How old where you when you first saw it HS? Have you always felt this way?
― \(^o\) (/o^)/ (ENBB), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:10 (twelve years ago) link
lol sorry - it's just really interesting to me because I'm trying to remember details now and it's been too long.
― \(^o\) (/o^)/ (ENBB), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:11 (twelve years ago) link
i first saw it as a kid at one million slumber parties. i don't think i felt this way explicitly, but i just didn't like it as much as i felt like i was supposed to. "i want to be with your daughter" always bugged me and also...i don't know something about the whole lloyd is obsessed with this girl and she needs a way to get away from her dad unequal affections thing depressed me, too. although i guess that's fairly realistic. but yeah, i think i started explicitly thinking of it as creepy only after seeing jerry maguire and doing some retroactive cameron crowe criticism.
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:13 (twelve years ago) link
kept wishing the movie was about lili taylor
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:14 (twelve years ago) link
I wd like to do "Rikki Don't Lose That Number" a la Mahoney at karaoke
― already president FYI (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:15 (twelve years ago) link
john mahoney is so great in this movie tbf
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:15 (twelve years ago) link
cameron crowe is really nasty stuff. fast times exempted, maybe
i've never seen SA tbh
― goole, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:16 (twelve years ago) link
he scored nancy wilson so i hope he's not a supercreep irl
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:17 (twelve years ago) link
I mean I think I can sort of see where you're coming from even though I never felt that myself. It's probably been 10 years since I've seen it though so I'd be interested to see what I think of it in light of this discussion. "i want to be with your daughter" - I still think that parts def just sweet though. ;)
― \(^o\) (/o^)/ (ENBB), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:17 (twelve years ago) link
― already president FYI (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, June 22, 2011 1:15 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark
I think of him singing along every time I hear that song.
IS HE NOT GOING TO GET A JOB OR AN IDENTITY OR WHAT THE FUCK
man ive never seen 'say anything'... wish this thread cld start being abt what a nutso movie 'identity' is tbh
― John Ballsack (Lamp), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:18 (twelve years ago) link
x-post He doesn't know yet who he is or what he wants to do with his life but he's sure that he wants her in it - sometimes stuff happens and people feel that way and that's OK!
― \(^o\) (/o^)/ (ENBB), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:19 (twelve years ago) link
It's OK though HS. You don't have to like it.
― \(^o\) (/o^)/ (ENBB), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:20 (twelve years ago) link
haha i'm sorry
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:21 (twelve years ago) link
i think years of suppressing my issues with that movie and nodding politely about how much everyone loves it have taken a toll
haha lamp OTM, "Identity" is an extended WTF
― chupacabra - a delicious burrito (DJP), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:23 (twelve years ago) link
― horseshoe, Wednesday, June 22, 2011 1:17 PM (3 minutes ago) Bookmark
he's a kickboxer who loves the clash!
― cr?m margera (some dude), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:23 (twelve years ago) link
i know and he doesn't want to process anything bought or sold i know
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:24 (twelve years ago) link
hahahahaha
― \(^o\) (/o^)/ (ENBB), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:26 (twelve years ago) link
this is tough but my favorite ~movie~ out of these is grifters, hands down, tho it's not his best performance by any means
being john malkovich is a really strong contender for my vote, too
gbp is plenty of fun but the scene where he's holding some random baby and has an *epiphany* 80s soundtrack moment somehow just fucks up the whole movie for me
― america's next tot mom (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:28 (twelve years ago) link
the grifter is v v good, but it's all about anjelica huston, so yeah it feels like not the right vote for this poll
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:28 (twelve years ago) link
that's about the best you can get out of a 19-year-old
xxp
― already president FYI (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
We have a tendency to reduce behavior these days to psychobabble. I had a discussion the other day in class about "stalking." Apparently it's "stalking" to follow a girl when you both leave class, catch up, and ask for her phone number. The girl who complained said he had "issues."
― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
you know i always htought the baby scene in gpb was hokey and it took me out of the movie, but then i saw it as an adult and it made me bawl, so
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
identity = best worst twist ending EVAH
― Heady Snobbin (Pillbox), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
well it does help that the baby is ugly.
are you accusing me of psychobabble, alfred? because i can live with that.
