his .357 gets really upset at profane language
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:06 (fourteen years ago)
she made sure to tip him well because she assumed he would assume she wouldn't.
Well. Showed him.
― pplains, Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:07 (fourteen years ago)
In 50 years there will be NO majority White countries on earth. Yet Africahas over 50+ all black nations that will stay black. Asia will remain totallyAsian. It is White countries and ONLY White countries that are being floodedwith non-Whites and it is EVERY single White country.Whites will have gone from almost 30% of the world population in 1900 toapproximately 2-3% by the year 2100, per the UN.
Whites will have gone from almost 30% of the world population in 1900 toapproximately 2-3% by the year 2100, per the UN.
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― Estimate the percent chance that a whale has ever been to the moon? (frogbs), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:09 (fourteen years ago)
i know; i think she was working from a people can change through encounters with people who are different from them model. i was working from a some people are lost causes model, but i understand her response. like, on top of all this bullshit, i'm not going to let this dude complain about my people and how we tip as soon as i leave.
xp
― horseshoe, Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:10 (fourteen years ago)
i half wonder if the service industry is a major racism-development petri dish in the US. one of the places where different groups come in the most direct contact with one another.
― BEMORE SUPER FABBY (contenderizer), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:11 (fourteen years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QsK1McEA9dssixteen years waiting tables here. some black people don't tip. some black people do tip. it's not color based. it's class based. everything's based.
― boy, was that Dan Fielding hungry for some cake! (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:13 (fourteen years ago)
lol u didnt include the .357 guys handle
"Foxwood Muldor"
― max, Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:15 (fourteen years ago)
thanking u based forks
― mh, Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:17 (fourteen years ago)
Jay 2 comments collapsed Collapse Expand Why, thank you for that vital piece of information on how I should behave myself in a restaurant BUT I'm already aware that if you treat people with respect they will (should) treat you with respect. BUT thats not what my comment said. It said, "Because a waiter has had a bad experience with a black party, it is okay for them to give me poor service?" MEANING, they approach me with a pissy attitude first, simply because they THINK that I'm going to be rude and arrogant all because of an experience they had with another person who happens to be the same color as me. Your comment applies both ways. I'm going to treat a server the same way they treat me, or I'm going to leave. Or does that only work one way? I should be polite and friendly regardless? Please enlighten me, I'm curious to know. Screamin_Ruffed_Grouse 1 comment collapsed Collapse Expand ..they approach me with a pissy attitude first, simply because they THINK that I'm going to be rude and arrogant all because of an experience they had with another person who happens to be the same color as me.Noooo, silly! It's because of lots of experiences they've had with nearly everyone who happens to be the same color as you!And yes, you should be polite and friendly regardless. If the service is not satisfactory, don't tip, and don't come back. Why would you want to frequent a joint you don't like anyway?In fairness, servers should be polite and courteous as well. But don't be surprised when they expect you to act like the vast majority of your race act. Want to show you deserve different? Take the first step. Don't expect everyone to just cater to you.Kony 6 comments collapsed Collapse Expand The odds are very good they will be right. Why not play the odds? I'd break Vegas with those odds. Jay 5 comments collapsed Collapse Expand Then it will continue to be a vicious cycle. If you treat me bad because of a bad experience with someone else (that I have NOTHING to do with), can you honestly be upset when I tip you poorly? C'mon. SingleServing01 2 comments collapsed Collapse Expand Black people started the vicious cycle in the 60's. The more concessions they got the more aggressive they behaved, until whites stopped feeling guily and started feeling angry.Jay 1 comment collapsed Collapse Expand Lol. Blacks started the cycle? Not the people treating them like they were less than when they tried to dine at white establishments? Quit trying to play the blame game and simply say that ALL of us could stand to learn to quit the generalizations. Do ALL waiters provide inferior service to blacks? No. Are ALL black customers rude? Do we ALL tip bad? No. Stop thinking because we have the same skin color that we're the same. Its foolishness. Kony 2 comments collapsed Collapse Expand The stories of bad black tipping in spite of good service are legion. Clean up yer act.
Screamin_Ruffed_Grouse 1 comment collapsed Collapse Expand ..they approach me with a pissy attitude first, simply because they THINK that I'm going to be rude and arrogant all because of an experience they had with another person who happens to be the same color as me.
Noooo, silly! It's because of lots of experiences they've had with nearly everyone who happens to be the same color as you!
And yes, you should be polite and friendly regardless. If the service is not satisfactory, don't tip, and don't come back. Why would you want to frequent a joint you don't like anyway?
In fairness, servers should be polite and courteous as well. But don't be surprised when they expect you to act like the vast majority of your race act. Want to show you deserve different? Take the first step. Don't expect everyone to just cater to you.
Kony 6 comments collapsed Collapse Expand The odds are very good they will be right. Why not play the odds? I'd break Vegas with those odds.
