just remember to stick to "I-statements" :)
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:26 (twelve years ago) link
so otm
― desk calendar white out (Matt P), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:27 (twelve years ago) link
yeah, fair enough. there have been text messages exchanged to that effect, including a rescinding of the 'break' and i think we're going to have a state of the union conversation in a day or two. i think i just need a day or two to figure out where i'm at.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:27 (twelve years ago) link
xp
Any time I've admitted to tension between a lover or friend I became aware of it from my own snippy remarks about stupid shit, so I sympathize. elmo otm.
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:28 (twelve years ago) link
i don't have any advice but i hope things work out alex!
― lex pretend, Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:32 (twelve years ago) link
ditto
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:36 (twelve years ago) link
haha, i hope i don't come off like some self-appointed relationship guru, just want to share my perspective.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:36 (twelve years ago) link
sounds true enough. have nearly had relationships implode on me because we didn't have that talk.
― althea and (donna rouge), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:40 (twelve years ago) link
the best part is that sometimes you realize that you're having the same conversation over and over again!
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:46 (twelve years ago) link
He talked me into lunch today and we had a bit of the conversation. Tentatively, going well, especially compared to the totally distanced un-presence I've been getting for a few weeks. Acknowledgment of issues happened, which is new. Clearly, I'm waiting on follow through to some extent but it was nice just to feel validated about certain things. Allowing each other to ha e a bit more space is going to be key, and navigating criticism vs. defensiveness, but I think we're good?
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:06 (twelve years ago) link
Sorry for bombarding y'all with unnecessary drama, I guess.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:11 (twelve years ago) link
'I' statements we're useful. Thanks, Elmo.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:13 (twelve years ago) link
We're here to let you know you're (not just) in this knee deep, Alex.
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:14 (twelve years ago) link
no worries, alex! drama happens, no use apologizing. i'm glad you got to talking & i wish you & yr man many more productive 'i' statements as you hash it out.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 20:46 (twelve years ago) link
unrelated: i was watching dune last night and was idly pondering how awesome it would be to see a queen done up in bene gesserit drag.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 21:20 (twelve years ago) link
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, March 27, 2012 5:20 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
HOLY SHIT. I wish there was a drag-queen-costume equivalent of Rule 34.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 22:46 (twelve years ago) link
In the previous gay thread Corey mentioned the preacher in front of Old Navy on State St. (ya can't get to heaven if you're a homosexual (also, smokin' them cigarettes, smokin' dope, lookin' funny)).
https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/526217_3259471399517_1049107064_3150585_211817982_n.jpg
If that fella is there later tonight I'm going to give him a dollar.
― free societies must let drunken gay Texans have sex (Je55e), Thursday, 29 March 2012 20:25 (twelve years ago) link
I wanna give preacher dude the Judas kiss and see his reaction
― tanuki, Thursday, 29 March 2012 20:39 (twelve years ago) link
well, maybe not me personally but I'd like to see someone do it.
that's too good for him, handsome
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 29 March 2012 21:08 (twelve years ago) link
;)
― tanuki, Thursday, 29 March 2012 21:16 (twelve years ago) link
Like someone else said, I hope he gets to heaven and it's like 3 a.m. at The Eagle there.
― free societies must let drunken gay Texans have sex (Je55e), Thursday, 29 March 2012 22:06 (twelve years ago) link
lollll
― y'tulip, y'pea-brained earwig (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 March 2012 22:09 (twelve years ago) link
new favorite comic
http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1p11oQ8e31qc1sduo1_400.jpg
― tanuki, Friday, 30 March 2012 13:37 (twelve years ago) link
they are having a "why didn't you call me?" scene
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Friday, 30 March 2012 14:50 (twelve years ago) link
"you went to delhi AND india?"
― desk calendar white out (Matt P), Friday, 30 March 2012 19:21 (twelve years ago) link
"yep. i sure did!"
― desk calendar white out (Matt P), Friday, 30 March 2012 19:22 (twelve years ago) link
What's good, ladies?
http://v.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0r7yq2XY21qf09eb_r1.mov
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 4 April 2012 06:16 (twelve years ago) link
whatt up i'm tippin
― TALiB KWELi SODMG (The Reverend), Wednesday, 4 April 2012 06:18 (twelve years ago) link
Ph is visiting his family in Shreveport for his grandfather's 90th birthday and apparently his so-called xtian sisters are taking the occasion to tell him his "lifestyle" is "wrong." Fucking fuck fuck.
