a girl you were talking with probably gave your username to her internet friends to judge
― 乒乓, Thursday, 22 August 2013 13:54 (ten years ago) link
that was my thought but still, it seems like a strange motley crew, esp for before 9am on a thursday?
― ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Thursday, 22 August 2013 13:56 (ten years ago) link
Maybe you got linked on a blog. Any fedora pics on your profile, gr8080?
― Vinnie, Thursday, 22 August 2013 14:12 (ten years ago) link
i actually do have one photo of me that i really like in which i am wearing what is technically a fedora and i considered putting it on my profile w/ a "oh no a fedora" caption but decided that was not a good idea
these dont really look like very bloggy people idk
― ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Thursday, 22 August 2013 14:22 (ten years ago) link
you made the right choice bro
― Nhex, Thursday, 22 August 2013 14:26 (ten years ago) link
i logged on once and had someone from south africa visiting my profile
― 乒乓, Thursday, 22 August 2013 14:36 (ten years ago) link
lol @ 'bloggy people'
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Thursday, 22 August 2013 14:39 (ten years ago) link
ive visted 99% matches from other states/countries out of curiosity but these are all like 60% and 40%ers
― ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Thursday, 22 August 2013 14:39 (ten years ago) link
probably some sort of weird bot harvesting thing
― 乒乓, Thursday, 22 August 2013 14:45 (ten years ago) link
"please be at least 5'10" and not a bot"
― ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Thursday, 22 August 2013 14:49 (ten years ago) link
robots.sxt
― oaiwfeowinf (seandalai), Thursday, 22 August 2013 15:13 (ten years ago) link
Oh boy you guys. I stumbled onto a real MRA/public shooter-style crackpot here.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:29 (ten years ago) link
whoa
― R'LIAH (goole), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:33 (ten years ago) link
He's...it's...he's obviously desperately unhappy, lonely, suffering, but it's got all the MRA/libertarian/misogynist/racist tropes, weird capitalization, quasi-military code phrases, some PUA language but he has expanded and internalized it.... This guy is Out There.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:39 (ten years ago) link
can you reveal his d/n somehow? i'm morbidly curious as always
― R'LIAH (goole), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:40 (ten years ago) link
(totally understand if not)
― R'LIAH (goole), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:41 (ten years ago) link
Yeah, I just don't want it to be trackable back to here? Goggleproofed d/n: Gir1D@teM3.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:42 (ten years ago) link
name alone is already an eye-opener
― R'LIAH (goole), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:43 (ten years ago) link
It is?
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:46 (ten years ago) link
wow. i'm 81% match, 71% friend, 22% enemy with this guy. maybe i need to rethink some things about myself.
― Clyde One DJ Diane “Knoxy” Knox-Campbell (Merdeyeux), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:47 (ten years ago) link
I know!!! I'm 84%!
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:48 (ten years ago) link
oh i'm not going to look at this guy w/ my real acct ;)
― R'LIAH (goole), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:48 (ten years ago) link
pro tip: you don't need to be logged in to see his acct
― 乒乓, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 15:50 (ten years ago) link
man this gets pretty heavy. mentions some other peoples' names.
fwiw his 'code' thing looks sui generis and unrelated to any pua systemization
― R'LIAH (goole), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 16:15 (ten years ago) link
Carpal's tunnel
This guy can converse on a really wide variety of topics
― mh, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 16:21 (ten years ago) link
someone hxxp that junk
― Nhex, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 16:23 (ten years ago) link
I don't know what that would involve. I think all the https are in the same format based on username, you should be able to put it together?
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 16:37 (ten years ago) link
It's okcupid.comm/name fyi.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 16:38 (ten years ago) link
okcupid.com/profile/name if you're not logged in
― mh, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 16:40 (ten years ago) link
I read through about two pages of that before realizing we were still in the first section.
― Vinnie, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 17:21 (ten years ago) link
Also I'm surprised there is seemingly no limit on profile size.