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:30 (twelve years ago) link
don't have a problem with lloyd in say anything, he's a teenager. if ione skye weren't drained of everything but her complexion and john mahoney didn't bug his eyes out psychotically while howling "I MAKE THEIR LIVES BETTER" i might be more into it.
― my Sonicare toothbrush (difficult listening hour), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:30 (twelve years ago) link
OTM^infinity
― chupacabra - a delicious burrito (DJP), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:30 (twelve years ago) link
it might be just my affection for "Let My Love Open The Door" but i like that scene
― cr?m margera (some dude), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:31 (twelve years ago) link
say anything's dad is a crook ending bothered me more than the cusack. voting malkovich, watched it a few days ago actually.
― iatee, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:32 (twelve years ago) link
I have never seen "Say Anything" but the soundtrack has the only Replacements song I really love on it
― chupacabra - a delicious burrito (DJP), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:32 (twelve years ago) link
identity is unspeakably bad
say anything is pretty dumb
cameron crowe is horrible, essentially a war criminal
will never be able to disassociate cusack from terrible faux-nostalgia for his 80s movies on the part of various get up kids-loving high school friends of mine
grifters and grosse point blank are pretty good though
― ☂ (max), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:32 (twelve years ago) link
cusack as edgar allen poe:
http://screencrave.frsucrave.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/john-cusack-as-edgar-allan-poe-full-15-11-10-kc.jpg
― ☂ (max), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:33 (twelve years ago) link
it's just that the movie doesn't think he's creepy? or maybe it does and i'm not giving crowe enough credit.
I can't think of any evidence in the cameron crowe oeuvre that he thinks this is anything other than the definition of romance.
― da croupier, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:33 (twelve years ago) link
they're all very "and i saw her standing there"
― da croupier, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:34 (twelve years ago) link
Love is when you give a girl your garage door opener and she accepts.
― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:34 (twelve years ago) link
i am going to shut up about this one day but i just want to repeat, it's not so much that lloyd is a creep--i have been that creep, especially when i was a teenager--it's that cameron crowe seems to think all that stuff is really romantic and what life is all about and that being romantically linked to another person is a goddamn vocation and all of that really bugs me.
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:34 (twelve years ago) link
xp da croupier said it much more succinctly
xp i like almost famous! the girl leaves in almost famous.
― my Sonicare toothbrush (difficult listening hour), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:35 (twelve years ago) link
and the boy gets a job.
say anything annoys me because it seems like its supposed to be about lloyd dobler growing up? ("be a man not a guy"?) but he never really does
― ☂ (max), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:35 (twelve years ago) link
― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, June 22, 2011 1:34 PM (32 seconds ago) Bookmark
i think the reason i can deal with singles is because campbell scott is foxier than any other crowe hero. also 90s fashion.
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:36 (twelve years ago) link
Crowe also thinks that if you seduce a girl with the right song - preferably by a white guitar guy – she'll lead you into her secret garden.
― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:36 (twelve years ago) link
and the boy gets a job. --my Sonicare toothbrush (difficult listening hour)
yeah but that job is to be cameron crowe
― iatee, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:36 (twelve years ago) link
romantically linked to another person is a goddamn vocation
Yes that's annoying. On the other hand I do sort of believe that life is all about love and which is probably why I buy into a lot of sappy shit that you'd probably find intolerable.
― \(^o\) (/o^)/ (ENBB), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:37 (twelve years ago) link
Crowe also thinks that if you seduce a girl with the right song - preferably by a white guitar guy – she'll lead you into her secret garden.― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, June 22, 2011 5:36 PM (36 seconds ago) Bookmark
― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, June 22, 2011 5:36 PM (36 seconds ago) Bookmark
well i mean cliched and boring and low-level offensive sure but untrue no
― my Sonicare toothbrush (difficult listening hour), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:37 (twelve years ago) link
sure life is about love but not necessarily courtship
― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:38 (twelve years ago) link
i like almost all the sappy shit in the world that is unconnected to cameron crowe--i cried when john cusack holds the baby in grosse point blank!
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 June 2011 17:38 (twelve years ago) link