GIRLS talk (the Lena Dunham thread)

theres no real reason for there not to be non-white Folks present, and it makes the show/hannah/lena seem even more privileged and disconnected and what have you

― max, Tuesday, April 17, 2012 10:52 AM (5 seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yeah i wonder if thats the point or more a byproduct of irl - also maybe we will meet more of her friends

ALSO it annoys me because theres a pretty large (and growing?) set of non-white hipster/college-educated creative professional/whatever types who tend to get ignored in "young ppl in nyc" tv shows and movies, (and in ilx discourse!!) and i thought (hoped?) some of those stories could get told here! guess not tho

i think sometimes white directors/writers are worried about taking on those stories for fear they'll commit some essentializing blunder, but yeah, i wish more would take the plunge. they could just talk to some people of color. but also maybe what's going on with dunham is that at 25 she's a bit blinkered about that stuff.

There sure are a lot of boys on the Girls thread.

― wolf kabob (ENBB), Tuesday, April 17, 2012 9:15 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this was a fair point, btw, and one adamrl also made iirc.

girls is kind of a provocative name to call ones show isnt it

idg why

That was an xpost

ALSO it annoys me because theres a pretty large (and growing?) set of non-white hipster/college-educated creative professional/whatever types who tend to get ignored in "young ppl in nyc" tv shows and movies, (and in ilx discourse!!) and i thought (hoped?) some of those stories could get told here! guess not tho

yeah i think if were trying to recreate GIRLS as a statistically accurate representation of its milieu than thered be at least a couple of nonwhite ppl on the show. i dont really think it means all that much tho esp given the racism of tv casting

going back a bit but i kinda liked her mom idk its a stretch to think she hates her?

the parents are my rooting interest in the show

well tbf the 'parents pay your rent + lives in brooklyn' demographic def skews white pretty hardcore ime

i mean, yes it's going to happen on ilx where a lot of dudes post but it leads to sort of strange blind spots, about, for example the representation of women + body image. i'm not mad @ anyone about it, nor was Erica, i presume, its just creates a discussion with an *interesting* quality.

tbf i know a lot of ilx women are just not that into the premise of this show, so.

otm

yeah i don't think the mom hates her, either. maybe a little bit at moments but everyone's mom hates them sometimes!

haha it is kinda funny that a bunch of dudes talking about this show end up getting in a fight about mom

if this show were called 'life and lols in brooklyn 2012' it would not be an issue that mostly guys are watching it but instead it was called 'girls' cause judd apatow suggested it

maybe girls just arent posting to this thread because they r bad at bittorrent

Not a lot of talk about women+body image, pro or con

well there was some tbf

i don't know if mostly guys are watching it? if that's true, it's not an issue. my sisters are both watching it--data points! i was mostly talking about the ilx discussion.

comments are not making me want to watch this show tbh

some, but it's not like all the dudes on the Girls thread are talking about it

i don't...i'm not trying to get in an argument. both comments about body image in this thread seemed a little tin-eared to me; understandable because men don't experience that stuff the way we do. i was just using that as an example because it stood out to me. really all i'm saying is this conversation would play out differently if a bunch of women were having it. didn't think that was that controversial.

tbcf this really isnt a 'brooklyn 2012' show

tbf i know a lot of ilx women are just not that into the premise of this show, so.

haha most of my friends are really not into this show, its weird, i have ~thoughts~ about it but its really that good atm so its hard to argue for it

what did you think re how our protagonists body image issues were portrayed in ep1 horseshoe, i was surprised abt the negative reaction itt, i was just kinda oh sure when i saw it, her self deprecation in the explanation of her tattoos and her boyfriends horrible if funny reaction was k tragic

lamp stop being so coy and just tell us what u think ffs

yeah, sorry, I'm not trying to make it an argument either, this just doesn't seem to be any weirder for dudes to talk about than Game of Thrones IMO.

haha i wasnt going to but this:

i think some of the ways she's shot eating food (the spaghetti with her parents + the cupcake in the bathtub immediately come to mind) and the sex scene were particularly degrading

was a... strange reaction to have, i think. like 'degrading' is not how i read this at all, i identified w/her quite a bit here, thought it was really funny and true, helped me 'get' the character and sympathize with her.

homie shes not saying its WEIRD

yeah that's pretty much how i feel. i like that thread in tiny furniture and in the pilot of girls--dunham's sharp about it. don't really get how it's evidence of a mean worldview on her part or a lack of "heart" as compared to louis c.k. it's evidence of a meanness in the world but dunham didn't create that meanness.

xxp

it's a little more notable, given that this show is about women's lives.

haha thanks max

both comments about body image in this thread seemed a little tin-eared to me

you mean mordy and mine? i was just reacting to him thinking it was unusual or off-putting and me feeling it was kind of consistent with the kind of observations a lot of fiction makes on the subject, for better or worse

i have spent many years on ilx having conversations with a bunch of dudes; obviously i am not saying dudes should not discuss stuff.

