Oh. That was not in response to Eric's request!
I kind of like chin + patch - mustache.
― Je55e, Monday, 16 January 2012 18:52 (twelve years ago) link
u look like a straight guy at a music festival
― surm, Monday, 16 January 2012 18:54 (twelve years ago) link
LOL, was gonna say "no fair!"
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Monday, 16 January 2012 18:54 (twelve years ago) link
altho i dunno if straight men wear those hats
― surm, Monday, 16 January 2012 18:55 (twelve years ago) link
Yeah, the coloring-outside-the-lines on even that facial hair, imo, precludes it from being a goatee in the way I'm talking about.
(When I'm done with Manuary, tho, I'm thinking of toying with a horseshoe moustache just to see if it works.)
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Monday, 16 January 2012 18:57 (twelve years ago) link
I am a gay guy at a music festival. It's Jenny's hat. That was 2004 at Intonation n/k/a Pitchfork. That was the day I first time I met Kenan. He gave me slugs off his Jim Beam and then a deep kiss - being silly, not making out.
― Je55e, Monday, 16 January 2012 18:59 (twelve years ago) link
Eric, I think a horseshoe mustache could look good on you. On some guys it's super hot.
― Je55e, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:00 (twelve years ago) link
u and kenan kissed on the lips?
― surm, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:02 (twelve years ago) link
there really should be an ilx gossip rag
― surm, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:06 (twelve years ago) link
I can't wait til goatees come back. They are underappreciated indeed.
― lost ai weiwei (Stevie D(eux)), Monday, January 16, 2012 6:34 PM (38 minutes ago)
they are so on the verge
― judith, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:13 (twelve years ago) link
We were just being goofy. But yes, lips, and also tongue.
xp
― Je55e, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:14 (twelve years ago) link
dang
― surm, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:16 (twelve years ago) link
this is kenan though right
― judith, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:16 (twelve years ago) link
being goofy
I should try that sometime.
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Monday, 16 January 2012 19:20 (twelve years ago) link
I am a gay guy at a music festival. It's Jenny's hat. That was 2004 at Intonation n/k/a Pitchfork.
Wow, have we ever talked abt how we were both at this?
― lost ai weiwei (Stevie D(eux)), Monday, 16 January 2012 19:36 (twelve years ago) link
I've met tons of straight guys who love to be "goofy" about same-sex stuff in a Jackass kind of way. Especially when I worked in restaurants and when I used to go to house parties w/ more 20-somethings. They did it for laughs.
I used to work with two straight guys who put on a show by talking sexy ("sexy") and rub each other's dicks through their pants as a joke. One of them got a new girlfriend who stormed out of the bar in a shit fit the first time she saw them do that. The other guy's GF soothed her, but she was never OK with it.
xp - I don't think we have! It was the first time many of the ChiLX people met: Jenny, Jeff, and I knew each other, obv., and we met La Lechera, jaymc, n/a, and Sarah (his wife, I forget her screen name).
― Je55e, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:40 (twelve years ago) link
i thought la lechera was a much newer poster than that
― judith, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:41 (twelve years ago) link
I think she was The Milkmaid previously? Not sure.
― Je55e, Monday, 16 January 2012 19:44 (twelve years ago) link
I've kissed a couple of theoretical straight guys; no tongue though.
I would like to have organized a gay FAP in Chicago this weekend but I was only there a couple days. Hung out with sarge and his boy on Saturday night and can confirm that he chose well. sarge too.
― lumber up, limbaugh down (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 00:35 (twelve years ago) link
when I can get ahold of my Dorothy Michaels glasses again.
hmmm, seeing u & Stephen Merchant in a very tall reboot of Bosom Buddies
― Dr Morbois de Bologne (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 02:47 (twelve years ago) link
The straight guys who I kissed or groped or was groped by were definitely straight, but we were also definitely just goofing.
