I haven't bought a bookshelf yet though. I'm actually slowly giving him all my books cuz I don't want 'em anymore.
― tanuki, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:03 (twelve years ago) link
T, if it makes you feel better I think my pathetic cocksucker slut years are just in front of me, so I'm doing my part.
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:11 (twelve years ago) link
don't mind me, i went out last night and didn't get laid and being hungover always makes me super horney anyway
― judith, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:14 (twelve years ago) link
but morbs that does make me feel better.
being hungover always makes me super horney anyway
yes! there's even a thread about that here somewhere
― donna rouge, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:22 (twelve years ago) link
anyway i've been distracted all day by some cypriot pretending to be coy. if he wasn't cute in his profile pic i would be doing my reading for class.
― judith, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:32 (twelve years ago) link
ran into a guy i went on a date with at an art opening last night
― donna rouge, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:34 (twelve years ago) link
on a saturday?
― judith, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:35 (twelve years ago) link
also ended up hooking with this guy after we went back to my place for drinks earlier this week. hadn't really planned on that but it was nice. (he told me afterwards he's not looking for a relationship and i was like "cool! me neither!" would that it always went that smoothly)
― donna rouge, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:36 (twelve years ago) link
yes
this show, which is terrific (that giant wall installation is amazing - took some photos of it last night but they were all fairly blurred)
http://www.luisdejesus.com/
― donna rouge, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:37 (twelve years ago) link
Ooh! Also tbh T they might return someday! Maybe I'm just having a phase of chastity?
― tropical mall lady (Stevie D(eux)), Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:40 (twelve years ago) link
I never had sleeping around days, I guess. Never figured out *how* to do it. I dunno. It's not like I'm opposed to the concept - hell, I'm allowed to - but the entire concept of picking up guys remains totally daunting and confusing to me. I feel like I stumbled into a pretty decent relationship through dumb luck.
Tbh, school and life are so exhausting these days I don't have it in me to go out that much (and despite not picking up ever, I love going out). Went to a concert Friday night that ended at 2:30 for the first time in months and Saturday I was hungover and unproductive until sundown.
The boy's been expressing a desire to indulge in his 'wild youth' days, though, so I guess I'll just live vicariously through him.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:45 (twelve years ago) link
And wait. Confused. tanuki = c0rey, so who is judith?
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:46 (twelve years ago) link
really its only the picking up guys part i enjoy. sometimes i feel like i get bored halfway through sex let alone relationships.
― judith, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:46 (twelve years ago) link
oh, it's Ti4rn4n. nevermind. hi!
my brain still hasn't recovered from friday night, clearly. ugh.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:47 (twelve years ago) link
hey!
― judith, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:47 (twelve years ago) link
hey jude <3
― jed_, Sunday, 29 January 2012 22:54 (twelve years ago) link
Same here, minus the stumbling into a relationship part.
― lag∞n affiliated (The Reverend), Sunday, 29 January 2012 23:33 (twelve years ago) link
I do, I must say, sorta savor being able to tell stories from my *CRAZY PAST* or w/e. I was talking abt sex stuff to my friend at work the other day and I was all "Did I ever tell you abt the time I fucked a rabbi?" and she nearly shit herself.
― tropical mall lady (Stevie D(eux)), Sunday, 29 January 2012 23:38 (twelve years ago) link
i have had the worst 24 hours of trying to get laid. normally i am super good at this.
― judith, Monday, 30 January 2012 00:18 (twelve years ago) link
also, hey jed. <3 <3
― judith, Monday, 30 January 2012 00:19 (twelve years ago) link
A Rabbi?
Like... reform? Or modern orthodox? You get more points/respect from me the further up the theological chain you go.
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 30 January 2012 01:36 (twelve years ago) link
i am doing a half decent job at slimming down, and growing out my stubble. then i am getting a tan and showing off my new haircut.
― surm, Monday, 30 January 2012 02:41 (twelve years ago) link
(xp speaking of getting laid)
― surm, Monday, 30 January 2012 02:42 (twelve years ago) link
I've gained about 10 lbs since this summer. I'm okay with that.