In a world in which Tao Lin and David Chang are the dominating forces...

yeah, al, i did mean mordy's and yours. yours only because i think dunham is doing more with her stuff on women and their bodies than your obligatory "one of these girls is bulimic" plot in a movie or whatever.

yeah, sorry, I'm not trying to make it an argument either, this just doesn't seem to be any weirder for dudes to talk about than Game of Thrones IMO.

― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, April 17, 2012 11:14 AM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

max otm, hs otm

In addition to what she said, it's not so much the fact that a lot of guys are talking about it that's weird for me it's the almost total lack of female interest/input. Anyway, it's not that big of a deal. Just something that made me go hmmmmmm.

that is going to be the case on literally every thread on ilx because there are more guys here

tbf i know a lot of ilx women are just not that into the premise of this show, so.
just poppin in here to say ^^ me ^^^

why is this weird?

but it leads to sort of strange blind spots, about, for example the representation of women + body image

would you be willing to talk a little bit more about these blind spots? did you disagree with the posts about body image?

the ladies make a valid if minor point re dudes in the girls thread, id be curious to hear their opinons of the show next

I'm not an idiot, Iatee. I realize that is often the case given that ILX is predominantly male. I still think it's at least somewhat remarkable in this instance.

no it's not, your sample set is like 5 people here

can we plz not, just plzzzzz

overall interest/identification is going to be a lot more about class and culture than gender in this case, IMO

Mordy, i just didn't get your post about body image, frankly. also i will admit the rash of posts that were all, "this isn't as good as Louie" annoyed me. i mean, i don't like this one episode of Girls as much as i like the two seasons of Louie, either, but maybe some of that reaction is about louis c.k. being more identifiable-with for some of you than lena dunham? maybe not. sometimes i think men are blind to that aspect of their reactions to things, though. god, could i be more vague.

amanda i don't think it's weird for women not to want to watch Girls, just to clarify! not everyone has to be slavishly devoted to culture about the rich, like i invariably am!

outside of people who will give just about anything new on HBO a shot

lamp stop being so coy and just tell us what u think ffs

i did upthread!!! i think the pilot wasnt that great but the show gets better and has real potential. there are parts of the show that really resonated w/ me including the bad sex and the food stuff and the general sense of post-collegiate ennui or w/e, really the show seemed v true to my own NYC XP and the people i was friends w/ and worked w/...

i mean ive been thinking about how 'freaks & geeks' was so adept at teasing out emotional truth from its high school setting that it the fact the show wasnt perfectly realistic didnt really matter. like the shows world was so seamless and coherent that its inconsistencies from rl became virtues because it helped create some distance for the viewer? and like i think girls is almost doing the same thing w/like post-collegiate urban youth where the fact that its an approximation of reality isnt the problem, the problem w/'girls' is that dunham et al arent detail ppl so 'girls' tv universe is kinda flat and inconsistent atm

the Louie talk was because interviews/previews directly referenced Louie as a comparison point. Dunham dressed up like Louis CK for Halloween, etc

'girls' tv universe is kinda flat and inconsistent atm

― Masonic Butt (Lamp), Tuesday, April 17, 2012 11:26 AM (51 seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this i would agree with, but i'm going to give it a few episodes. pilots are hard

yeah, al, i did mean mordy's and yours. yours only because i think dunham is doing more with her stuff on women and their bodies than your obligatory "one of these girls is bulimic" plot in a movie or whatever.

― horseshoe, Tuesday, April 17, 2012 11:18 AM (8 minutes ago) Bookmark

fair enough, i wasn't saying it was a minor theme or that it was just being thrown out as an ack cathy female anxiety cliche or anything, just that mordy's horror seemed extreme

yes i agree about that