I'm not really faulting her for it. At least that's not what I mean. I guess it's just hindsight is 20/20. There's no way that she doesn't immediately become the story for saying that. It's a good thing to say. But now what? now YOU'RE the show. and no-one is ever ready for that unless they're drunk out of their minds or with a bachelorette party.
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:43 (thirteen years ago)
and he's a shitty ass comedian and he punished her for 'ruining' his shitty 'bit'. which is cowardly and cheap.
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:44 (thirteen years ago)
I hope he takes a lot of heat for this. Because beyond anything it's lazy and weak.
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:45 (thirteen years ago)
i'm curious if any other patrons of the club left with the two girls. i somehow doubt it.
― one dis leads to another (ian), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:45 (thirteen years ago)
i always feel like you can say whatever you want in a comedy club. and people can yell at you if they don't like it!
― scott seward, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:46 (thirteen years ago)
yeah that seems doubtful.
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:46 (thirteen years ago)
xpost
also remember this guy has a tv show that is hugely popular among adolescent males--i don't think he has a responsibility to be a role model, but i think if i were a parent i would be absolutely outraged and probably write angry letters to whatever channel he is on.
― one dis leads to another (ian), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:47 (thirteen years ago)
fwiw, i have never been to a comedy club and i probably never will be. just not my bag. two drink minimum? pfft.
i mean i just think they should be censorship-free zones. comedy stages. you can hate it or yell at the guy or leave but he should be able to be as dumb as he wants to be on that stage. if he had said that on the street to someone i would have an entirely different opinion.
― scott seward, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:47 (thirteen years ago)
Oh, he can say whateverthefuck he wants. He's just gotta be ready to deal with the fallout.
― heated debate over derpy hooves (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:48 (thirteen years ago)
no one is gonna censor it (obviously the show went on!) but i think you can still judge ppl by what stupid shit they say in a comedy club, drunk in a bar, in private at home, wherever.
― one dis leads to another (ian), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:48 (thirteen years ago)
I really doubt it. His entire shtick is that he goes above and beyond what other "blue" comics are willing to say and his audience understands that. If you listen to him for any period of time it becomes pretty clear that he believes, I dunno, maybe 5% of what he says on stage.
― frogbs, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:49 (thirteen years ago)
Rape is a common topic, unfortunately. At least among the younger class of bromedians.
― Johnny Fever, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:49 (thirteen years ago)
I think there's a double standard in comedy rooms, because really the ideal is the comedian can say anything they want, they're 'working out material'. but among comedians, they don't want you to be part of the show, unless they're a crowdwork comedian. but they want you to laugh or not laugh and that's all. because you paid to get in. at least that's the way it seems.
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:49 (thirteen years ago)
Oh Tosh's whole thing is he says 'what no one else will say' and his racism bits aren't really racism he's just making fun of racism or what the fuck ever but dude's comedy is meanspirited at its core and I hate it.
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:51 (thirteen years ago)
If you listen to him for any period of time it becomes pretty clear that he believes, I dunno, maybe 5% of what he says on stage.
This is BESIDE THE POINT. What he created that night was a hostile environment in a small dark room.
― Johnny Fever, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:51 (thirteen years ago)
his "edginess" can be pretty dumb. but what fallout would there be? people will boycott is shows/dvds? his fans will just love him more for being the jerk. his whole act is about being a jerk!
― scott seward, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:52 (thirteen years ago)
i remember seeing seinfeld episodes, louis episodes about heckling etc and i understand getting pissed that the crowd is interfering with your routine, but that doesn't mean you can say anything you want w/o the outside world getting to judge you for it. if someone heckled, i dunno, a juggler, and the juggler told that person they should get sodomized... the juggler is still a douche in that scenario.
― one dis leads to another (ian), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:52 (thirteen years ago)
oh cool a comedian who says stuff he doesn't actually believe, sounds like a really great comedian
― congratulations (n/a), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:52 (thirteen years ago)
I'm sure that you and many other people on this board do! In practice though, I'm not sure what kind of useful judgements you're going to get out of a guy who says something stupid while drunk outside of "I'm glad that I'm better than him"
― frogbs, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:53 (thirteen years ago)
yeah I guess you're right (whoever said it upthread), this won't really change anything for him and his fans. the people he expects to get mad will get mad but he won't lose any fans over it.
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:53 (thirteen years ago)
Do you think that George Carlin really prayed to Joe Pesci y/n?