Especially in NC - where I never had a gay friend, so I hung out w/ a lot of straight guys - I was the training wheels gay for bros to be tolerant of. Given enough booze, this led them to want to confront taboos like another guy doing body shots out of his girlfriend's navel or boobs or poking another guy's dick.
― Je55e, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 03:09 (twelve years ago) link
Alfred, what brought you go Chicago?
― Je55e, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 03:10 (twelve years ago) link
At the time it was gratifying to be the special gay that defeated homophobia, but thinking back, I heard "I like Jesse b/c he's gay, but not like other gay guys," which is pretty fucked up. If someone said that now we would commence a Very Special Episode.
― Je55e, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 03:18 (twelve years ago) link
watching ryan harrison play his 1st round match in the aussie open, love this guyhttp://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/d/d1/Ryan_Harrison_Tennis_Player.jpg
― surm, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 04:04 (twelve years ago) link
need to see experiment
Pouting with Pacino.
http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7174/6712596239_f13f70afd4.jpg
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 04:48 (twelve years ago) link
w h o
― lost ai weiwei (Stevie D(eux)), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 05:02 (twelve years ago) link
a
you look kinda like denis lavant
― tanuki, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 05:08 (twelve years ago) link
Nice/ouch
http://sexyuglyicon.tumblr.com/post/3462861804/icon-denis-lavant-source
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 05:19 (twelve years ago) link
yow
― tanuki, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 05:24 (twelve years ago) link
niiiice
― Dr Morbois de Bologne (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 16:31 (twelve years ago) link
hi.
― Sophomore subs are the new Smith lesbians. (the table is the table), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 17:50 (twelve years ago) link
nice
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:03 (twelve years ago) link
212
― lumber up, limbaugh down (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:38 (twelve years ago) link
ugh. i feel like i've effectively become recloseted
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:46 (twelve years ago) link
Someone forced you?
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:48 (twelve years ago) link
by Azealia Banks?
― lumber up, limbaugh down (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:48 (twelve years ago) link
eric, i have no idea what that question means
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:49 (twelve years ago) link
to yr fam?
― donna rouge, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:50 (twelve years ago) link
what's going on, Rev?
― Dr Morbois de Bologne (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:51 (twelve years ago) link
xp no, obv. just to new ppl i meet, even ppl who have become very close friends
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:52 (twelve years ago) link
They probably still know.
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:54 (twelve years ago) link
I mean, if you've told them, they do.
yeah, maybe. i've just kind of adopted a policy of let people assume whatever they want about my sexuality, i don't have to explain shit. which seemed logical at the time, but i'm realizing i really wish i was more forthcoming.
xp, no that's the problem, i haven't been telling anybody. and i keep having ppl who otherwise know me well, assume i'm 100% straight.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:58 (twelve years ago) link
i think you guys are misunderstanding me, the issue isn't concerning anyone i've been out to in the past, it's new people i've met in the past year or so
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 January 2012 18:59 (twelve years ago) link
You don't have to shove your Gay Business Card into their hand in the first 5 mins, you know. I know it's hard/weird sometimes, but just be natural about it.
― Dr Morbois de Bologne (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 19:01 (twelve years ago) link
There's no correct way to do it, I've found. Best to drop a remark at a bar when a bro comments on a girl ("Fuck that, man, did you see her boyfriend?") or in some other casual way.
― lumber up, limbaugh down (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 19:01 (twelve years ago) link
I guess I'd wonder how many people you have a deep need to tell? There are definitely a lot of people I meet in any given year I'm not at all interested in sharing that (dormant) aspect of my personal life.
― dor Dumbeddownball (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 19:02 (twelve years ago) link
I know it's probably a different set of concerns if you're bi, tho.
i was just talking about this the other night - coming out is such a tediously ENDLESS process if you're not totally flaming. plus, the kind of comment you need to drop in to point people in the right direction is often a bit too crude for some situations.
"interested in: men" on facebook has been genuinely useful in this regard.
― irina-camelia begu (lex pretend), Tuesday, 17 January 2012 19:14 (twelve years ago) link