I firmly believe that abortion should be freely available to those who want it, those who don't believe in abortions needn't have them. The exception to this being that if the father wants the foetus aborted then I don't believe the woman should be allowed to carry on with the pregnancy.
I do understand than many anti-abortionists feel that they must protect the rights of the foetus because it cannot protect itself - even if the parents believe in abortion, *perhaps* the foetus doesn't?? This is where I have to partially agree with Martin - I don't consider the foetus's "live" status to be important but I do not believe that a foetus has any rights. The main difference between Martin & my beliefs is that "when it can survive independently of its mother" doesn't do it for me. Foetuses can survive from less than 20 weeks old with medical support these days. I'd say "when it can survive without any more assistance than the average full-term baby" or something like that - although that would be a bit of a compromise because I don't think a woman who gives birth to a full-term baby and kills/attempts to kill it straight away has done anything wrong.
As for abortion as birth-control, I reckon this almost doesn't exist, even amongst women who say that is what they have done/will do. I'd say most of them are actually in total denial of their fertility status - which is really a psychological problem that may have "abortion as birth-control" as a resultant symptom, or they have a lot of difficulty with birth-control for maybe physical or non-compliant partner reasons. Especially when a woman is in a compromised state due to depression & other mental problems, drug-abuse, physical or psychological abuse, etc. responsibiliby for fertility control can be beyond her abilities. I know quite a few people who've had multiple abortions and not one of them considers it to be a "form of birth control" but rather an unpleasant but thankfully available last resort.
For a woman who uses the rhythm or billings methods for birth-control then perhaps 3 abortions in 20 years would be far more acceptable than being on the pill or depo-provera or whatever (let's say she is intolerant to hormonal contraceptives, gets urinary tract infections from using the diaphragm and is allergic to the spermicide, can't use an IUD and is or has a partner who is allergic to latex or a partner who is too well hung for condoms or refuses to use them due to decrease in sensation) - especially seeing as women who are using the pill/diaphragm/IUDs etc also get pregnant every so often.
― toraneko (toraneko), Sunday, 29 September 2002 05:48 (twenty-three years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 29 September 2002 08:07 (twenty-three years ago)
As I see it (and have studied it), you're not sentient until at least 3 months (but I suspect it's more like 6 months). Thus, by my definition, a 2-month-old foetus is not human. I give not a scrap for 'potential human beings', the same way I don't worry about potential car accidents.
If it has not and will not happen, then those involved (including the 'potential' itself) are not harmed.
I dislike the way anti-abortionists are labelled 'pro-life'. In my eyes, abortion is pro-life. It's pro the lives of the parents, or those who would have to care for an 'unwanted' child.
― Andrew (enneff), Sunday, 29 September 2002 09:01 (twenty-three years ago)
Ah Im not really surprised at this type of thinking but it still horrifies me... but I guess my views must be as offensive to others as this is to me.
Torankeo
"Classic, not least of all because if the body is able to decide to spontaneously abort a foetus for whatever (frequently physical) reason, then when the mind decides that it wants to abort one for whatever physical, social, economical, psychological, etc. reason then it should also be able to follow through with its decision."
This to me is perhaps the most interesting point you make, still I find it difficult to accept as logical- any way I think about it.Let me see if Im reading you right. Bear with me Ill try and extend your logic.
If we kill someone in self defense that gives us the right to murder *innocent*others?
If cancer or other diseases kill people then we should allowed to murder *innocent * others?
What you have avoided is intent.There is a crucial distinction between an unavoidable physical process taking place, and someone actually using his or her *will* to cause the death of another. Wrongdoing takes place in the will, whether in acting, or not acting.
― Kiwi, Sunday, 29 September 2002 09:02 (twenty-three years ago)
Why is it that this sentence is never followed up with an extrapolation that supports the original speaker?
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Sunday, 29 September 2002 11:05 (twenty-three years ago)
― Queen G (Queeng), Sunday, 29 September 2002 14:52 (twenty-three years ago)
as lyra said, emergency contraception is a big part of this. it needs to be readily available to women who want it.
― ginny, Sunday, 29 September 2002 15:58 (twenty-three years ago)
― Andrew L (Andrew L), Sunday, 29 September 2002 16:08 (twenty-three years ago)
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 29 September 2002 16:14 (twenty-three years ago)
me too. mind you...
http://www.theonion.com/onion3119/stupidbabies.html
― mbosa, Sunday, 29 September 2002 19:41 (twenty-three years ago)
Andrew Im not sure what gives you the right to create a whole new defintion of a human being. I would venture my guess but that would be uncharitable of me. No honest biologist would agree with you.
