abortion classic or dud?

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''This debate is the closest ILX has ever come to resembling a USENET newsgroup. This is not a compliment.''

phew...i'm glad i wasn't 'around' back then if this was the case, week in week out.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 19:37 (twenty-three years ago)

I am going to simply repeat my post from upthread. IF the greater minds of ILE "lost" any debate (and no I have no interest in reading what anyone above said to El-C and vice versa) with anyone on this increasingly idiotic thread it was almost solely because the focus of the argument was shifted from the ONE essential unassailable fact of the abortion debate to the ludicrous metaphysical question which the Right to Life movement has based its entire existence upon. Focusing on questions of "life" where abortion (as a political and legal issue anyway) is concerned is a lose-lose situation for anyone who believes in the fundamental right of a woman to control her own pregnancy.

The repeat:

"Abortion is great (as in INCREDIBLY fucking CLASSIC). Questions about when life begins are stupid. There is NO compelling reason to force a women to carry a child to term. Any argument which distracts from that ARGUMENT is a bullshit one."

So if anyone on THIS board or ANY other board wants to focus on that FUNDAMENTAL question without resorting to the same tired smoke and mirrors of "when does life begin" then does so. But I guarantee that THIS is an ARGUMENT that you cannot win.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 21:33 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm sort of with you, Alex, but I don't think it's possible to separate those two arguments. You can draw the following recent narrative out of the abortion debate:

1. Supreme Court says it's okay to do.
2. Some people say "b-b-but that's murder!"
3. (Murder is still officially bad.)

I.e., the objection that's being raised is that the act is a "murder," and as such shouldn't be allowed no matter what negative effects that may have on anyone else. And since the number of people raising that objection is a significant one -- and since that's their sole central objection -- you can't really have much of a discussion with them without responding to that objection.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 21:46 (twenty-three years ago)

In other words, it's silly to call that question "smoke and mirrors" insofar as smoke and mirrors obscure the point, and for many people that is exactly the point, that a person is a person from conception onward and that you're not allowed to kill people.

(It's absolutely fine to say "well the Supreme Court disagreed so shut up cause I don't want to hear about it," but then you really shouldn't enter the discussion in the first place.)

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 21:49 (twenty-three years ago)

I really wish you could hear yourselves sometimes. In particular, a group of men, piling words upon words in an effort to win/score points/bolster ego/whatever. As a woman and ardent pro-choice advocator, I understand the necessity to debate and clarify this profoundly complex issue, but very few of you appear to have any ability to empathise or at the very least, have some level of emotional understanding of the subject. It all comes across as cold, overly-intellectualised and on occasion, unmindful of the fact that however much you try to downplay the fact, there is a huge emotional component to all of this, be it negative or positive.

Tatyana, Wednesday, 2 October 2002 21:54 (twenty-three years ago)

(hear, hear.)

jess (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 21:59 (twenty-three years ago)

Well, Tatyana, you'll notice that this thread has, unsurprisingly, been made mostly about the moral and legal aspects of abortion, two areas in which emotional reactions don't contribute to very useful discussions.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:04 (twenty-three years ago)

emotion vs reason dichotomy?

di smith (lucylurex), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Yes and on a few occasions, when several people tried to introduce a more human aspect to the debate, it was quickly passed over in an effort to score a few more intellectual points.

Tatyana, Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:07 (twenty-three years ago)

One woman described her personal experience of termination and she wasn't even acknowledged. She was totally ignored as the boys got on with the debate. Fucking sickening.

Tatyana, Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:13 (twenty-three years ago)

Of course, several women on this thread have offered firsthand accounts of the experience, all of which have been overshadowed by a legal/ethical debate to which they're not particularly germane -- which isn't to say that they're not relevant, but that the experience of the act in one of a million variations doesn't necessarily help evaluate the morality of the act in the abstract.

That said, I think it would be interesting to have a thread that's not "abortion: right or wrong" but actually "abortion: personal experience thereof" (which is how this one sort of started out).

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:13 (twenty-three years ago)

And I don't see what's sickening or surprising about the fact that those contributions weren't commented on extensively.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:16 (twenty-three years ago)

Extensively? She wasn't even acknowledged.

Tatyana, Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:18 (twenty-three years ago)

there is something troubling about womens bodies being rationalised about by men, but since most of the people here are in full support of women controlling their own bodies, its not something i would choose to make a big deal of.

di smith (lucylurex), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:19 (twenty-three years ago)

It seems to me, Tatyana, that what keeps arguments like these from becoming more "human" is a certain amount of natural sensitivity on the part of the posters...the people who shared personal stories relating to the topic certainly added depth to the argument, and I don't think it's that they were purposefully passed over in a rush to get to the intellectual stuff, but instead were only briefly acknowledged so as not to pry into or to argue with people's individual (and highly emotional) experiences.

