I'm with you mh!
Not that you should do so too, because it's part of my defeatist, negative, run-away-from-anything-difficult-by-writing-it-off-as-impossible thinking, but I take it as evidence that "I am not made for other people".
― only NWOFHM! is real (krakow), Thursday, 26 April 2012 00:32 (fourteen years ago)
Daet tonight.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:37 (fourteen years ago)
I feel like this one could at least be a bro even if other things didn't work, which is a better sign than I've had for a while. I think we know some people in common even. Otoh that kinda puts pressure on not to do or say anything I'll regret b/c I might have to be around this person again in the future.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:38 (fourteen years ago)
as long as it's not emotional weirdness it's ok, imo
― mh, Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:45 (fourteen years ago)
Oh I just meant getting drunk and over-excited and talking a lot, loudly, possibly pounding on the bar for emphasis, and/or making out in public or something equally dumb. All par for the course, sadly.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:56 (fourteen years ago)
This is why I don't have nice things easily embarrassed friends.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:58 (fourteen years ago)
once you take those things out everything left sounds a little bit dull to me tbh
― Upt0eleven, Thursday, 26 April 2012 17:00 (fourteen years ago)
That means you are the kind of person I could be friends with! Congratulations.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 17:00 (fourteen years ago)
a very cheerful note on which to end my day :)
have fun!
― Upt0eleven, Thursday, 26 April 2012 17:02 (fourteen years ago)
It went very cutely, btw. I mean who fucking knows but thumbs up for now.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 27 April 2012 18:37 (fourteen years ago)
what happened to dimples?
― two overweight dachshunds with three eyes (La Lechera), Friday, 27 April 2012 19:50 (fourteen years ago)
I don't think he really liked me that much? It just kind of trailed off. He was good with all the things you can check off a list: email on time, send thank-yous, offer to lift heavy things, etc, but it was kind of like he read about them in a rule-book and not because his heart was in it? Serial dater, had the moves down but I could never tell what was behind them.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 27 April 2012 19:55 (fourteen years ago)
Be a fuck-up, be a hot mess, but please be basically a warm, affectionate person that I can at least understand.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 27 April 2012 20:08 (fourteen years ago)
Actually I prefer fuck-ups and hot messes, apparently. I mean going on the evidence.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 27 April 2012 20:09 (fourteen years ago)
It's heartening to be reminded that not everyone treats dating/relationships like a g-d financial transaction. Fuck-ups and hot messes need love, too.
― Dr. Buzzard's® Original Banana Bread (Deric W. Haircare), Friday, 27 April 2012 21:13 (fourteen years ago)
I think I've decided I'm easy
― mh, Friday, 27 April 2012 21:21 (fourteen years ago)
Honey, we knew that.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Saturday, 28 April 2012 14:33 (fourteen years ago)
Uh I don't know what this is but I like it.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 14:29 (fourteen years ago)
Going on 4th day of seeing each oth btw. o_O
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 15:08 (fourteen years ago)
wow! :)
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:24 (fourteen years ago)
Laurel!
― mh, Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:27 (fourteen years ago)
I know! Going back on everything I stand for.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:31 (fourteen years ago)
I'm not going back on it, not really! I have plans 4 out of 5 nights this week already, he just showed up on a blank weekend in my calendar so it was simple to get together. And nice. We'll see how it goes. We live near each oth so that part, at least, still holds?
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:33 (fourteen years ago)
I was gonna say, wtf are you talking about? You wanted warmth and availability and ease, and you got it! Enjoy it ffs ;)
― two overweight dachshunds with three eyes (La Lechera), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:41 (fourteen years ago)
Yesssssssss
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:48 (fourteen years ago)
they pretty much just do stuff thursday-sunday and spend the rest of the week doing their own thing in their own homes or with friends.
I was like.... wait, you can actually do that?!?
Yep. That's pretty much my ideal too, to the point that for much of my life i gravitated towards kinda-long distance relationships to ensure it stayed that way.
― Lee626, Sunday, 29 April 2012 20:33 (fourteen years ago)
I think it's time for me to move any further updates to the boy trubs thread because for the duration of whatever I am off okc.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Monday, 30 April 2012 14:34 (fourteen years ago)
congrats!
― rayuela, Monday, 30 April 2012 14:39 (fourteen years ago)
Thanks! I guess! It doesn't feel like I've "arrived" anywhere in any way, it's just a beginning and god only knows. But it's...okay! Enthusiastically okay.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Monday, 30 April 2012 14:47 (fourteen years ago)
grudging enthusiasm
― rayuela, Monday, 30 April 2012 14:48 (fourteen years ago)
You know me.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Monday, 30 April 2012 14:51 (fourteen years ago)
it's the way to go!
― rayuela, Monday, 30 April 2012 14:54 (fourteen years ago)
POLYAMOROUS PEOPLE OF OKCUPID - LEAVE ME ALONE!
― homosexual II, Thursday, 3 May 2012 20:13 (fourteen years ago)
I only discovered the poly scene on okc when I listed bisexual on my profile l o l
― superpussy, Thursday, 3 May 2012 20:25 (fourteen years ago)
OMG
― Pita Malört (Je55e), Friday, 4 May 2012 17:39 (fourteen years ago)
Hey!
― Pita Malört (Je55e), Friday, 4 May 2012 17:40 (fourteen years ago)
I just got a message on Scruff from a super super cute guy who works at Trader Joe's. He recognized me. I've caught him looking at me every time I'm in there but I kind of thought he was straight and just being that Trader Joe's brand of preternaturally friendly!
― Pita Malört (Je55e), Friday, 4 May 2012 17:42 (fourteen years ago)
Ugh why do so many guys got to name themselves lame things like "artyguy" and "quirkyguy" and similar vague "I'm cool, me!" words that are really offputting? Whats in a name, etc, but blergh.
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:22 (fourteen years ago)
creativelad18563
― the aower of aussy (electricsound), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:26 (fourteen years ago)
Ha yeah exactly ;_;
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:27 (fourteen years ago)
shit you figured out my name on okc
― mh, Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:34 (fourteen years ago)
LAD
roffle
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:36 (fourteen years ago)
OK in the immediate list of matches and visitors on my page Ive got names such as "foodartguy", "artyguy435", "luv2plsrU" (ewwwww), and at least four guys with the word "geek" or "nerd" in their username. COME ON GUYS. TRY HARDER.
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:38 (fourteen years ago)
Je55e, what happened with the scruffy trader joe guy??
― rayuela, Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:42 (fourteen years ago)
new dn
― 12plsrU (electricsound), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:45 (fourteen years ago)
aaargh
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:51 (fourteen years ago)
lol
― mh, Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:51 (fourteen years ago)
luv 2 plaster U
― madame boo berry (donna rouge), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 03:02 (fourteen years ago)
taintbaster1984
― You Don't Throw Oranges On An Escalator (Deric W. Haircare), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 03:39 (fourteen years ago)