Should I go fishing or get a friend to hang around? Celebrated GAY Summer 2012

Stevie: no, that was my first time seeing him, but I've crossed paths with him several times since. btw, check your facebook.

Right but you said you kept seeing him places

yeah, my point was just that that was after our initial encounter with him, not before

OH wait I misread your post as "that was my first time MEETING him" nvm

also whoa re: fb

Though yall could use some new summer duds: http://grindr.com/gear

Stevie and I joint messaging guys rite now on the apps #21stcenturyromance

whoa! so many new people. scottfree = stevie's guy?

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btwfyi: I am Lily Tomlin in 9 to 5, angrily removing my kimono-inspired housecoat to don a perfectly tailored blazer + pin to match my earrings/lipcolor/nails.

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ME

donna I spotted this in a local airbrush shop btw

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so it's on the way? priority mail?

they played this at the bar last night

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOmo5m6I738

i love it

which bar is the bar for surm?

"nowhere bar"

th30 and i wrestle quite a bit, but mostly it involves him putting me in headlocks or bodylocks and then forcing me into submission. that's the way i like it.

surm, dammit, it was Fire in the Hole last night and I forgot about it!

huh. one of my exes and i used to playfight every now and again but it never developed into like, headlocks or anything where you need to actually know a move

yeah, this involved headlocks etc. which i am unfamiliar with. it was complicated.

i think of playfighting as one of those things hetero men do that i just do not get at all (and every girl i know is as equally baffled by it)

it just kind of...happened. like we'd be trading mild zings and then the next thing you know...

can't really see myself doing that with current bf tho

I love to playfight

surm, dammit, it was Fire in the Hole last night and I forgot about it!

― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Friday, 27 July 2012 21:17 (Yesterday) Permalink

uh yeah and nobody told me it was fire in the hole and next thing you know this guy is eating the gogo dancer out right next to me and i was liiike what is this 1997

also i emailed the guy i was thinking of, being all ohh i'm sorry i'm awkward, and it was this like perfect email

but then the next morning i couldn't find it in my Sent mail and i panicked and sent it again, and then realized that it had actually been sent the first time just moved to the trash for some reason (the reason being vodka i think), so i sent him a text being like umm ignore me, and now i'm never going to check my phone or email again bc i'm even more awkward than i ever thought it turns out

ignorance is fuckin bliss y'all

oh, ANCIENT days of 1997... I wish it was, I'd have a cheap apt in Park Slope and not be crepuscular. xp

playfighting with heteromen is a blast. Also, punching much simpler than wrestling.

Well I am going to finish watching this lousy Summer of Sam, then off to the library and Marclay's The Clock if the line is less than 2 hours.

Someone who is crepuscular should probably not spend their time watching the minutes go by.

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it just kind of...happened. like we'd be trading mild zings and then the next thing you know...

Never thought about it before but play fighting is like physical zinging.

it's offish been two days since i've checked my phone or email

i honestly might give up phone

who needs the extra pressure anyway you know?

surm, let's go to brunch. First Bloody Mary's on me.

ok but i am going to be only drinking today not eating though

i am wearing small khaki shorts and a white vneck tee today and i feel good about it

this in now way counts as acceptable conversation but i'm typing it anyway

what a beautiful gray day in boston

My friends got mad at me last night for walking out of the club with them rather than stay inside and talk to the allegedly really cute guy that was flirting with me. I'd had one too many *shoulder shrug*

i was having sex with my boyfriend today and in the midst his upstairs neighbor started blasting "firework"... gave me many conflicted feelings

hmmm one can never have too many allegedly really cute guys eager to flirt

i was having sex with my boyfriend today and in the midst his upstairs neighbor started blasting "firework"... gave me many conflicted feelings

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waiting for j0rd to ever mention a song i recognize so i can yell BINGO

nev mind, I saw the video for the firs time in the gay Chicago sports bar! With the 'works shooting out of everybody's tits.

so i was hanging out with a friend the other day (who is bisexual, but with whom i have no romantic intentions or otherwise) and we go back to my place, smoke, and i get a little too high and am just keenly aware of warmth emanating from his body as he's sitting next to me. at the time i was feeling pretty affectionate in general and suddenly felt the need to be hugged by someone, so i ask, "can we just cuddle for a bit?" and he responds, "um you're moving in with your boyfriend this week." so i laugh it off and apologize and say it's the pot talking, which seems believable enough, but now i'm afraid he'll think differently about me and not want to maintain a friendship. should i broach the subject like "uh, shit got weird, sorry" or just leave it alone and let it (hopefully) die?

Leave it alone. Most of us have been there.

can we put that to a vote?

i'd say something... explaining mostly what you said here. most of us have been there tho.

clouds, it depends on your intimacy with this guy. If you're good bros, you may not need to say anything since he will have already figured out that this was a misadventure.

i would feel it out. sometimes not saying something can be much more effective. see how things feel, you'll be able to tell. the hardest part is patience, you want to know right now if things are ok but you can't, and jumping to the conclusion of saying something might make things worse.

... not that i've had any experience in this arena or anything

Yes. You'll know if Things Are Weird the next time you hang.

One out of four of my friends has been drunk-dialed or drunk-groped over the last fifteen years; haven't lost one friend yet (I also haven't done it in quite a while).

i asked him if he wants to have a movie day next weekend and mentioned in passing "i hope i haven't weirded you out". we'll see how it goes.

having my bf present would assuage any potential awkwardness, maybe