― tanuki, Monday, 30 January 2012 02:47 (twelve years ago) link
but the entire concept of picking up guys remains totally daunting and confusing to me.
Me too until I have way too many drinks in me and I turn a corner and I'm suddenly starting conversations all over the place and evidently being good at breaking the ice in a way I normally am not.
Last night I went to the somewhat seedy Lucky H0r5h0e and talked to a bunch of Mexican and Guatemalan guys celebrating two birthdays. One of them - short and cute - asked to friend me on FB but I'm not sure he succeeded. I was like just take my phone number, but being a modern man, he doesn't like using the phone.
― Je55e, Monday, 30 January 2012 02:54 (twelve years ago) link
It's also far easier for me to start a conversation w/ a stranger in Spanish. Or when in a strange city. Maybe I feel more open when I'm out of my usual element or something.
― Je55e, Monday, 30 January 2012 02:55 (twelve years ago) link
picking up guys is somewhere between hello and a miracle, it's a fine line
― surm, Monday, 30 January 2012 03:32 (twelve years ago) link
My worst moment of which I a proudest is when I went up to the stranger in the bar and said, "Take me home with you," and he did. I reserve the right to brag about that, though I don't even consider it bragging since it was the booze talking, not me.
― Je55e, Monday, 30 January 2012 03:53 (twelve years ago) link
me and my straight best friend have ended up having really frank discussions about sexuality the past two nights
― lag∞n affiliated (The Reverend), Monday, 30 January 2012 08:19 (twelve years ago) link
what constitutes "really frank"?
[also, i enjoy v. much the construction of the phrase 'my straight best friend' insofar as it inverts all of the weird tokenism of the far too often heard phrase 'my gay best friend']
― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 30 January 2012 15:21 (twelve years ago) link
yea the 1-2 punch pickup can work real wonders jess
takes one to know one in those kinds of situations
― surm, Monday, 30 January 2012 15:33 (twelve years ago) link
Ha – I always had a frank sex/"relationship" chat with two of my best straight bros last night: prostates and such.
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 January 2012 15:38 (twelve years ago) link
whoops: omit "always"
Chicken wings and beers helped with the sextalk.
As for my sex life, I've been dry for weeks, since before Xmas; thank god for my dromedary instincts.
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 January 2012 15:40 (twelve years ago) link
you store it in a hump?
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 January 2012 15:41 (twelve years ago) link
I store my humps more like
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 January 2012 15:46 (twelve years ago) link
I just jerked around all weekend, not nec in a metaphorical way
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 January 2012 15:52 (twelve years ago) link
jerked into a literal facepalm
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 January 2012 15:53 (twelve years ago) link
i went to the salon and talked to the ladies, scrubbed my shower and my sink, re-organized the linen closet and got the new Vogue
― surm, Monday, 30 January 2012 16:02 (twelve years ago) link
I need to clean my bathroom tonight or tomorrow.
― Exile in lolville (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 January 2012 16:02 (twelve years ago) link
"clean"? is that a verb?
The sum of my linens are always either on the bed or in the laundry.
― Literal Facepalms (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 January 2012 16:03 (twelve years ago) link
btw the new Givenchy boy models look pretty dope imho
― surm, Monday, 30 January 2012 16:06 (twelve years ago) link
i went to brooklyn with my boyfriend and stayed in a hotel. the elevator in the hotel was lit with violet LEDs and had shitty dance music piped in. rave elevator, not so great. the rest of the trip was pretty awesome. fluffy king-sized bed, why can't you be mine??
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 30 January 2012 17:35 (twelve years ago) link
i also brunched a lot and saw the HIDE/SEEK queer portraiture exhibit at the brooklyn museum (highly recommended btw)
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 30 January 2012 17:39 (twelve years ago) link
the thing from the smithsonian?
― judith, Monday, 30 January 2012 17:44 (twelve years ago) link
does it have this in it?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0weP_HMOFg
― judith, Monday, 30 January 2012 17:45 (twelve years ago) link
that is still the best thing
― donna rouge, Monday, 30 January 2012 17:51 (twelve years ago) link