GIRLS talk (the Lena Dunham thread)

who among us has not put a q-tip through our eardrum though

I have never. I was scandalized.

ugh whenever I visited one of my friends in highschool, EVERY time her Mom would call out from the other room and then emerge at her bedroom door with a qtip sticking out of her ear saying 'it got stuck again', and my friend would have to lead her to the bathroom to help remove it. no idea why she kept doing it. she was a seemingly normal, sensible lady in every other aspect of life.

so gross

maybe it was her cute way of pulling her daughter aside to conduct a private conversation

'that vegemite grrl is bad news, find a way to make her leave'

seen this a few times, think it's not v good - pretty uninspiring characterisations, everything seeming to hail from the world of awkward selfobsessed cliche, no surprises, no poetry, no crushing insight

jenna marbles >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> lena dunham in the nupopfeminismcomedy stakes

Jenna Marbles would be funnier if her voice wasn't nails on a chalkboard

if the show was called boys and the actor who played adam directed it, no one would comment on this stuff in a negative way except extreme squares.

It's not my imagination that purposeful ugliness/'scandalizing' content is part of her message. "Here's some stuff you NEVER see women do on TV, here's some real life."

there is a huge gulf between 'here's some stuff you never see women do on tv' - a pretty broad category of stuff considering the until-now paper-thin definition of women on tv - & some kind of cynical or provocative calculation to blow people's minds wide open. you are talking about her adjusting a wedgie as part of a sequence about compulsive behaviour; it's not really front-&-centre shocking behaviour, it's just novel to have some level of plausible, gestural realism incorporated into portrayals of women. it pretty successfully maps onto how mundane it would be to see all male sitcom characters of the past twenty years a guy scratch his ass on tv. given how benign this kinda thing is, & how much it's a part of her mandate to get into texturally realer territory occupied by a certain strata of people in their twenties, it just seems ultra reductive & shortsighted to see it as provocation or some next wave of arbitrary taboo-busting.

ps imago watch more episodes of girls

to the benighted of this world, awkward selfobsessed cliche is their nearest approach to poetry. forgive them, imago, for they know not what they goggle at and guffaw over.

last ep & it's date nite chronicle of its roguish & enigmatic lead a pretty good example of absence of cliche/venture into surprising territory/p crushing insight

I also can't think of a show that's 'like' Girls in its content or cult of personality around the creator/star.

Schlump otm

Jenna Marbles?? Not very funny (maybe that was your point---to illustrate how unfunny you find Dunham) & not much of a feminist iirc (see: questions for sluts)

wtf is Jenna Marbles

youtube chick

lena dunham speaks for her generation, louie ck speaks for humanity

tbf, louis speaks for the generation in front of lena's

question that came to mind during some evidently v profound daydreaming - when a couple of weeks back Jessa said that her stepbrother had camel toe, was she referring to some male take on the standard version at work in his jorts, or is that a term used for centre-parted hair?

You obv weren't looking at his shorts

I thought camel toe was called moose knuckle for men.

cameltoe can still apply to a dude even if the description isn't anatomically 'accurate'.

100% his shorts

schlump otm

Saying you don't like this show is one thing, Imago, but saying it has 'no surprises' is just not the truth.

Hm. When I saw John Cameron Mitchell in this I thought "yay Hedwig", but then I realized there was a lot of common ground between his reclamation-of-body in "Shortbus" and what Dunham in doing in "Girls". I wonder if there's a connection there? I realize "Shortbus" isn't exactly a hugely popular film but the similarities in intent are pretty striking

I've only seen three or four episodes, maybe I keep miraculously missing the good ones. My wife likes it. I'm not against its existence but I do feel its extremely worthy message (that not enough cultural discourse is sculpted from a female perspective) could have ridden a more impressive vehicle, and could have more seamlessly inhabited its world without resorting to writ-large power-relationships. Jane Austen it ain't, but I could yet be convinced of its excellence, or rather its importance. To be really transgressive it would need to have more to it than its own message - its own big-capital-letters GIRLS, the whole point neatly encapsulated and barely elaborated-upon. It's too simple, in other words, from what I've seen. Too reductive.

I guess transgression isn't the point - it's designed as meat-and-drink TV fare but with a female twist - and that's fair, because not enough meat-and-drink TV has been female in perspective - and the fact that popular meat-and-drink TV is female-written is in itself a minor transgression of sorts - but it's a transgression within a carefully-controlled cultural paradigm (popular TV) whose grasp of ambiguity usually extends about as far as a way-overplayed cops-against-drug-dealers narrative and doesn't take into account the multiplicity and unpredictability of the world it seeks to reduce.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that Lena Dunham could drop so many bombs right now from her elevated position, but she's still making a formulaic TV show. The episode I saw most recently? Peeing in public is embarrassing (sheesh)! Vagrant British dad is an arty flake (ooh)! Hippies with dead rabbits and their silly bumpkin ways (eww)! Slow virgin kid is bad at sex and mega-awkward (awkward)! I mean come ooooonnnnnnn, show me the fucking cosmos

You should watch more episodes, that particular episode was one of two so far that deliberately contrast the normal pace of the show with something bucolic

certainly, you seem to have developed a quite elaborate take on it that would be unrecognisable to anyone who watches regularly.

ok well next time I'll watch along. open to it improving. so far, feels like an opportunity somewhat spurned.