Jay 5 comments collapsed Collapse Expand Then it will continue to be a vicious cycle. If you treat me bad because of a bad experience with someone else (that I have NOTHING to do with), can you honestly be upset when I tip you poorly? C'mon.
SingleServing01 2 comments collapsed Collapse Expand Black people started the vicious cycle in the 60's. The more concessions they got the more aggressive they behaved, until whites stopped feeling guily and started feeling angry.
Jay 1 comment collapsed Collapse Expand Lol. Blacks started the cycle? Not the people treating them like they were less than when they tried to dine at white establishments? Quit trying to play the blame game and simply say that ALL of us could stand to learn to quit the generalizations. Do ALL waiters provide inferior service to blacks? No. Are ALL black customers rude? Do we ALL tip bad? No. Stop thinking because we have the same skin color that we're the same. Its foolishness.
Kony 2 comments collapsed Collapse Expand The stories of bad black tipping in spite of good service are legion. Clean up yer act.
I mean this isn't the worst of it, but the unreason is AMAZING
― HE HATES THESE CANS (Austerity Ponies), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:23 (fourteen years ago)
heh I dunno if it's a universal thing among asians but my parents are such stingy tippers that when I eat out with them I purposely try to overcompensate in tipping to 'break' the stereotype
― swaghand (dayo), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:23 (fourteen years ago)
wow "asian bad tippers" does not lead to good places on google
― swaghand (dayo), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:25 (fourteen years ago)
yeah same here :(
― horseshoe, Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:25 (fourteen years ago)
plus also the user name 'Screamin_Ruffed_Grouse'
― HE HATES THESE CANS (Austerity Ponies), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:25 (fourteen years ago)
I am very happy that my job blocked this comment section
― an independent online phenomenon (DJP), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:26 (fourteen years ago)
xp it's a hunter
― boy, was that Dan Fielding hungry for some cake! (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:27 (fourteen years ago)
Not to mention the violence you might encounter as a guest with black people sitting next to you. If you shush them because of noise or their kids going mental and screaming, you can expect punches, kicks and even worse. ALL the youtube videoes on restaurant violence in the States have black people involved. Black women seem to be the most violent of them all.
black people just randomly whipping the shit out of anyone who talks to them
― Estimate the percent chance that a whale has ever been to the moon? (frogbs), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:27 (fourteen years ago)
I am now opposed to Obama's plans to increase internet connectivity and accessibility in the United States
― an independent online phenomenon (DJP), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:29 (fourteen years ago)
devil you know, man
― boy, was that Dan Fielding hungry for some cake! (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:31 (fourteen years ago)
white devil you know, man
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:33 (fourteen years ago)
wait
whooo doggy if you guys didn't like that then you definitely won't like this
http://takimag.com/article/the_talk_nonblack_version_john_derbyshire#axzz1rmBltVE2
it starts out alright, but snowballs quite quickly
Before voting for a black politician, scrutinize his/her character much more carefully than you would a white.
― Estimate the percent chance that a whale has ever been to the moon? (frogbs), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:35 (fourteen years ago)
haha
it has been discussed
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:37 (fourteen years ago)
oh, that's had it's day in the sun here
― BEMORE SUPER FABBY (contenderizer), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:37 (fourteen years ago)
dude got fired for it, frogbs
― ♆ (gr8080), Thursday, 12 April 2012 21:44 (fourteen years ago)
just kind of amazed that someone thought that was okay to print, like with your name on it and everything
― Estimate the percent chance that a whale has ever been to the moon? (frogbs), Thursday, 12 April 2012 22:01 (fourteen years ago)
frog you need to keep up a little
― goole, Thursday, 12 April 2012 22:25 (fourteen years ago)
ALL the youtube videoes on restaurant violence in the States have black people involved.
patently untrue!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQQ8WgsfWl4&oref=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fresults%3Fsearch_query%3Drestaurant%2Bdrunken%2Bfight%26oq%3Drestaurant%2Bdrunken%2Bfight%26aq%3Df%26aqi%3D%26aql%3D%26gs_nf%3D1%26gs_l%3Dyoutube-psuggest.3...5078.11935.0.12053.20.20.0.0.0.0.152.1412.15j5.20.0.&has_verified=1
― easter back, somebody call the binks truck (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 12 April 2012 22:37 (fourteen years ago)
http://youtu.be/PQQ8WgsfWl4
― easter back, somebody call the binks truck (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 12 April 2012 22:38 (fourteen years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-73kpITP3mc
― mh, Thursday, 12 April 2012 23:47 (fourteen years ago)
highlight: Black people started the vicious cycle in the 60's.
