Just when you thought it was safe - OK CUPID PART 3: The Return of the WOO!

Like, messages that don't seem to indicate that they've given my profile even a cursory once-over.

Haven't bothered with this at all since December but received a message from a girl last night that read simply "I'm in marketing too! What do you market?!"

I understand not wanting to put too much into a message that is far from guaranteed to get a reply, but maybe if you put a bit more in you might be more likely to receive one, no?

Still replied, putting only slightly more effort in than she did.

"hot dogs!"

almost.

"vajazzles!"

lol

you know, though, someone's gotta market vajazzles

it's a sweet sweet life

Mr. Vajazzles

Not even a lie. Although did only take up about five minutes of last week.

xp
cuz you can look right at him
eat right around him
and can't stop knowing he's there

lol we should go into business

damn that man could vajazzle

i'm on the cusp of deleting this i think...i deleted it from my phone and turned off alerts so i am not checking it anyways. i'm not really interested in meeting new people to go on dates with at the moment.

supposed to meet someone tonight; i don't even know why, really.

not feeling like doing this at all lately

buck up
if they penetrate yr wall you'll know they're real

one of the main reasons i signed up for this was wall penetration

if you know what i mean

mookie go on the date, see what happens, such is life
i'm kind of in awe abt a monday night date tbh, but at the same time, it makes sense, could make monday more fun. and if it's not fun, then you can be like, 'oh my tuesday is crazy and starts early, gotta go'

i've hit the 3-month mark of dating the same person and i'm midway btwn fleeing and being okay with it

my feelings feel weird

Where is the thrilled/elated option

i forgot abt that one
ohgeez

Heh aw <3

i haven't logged on in a while and now things look different. where is the search function? i can't seem to find it. hm. feel like an old lady who can't adapt to things that change.

also how can someone be a 92% match but only 52% friend??

no walls were penetrated in the making of this evening

Something is stopping me emailing last night's date and I don't know what

are you sure you don't know

is your email server down?

I think it's nothing deeper than a pathetic mortal fear of scheduling a second date, realising it ain't going anywhere, and having to back off. I hate that. Obviously, same could happen to me at his instigation, but at this early stage it's me backing off that I don't want to have to deal with.

might you more easily overcome this fear with a different gentleman, or do you think it is universal?

(also have you ever said 'ain't' aloud?)

Sorry to hear there was insufficient penetration!

My failed date cancelled on me, said he'd call in a given timeframe, didn't call, but is still looking at my profile? He'd better be dying from that flu. Maybe I'll tell him that.

was just talking with a friend ('women who run with the wolves' book club night yo (book club of 2)) and she enlightened me about how i was being kinda heavy abt 3-month mark and that i was in fact still just dating this person and that i can totally keep flirting with people and date other people too! ohmy! and so even though i am reading yr tales of not-so-great dates, i feel that i should delve further into dating.

i have a lot of walls

one penetration at a time, as they say, right

sorry

dag

I dont really miss this, except for perhaps the false sense that I was being somewhat proactive about my "dating life."

Can we have a singles v-day party, new yawkers?

xp - I think I have reasonably universal reactions to situations with gentlemen. if I really fall for someone early on then I still fail to get in touch, but through fear of rejection. If my main feeling after meeting a gentleman is 'intrigued', I worry that being the one to suggest a second date will make it seem as though I'm more interested than I actually am at this stage. I know this is silly and probably rooted in a hateful girls-don't-ask-first mentality. I'll get a grip and email soon.

Also, ridiculously busy with work and about to be out of the country for nearly a week. And then, maybe, in NYC over Pres Day weekend! NYOKCsters FAP if it works out?

Ain't: several times a week, in righteous moments.

Can we have a singles v-day party, new yawkers?

y

Ain't: several times a week, in righteous moments.

<3

And then, maybe, in NYC over Pres Day weekend!

going to seattle, alas

darn. but not alas, because Seattle.

I've met some good people on OKC who I'm still in fleeting contact with, but it's mostly been either super flaky people or people I've gone out with once or twice without any indication that there should be further dating (even though roughly half of those ladies seemed wholly prepared to jump directly into Serious Relationship Land, apparently accompanied by pretty much anybody), with the rare detour into longer-term stuff that has melted down. Most of the people I've been the most interested in I've met in real life, where I can get to know them before saddling things with the onus of dating. I just wish that was an easier thing to do once you're no longer in school.

I kinda just wanna delete my OKC profile and hope I bump into anyone who looks intersting in some real world sitch.

% of people that are sick in real life <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< % of people that are supposedly sick on OKC

He texted me, I texted back, problem solved, no date to scheduled till I get back from upcoming UK flit though

i would be down for vday nyc fap
someone keep me in the loop

I am officially on a declared OKC hiatus.

That's good ljubljana, I think letting things peter out so soon, without a second chance, would have been premature, whatever does or doesn't come of it.

i have already been invited to an anti vday party...but i think a vday fap is the first time i ever met ilxors oh so many years ago.

i'll ask my friend who's having the party if she doesn't mind internet strangers coming though!

Oh yes, I was at that too iirc.

you definitely were!

would be down w/a singles ny vday party & meeting some of yall