Vagrant British dad

FP'd you for this

Lol this whole thread was saying the same thing when we'd all only watched 3 or 4 episodes

guy rapes girlfriend (ooh!)

wanna cozy up by the fire this weekend. catch up with Girls and listen to the new Vampire Weekend album. starting to worry about young white people and their -- my -- future.

Lena Dunham could drop so many bombs right now from her elevated position, but she's still making a formulaic TV show.

Curious about this particular claim - what do you mean there?

actual bombs. she has been stockpiling missiles

and shes standing on top of a tall thing

at any moment, the entire New York City...

~gone~

So this finale.
What a horrible fucking cop out. Each of the Girls defined by their relationship to men in their lives, each of them saved by a man or by losing a man so they can find the right man.
I enjoyed the colin quinn cameo. the other shit was terrible and, excepting a few choice one-liners (the black soul bit comes to mind), smelled strongly of apatow-mind.

i've never had an advance and then been bothered by a publisher for pages or been at a publisher and chased an author for pages, but i can't imagine that's how it works?

re. forksclovetofu: it's true that none of the women in the show ended on a strong note, but that seems to be in line with the darker tone the show has taken toward the end of this season. the creepy regressiveness of hannah allowing herself to be cast in the damsel-in-distress role to adam's hero fantasy seemed apparent when seen alongside what happened at the end of last week's episode. to be "saved" by adam -- whose discomfort with strong, direct women can shade, as we saw, easily into rage -- could be a new low-point for hannah. we will see what happens next season.

what i mean to say is that i don't think this is an episode where things were "resolved" for anyone, and in that sense it doesn't strike me as particularly apatowian.

one of the worst episodes of the season for sure

pat: i'd buy that more if the end montage + adam running shirtless through the streets and kicking down her door wasn't accompanied by shiny happy music and if the last scene wasn't him saying without irony "i've been here all along"
i can see how this ep can be rationalized but i can't see how you'd think the intent was to continue that "darker tone"; seems pretty much calculated to leave em wantin more in a s+thecity way than "uh oh, hannah's in the bad man's arms"

The shiny happy cinematic-sounding music ruined the episode. It's almost as if they filmed everything and at the last minute decided they needed to abruptly shift the tone of all these resolutions and used to the score to do so. The Charlie/Marnie and Hannah/Adam scenes, especially, could easily have been portrayed as the bad decisions they really are but then those sweeping strings or whatever come in and it's all smiles.

i think the music at the end reflects how the characters feel at that moment. but ecstatic feelings of redemption, while intoxicating, don't (usually? ever?) last. i'm not sure to what extent we are supposed to look to the score for clues at how to *interpret* the scene. obviously, adam and hannah both need each other, or feel they do, in that moment, but it's obvious that a relationship between the two of them would eventually turn into a disaster. i don't know. neither hannah or marnie seem to be in a position, at this point in their character arcs, for a happy ending and i think the show *knows* that.

like, it seemed clear to me that the show ended on a false high that leaves the viewer feeling empty. that was so pronounced, to me, that it seems to be a deliberate effect... especially after last week's episode, which reminded me of nothing more than michael haneke's film "the piano teacher."

yeah it does make you suspect that this is a setup to open the next season in the aftermath of all this working out terribly.

eh, the ending was pretty cliched, but maybe Adam and Hannah are more equipped to deal with/compliment each other's imperfections/complexes than most people... at least for the time being?

I actually appreciate how this show accepts everybody's imperfections, rather than glorifying or demonizing one or the other to be more overtly politically didactic/gratifying. which would neither necessarily be better art, nor more realistic anyways

be all that as it may, it's the season end. this IS their happy ending and it's unearned, false and disingenuous to the viewer imo.
this season's highs weren't negated by the lows but it's disappointing to me that when the show engages in continuity moving it tends to do so to the detriment of its more interesting and experimental aims

but i think a hollow happy ending, that may feel genuine to the characters themselves, and ultimately reflects their eagerness to allow their lives to fall into a more recognizable shape (a love narrative) to ward off the rootlessness and confusion they actually feel, is totally in line with the show's more experimental aims. i also think that one can still accept the characters' imperfections, including adam's, while also recognizing that the answer for hannah and adam is not as easy as them merely allowing themselves to come back together.