A "human being" is defined by objective reality -- i.e., someone existing [a "being"] and consisting of at least one living cell that contains "human" chromosomes. The term "human being" can't be defined by a political, arbitrary formula based on convenience to you.
Even pro-death courts admit that there are non-sentient "human beings" (both born and pre-born).
― Kiwi, Sunday, 29 September 2002 22:16 (twenty-three years ago)
& kiwi - yr third paragraph makes no sense/contradicts itself!
― I R Secular Eschatologist (esskay), Sunday, 29 September 2002 22:56 (twenty-three years ago)
― Matt (Matt), Sunday, 29 September 2002 23:20 (twenty-three years ago)
I think it's completely tragic, too, that the 'using it as birth control' idea is so often bandied about by the antichoicers -- women who do that are probably a bit less mythic than the 'welfare queens' so often invoked by anti-public assistance politicians.
Also the high percentage of in-power antichoice types who are male = total dud to the umpteenth degree, because like they've ever had to deal with worrying over a missed period, or not having the money to feed and care for a baby if it comes to term? (Note how the antichoice and anti-public assistance politicans frequently walk in the same personae?) And how many of those placard-wavers have funded abortions of wives, daughters, mistressesof theirs, anyway? I suspect the answer to that question is not "zero."
― maura (maura), Sunday, 29 September 2002 23:42 (twenty-three years ago)
actually i DO know someone who uses abortion as a method of contraception. i don't know why - its bloody illogical, you're not okay with condoms but you ARE okay with abortion??!!
other than that, i think abortion is classic, for exactly the reasons ned said. i also think that someone who has never and will never carry fetuses inside them has a downright gall to decide that abortion is wrong period. if you are the biological father of the child maybe you have some say but ultimately it is a womans choice because a woman plays a much greater role in childbearing than a man. i agree with toraneko that arguments when about when life begins are not productive. even if they were, defining what life is by using medical definitions of death is pretty faulty. what is not death != life.
― di smith (lucylurex), Sunday, 29 September 2002 23:56 (twenty-three years ago)
*blush* To you and to Di both, thanks. :-)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 30 September 2002 00:10 (twenty-three years ago)
― di smith (lucylurex), Monday, 30 September 2002 00:37 (twenty-three years ago)
All I was trying to illustrate (however muddily, and I apologise), is that I don't have any problem with destroying something that isn't sentient.
(unless it was once sentient, in the case of someone in a coma or some such, and has the potential to become sentient again. Obviously the destruction of such a future-sentient being would be detrimental to those who loved it in it's previous sentience.)
― Andrew (enneff), Monday, 30 September 2002 04:03 (twenty-three years ago)
― Kiwi, Monday, 30 September 2002 04:27 (twenty-three years ago)
You're the only one who'll nurture this discussion into an "atomic kitten sized debacle" with blatantly provocative comments like "do you hate all men or just the ones who have a penis?"
― Andrew (enneff), Monday, 30 September 2002 04:58 (twenty-three years ago)
― Andrew (enneff), Monday, 30 September 2002 05:02 (twenty-three years ago)
― anthony easton (anthony), Monday, 30 September 2002 05:08 (twenty-three years ago)
I don't agree with this, for any number of personal reasons. Your body is your own, not your partner's (or anyone else's for that matter).
― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Monday, 30 September 2002 05:16 (twenty-three years ago)
― anthony easton (anthony), Monday, 30 September 2002 05:31 (twenty-three years ago)
― Andrew (enneff), Monday, 30 September 2002 06:12 (twenty-three years ago)
― Andrew (enneff), Monday, 30 September 2002 06:13 (twenty-three years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 30 September 2002 06:20 (twenty-three years ago)
The decision to abort a child is, ultimately, the mother's.
However, if a man and a woman are in a relationship together, and the woman becomes pregnant, obviously the two will have to have lengthly discussion, and arrive at a mutual decision, before any action is taken.
From the male point of view:
I would not want a child that is 'half me' being born without my consent, especially if I wouldn't be able to care for the child directly. I would expect many to react with sympathy for me on this issue.
On the other hand, were I anti-abortion, and were I wanting my partner (or ex-partner) to have this child on my behalf, I would expect people to react negatively towards me. I have no right to force someone else to have a child.
I guess the bottom line is this: before sleeping with someone you should find out how they feel about abortion. If you're not comfortable with their views, then don't fuck. End of story.