― Vinnie, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 17:22 (ten years ago) link
Yeah, I thought, well, at least know I know they really don't cut anyone off, ever.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 17:29 (ten years ago) link
Makes me want to start a profile and just paste a full novel in there, like "Catcher in the Rye" or something. I wonder what kind of messages it would get.
― Vinnie, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 17:36 (ten years ago) link
that guy is a real piece of work. when he got to the part about Islam I couldn't take any more
― Nhex, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 17:50 (ten years ago) link
To me, it kinda had the ring of the entries found online by that guy who walked into a gym in PA and shot a bunch of women.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 17:57 (ten years ago) link
It's obviously an MRA thing, but can anyone explain exactly what he means by "Code Delta one-liners which come my way in e-mail"?
― emil.y, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 19:25 (ten years ago) link
Also, io OTM about the gym shooter. I'm not sure "Delete this profile and I swear I'll depart this world with OKC to blame and make sure it hits the headlines. Most Unfavorably" is really about picking up women...
― emil.y, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 19:27 (ten years ago) link
i think it means he's categorized the responses he's gotten. which i'm surprised he's received enough to do.
― R'LIAH (goole), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 19:29 (ten years ago) link
i'm finding it hard to be entertained by this. seems really damaged and sad and, yeah, potentially dangerous
also a kind of sick leaves of grass kind of vibe where you know he's been adding and adding and adding to it
― R'LIAH (goole), Wednesday, 28 August 2013 19:30 (ten years ago) link
Oh, shit, just thought, I probably shouldn't c&p on here, just in case he's weird enough to google bits of his profile, right? Any mod want to erase that stuff?
xp yeah, I'm not feeling 'entertained', really, but this stuff does fascinate me in a morbid way.
― emil.y, Wednesday, 28 August 2013 19:33 (ten years ago) link
guys, the ladies will just swoon when you refer to them as "missy"
― rayuela, Friday, 30 August 2013 17:09 (ten years ago) link
Is there any moral burden to let someone know about...I don't know? Even if OKC was responsive and say, deleted his profile, that wouldn't affect his irl crazy and could even push him further.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Friday, 30 August 2013 17:23 (ten years ago) link
all i could think to do would be sending it to the local cops. but since it can't be tied to an individual it would be seen as very tenuous. "an unnamed/unseen person who may be in your area may be crazy."
― R'LIAH (goole), Friday, 30 August 2013 17:29 (ten years ago) link
yeah all okc has is an email address, an ip address, a zip code
― 乒乓, Friday, 30 August 2013 17:29 (ten years ago) link
Oh well fingers crossed then.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Friday, 30 August 2013 17:33 (ten years ago) link
I did a curious search and my #1 match on the whole of OkCupid has a soul patch and is currently at Burning Man. That's it, I'm outta here.
― Clyde One DJ Diane “Knoxy” Knox-Campbell (Merdeyeux), Saturday, 31 August 2013 03:04 (ten years ago) link
if you run that exact same search again it will prob give you a diff top result
― ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Saturday, 31 August 2013 19:37 (ten years ago) link
Does anyone else have a moderator tab? I have the luxury of deciding if images are appropriate. One of the first ones was a naked dude with a hairspray can obscuring his dick. I voted obscene.
― polyphonic, Saturday, 31 August 2013 19:40 (ten years ago) link
yes! I talked abt it upthread. I haven't used it in a while but it's a fun time killer.
― ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Saturday, 31 August 2013 19:51 (ten years ago) link
Met a 99% match tonight based on my new deleted/recreated profile. He actually was far too much like me for my own comfort, so that I sat there thinking 'shit, I have to stop doing [thing he's doing]' I'm going to see him again, though, because I liked him in the moments my brain wasn't screaming 'JINX!'
― ljubljana, Tuesday, 3 September 2013 03:20 (ten years ago) link