Should I go fishing or get a friend to hang around? Celebrated GAY Summer 2012

"Presents" is such a fantastic name

btw, now open in NY, LA, and somewhere in Fla, I think. Much more up my alley than last year's Weekend.

http://filmcomment.com/article/keep-the-lights-on-ira-sachs

Oh ya a buddy of mine worked on that, it's supposed to be really good

I've seen mixed, but was on 40 Shades of Blue's side, so I'm hopeful. On paper, Weekend seems more my taste.

yeah, i'm excited to see that

40 Shades of Blue was...Rip Torn as the musician, right? If so, thought it was just OK. Did like Married Life, though. Will see this new one eventually.

Also, lol @ Ham Lushbaugh

getting take out for the third night in a row

so hey long time

HI

hi judith

eeeeeyyyy

i'm getting spring rolls, pineapple fried rice, green curry w/ tofu. you guys want some

yes

it is 95 degrees in my apartment right now uuuruguhghrghljngldfg

im in post post grad limbo guys. who am i what am it. i need to like buy a suit i think.

im going this direction:

http://media.topman.com/wcsstore/TopMan/images/catalog/ECMC_BUNDLE_100005109_large.jpg

i don't want to look like a hungover air hostess though

id say how are you but i've lurked

oh my GOD judoth you're just, like, so unpreDICTable!!! *squeal* *cough* *gag*

a couple of weeks ago for some reason I ended up watching this vid and thought man, this is exactly what I would wear if I were a phil professor (first seven minutes sans accessories)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=br0Ap9EkB9c&feature=related

suits are great. i say this as someone who almost never has to wear one. but i bought myself a light casual blazer that'll be good for summer this week (as we head into autumn, obv). it'll go well with chinos

http://static.massimodutti.net/3/photos/2012/I/0/2/p/2021/259/400/2021259400_2_1_6.jpg?timestamp=1344929061551

i went to a gay club tonight that actually had cute guys. alas, i didn't dance with one. they did play young jeezy tho.

god the idea of a gay club where they play young jeezy is so sadly removed from my experiences, can't imagine it

yeah the DJs at this club play rap in their sets, it's kinda nice. i mean this was closer to a mashup than straight jeezy but still, jeezy's voice in a gay club!

also they played "pull over" !!

<3 <3

(as we head into autumn, obv).

ha ha ha ha haaaaaa ha ha haaaaaaaa

i have def. heard young jeezy played in gay clubs in london

what club, j?

guh

how do you ask your monogamous partner you want to sleep with other people without absolutely ruining everything?

u_u

if you find out, let the rest of us know

i don't know but i feel you xp lol

jeez u guys are secretly me, only you bother w/ the partner thingy

(ok, me 15-20 years ago)

I went to a party where Tabes djed and the guy who came on after him was playing just the most amazing shit that I got so sweaty to and went home with this total sweetheart of a guy who may be more than just a one-night stand. The end.

:D

how do you ask your monogamous partner you want to sleep with other people without absolutely ruining everything?

u_u

― Džeijn Osten (clouds), Saturday, September 15, 2012 5:23 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

delicately? when we had the convo it helped that we both wanted to, but i'd say the most important thing to avoid ruining everything is to make sure it's clear that if they're not comfortable with it, you won't and that that's ok. (unless it's not, in whih case you have a bigger problem) they need to be the kind of person who won't get mad at you for having the discussion at all (i.e. rational) but yeah. i mean, you need to be willing to take things at their pace, if they're less ok with it than you are, and they need to not get their back up.

stress why you want to? make it clear that you're not less into them? i dunno. float it as an idea to think about instead of a demand?

idk i imagine that there might be more factors. your social landscape, how the vicious cycle of partnering around you already allows for that kind of setup, that is to what extent this might already be prefigured as a rational proposal. that said, i couldnt see myself getting past any sort of initial stage where that assumption wasn't already implicitly at work, this was directly led to the implosion of something this summer that i increasingly wish hadn't imploded. kindof a shame.

I am learning Traktor; it is very fun; I am going to call myself DJ Mrs. Party

I give that DJ name a solid 7.5/10

how do you ask your monogamous partner you want to sleep with other people without absolutely ruining everything?

Not wanting to sleep with other people would be a good start.

clouds you could try the "ooh go make out with THAT guy" trick, give your partner a free pass for a make-out. Maybe he'll return in kind?

rev, alex, lex (etc):

saw brenamr tonight, he was pretty incredible.

good advice alex, o and t. eric — not gonna happen.

he's brought up the idea of us having a threesome before, so if that can happen maybe that'll open some doors.

Kinda gotta love this guy: http://www.towleroad.com/2012/09/rupert-everett-is-against-gay-parenthood.html

xxp I still haven't seen him! Me and a couple others made plans to see him a few months back and then he canceled his Seattle date. :/

I still take oaths upon his Fader mix tho.

i am very pro-brenmar

yeah he was great. played bass & dancehall stuff, some dancier r&b also dropped mega rap tracks (danger, oh boy, what happened to that boy, my neck my back, put it on me, we fly high, same damn time, big pimpin etc)

one of the best musical moments i've experienced at a house party was having "my neck my back" played back to back

my neck my back and what?

my neck my back my neck my back back to back

my neck my back and what?

― twinkin' and drinkin' and ready to fly (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, September 16, 2012 2:55 PM Bookmark

and my neck my back, again.