― Andrew (enneff), Monday, 30 September 2002 06:22 (twenty-three years ago)
translate: you feminist bitch, shut your mouth, how dare you make valid criticisms of my flimsy arguments?
― di smith (lucylurex), Monday, 30 September 2002 06:46 (twenty-three years ago)
I realize that this is considered the "logical" way of looking at pregnancy, but unfortunately it is wrong wrong wrong. A women HAS to DO NOTHING (and should not have to DO ANYTHING). She does not have to inform her husband. No mutual decision need be arrived at. No lengthy discussions either. A women wants to end a pregnancy, she does. No man, no other woman, no government, no religious organization should be able to decide whether or not the pregnancy is carried to term. End of story.
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 30 September 2002 07:23 (twenty-three years ago)
― Andrew (enneff), Monday, 30 September 2002 07:33 (twenty-three years ago)
Additionally how pleasant is life likely to be if your parents resent you before you are even born.
Also, the morning after pill isn't "a simple fix", it's a bloody painful one
― Sofa King Alternative (Sofa King Alternative), Monday, 30 September 2002 11:11 (twenty-three years ago)
"Additionally how pleasant is life likely to be if your parents resent you before you are even born."
I would guess that having my parents "resent" me would be slightly more pleasant than the alternative of having my parents "terminate" me before I was born. :-(
I wonder how many people here would rather not be living today because their parents weren't perfect.
― El Catracho, Monday, 30 September 2002 14:38 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 30 September 2002 14:43 (twenty-three years ago)
I suppose that you could be severely injured by either an accidental car crash or an intentional car crash; but you view both as morally equivalent events. Is life just a big game of chance? Is moral ambivalence the answer? That solution seems a bit defeatist.
― El Catracho, Monday, 30 September 2002 15:01 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 30 September 2002 15:03 (twenty-three years ago)
― gareth (gareth), Monday, 30 September 2002 15:06 (twenty-three years ago)
― gareth (gareth), Monday, 30 September 2002 15:09 (twenty-three years ago)
Looking at your argument, if your parents never met, you are correct: you would never have existed. If your mother chose to abort you, you would most certainly have existed. If you argue that you "didn't exist" in the second case, it's funny that pro-choice doctrines even claim that the baby of a pregnant woman doesn't "exist."
It seems that you want to tie personhood to consciousness--a "person" only exists when he/she is self-aware. Following this logic, murder is only wrong if the person killed "knows" that she has been killed. Would it be OK to kill someone in her sleep because she wouldn't realize that she was killed? She couldn't speculate on the reasons for her non-existence. So is this the new litmus test for murder: the victim must know that she has been murdered?
Gareth, you write: "what if two people decide not to have sex but to just be friends. a 'potential life' has been lost hasn't it?"
Gareth, I guess some would argue that a potential "opportunity" for life has been lost. But, in your hypothetical, no life has been lost, because no life had been created.
Enjoy
― El Catracho, Monday, 30 September 2002 15:53 (twenty-three years ago)
― Alan (Alan), Monday, 30 September 2002 15:58 (twenty-three years ago)
This is obviously not a pro-choice argument, and I never said it was - I was just pointing out that "how would you like it if you had been aborted?" doesnt work as an argument.
(I am pro-choice as it happens for the simple reason that I think the mother has a right to decide whether or not a pregnancy should be brought to term. I think this does, morally, involve classification of foetuses as 'not-alive', and I'm willing to do that.)
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 30 September 2002 16:10 (twenty-three years ago)
"it has life = it is sacred" is not a position most christians adhere to: the get-out clause is of course the exchange of the "soul" (unquantifiable argument-winner) for "consciousness"
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 30 September 2002 16:19 (twenty-three years ago)
― Maria (Maria), Monday, 30 September 2002 20:07 (twenty-three years ago)
Kiwi's definition of a "human being," above, would include the hangy bit of skin I just picked off of my pinky and flicked into the trash.
El Catracho doesn't get at what Gareth is pointing to, how purpose-laden the Catholic idea of sex is: i.e., if two people are going to copulate, they're not to do anything at all to try and prevent a live birth from resulting. (I'm still not certain where the great "rhythm"-type loopholes come from, as they seems to violate the overarching spirit of the doctrine.)
I think this issue comes down even more to religion than people like to think -- which is to say, I don't think it's so much a matter of asking at what point a fertilized cell becomes a murderable "person" as it is about a lot of people who have a sort of non-biological idea of "souls" lurking behind their thinking. (See El Catracho's questions to Tom.)
