hey bg, i don't think you should feel like you have any obligation to not do anything, if nothing's been explicitly stated on either end.
laurel, 3rd okc date or third date w/same person?
― rayuela, Friday, 16 March 2012 17:49 (fourteen years ago)
3rd person! I know it's not much considering how many dates you have to go on to meet an interesting and compatible stranger, but they're just happening so slooooowly....
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Friday, 16 March 2012 17:52 (fourteen years ago)
Bg, do you have a definite prospect? He seems to like electronic communication...maybe you could initiate the convo by text.
Good luck Sunday, laurel.
― Virginia Plain, Saturday, 17 March 2012 20:22 (fourteen years ago)
Nerves!
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Sunday, 18 March 2012 21:05 (fourteen years ago)
did the gang go away, at least?
― mookieproof, Sunday, 18 March 2012 21:17 (fourteen years ago)
Yeah. Am beginning to reconsider the wisdom of hanging out with them 3 nights in a row, though.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Sunday, 18 March 2012 22:08 (fourteen years ago)
have realized i should probably deactivate this while unemployed as i can't really afford to be dating atm
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Sunday, 18 March 2012 22:31 (fourteen years ago)
though that didn't stop me from going out with this one p badass girl friday night who, i suspect, might be a good new friend. also nice student who i've been activisty with for the last 6 months is now single and seems interested in spending some non-activisty time with me, so there's that.
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Sunday, 18 March 2012 22:32 (fourteen years ago)
Well, so, that happened.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Monday, 19 March 2012 04:53 (fourteen years ago)
uh oh?
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 19 March 2012 05:11 (fourteen years ago)
No! Actually I think it was shockingly normal for a date! I'm a little surprised by "normal" at this point, maybe? He is v v pretty btw.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Monday, 19 March 2012 08:42 (fourteen years ago)
btw guys i had a breakthrough tonight, i realized i am only attracted to lesbians, it all makes sense
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 19 March 2012 08:44 (fourteen years ago)
lol when I see "that happened" I jump to assuming that it's an admission that more happened than was expected
― mh, Monday, 19 March 2012 13:19 (fourteen years ago)
There might have been some unrepentant smooching in full view of a bar half-full of people. Which actually IS more than I expected.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Monday, 19 March 2012 13:29 (fourteen years ago)
whee!
― rayuela, Monday, 19 March 2012 13:40 (fourteen years ago)
Excellent, I thought my nuance detector was not working this fine Monday morning but I see it is calibrated after all
― mh, Monday, 19 March 2012 13:40 (fourteen years ago)
Oh you.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Monday, 19 March 2012 13:49 (fourteen years ago)
btw guys i had a breakthrough tonight, i realized i am only attracted to lesbians, it all makes sense― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, March 19, 2012 8:44 AM (5 hours ago) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGMr6kCWau4
― Wesley Crusher: Teenage F#ck Machine (forksclovetofu), Monday, 19 March 2012 14:25 (fourteen years ago)
Just messaged me to inform me I am radiant despite "tipping towards 50"
>:[
― zooey bechamel (Trayce), Thursday, 22 March 2012 03:46 (fourteen years ago)
GUY just messaged me that should say.
oblivious or negging?
― mookieproof, Thursday, 22 March 2012 03:48 (fourteen years ago)
may think you're sarah mclachlan
― Lil T the Bowed Jet (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 22 March 2012 03:55 (fourteen years ago)
Oblivious, just some random ESL dude from SEAsia - get those occasionally. Sort of Mahir-esque messages.
― zooey bechamel (Trayce), Thursday, 22 March 2012 04:03 (fourteen years ago)
oh no, not another tipping conversation on ilx
― mh, Thursday, 22 March 2012 14:25 (fourteen years ago)
Second date awfully far away.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 22 March 2012 14:48 (fourteen years ago)
like how far?
― Paul Smon (La Lechera), Thursday, 22 March 2012 15:02 (fourteen years ago)
Oh just next week. Although since entire weekend fell through, maybe I can resched.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 22 March 2012 15:06 (fourteen years ago)
I thought you were going to say "tomorrow", all coyly ;)
― Paul Smon (La Lechera), Thursday, 22 March 2012 15:20 (fourteen years ago)
Haha! *bat* *bat*. But no.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 22 March 2012 15:24 (fourteen years ago)
Um yes. It is now tomorrow.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 22 March 2012 19:34 (fourteen years ago)
smooth operator!
― uh oh i'm having an emotion (c sharp major), Thursday, 22 March 2012 19:51 (fourteen years ago)
Baha :)
― zooey bechamel (Trayce), Friday, 23 March 2012 00:33 (fourteen years ago)
someone's screen name is a reference to salinger's catcher in the rye. somehow this turns me off. am i being unfair?
― rayuela, Friday, 23 March 2012 20:23 (fourteen years ago)
nope
― Lil T the Bowed Jet (forksclovetofu), Friday, 23 March 2012 20:31 (fourteen years ago)
Not if they are over 25.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Friday, 23 March 2012 20:37 (fourteen years ago)
They are 44. Haha.
― rayuela, Friday, 23 March 2012 20:41 (fourteen years ago)
I'd have to know what exact screen name they chose before I could weigh in on this topic. As for now, I would not immediately disqualify him.
― Virginia Plain, Friday, 23 March 2012 22:10 (fourteen years ago)
you are generous vp! the screen name is a combo of the title & the name of a character in the book, but i have already decided against him. :/
― rayuela, Saturday, 24 March 2012 21:13 (fourteen years ago)
btw daters remember I said [here] that we should have a NYC FAP?
Thursday April 5th any good?
― the pinefox, Sunday, 25 March 2012 12:02 (fourteen years ago)
Hm maybe but there's a conflicting event on 4/5 for some people, involving a movie screening at BAM and an appearance of Chris Eigeman.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 25 March 2012 17:22 (fourteen years ago)
someone's screen name is a reference to salinger's catcher in the rye. somehow this turns me off.
If their screen name is "Fuck You," marry them.
― Guayaquil (eephus!), Monday, 26 March 2012 15:10 (fourteen years ago)
just when i think i'm out, i see a blonde ex journalist who wears plaid skirts to punk shows that pulls me back in
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 26 March 2012 18:13 (fourteen years ago)
I have a third date today! With the same person. I think this is going fairly well
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Tuesday, 27 March 2012 16:24 (fourteen years ago)
ooh
― mh, Tuesday, 27 March 2012 19:09 (fourteen years ago)
Yep.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Wednesday, 28 March 2012 14:32 (fourteen years ago)
He is completely stupidly cute, the dimples are weapons-grade, I don't even know what to do.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Wednesday, 28 March 2012 14:35 (fourteen years ago)
Do you just sit there while he is talking and think
DIMPLES
― mh, Wednesday, 28 March 2012 14:36 (fourteen years ago)
Yes, he sounds like the teachers in Charlie Brown cartoons, I have to store what he's saying for later retrieval because I can't hear a word.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Wednesday, 28 March 2012 14:37 (fourteen years ago)
alright, i guess this site really did work for me after all (paired with a confluence of other factors/coincidences).
― bene_gesserit, Friday, 6 April 2012 18:49 (fourteen years ago)
Haha.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 6 April 2012 18:50 (fourteen years ago)