― tanuki, Saturday, 7 April 2012 01:51 (twelve years ago) link
I'm done w/ this country
― tanuki, Saturday, 7 April 2012 01:52 (twelve years ago) link
is it legal to shoot Christians in Alabama?
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 7 April 2012 01:55 (twelve years ago) link
if they're black
― The Reverend, Saturday, 7 April 2012 02:08 (twelve years ago) link
can at least strip search em first
― World Congress of Itch (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 7 April 2012 03:28 (twelve years ago) link
Urgh
― y'tulip, y'pea-brained earwig (donna rouge), Saturday, 7 April 2012 03:35 (twelve years ago) link
for ref his family are batshit insane pentecostal church people
― tanuki, Saturday, 7 April 2012 04:30 (twelve years ago) link
I have been missing
― People aren't for comparing, they are for loving. (Je55e), Saturday, 7 April 2012 04:32 (twelve years ago) link
Damn flailing pinky!!!
I've been missing the South a bit recently, so reminder of crazy Pentacostals and other religiosos is a good reality check (not that homophobia or Bible thumpers is only a Southern thing).
― People aren't for comparing, they are for loving. (Je55e), Saturday, 7 April 2012 04:35 (twelve years ago) link
I miss summer nights in the south, not much else.
― tanuki, Saturday, 7 April 2012 04:44 (twelve years ago) link
When I saw The Hunger Games I really missed the NC mountains. So many stunning views and SO many waterfalls! Plus some really special culture. And gorgeous coastal towns and beaches a few hours away. But I definitely wouldn't want to live there.
I've been missing NOLA like crazy (missed what had become a late winter traditional visit) and I feel drawn to live there (again-ish).
― People aren't for comparing, they are for loving. (Je55e), Saturday, 7 April 2012 05:25 (twelve years ago) link
guys i am so smitten
it is kind of gross
but mostly awesome
― Peace (peaceful) (The Brainwasher), Sunday, 8 April 2012 05:40 (twelve years ago) link
ugh. it sucks when motherfuckers you thought were cool go and say some ignorant shit. and kinda disappointed in myself here too, it was one thing to call him out for it but a whole nother to be like "and oh btw". i'm not even mad, just bummed as fuck cause it's like....this is my friend.
― The Reverend, Sunday, 8 April 2012 07:47 (twelve years ago) link
details?
― tanuki, Sunday, 8 April 2012 08:01 (twelve years ago) link
(unless you'd rather not say)
― tanuki, Sunday, 8 April 2012 08:02 (twelve years ago) link
so my bf and i are seeing a couple's counselor. don't worry; no crisis. we're coming up on 5 years together and this is kind of just a kick-the-tires, check-the-oil sort of tune-up.
anyway, our therapist is a v v dapper older man, probably gay, and funny as hell. it's actually pretty great! AND mostly covered by my boyfriend's health plan.
i'm feeling like a lucky man.
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 10 April 2012 19:35 (twelve years ago) link
:D
― y'tulip, y'pea-brained earwig (donna rouge), Tuesday, 10 April 2012 20:14 (twelve years ago) link
i'm in nyc and telling everyone about my bf and showing them pictures of him and i'm starting to feel like a proud mom a little bit
― y'tulip, y'pea-brained earwig (donna rouge), Tuesday, 10 April 2012 20:15 (twelve years ago) link
coincidentally nyc gays should report to lorimer and calyer at 8pm if you wanna get drinks with meeee
yahhhhh
(I do not carry photos of my "Trolley Song"-yelping 5-yo niece)
― World Congress of Itch (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 April 2012 20:19 (twelve years ago) link
"You want an address? 2541!"
http://content9.flixster.com/photo/13/91/93/13919371_gal.jpg
― Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Friday, 22 June 2012 20:12 (eleven years ago) link
EXIT!
― old people are made of poop (Eric H.), Friday, 22 June 2012 20:16 (eleven years ago) link
http://www.vice.com/read/the-vice-guide-to-being-gay?Contentpage=-1
― fauxmarc, Thursday, 28 June 2012 17:49 (eleven years ago) link
nope
― J0rdan S., Thursday, 28 June 2012 17:52 (eleven years ago) link