Babygirl, unpack yr sweaters and get FABULOUS in FALL gay homo queer &c 2012

(p.s. NYC folks - I might come to your city again in early January. I was supposed to spend my three weeks off classes in small town Quebec/the woods with the ex and his family and sitting around my apartment while friends are all home is almost as depressing as spending the whole time in Ottawa with the family, so if I can wiggle the budget I'll try to visit. This time the lack of boy means I'll actually be available for drinks. Keep you posted)

I can't (and don't want to) invest more energy into his mental space/stability/etc. than my own anymore.

i feel like this is a very important lesson, in general, for life.

alfred, fantastic!

hi qiqing!

I don't feel the urge to talk about it much atm, and I don't really want to say much to my parents until I've found someone I want to introduce to them. That's not really a prerequisite, though. P sure they've figured out what's happening

this is exactly what i did/thought... turned out okay

I though Waiting For The Right Time and Waiting For The Right Guy meant unnecessary tension, so when I saw my chance I took it, but I'm loath to give advice on this very point: only you know your parents.

Hi qiqing!!

I love doing "Waterfalls" at karaoke but I only ever want to do the rap part.

Welcome, qiqing!

Hi, guys! Yes, Alex, I'm new here, but as I noted upthread, I've been lurking for some time.

hi there!

qiqing's arrival reminds me that i've been here almost exactly 3 yrs now

And you still feel like one of the newbies on these threads.

indeed

where has my life gone ;_;

Big zit on my forehead and I'm not feeling very gay about it, even by my own standards.

qiqing, you can only contribute if you post at least one photo.

Shirtless.

Especially if you're a chick.

let's have a qiqi!

loooool

BOOTS! 10! QUEEN!

Are we doing shirtless winter pics?

long johns

Lol, nice try, Alfred.

not until i find a camera that flatters my recently-formed gut xps

we should have a winter gut pic thread

SORREE SKINNEES

Lol, nice try, Alfred.l

"try"?

I am all for gut pics.

I'm not especially for or against gut pics, but I can certainly fill that requirement these days.

bellydancing pics or gtfo

sodomite heal thyself

I already posted (part of) my gut upthread; it's y'alls turn now.

Stevie is that Boots ref from Paris is Burning? I just had a look at the drag realness clip on youtube but it's not on there and it's bugging me

No, it's a lyric from "Let's Have A Kiki". Though I have been using "SHAKE THE DICE AND STEAL THE RICE" quite a bit recently.

Oh, ha, I'm unfamiliar with that Scissor Sisters song. Love "shake the dice and steal the rice". How many phrases did that guy coin?

I thought that line was stolen from The Deer Hunter.

xp like 4500

My friend got me a "BUTCH QUEEN FIRST TIME IN DRAG" all-over word shirt which I am in love with (but slightly annoyed that they used Helvetica instead of Franklin Gothic)

thank God I rewatched 3 months ago, my brain heavily erases every year

I don't remember any kikis is The Deer Hunter.

yo fuck every employee at every sex shop who ever told me silicone lube doesn't stain.

wut, i thought silicone's staining properties were well-known

Hi qiqing!

Yeah, I always thought it stained! But I kept asking people and everyone kept telling me that it shouldn't stain. But it does.

And I'm using a hybrid water/silicone one too

Boo silicone lube anyway. Try Boy Butter or Str8cam (I think it is called) lube.

so apparently spicy food doesn't agree with my medical regimen this week. I'll be goddamned if i'm going to eat kale 3-4x a week.

I always use Maximus but it's hard to find in Philly in small bottles. Morbs, kale smoothies are easy and delicious.

Yeah, I always thought it stained! But I kept asking people and everyone kept telling me that it shouldn't stain. But it does.

― goya cézanne (Stevie D(eux)), Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:11 AM (22 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

And I'm using a hybrid water/silicone one too

― goya cézanne (Stevie D(eux)), Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:12 AM (22 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Boo silicone lube anyway. Try Boy Butter or Str8cam (I think it is called) lube.

― Room 227 (cryptosicko), Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:17 AM (17 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

so apparently spicy food doesn't agree with my medical regimen this week. I'll be goddamned if i'm going to eat kale 3-4x a week.

― saltwater incursion (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, November 28, 2012 10:30 AM

Saul Bellow couldn't have come up with segues this precise.

One of the good inks about being in a long term relationship: you can buy lube in Costo-like proportions.

Middle-aged faggotry: Lube out, Immodium in.