― MacArthur Parkour (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:55 (thirteen years ago)
I bet Steven Wright actually had a real 1:1 scale map of the US that he spent the summer folding.
c'mon you're better than this n/a
Well this is the excuse that Seth MacFarlane and others use and it's stupid there too because your audience is primarily very impressionable teenagers - just saying I dunno why you need to call out "rape is not funny" when it should be clear that's *exactly* the reaction he's trying to get.
― frogbs, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:56 (thirteen years ago)
the people he said that to had several options. they could have screamed at him and ruined his entire show. they could have stormed the stage and beat him up. they could have thrown things at him. they could have chanted. i dunno. fuck his shit up if you don't like it. where are the riot grrls? they should have started a riot. take back the night from shitty comedians! or something.
― scott seward, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:58 (thirteen years ago)
I kind of think of Tosh the same way I do Glenn Beck. Its doubtful that either of them believe 100% of the stupid shit they say, but they're more than happy cashing huge checks selling said shit to impressionable idiots.
― heated debate over derpy hooves (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 16:59 (thirteen years ago)
scott basically otm, I think Tosh pretty much got what he wanted out of this
― frogbs, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:00 (thirteen years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=21sCpbPqd4s
― scott seward, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:07 (thirteen years ago)
there's a difference between using saying something you don't believe to make a point, and just saying stuff you don't believe to get a shock reaction
― congratulations (n/a), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:08 (thirteen years ago)
can we just make him go away
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:09 (thirteen years ago)
like saying "wouldn't it be funny if five guys raped her right now" has no point and is expressing literally nothing other than "i'm saying something provocative"
― congratulations (n/a), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:10 (thirteen years ago)
You just passed Tosh 101
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:12 (thirteen years ago)
If u really want to be offended watch that terrible comedy central show of his.
― Mordy, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:13 (thirteen years ago)
I know some people who went to high school with him who sort of come to his defense every time I mention that I think he's a piece of shit, but I think part of that behavior is just "omg I can say I knew someone who's famous and that's cool".
― Johnny Fever, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:14 (thirteen years ago)
The "Web Redemption" bits on his show are really good and IMO the real reason to watch it (otherwise it's just "random youtube clips and offensive commentary", I do give them kudos for those
― frogbs, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 17:17 (thirteen years ago)
I'm curious to know if the bit was a standard part of his material, ie, where it was going if there'd been no heckle. (Because it is possible to draw humor out of anything, just harder if you try rape or genocide.)
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 19:20 (thirteen years ago)
Heartbreaking last paragraph:
I should probably add that having to basically flee while Tosh was enthusing about how hilarious it would be if I was gang-raped in that small, claustrophic room was pretty viscerally terrifying and threatening all the same, even if the actual scenario was unlikely to take place. The suggestion of it is violent enough and was meant to put me in my place.
I really hope this gets remembered, as she puts it here, as an act of violence.
― jim, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 19:36 (thirteen years ago)
So anyway
http://jezebel.com/5924937/daniel-tosh-is-sorry-he-told-a-female-audience-member-that-she-should-get-hilariously-raped
― Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 22:08 (thirteen years ago)
I was in a comedy club a few years ago, during an open mic night, and this one comic would single out women in the audience and give his sexual performance set list, should he and the girl find themselves sharing a bed some time. Girls were horrified but laughed through it.
good times.
― Cunga, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:10 (thirteen years ago)
I think, for the younger generation, making meta-world-post-irony (<---for you NBA fans) jokes about rape and race is a way to push the buttons of gen xers, who otherwise aren't as uptight as baby boomers about good taste and The Boundaries of Comedy. Maybe that explains the market demand for this sort of stuff.
― Cunga, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:21 (thirteen years ago)
meta-world-post-irony
― polyphonic, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:33 (thirteen years ago)
you can tell the quality of a comedian by how they handle hecklers imho. Pryor, Dangerfield, Martin = A+. Richards, Tosh, Dane Cook = F-.
― the alternate vision continues his vision quest! (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:45 (thirteen years ago)
sometimes the best part of Dangerfield's show would be him zinging hecklers
― the alternate vision continues his vision quest! (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:47 (thirteen years ago)
Maron has done good crowdwork in the shows I've seen.
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:47 (thirteen years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rAD-ky3TYQk
Did you guys see this movie.
― polyphonic, Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:47 (thirteen years ago)
Dangerfield was awesome with hecklers. Love.
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:48 (thirteen years ago)
oh man don't fuck with Joanie
― the alternate vision continues his vision quest! (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:49 (thirteen years ago)
heckler: "How big is Your dick?" Rodney: "Don't you remember?"
oh shit Joan shutting down the heckler on her documentary was wild
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 10 July 2012 23:54 (thirteen years ago)