Leave it alone. Most of us have been there.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 July 2012 12:14 (thirteen years ago)
can we put that to a vote?
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 July 2012 13:53 (thirteen years ago)
i'd say something... explaining mostly what you said here. most of us have been there tho.
― buzzafeed (J0rdan S.), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:16 (thirteen years ago)
clouds, it depends on your intimacy with this guy. If you're good bros, you may not need to say anything since he will have already figured out that this was a misadventure.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:19 (thirteen years ago)
i would feel it out. sometimes not saying something can be much more effective. see how things feel, you'll be able to tell. the hardest part is patience, you want to know right now if things are ok but you can't, and jumping to the conclusion of saying something might make things worse.
― surm, Monday, 30 July 2012 14:39 (thirteen years ago)
... not that i've had any experience in this arena or anything
― surm, Monday, 30 July 2012 14:40 (thirteen years ago)
Yes. You'll know if Things Are Weird the next time you hang.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:40 (thirteen years ago)
One out of four of my friends has been drunk-dialed or drunk-groped over the last fifteen years; haven't lost one friend yet (I also haven't done it in quite a while).
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:42 (thirteen years ago)
i asked him if he wants to have a movie day next weekend and mentioned in passing "i hope i haven't weirded you out". we'll see how it goes.
― clouds, Monday, 30 July 2012 20:57 (thirteen years ago)
having my bf present would assuage any potential awkwardness, maybe
― clouds, Monday, 30 July 2012 20:58 (thirteen years ago)
One out of four of my friends has been drunk-dialed or drunk-groped over the last fifteen years
This just makes me wonder if you've had 400 friends.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 July 2012 21:00 (thirteen years ago)
he shd rly be able to deal with something as innocuous as what you said happened, it's fairly 101
― surm, Monday, 30 July 2012 21:02 (thirteen years ago)
so should i go see the Fred Halsted '70s pr0n they're showing @ the Eastern Bloc bar tnite?
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 July 2012 21:04 (thirteen years ago)
i don't know what it is about that place but i don't hate it
― surm, Monday, 30 July 2012 21:21 (thirteen years ago)
if the film in qn is "la plays itself" then YES
― moesha my reflection (donna rouge), Monday, 30 July 2012 21:29 (thirteen years ago)
Every time I talk abt "Los Angeles Plays Itself" my b thinks I'm talking abt "LA Plays Itself"
― the mandy moorhols (Stevie D(eux)), Monday, 30 July 2012 21:53 (thirteen years ago)
#artfagproblems
― moesha my reflection (donna rouge), Monday, 30 July 2012 22:01 (thirteen years ago)
^^^ better Miguel album title
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 July 2012 22:04 (thirteen years ago)
I have seen the first but prob just clips of the latter
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 July 2012 22:04 (thirteen years ago)
Alfred on fire today
― The Reverend, Monday, 30 July 2012 23:36 (thirteen years ago)
lol
I am listening to ambient
― surm, Tuesday, 31 July 2012 14:47 (thirteen years ago)
compensating for no cock since late May.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 31 July 2012 14:53 (thirteen years ago)
o snap
― surm, Tuesday, 31 July 2012 16:42 (thirteen years ago)
answering Rev, of course
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 31 July 2012 17:40 (thirteen years ago)
surm what are you listening to?
It just occurred to me that I am turning 25 in like a week; I feel like I should be wigging out and feeling inadequate but all I feel is contentment w/ all the shit I've managed to do in life so far
― the mandy moorhols (Stevie D(eux)), Tuesday, 31 July 2012 19:08 (thirteen years ago)
some ochre shit
― surm, Tuesday, 31 July 2012 19:10 (thirteen years ago)
I am green with envy, SD, or maybe that's my lunch.
I am turning 25 in like a week; I feel like I should be wigging out
also, go to hell! xoxo
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 July 2012 19:17 (thirteen years ago)
Happy birthday Stevie D + just you wait 'til your body and mind start falling apart at 26/27
― Ówen P., Tuesday, 31 July 2012 22:15 (thirteen years ago)
happy bday, young man
― REV LION (The Reverend), Tuesday, 31 July 2012 22:52 (thirteen years ago)
i've been 25 for almost a year, it's nbd
― clouds, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 12:34 (thirteen years ago)
i've been twenty five for four years and i'm ready to move on to the next level
― surm, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 14:30 (thirteen years ago)
21?
― Eric H., Wednesday, 1 August 2012 14:40 (thirteen years ago)
yeah
― surm, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 14:41 (thirteen years ago)
This will be the twelfth anniversary of my twenty-fifth birthday.
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 14:44 (thirteen years ago)
Just celebrated my 8th.
― Eric H., Wednesday, 1 August 2012 14:45 (thirteen years ago)
i refuse to commemorate my 25th birthday (that year sucked), but i AM turning 28 in a little over a month
― moesha my reflection (donna rouge), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 15:04 (thirteen years ago)
guys i'm just barely 30 and it's much better than most of my 20s so far
― real men have been preparing manly dishes for centuries (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:12 (thirteen years ago)
That's what I've thought in general, too. Though there have been some mortifying moments.
― Eric H., Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:17 (thirteen years ago)
Yeah, so far I've been liking my 30s way better than I liked my 20s, but I mostly blame myself for being a neuortic mess during those years, not the age itself.
― to welcome jer.fairall, pie is served. (jer.fairall), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:22 (thirteen years ago)
i think most people say that. i hope it's true.
― surm, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:25 (thirteen years ago)
― to welcome jer.fairall, pie is served. (jer.fairall), Wednesday, August 1, 2012 12:22 PM (3 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
^^^ I, neurotic mess, anticipate saying this in ten years or so.
― twinkin' and drinkin' and ready to fly (Alex in Montreal), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:26 (thirteen years ago)
are there ppl who aren't neurotic messes
― surm, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:27 (thirteen years ago)
People in their 30s.
― Eric H., Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:30 (thirteen years ago)
oh right
― surm, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:30 (thirteen years ago)
The ONLY good thing about being [my age] is giving less of a shit about unimportant stuff.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:31 (thirteen years ago)
ffs that can't be the only thing morbz, why don't we all just kill ourselves at 40 then
― surm, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:32 (thirteen years ago)
It matters believe me! I no longer need to own every Ophuls film on DVD, fer instance
― a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:33 (thirteen years ago)
surm, it's actually worth it just to live for that alone.
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:35 (thirteen years ago)
I'm not saying there aren't other good things -- but they all get more difficult.
well that's fucked. guess i'll just buy more drugs.
― surm, Wednesday, 1 August 2012 16:38 (thirteen years ago)