Babygirl, unpack yr sweaters and get FABULOUS in FALL gay homo queer &c 2012

No don't do that.

don't do it.

Do it!

No wait. I mean, don't do it!

hah I need to start a journal because now that I wrote that (for the world to see, too bad) I feel a bit better. I always had this problem where you take all your time to pick the smartest and most attractive kid in the room to become your best / usually only friend, but being sooo repressed I never ever realized what was I actually doing, this stuff still confuses me a lot.

Wonderfully brave and heartfelt in theory, probably inadvisable in practice.

he's probably a touch flattered tbh i wouldn't sweat it, so long as there were no tears and/or gropes

I have taken the "Well, any chance you are interested?" leap once w/ no damage, but this was with perhaps the most pansexual person I have ever met.

fuck. ph1l just had an insane conniption fit and threw ~50 papers of my notes around the room.

i wasn't the target of the rage but i'm fucking shaken right now.

probably should not post about it here, just feel like i have to tell someone

i just hope it blows over by tonight, but i suspect it won't.

:(

So, I'm trying not to get too nonplussed from seeing the OKC profile of someone I've admired at a distance at the climbing gym.

right, last time i talk about irl problems with strangers on the internet

out of here.

Is that out of character / has he done this sort of thing before? Shit, I wish you lived close enough that I could invite you over for a cup of green tea :(

if it makes you feel any better, clouds, I just told some clients who are trying to fuck with me to kiss my pepsi

actually I told them that yesterday, I lied. today I e-mailed the person in charge of typesetting and offered him a night out if he'd spell their names wrong

clouds wtf

go easy yall. yeah, i wdnt go here expecting instant advice.

oh, I wasn't trying to josh, did that come off wrong?

Me, I'm in some annoying contract re-negotiations, having done all this work in good faith, I'm trying to keep my head down and not make a call + lay down the law. While debating a really niggling issue, like tiny potatoes, I wrote "if you're ~that~ concerned about your investors' interests, maybe your office could have a car wash? Or a bake sale?" and my lawyer laughed politely and then asked me to leave the discussion.

Now I'm distracting myself by thinking about The Hottest Man I've Ever Met. Do you have one? Some place in Texas I ended up at a bar where I met a 220 lb 6'5" actual cowboy, who looked early-30s but was certainly no older than 25, who had this incredibly gentle handshake and was tolerant of our party and never let his smile slip even for a moment when I quiveringly asked to have my photo taken with him.

Wait, where is that photo?

this tall handsome mid-30s salt-and-pepper athletic married utah dad i got to blow off a river trail. never saw him again, needless to say.

clouds idk what to say without more details / context. good thoughts etc.

xp technically i did see him online a year or so later, i even sent him some stupid message that nothing came of. much better as a one-off.

xp uh story please

lol there's this bear model guy who's friends with a friend of mine that i see out sometimes and each time i do, every single element of the word forming process from my brain to mouth gets completely shut down.

I'd have to re-check my list but the ones that immediately spring to mind are a) barrel-chested EMT/firefighter I stayed with in upstate WA b) this really hot artist-y dude in East Village c) an old fbw in Philly who's a dead ringer for James Mercer and is also the hairiest person I have ever seen in my life

James Mercer btw:

http://www.spin.com/sites/all/files/styles/style620_413/public/120222-james-mercer.png

i...have to think about this

there was a guy on grindr who i exchanged a series of sexy messages with, and then the next day he forgot who i was. we actually did hang out a few weeks later but nothing came of it. but wow he was crazy hot. feel like everything i just said is kinda sad tho and i should think of a more organic example.

xp i have my block-a-mercer plug-in turned on, one sec

oh ok, cute

wait are we talking abt hottest ppl we've fucked or just hottest ppl?

i construed it as "hottest we've met but didn't met mess around with." that's just me, tho.

Hottest people we've met. Handshake required. Beyond that is bonus points

i don't meet many people

sorry guys, i overreacted. things are fine atm, but i was genuinely scared for a bit.

backstory: ph1l stayed up all night working on notes for a test, which then got erased from the program suddenly crashing, and which then wouldn't print after being re-typed. proceeded to throw shit around the room, including the notes for my research paper.

was mostly feeling that it was somehow my fault (this is a common thing for me — if someone i am close to is angry/upset i feel i am in part to blame) and also afraid that he would do something regrettable. everything's cooled down though.

he's also been sleeping a lot, like 14 hours a day, so the possibility of that being a symptom of depression also played into my worries. also, i am pretty much always depressed. we're depressed people. sad sad sad.

:(

hugs, cloudy

oof lots of support at you clouds

likewise, clouds. Hence my Facebook sup.

i thought so. thanks y'all. i'll be fine.

Just out of curiosity, c, are you at least part if not all Scandinavian?

INSANE INSANE RAD FAERIE MOMENT HOLY CRAP

haha, not at all E — afaik i am mostly scot-irish (lots of ppl w/ my last name in my hometown) and german

what happened stevie?

It was just a guess.

<3

Stevie posting during tantric massage?

divine revelation of the bearded goddess?

We were sitting around and one of the faeries was talking about a tattoo she wanted to get and my friend was like "Oh you should talk to Ash about doing it" and it turns out he is referring to/0friends with this guy I had a super intense one-night thing with like two years ago and haven't talked to since (mentioned upthread as b) this really hot artist-y dude in East Village). It was very surreal.

Also at one point 3 of us got naked and had crazy sex together and then passed out naked. Yay faeries!

could you guys plz stop having sex until I can locate a treatable-cancer-fetishist on craigslist?