Sadly, I feel that this argument, if it's ever won, will have to be won by cold, hard, undeniable logic (though I doubt, unfortunately, this will ever happen, especially since you can't logically argue against the existence of an abortion-hating god), because too many of the people fighting against it will NEVER be able to understand or to empathize with the emotions involved...

nory (nory), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:20 (twenty-three years ago)

Also note that part of the debate above was whether our ideas about an ethical question are meant to derive from personal experience, consensus, higher power, etc. -- in essence, to work out just how much bearing a personal/emotional experience has on an ethical issue as a whole. (So I guess I'm wondering: are you saying you think the emotional aspect does have bearing on the ethical question that became the central discussion? Or are you saying we should be less interested in the ethical question and more interested in personal experience?)

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:21 (twenty-three years ago)

With all due respect Nory, I don't see a whole lot of "natural sensitivity" at all, that's my argument.

Tatyana, Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:24 (twenty-three years ago)

Tatyana's points are exactly why I don't like joining abortion debates.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:29 (twenty-three years ago)

Also, Di, it's worth noting that there's only a male/female issue involved here if you proceed from the premise that abortion is morally fine. I sort of do, personally, but the people everyone is arguing with here would argue that "murder" is "murder," of male and female "potential lives," and that there's no sex bias involved in a man telling a woman not to murder someone, etc.

Tatyana: I was sort of vaguely in agreement with what you were saying earlier, but now I'm starting to think you can sort of fuck off -- you really have no idea how any of us feel about those posts, and it's rude and presumptuous to pretend that simply because we didn't openly express our feelings about them we must necessarily have none.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:30 (twenty-three years ago)

I totally disagree with you, Nabisco. There are TWO completely separate issues at work here: the political/legal one and the personal/moral one. The problem is that the latter is almost entirely USED to undermine the fundamental viability of the former. The "when does life begin" question must be answered by EACH individual considering an abortion, it SHOULD not be used to undermine the fact that EACH individual MUST have the right to be able to make ask themself the question if the circumstance arises. And that Tatyana is also why I am not particularly concerned (on this board anyway) about the emotional/human component of abortion, because the emotional component is often just used as another tool which certain people use to undermine the fundamental political fact of abortion (i.e. "there is NO compelling reason to force a woman to carry a child to term.) This is not a wholy PERSONAL issue. Abortions are NOT provided by anyone in 80% of US counties (and the percentage rises to 90 someodd percent in rural areas!) So sorry if I appear callous or cold, but in MY country this is a debate that me and my friends are losing and vulva or no, I am not going to concede it without a fight.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:31 (twenty-three years ago)

Goodnight gentlemen, I'm "fucking off"

Tatyana, Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:38 (twenty-three years ago)

Alex, you're reasoning from the initial premise that you're already right! The whole reason there is an abortion debate is that some people believe life definitively begins at conception, that there's no relativity or personal-decision to be made concerning that, and as such that abortion is "murder" and should not be allowed. You don't want to argue with those people -- in fact, you're saying that they should shut up, because the more they say that the harder it becomes to support the established legal right of women to make their personal decisions on the matter. But they're saying it, and if you want to argue with them you have to address that point! (You're only saying "we all have the right to make the decision on our own" -- but their argument is "no, we shouldn't, we morally can't." You're negating them, not arguing against their claims.)

So you're right: they're using their moral decision on the matter in an effort to change the legal status of it. You can just say "no fair" to that, sure, but don't bother saying it to them.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:39 (twenty-three years ago)

(And many apologies, Tatyana: I figured someone who would describe other people's behavior as "fucking sickening" could handle a little "fuck off" in return.)

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:41 (twenty-three years ago)

I think the natural sensitivity can be inferred to exist in most of the men posting here, because of their obvious pro-choice viewpoints, and because of the arguments they've made. I'm not saying anyone shouldn't have been acknowledged, but really, how much could have been said (especially by a guy?) in acknowledgement? What can you say other than, "That's terrible, I really feel for you, I hope you're okay now." I'm sure that, had that woman told her story to these posters in real life, many of them would've given her a hug...but it's so difficult to type a response that doesn't seem trite.

Though I DO think it's a shame that the emotional element can't be a larger portion of the debate (its bearing on the ethical question, Nabisco), but I'm fairly positive that the powers-that-be (primarily men) sitting in some conference room or court room or white house discussing the possiblity of "reinterpreting" Roe v. Wade or some other such nonsense are not going to accept an empathetic, emotion-based stance.

nory (nory), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:42 (twenty-three years ago)

Not to imply that all men can't get the emotional part.

nory (nory), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:43 (twenty-three years ago)

I most certainly can, but I have a very early start in the morning.
Sorry for delay in responding, I was seeing to my child.