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 30 September 2002 21:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 30 September 2002 21:06 (twenty-three years ago)
― isadora, Monday, 30 September 2002 21:26 (twenty-three years ago)
― Andrew (enneff), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 01:36 (twenty-three years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 01:39 (twenty-three years ago)
IIRC, the most important factor affecting a woman's attitude after an abortion is the nature of support she receives (if any) from her family and friends, and most women report feeling relieved afterwards.
― j.lu (j.lu), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 01:53 (twenty-three years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Tuesday, 1 October 2002 02:29 (twenty-three years ago)
Dayglo Abortions - really classic
― Neanderthal, Friday, 23 October 2020 23:33 (five years ago)
i think that i dont have a vulva, and therefore its not really my business.
odd choice of body part, but fair
― superdeep borehole (harbl), Friday, 23 October 2020 23:50 (five years ago)
i think that i dont have a vulva
better be sure
― Neanderthal, Friday, 23 October 2020 23:54 (five years ago)
btw there was a positive end to the Baby Roe case mentioned last year
https://www.al.com/news/2019/08/judge-tosses-baby-roe-abortion-lawsuit-filed-against-huntsville-clinic.html
― Neanderthal, Friday, 23 October 2020 23:57 (five years ago)
Poland last week made it illegal for women to seek abortions for cases where the foetus has a serious birth defect. Situations where the baby would be born unable to sustain life, where a woman would have to carry a child to term knowing it wouldn’t live outside the womb.Polish citizens have been protesting the past few days. A friend of mine there says everyone’s out, not just the usual groups who go to protests. I’m not sure we ever went as hard as disrupting Mass in Ireland, but this is significant from a country where the institutional regard for the Church has lingered.
At the weekend protesters in several towns and cities picketed and in some instances disrupted church services, amid signs that the anger felt by many Poles about the the Catholic church’s role in public life was spilling over into open confrontation.At the Church of the Holy Cross in central Warsaw on Sunday, pro-choice protesters clashed with far-right activists, and one woman was taken away in an ambulance after allegedly being thrown down the steps in front of the church.The far-right leader Robert Bąkiewicz announced that nationalist groups would create a “national guard” to defend churches from the protesters.
The table says "We are sorry for the inconvenience. We have a government to overthrow".Hundreds of thousands of Poles in all cities have blocked the streets today. The traffic is being stopped. The protests get bigger and longer every day. #Poland #AbortionBan pic.twitter.com/cDo6BnUyHD— Katarzyna Knapik (@ciotkarewolucji) October 26, 2020
‼️ Trasa Łazienkowska. Ruch w stronę crntrum blokują taksówkarze. Są logotypy wszystkich warszawskich korporacji, kilkadziesiąt samochodów. pic.twitter.com/HwO4gcru7Q— Bartłomiej Eider (@bk_eider) October 26, 2020
On the 5th day of protests against anti-abortion rulling of Constitutional Tribunal, a lot of #Polish cities were blocked! Not only the biggest ones, also smaller like my hometown #Żywiec, city of 30,000 people ❤🖤 And I was one of the oldest! Get the fuck off, fundamentalists! pic.twitter.com/hPqCAUARhb— Magda Dropek (@magdadropek) October 26, 2020
― scampus milne (gyac), Monday, 26 October 2020 21:18 (five years ago)
best of luck, Poland. god, fuck the Duda administration
― Neanderthal, Monday, 26 October 2020 21:26 (five years ago)
Spontaneous protest in support of #StrajkKobiet in #London against #Poland's new #abortion laws. Only a handful of Police officers, masks everywhere. pic.twitter.com/XIkig5iQPr— Kasia Madera (@BBCKasiaMadera) October 26, 2020
― scampus milne (gyac), Monday, 26 October 2020 21:41 (five years ago)
WATCH: Something extraordinary is happening in Poland This story has not got the attention it deserves, night after night of protests, big crowds after a court ruling that further limited its restrictive abortion laws pic.twitter.com/R6o5VK19e6— Darren McCaffrey (@DarrenEuronews) October 30, 2020
― liberté, égalité, scampé (gyac), Friday, 30 October 2020 19:44 (five years ago)
classic
― Give me a Chad Smith-type feel (map), Friday, 30 October 2020 19:45 (five years ago)
Polish ban delayed:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/nov/03/poland-stalls-abortion-ban-amid-nationwide-protests
― it bangs for thee (Simon H.), Wednesday, 4 November 2020 13:33 (five years ago)
Yes, great for everyone who got there, but they have to keep pushing.
― liberté, égalité, scampé (gyac), Wednesday, 4 November 2020 13:35 (five years ago)
US needs to take note.
