i am flattered but idk where you got that idea xpsi started reading dialectic of sex again! so beautiful imo
― kim tim jim investor (harbl), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:30 (fourteen years ago)
I am not a man, and I found the science stuff more understandable than the stuff about stuff about words about words.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:31 (fourteen years ago)
it makes much more sense to describe the "the falsely objective idea of 'clear' language" (hey, that was very clear and direct!) than to publish arcane gibberish for yr academic peers.
actually try to do this while being as true as possible to the phenomenon you are discussing and avoiding re-telling the history of philosophy on every page, and you'll be surprised how fast your language starts to look like, say, Derrida's. it seems to happen on its own! i personally strive for clarity with precision, and sometimes that results in some scary looking stuff.
― ryan, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:31 (fourteen years ago)
xp - you are behaving like a stereotypical dude though!
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:31 (fourteen years ago)
i have never read that book. maybe i will get it tomorrow.
xxp
― horseshoe, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:32 (fourteen years ago)
ha guys you ~fell into my trap~
of course you were able to make sense of that, you're people that have trafficked in that language professionally or just out of interest. and, as i said, it's actually a pretty straightforward account (which duh it's the abstract). but, if you weren't in the business of knowing what those words (or the roots of those words) meant, it might be a little obtuse. moreover, there's the question of why exactly it's even interesting, as a study or observation?
corticosteroids can induce osteonecrosis in chickens. when is this an issue? i can think of a bunch of cases, but i doubt it would be immediately, readily apparent to a person that found these words written on a scrap of paper on the floor.
― i love pinfold cricket (gbx), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:32 (fourteen years ago)
the first chapter is here: http://www.marxists.org/subject/women/authors/firestone-shulamith/dialectic-sex.htmxp
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:33 (fourteen years ago)
Posting once only here to mention that, as a reasonably smart guy who nonetheless doesn't try very hard and Peter Principled his way into a BA in only six years, the first book I ever read that taught me anything at all about feminism was not an academic or theoretical text at all, but Susan Faludi's "Backlash"; and frankly that book should be required reading in US high schools, because if anything things have gotten worse.
― The Large Hardon Collider (Phil D.), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:33 (fourteen years ago)
(also apologies for display name/thread topic collision)
― The Large Hardon Collider (Phil D.), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:34 (fourteen years ago)
academic language is often purposely obfuscated
― iatee, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:34 (fourteen years ago)
yeah the biggest question of the chickens text is why would you do that to chickens??
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:34 (fourteen years ago)
lol i talk about women as "the sex class" all the time and have never read shulamith firestone :/
thanks, rrrobyn!
― horseshoe, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:34 (fourteen years ago)
and i think that's why i didn't find it any easier to parse (maybe a bit more difficult) than the gender/language theory examples. Like, scientists gave drugs to some of the chickens and some of the chickens died. Other than that ... eyes kinda glazed because it didn't seem relevant.
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:35 (fourteen years ago)
but when you understand the text because you are immersed in its science world, you just probably inherently know why they would do that to chickens, is what i'm saying
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:36 (fourteen years ago)
exactly, rrobyn!
Whereas gender and language are things that we all deal with
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:37 (fourteen years ago)
you are behaving like a stereotypical dude though!
Fuck gender roles. I'm not behaving like a stereotypical dude, I'm behaving like a systems thinker with a strong background in both sciences and classical languages. This is the point, these things aren't attached to gender, but to personalities/bents/occupations.
And, as someone who has a huge interest in linguistics and languages, and in fact, studies dead or revived languages ~for fun~ seriously, it's not the "OMG words!" aspect of Butler that troubles me.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:37 (fourteen years ago)
they are often attached to gender, as certain personality traits and bents and occupations are encouraged more if you're male vs. female!
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:39 (fourteen years ago)
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Wednesday, February 15, 2012 8:36 PM (12 seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED: THIS THREAD
i mean basically
― i love pinfold cricket (gbx), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:39 (fourteen years ago)
*beats head against fucking wall*
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:39 (fourteen years ago)
Susan Faludi, yes!xps
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:40 (fourteen years ago)
yeah i love Backlash a lot
― horseshoe, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:40 (fourteen years ago)
so what is this thread supposed to be about, anyway? Science and math and related topics up until very recently (like the past 20 yrs or so) have been ridiculously male-dominant. And it goes back to stereotypes of female brain vs. male brain that that Harvard dolt bought into! Aren't we supposed to be discussing stuff like this?
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:42 (fourteen years ago)
Whereas gender and language are things that we all deal withtrue, but we all don't engage with gender and language in the same waysjust like we all don't engage with chickens and corticosteroid therapy in the same ways
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:43 (fourteen years ago)
lol
― horseshoe, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:44 (fourteen years ago)
some of us don't deal with chickens and corticosteroid therapy at all though!
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:44 (fourteen years ago)
Sarahel, it's 3 in the morning and I don't even know.
I've just spent the entire thread arguing, as a gender non conforming woman, that gender roles are contrived and how harmful it is that non-gendered interests are so actively gendered, and then you come in and tell me I'm ~being a dude~ for having an interest and a job in science.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:44 (fourteen years ago)
like how many people don't even bat an eyelid at gender stereotypes? a lot of people. and chickens are for eating and corticosteroids are something on a medication label or something "doctors know about"
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:46 (fourteen years ago)
i'm just saying that everyone engages with information on some level or another
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:47 (fourteen years ago)
all i'm saying is that your reactions to Butler and the theory and then the science stuff codes as "dudely" -- I don't mean it pejoratively, just that it is funny, because it shows the intersecting types of privilege interacting, and how it is complex.
