Gay Marriage to Alfred: Your Thoughts

The idea that this guy would tweet some fake philosophical bs and didn't mean anything about gay marriage isn't far-fetched. If he lost a lot of gay marriage supporters and gained just as many hateful coffee drinkers, I can also see how he'd feel stuck with his new dick customer base.

I can well believe his tweet was not based on a deep, abiding belief system, but was merely a smug bit of douchbaggery he whipped up on a whim because it made him feel clever, but it's meaning was pretty clear. The tag set practically went into conniptions to semaphore his intent.

#ChasingAfterTheWind just makes me think of this dude

omg, thank you so much for that

A man deeply touched by The Wizard of Oz I do not doubt.

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My boss and his longtime partner got married in NY today. I'm very happy for them!

today was a good day huh
all this real nice to look through

Start posting photos of yourself so I can consider offers, btw.

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well?

Yes, but I am always the Keymaster.

lol
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My boss and his partner -- now husband! -- actually showed up on NBC Nightly News! (My boss, Tom, is on the right, and his partner Steve is on the left.)

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Larry Kramer in a mood to incur wrath:

"These marriages, in whichever state, are what I call feel-good marriages. Compared to the benefits heterosexual marriages convey, gay marriages are an embarrassment — that we should accept so little, and with so much hoopla of excitement and self-congratulation."

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2015720197_gayweddings25.html

As if DOMA will ever be repealed if citizens and governments at lower levels don't first show that the will is there. It takes momentum to make something like that happen.

Lemme guess, no one popped Larry the question.

he's had the same bf for 30 years, no? guess they're not the bourgeois type.

But he is the gadfly type.

Oh, my mistake. Sucks that someone so vanguard would feel compelled to submit to something as retrograde as monogamy.

larry kramer is such a legend

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Oh man I love Myron Levine and Phillip Zinderman a lot.

Larry Kramer may not have chosen marriage, but he has been an advocate of gay marriage forever.

Oh man I love Myron Levine and Phillip Zinderman a lot.

it took me FAR too long to realize what was happening in that picture

I need a nap

The quote above is part of his statement for nation-wide marriage equality.

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And he certainly was pro-monogamy during the 70s and 80s. I think it was in Faggots that he wrote "We are fucking ourselves to death" and that was before anyone had even dreamed of "the gay cancer."

wkiw the levine-zindermans

i keep scanning the slideshows to see if i know anyone but then i remember that i think i only know like two gay couples in NYC who are in LTRs

Actually, that's not exactly what Larry Kramer said.

I never interpreted it as “Larry Kramer Hates Gay Marriage.” The inequality that remains is why I don't understand the "Celebrate or die" dictum gays are giving others who aren't whooping it up over the current situation.

And also, our society is dying, but that's not a gay enough issue.

They might be related.

Actually, that's not exactly what Larry Kramer said.

so what is THAT in your sentence? I quoted exactly what he said (although it got edited along the way).

Larry is really disappointed when he submits 5000 words to the Times and they publish 3 sentences.

Well, when they choose to publish the 3 sentences that most make him seem like the guy that shit in the wedding punch bowl, sure. Not to say he probably hasn't actually taken a few shits in various wedding punch bowls in his day.

I quoted exactly what he said

From a piece that already stripped the quote of essential context, prefaced by a statement that makes it sound like he "shit in the wedding punch bowl," followed up with suggesting that marriage is "bourgeois."

Also your ceaseless harping on the "celebrate or die" stance that you insist "gays" (who are those gays??) are pushing - you really need some examples to back up that allegation.

you

I mean, there is a major and obvious difference between "celebrate or die" and "I'd like to celebrate this victory, small though it is, and when you come around hanging your crepe as usual, I am going to tell you that you seem like an condescending, zealous killjoy."

I don't give a shit if you celebrate, but you clearly have an obsession with whether others do.

Thanks, Doctor. I hate to see errant political priorities based on narcissism. Also, fuck off.

Oh my god do you suck, Morbs.

He shat all over my Facebook page for linking to an editorial defining the equality situation, Eric.

T3d's resistance to the marriage movement makes political sense. Yours is born strictly from your inability to accept anyone else being happy.

...which is my initial confusion about the Facebook dumbing-down of the term "friends" turned out to be well founded.

So many diagnoses today!

My "resistance to the marriage movement" is pretty much the same as t3d's afaik.

T3d's resistance to the marriage movement makes political sense. Yours is born strictly from your inability to accept anyone else being happy.

A million times this. I partially disagree with T3d, but at least he is cogent and rational.

I want maximum happiness for everybody. BAN MARRIAGE

Almost funny.

I also don't disagree that you and T3d both share the same core argument, that there are "more important things to focus on." It's just that they're different "important things." I'm still not clear on what T3d's are, but your "more important thing" is clearly making sure everyone realizes how wrong they are to feel any happiness at all in our current situation.

EXACTLY, just like electing a black president who's garbage.

My girlfriend has a great marriage proposal: everybody should be allowed exactly one legitimate marriage to whomever they want. After that, domestic partnership, simple as can be.

So happy your girlfriend proposed to you!