Just when you thought it was safe - OK CUPID PART 3: The Return of the WOO!

what happened to dimples?

I don't think he really liked me that much? It just kind of trailed off. He was good with all the things you can check off a list: email on time, send thank-yous, offer to lift heavy things, etc, but it was kind of like he read about them in a rule-book and not because his heart was in it? Serial dater, had the moves down but I could never tell what was behind them.

Be a fuck-up, be a hot mess, but please be basically a warm, affectionate person that I can at least understand.

Actually I prefer fuck-ups and hot messes, apparently. I mean going on the evidence.

It's heartening to be reminded that not everyone treats dating/relationships like a g-d financial transaction. Fuck-ups and hot messes need love, too.

I think I've decided I'm easy

Honey, we knew that.

Uh I don't know what this is but I like it.

Going on 4th day of seeing each oth btw. o_O

wow! :)

Laurel!

I know! Going back on everything I stand for.

I'm not going back on it, not really! I have plans 4 out of 5 nights this week already, he just showed up on a blank weekend in my calendar so it was simple to get together. And nice. We'll see how it goes. We live near each oth so that part, at least, still holds?

I was gonna say, wtf are you talking about? You wanted warmth and availability and ease, and you got it! Enjoy it ffs ;)

Yesssssssss

they pretty much just do stuff thursday-sunday and spend the rest of the week doing their own thing in their own homes or with friends.

I was like.... wait, you can actually do that?!?

Yep. That's pretty much my ideal too, to the point that for much of my life i gravitated towards kinda-long distance relationships to ensure it stayed that way.

I think it's time for me to move any further updates to the boy trubs thread because for the duration of whatever I am off okc.

congrats!

Thanks! I guess! It doesn't feel like I've "arrived" anywhere in any way, it's just a beginning and god only knows. But it's...okay! Enthusiastically okay.

grudging enthusiasm

You know me.

it's the way to go!

POLYAMOROUS PEOPLE OF OKCUPID - LEAVE ME ALONE!

I only discovered the poly scene on okc when I listed bisexual on my profile l o l

OMG

Hey!

I just got a message on Scruff from a super super cute guy who works at Trader Joe's. He recognized me. I've caught him looking at me every time I'm in there but I kind of thought he was straight and just being that Trader Joe's brand of preternaturally friendly!

Ugh why do so many guys got to name themselves lame things like "artyguy" and "quirkyguy" and similar vague "I'm cool, me!" words that are really offputting? Whats in a name, etc, but blergh.

creativelad18563

Ha yeah exactly ;_;

shit you figured out my name on okc

LAD

roffle

OK in the immediate list of matches and visitors on my page Ive got names such as "foodartguy", "artyguy435", "luv2plsrU" (ewwwww), and at least four guys with the word "geek" or "nerd" in their username. COME ON GUYS. TRY HARDER.

Je55e, what happened with the scruffy trader joe guy??

new dn

aaargh

lol

luv 2 plaster U

taintbaster1984

I kinda chose two random words without any real associations as my username so you have to actually read my profile to find me unappealing.

Lotta cut shirtless guys all up in my OKC today too, yuck.

gonna take off my shirt and send Trayce messages. I am "un"-cut lol lol

Hey, don't let me stop you!

User names are always so hard. I want them to mean something but sound good on their own.

Je55e, what happened with the scruffy trader joe guy??

idk. On Saturday we texted for a while then he went to work in the evening. I keep thinking I should text him but I'm not sure what to say!

I at least want to be able to shop at TJ without a pending text on my mind.

Plus he's going to be moving to my block on June 1!

I at least want to be able to shop at TJ without a pending text on my mind.

This is why dating people who work at places you frequent is...well, tricky, at least. I wound up avoiding two food/bevvy places near my old job because of this (just, y'know, awkward endings to brief dating stretches), and I had to hardcore rebuff the advances of the barista downstairs so I didn't wind up losing my coffee, too.

Still waitin for shirtless msgs btw, times a wastin! :P

When I was younger and a waiter in a small city, I really fucked myself by not returning calls and then seeing the guys at my bar or restaurant. So painful. I corrected my ways since then.

Trayce, visit the summer gay threads for some shirtless male pics of ILXors!

Oh god, I just saw a PEENER as someones profile pic.

*scrubs brain*