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:47 (fourteen years ago)
for example, because you do have that aptitude/experience w/science, you have a certain privilege in terms of the science vs. non-science power dynamic.
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:50 (fourteen years ago)
I think it would improve my understand of the thread if everybody, ~ including me ~ would stop using these stupid ~ tildes ~ all the time because it is weird and ~ distracting ~
― "renegade" gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:09 (fourteen years ago)
they're not tildes they're snakes!
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:10 (fourteen years ago)
~ swinton
― "renegade" gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:13 (fourteen years ago)
The tilde is p much my way of saying I am being ~facetious~ or snotty or air-quotey or some other sarcasm family of emoticon WRT the text so highlighted. It's kind of a useful shorthand and I was hoping it would lead to people having a more natural and less negative interpretation of my posts where I'm not being 100% ~serious~ but I guess that didn't work, huh.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:13 (fourteen years ago)
I think it is funny! I have totally adopted it.
it would also be funny if you did it like this:
<swinton>omg Thom Yorke's hair</swinton>
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:17 (fourteen years ago)
Just for that, I'm gonna post one of those ~Thom Yorke Looking Like Lost Son Of Tilda Swinton~ photos from like 1994 or so.
Anyway, ~FEMINISM~, huh? What's that about?
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:18 (fourteen years ago)
he totally looks like her lost son!
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:19 (fourteen years ago)
I'm just gonna mention some books I have liked that deal w/some gender stuff:
Susan Faludi's Backlash yeah this is like gender wars 101, also a great study in how fake media stories get perpetuated
Dorothy Allison's Skin is a collection of really great essays, I like it a lot more than her fiction
Pat Califia's Public Sex was kind of a big deal for me as well when I started reading abt this stuff
Doris Lessing's Prisons We Choose To Live Inside is maybe off topic but idk
Carol J. Adams' The Sexual Politics Of Meat is super interesting, just what it says
would be interested in hearing about what people in this thread think about Faludi's Stiffed, I thought it was really sad and fascinating but maybe skirting a little too close to excusing male privilege?
― sleeve, Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:26 (fourteen years ago)
maybe skirting a little too close to excusing male privilege
^ how i felt reading it
― sarahell, Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:28 (fourteen years ago)
It's odd, I've never read Faludi, either. I probably should. There are huge gaps in my feminist reading due to being autodidact about it - and for the past 3 or 4 years I've been mostly reading obscure feminist linguistics (due to personal interest) or Beauty Myth type stuff (due to the industry I was working in) rather than more general stuff ... which I should probably amend instead of wasting so much time on ILX.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:33 (fourteen years ago)
In an actual hijack for a personal moan, I think I need to get off and stay off this thread.
It's cost me about £10 in mobile Internet at this point. I don't think I'm learning much, I'm certainly not teaching anyone anything they don't know, it's not making me any friends and it's just cementing a really negative impression of me in the minds of ppl who didn't like me to start with.
So in a non-angry and fairly sobered-up mood, I'm pretty sure I do need to bow out. This is doing me more harm than good.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:54 (fourteen years ago)
I appreciate what you bring to this thread and to the boards in gen, fwiw
― mod flanders (m bison), Thursday, 16 February 2012 03:59 (fourteen years ago)
I mean I'm not sure that's worth app. 20 American dollars
― mod flanders (m bison), Thursday, 16 February 2012 04:02 (fourteen years ago)
Hey WCC, I've been out all evening and have only skimmed to catch up, but I want to say that you were instrumental in ilx even taking about any of this stuff, so thanks. I'm sorry it's been kinda costly to you personally, I have also been v frustrated at various points as you know. But we were all here on ilx and we were all presumably having these thoughts privately but we weren't talking about any of it until you made it happen.
I don't know where it's going to take us, but it will be somewhere cooperative and interesting, in large part thanks to your insistence that we talk at all, and your keeping it going even if it meant giving people a target to aim at. I'm sorry that was the role you ended up in. But this is a general good overall, I think.
― one little aioli (Laurel), Thursday, 16 February 2012 04:20 (fourteen years ago)
dood, hoos, that excerpt about "Step up, step back" was so great. I feel like I/we have been having a contentious relationship to a bunch of men that I normally like pretty well, these last couple of days, on these threads, partly because of my inability to say what that thing said, as clearly, and with as much grace extended toward all parties.
― one little aioli (Laurel), Thursday, 16 February 2012 04:48 (fourteen years ago)
"Common Behavioral Patterns That Perpetuate Power Relations of Domination"
http://toolsforchange.org/resources/org-handouts/patterns%20.pdf
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Thursday, 16 February 2012 05:40 (fourteen years ago)
^ don't let that title scare you off, it's a handy one pager with a big comparative table
No, it was cool! I gave it a quick read and it rang a lot of bells. Will consider it further.
― one little aioli (Laurel), Thursday, 16 February 2012 05:44 (fourteen years ago)
cool link hoos thx
― Critique of Pure Moods (goole), Thursday, 16 February 2012 05:47 (fourteen years ago)