― the colour out of space (is the place) (PBKR), Wednesday, 4 November 2020 21:38 (five years ago)
Looks like the fash scum government won out in the end:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2021/jan/27/poland-to-implement-near-total-ban-on-abortion-imminently
― pomenitul, Wednesday, 27 January 2021 22:18 (five years ago)
Travelling abroad is the only option and it’s one they don’t have at the moment. Support and donate to the Abortion Support Network and to the organisations listed at the end of this article, and never ever take your rights for granted.
― scampish inquisition (gyac), Wednesday, 27 January 2021 22:25 (five years ago)
Great job y'all:
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/mar/09/arkansas-abortion-ban-supreme-court-roe-v-wade
― pomenitul, Wednesday, 10 March 2021 03:51 (five years ago)
fucking gross.
― Red Nerussi (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 10 March 2021 04:05 (five years ago)
wtf is wrong with these people? I'm so angry right now
― kinder, Wednesday, 10 March 2021 09:18 (five years ago)
I think in some cases the age of timing of legal abortion should rise to fit the circumstance.How old is Ted Cruz again?
― Stevolende, Wednesday, 10 March 2021 13:18 (five years ago)
looks like dr. ligma is about to lose medical license no. 8008135
So… apparently Texas has passed some asinine anti-abortion law where private citizens can claim a fucking bounty for spying on their neighbours, and someone setup this site to take reports from anyone on which women to persecutehttps://t.co/FpQ8HimpaV— Claire Ryan (@aetherlev) August 21, 2021
― criminally negligible (harbl), Monday, 23 August 2021 16:17 (four years ago)
also C. Ray Oneater, M.D.
― peace, man, Monday, 23 August 2021 21:13 (four years ago)
https://www.cnn.com/2021/10/06/politics/texas-abortion-ban-federal-judge-order-block/index.html
but thanks to SCOTUS punting, some facilities hesitant to re-open considering Texas has appealed already
― Gardyloominati (Neanderthal), Thursday, 7 October 2021 22:37 (four years ago)
was on leave when this email went out, but apparently my company is reimbursing colleagues who have to travel 50 or more miles for an abortion (though apparently this was already in place, unbeknownst to me, and is continuing and more visible now).
anybody else's company have policies like this? I am kind of smiling thinking of the pro-life assholes who probably got angry at this email and are putting in their 2 weeks notice.
― Doop Snogg (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 6 July 2022 13:58 (three years ago)
I really thought our CEO would make an announcement like that last week or at least by this week. They were so on the money regarding the pandemic. And people working at our Mississippi distribution center are already living under an abortion ban. There was an email soon after the decision, mentioning ‘divisive issues’ and ‘respecting others’ beliefs’ and that kind of crap. I heard that wasn’t gonna be THE announcement. But since then… nothing.
― covidsbundlertanze op. 6 (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 6 July 2022 20:45 (three years ago)
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/07/13/health/otc-birth-control-pill.html
― scott seward, Thursday, 13 July 2023 13:39 (two years ago)
i didn't see that coming...
― scott seward, Thursday, 13 July 2023 13:40 (two years ago)
Paxton and Texas SCOTUS are fucking inhuman ghouls
https://www.cnn.com/2023/12/11/us/texas-woman-leaves-state-abortion/index.html
― STUPID CRAP FACE (Neanderthal), Monday, 11 December 2023 22:35 (two years ago)
Kate cox is a hero. Voluntarily signed up for weeks of expense and scrutiny and risk to her health, and probably years of harassment, to get them on the record.
― 𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Tuesday, 12 December 2023 02:54 (two years ago)
Definitely
― STUPID CRAP FACE (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 December 2023 03:42 (two years ago)
Highly recommend reading the Texas Supreme Court decision for the rage factor alone: https://www.txcourts.gov/media/1457645/230994pc.pdf.
It's like the Dred Scott decision, the same kind of viciousness disguised by dry judicial reasoning. And so hypocritical — they're like, "Hey, the law leaves it up to doctors, not judges." Not acknowledging at all that a doctor risks prosecution themselves by having to meet a standard that is both exacting and vague. Just so so awful. This is where we are just 18 months after Dobbs.
― a man often referred to in the news media as the Duke of Saxony (tipsy mothra), Tuesday, 12 December 2023 04:11 (two years ago)
and of course, we know not everyone is fortunate enough to be able to go to another state for the procedure, or might not be willing to go through the scrutiny in the same way.
this is what they wanted. literal control over women at the granular level.
― STUPID CRAP FACE (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 December 2023 06:39 (two years ago)