rape fantasy, which the title makes sound way more sensational than the article actually is, iirc.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Friday, 22 November 2013 05:02 (twelve years ago)
http://www.irishtimes.com/news/science/it-s-true-male-and-female-brains-are-wired-differently-1.1615484
― mind totally brown (darraghmac), Tuesday, 3 December 2013 11:15 (twelve years ago)
yeah i read that, apparently the differences are so marked that you can see exactly whereabouts on Venus women come from
― Noodle Vague, Tuesday, 3 December 2013 11:17 (twelve years ago)
has to be v marked because you know how terrible women are at maps
― thighs without a face (c sharp major), Tuesday, 3 December 2013 11:18 (twelve years ago)
yeah but they can't help it because science
― Noodle Vague, Tuesday, 3 December 2013 11:20 (twelve years ago)
but seriously folks, and you'll excuse my science dilettantism because i'm a shallow person, i've seen no account of or connection to neuroplasticity in the reports on this research. doesn't current understanding of the way brains can rewire themselves indicate that brain function cd have just as much of a socially conditioned component as an evolutionary one?
― Noodle Vague, Tuesday, 3 December 2013 11:27 (twelve years ago)
tbh i didnt even bother reading it but nv was moaning that it was quiet and it was onscreen and..
― mind totally brown (darraghmac), Tuesday, 3 December 2013 11:28 (twelve years ago)