Babygirl, unpack yr sweaters and get FABULOUS in FALL gay homo queer &c 2012

cool video jed!
you're welcome to go dancing when in toronto, i know a place or two

wondering what to do tonight . . . .

so goon tie is 0w£n P? then we have friends in common or, at least, acquaintances.

and thanks ;)

I can neither confirm nor deny that, but follow your heart

What acquaintances, btw?

a mad glaswegian girl called Sarah and her ex, Brendan, who is a painter and currently in Montreal and kinds of friends of theirs too.

speaking of exes, is it possible to be friends with an ex fling that was half really fun and half awkward ?

surm, those are the only gay frienda i have, pretty much. so, yes!

!!!!!!!! ok

I can confirm that jed is a consistently brilliant dancer

and that we have never had an awkward fling :)

ok i just texted him, let's see what the result

i rly just want to go out, i'm not trying to have sexy times with him

Another yes vote to surm

ok he texted back saying he was considering going to this party that i was considering going to. i think i did the right thing reaching out. thanks fellas, i needed the motivation

Yes, less close since B moved away but total buddies! xp

i miss B!

thirding jed's supreme dance skillz which i witnessed at sub club :)

so i haven't been out in a while and i haven't really flirted with anyone in a while and i have the house to myself tonight and

i don't know what to do

there is a "spank" party in brooklyn but it's like, i'm not sure who would go with me and i don't really know if you go to a queer hipster party by yourself? especially if you have to transfer trains to get to bushwick to go? can someone pls advise? thanks.

id be going to the silent film at the Harvey Theater if i wasnt ailin' but thats just me.

i am spending the night writing about marxism. i haven't "gone out" in so long that it feels like an alien concept.

Going to queer hipster parties by yourself always seems like a good idea until you get there and everyone is already talking to someone else and no one wants to talk to you and you leave alone and feeling totally crummy.

How soon is now?

Hipster parties in Ft Myers?!?

so you go and you stand on your own and you leave on your own and you go home and you cry and you want to diiiiie

Hipster parties in Ft Myers?!?

Hah, I'm sure there would be like 3 people in attendance at one of these.

Clouds remember the time we Went Out and hit like 4 bars in one night and stuff?

guys guys guys I've been carrying this albatross of an academic book manuscript around my neck for the past, uh, thirteen years (seven years as a dissertation and then six years editing / revising / finding a publisher etc.). And just tonight I hit send on the final revised manuscript. It comes out in March from Fordham University Press. I've literally had this project hanging over my head for like a decade and now, aside from final galley proof checking, it's . . . done.

congrats

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNtTEibFvlQ

congrats, dr3w!!!! that is very exciting!

i spent the night going to a good old-fashioned house party the likes of which i didn't think my social circles did anymore, having instead decided to do dancing and clubs and afterparties forever and it was lovely and filled with lots of rap and lots of drinks and lots of good conversation,

but also i have the biggest crush on the (gay) brother of a good (bi, but more into dudes) friend of mine. which like, i have had this crush for a few years, but said brother wasn't single until recently and is now theoretically available and is totally charming and smart and interesting and i spent most of the night talking to him instead of my friends and being fairly obvious and what is the etiquette for this sort of thing. argh. sigh.

trying to make something happen is maybe just a terrible idea? but crushes are fun.

this insanely cute guy I see around came in while I was djing tonight and I totally failed at making conversation with him :/

whoa dd, that is one mighty long-term albatross. Would gladly go over the galleys instead of med articles....

I read about 80 pages of Team of Rivals and watched my friend assemble the new tempurpedic chair I'm sitting in; that was my Shut-In Saturday.

stevie, indeed! we should do it again (iow, come to chicago :D)

dr3w — that is pretty amazing. what is the subject (if you can say what it is without this thread being the first google result)?

congratulations!!!!!!!! can't pay for a feeling like that

I love when my pee smells like asparagus.

congratz dr3w!

Whoa drew!!! Mad high fives, buddy

holy shit that is awesome, dr3w

there's no cover posted, but here's the quick n dirty guide to my tome:

http://www.amazon.com/The-Melancholy-Assemblage-Epistemology-Renaissance/dp/0823251284

no black metal no credibility

wait for the sequel.

great news, Drew. Well done.

looks brilliant; will probably buy as soon as i can get some cash.

thanks y'all. Stevie the book's epilogue has a reading of Striborg's music / "depressive black metal" (paired with a long reading of Lars von Trier's "Melancholia")

I stand corrected (and impressed)

congrats, dr3w!

awesome dr3w!!

i started reading heather love's 'feeling backward' recently so been thinkin bout affect lately (the bad kind especially) (also good book for the marriage skeptics among our ranks)

drew, i am excited to read that book. my friend lis4 r0bertson is actually researching melancholy right now at the Warburg in London. she'd probably be totally excited about yr book.

I mostly think about affect when I hear the Ramones' "I'm Affected."

tru confession, donna: h3ather lov3 is my ex-girlfriend- we went out in highschool!