― Hoo Nu Cookies (crüt), Thursday, 12 April 2012 23:51 (fourteen years ago)
haha yeah i enjoyed that guy's *point of view* on american history
― horseshoe, Thursday, 12 April 2012 23:53 (fourteen years ago)
I know I'm mostly being pissy because my computer died last night but really I just want all of those idiots to die horribly
― an independent online phenomenon (DJP), Friday, 13 April 2012 00:21 (fourteen years ago)
my computer's working fine, Dan, and i feel the same way
― I accidentally sonned your dome (stevie), Friday, 13 April 2012 06:49 (fourteen years ago)
yeah, what stevie says.
― HE HATES THESE CANS (Austerity Ponies), Friday, 13 April 2012 17:44 (fourteen years ago)
It appears to me that two things are happening simultaneously:1) That it is becoming more acceptable to say certain types of racist things publicly--that blatant racism is on the rise.2) While it is publically agreed upon that racism is bad, what racism means has narrowed or become ill-defined--the goal posts have moved--i.e. some people making clearly racist statements seem to be genuinely convinced they are not racist and take offense at the label.
The political stuff around reverse-racism and the race card, etc, goes a long way to explain this trend, and obviously a lot of the butthurt around being called racist is deflection and disingenuous.
BUT
My question: are things actually moving in this direction, or am I just noticing stuff that has always been there?
― HE HATES THESE CANS (Austerity Ponies), Friday, 13 April 2012 18:02 (fourteen years ago)
the latter
― an independent online phenomenon (DJP), Friday, 13 April 2012 18:03 (fourteen years ago)
it's stuff that's always been there, but now the magic of the Internet can wire racism straight into your home
― Hoo Nu Cookies (crüt), Friday, 13 April 2012 18:05 (fourteen years ago)
yeah, that sounds about right
― Nhex, Friday, 13 April 2012 18:23 (fourteen years ago)
I'm thinking mostly about the stuff I see on the teevee.
― HE HATES THESE CANS (Austerity Ponies), Friday, 13 April 2012 18:29 (fourteen years ago)
2) While it is publically agreed upon that racism is bad, what racism means has narrowed or become ill-defined--the goal posts have moved--i.e. some people making clearly racist statements seem to be genuinely convinced they are not racist and take offense at the label.
it's way more extreme than this. there isn't a single racist person alive who thinks that they're racist, even WHITE POWER WNs with swastikas tattooed on their foreheads. i've probably said it in this thread before, but being racist is considered to be much less offensive than being called a racist.
i mean, people like this: https://twitter.com/#!/antidarkskinned are everywhere on the internet, and they all insist that they're not racist
― JIM THOMETHEUS (zachlyon), Friday, 13 April 2012 18:37 (fourteen years ago)
that's not true, my boss will outright say in private "i am racist against black people".
he's also the kind of guy who when forced to work w/ a black person, will ultimately see they are a good person but say "yeah but he's different"
― ♆ (gr8080), Friday, 13 April 2012 19:33 (fourteen years ago)
"yeah but he's different"
this drives me batshit and a lot of my extended family members are guilty of this. they just can't make the leap in logic when they say "well, he's one of the GOOD ones" about every minority they interact with. does that tell you something about it maybe being YOU and not "THEM". argh.
― heated debate over derpy hooves (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Friday, 13 April 2012 19:49 (fourteen years ago)
Bouncing back between az and hi, gr8080, you must see some really weird examples of racism.
― pplains, Friday, 13 April 2012 19:58 (fourteen years ago)
the first time i visited AZ after SB 1070 was a thing (and after defending Tucson as "not a racist place" to all my friends) i went straight from the airport to a friend's house, then drove to downtown Tucson, parked on a street near a lot of college bars, got out of the car, and immediately encountered a bearded white guy in his 50's or 60's, meandering down the sidewalk shouting "I FUCKIN' HATE MEXICANS! I FUCKIN' HATE MEXICANS!" over and over
― ♆ (gr8080), Friday, 13 April 2012 20:13 (fourteen years ago)
that man was the mayor
― Jilly Boel and the Eltones (Shakey Mo Collier), Friday, 13 April 2012 20:15 (fourteen years ago)
You don't understand, "I FUCKIN' HATE MEXICANS!" is the name of my dog
― kinder, Friday, 13 April 2012 20:32 (fourteen years ago)
when you reach 1070 SBs you get banished to Arizona
― kinder, Friday, 13 April 2012 20:34 (fourteen years ago)
suggest banished
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Friday, 13 April 2012 22:46 (fourteen years ago)
the “Yu Dog” is a deep-fried, wonton-wrapped hot dog with teriyaki beef and seaweed salad. It was reportedly being served at the Captain Morgan Club in center field with chop sticks, a fortune cookie, and french fries fried in sesame oil on the side. http://i.imgur.com/1ORa7.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/1ORa7.jpg
― swaghand (dayo), Saturday, 14 April 2012 13:56 (fourteen years ago)
Weird racial thing, but I am inexplicably drawn to this food item.
― mh, Saturday, 14 April 2012 15:26 (fourteen years ago)