Tatyana, Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:48 (twenty-three years ago)

Yes, you're right, men can't get the emotional part fully, nor can women who haven't faced this type of situation. All I'm saying is that some men can empathize about it better than others.

nory (nory), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 22:56 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm relieved to see I haven't scared you off entirely, Tatyana: that wasn't meant as a serious "go away," but it is very frustrating to have others make assumptions about how you may or may not feel about something (not to mention my being generally sick of the attitude that anyone who tries to discuss something on a hyper-rational level is obviously an emotionless self-aggrandizing prick).

For the record, my response to those posts ran about how Nory outlined it: I don't pretend to have had anything to say in response to them beyond the most generalized sympathy and good wishes (and approval). If you look at the beginning of the thread, you might agree that it would have run more in the direction you were asking for, if not for the arrival of posters who vigorously objected to the ethical premise of the thing as a whole (no matter what the circumstances, understandable, empathisable, or not).

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 23:36 (twenty-three years ago)

so how many googlers we going to get?

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 23:38 (twenty-three years ago)

Nabisco, I AM negating their ARGUMENT (I said MANY times I don't belief their ARGUMENT is important) and their ARGUMENT is an ATTEMPT to negate (or deflect attention away from) my argument. And the FACT is that the premise that LIFE begins at conception can't and shouldn't be argued because FUNDAMENTALLY it is not the most important issue at play in the debate surrounding abortion (again as a political issue). And guess what, Nabisco, "they" are winning! They are controlling what is even being debated! And their ARGUMENT is limiting access to abortion and circumventing and undermining what is, for the moment anyway, the law of the land. Don't talk to me about arguing fair, this isn't about "fair". It's about control and it always will be.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Wednesday, 2 October 2002 23:52 (twenty-three years ago)

Okay, Alex, I think I'm just really really poor at stating my positions lately, because this is another one of those instances where I feel like we're just agreeing: what you just said, above, is what I meant when I said the other option was just to ignore their moral objections entirely. In that sense I completely agree with you: "we" have already "won" on the legal end, and the objections of a vocal opposition shouldn't undermine that clear decision. All I really meant was that it's not worth arguing that to them, as it doesn't address their concerns. But yeah, in the legal and political sphere I'm all for shelving that moral debate and enforcing what even Ashcroft is forced to describe as a "settled" ruling.

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 3 October 2002 00:09 (twenty-three years ago)

Actually there was some acknowledgement - check Martin S and 'the actual mr jones' posts. As a moderator of ILE one of the things I'm proud of is the amount of community feeling and general niceness that often comes out when a poster shares something like this, but generally this is best seen when it happens at the start of a thread, rather than when a debate's got up a full head of steam (even if it's going around in circles). I thought the posts were interesting and brave, but also out of my experience in terms of offering a comment - apologies on behalf of the boards to anyone who thinks they were treated insensitively.

Tom (Groke), Thursday, 3 October 2002 04:36 (twenty-three years ago)

This would have been a hopeless thread if all we had done was sit around sympathising with the bad experiences described. I mentioned that feeling, and I received some sympathy for my (sort of secondary) bad experience, but debate was forced in a way that really demanded logical, rational response (even to people not willing to engage honestly), and that did determine the course of things. Tom is right about the atmosphere here, and Nabisco is right that the thread could easily have gone another way. I do think Tatyana is unfair in taking rational argument as indicating a lack of sympathy - some of us do our best to get good at rationally arguing about this matter because we feel so strongly, not as some substitute for emotion but as an extra weapon in the fight.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Thursday, 3 October 2002 19:34 (twenty-three years ago)

Very well put, Martin.

nory (nory), Thursday, 3 October 2002 20:26 (twenty-three years ago)

Not to mention, the whole reason for this thread was Anthony saying:
there seems to be v. little rational discussion of this topic - do lets start one.

If someone else would like an emotional discussion of this topic - then start one.

toraneko (toraneko), Friday, 4 October 2002 00:25 (twenty-three years ago)

Tatanya, thank you very much for your comments in my defence, it's much appreciated. I'd like to point out, however, that I did state I did not want any opinions on my story so perhaps this was the reason people did not respond to my posting. Thanks to those who did express sympathy though.
I was atempting to bring an emotional aspect to he debate becase I feel it's an emotional issue and it's very easy to debate an issue in this way without considering the felings of the millions of individuals involved in situations like this. Perhaps it was the wrong thread but I felt compelled to respond
It was very interesting and informative to read all of your postings and I think, despite some of the more extreme postings, it has ben helpful to me to hear some other viewpoints. Thank you

Mystery, Friday, 4 October 2002 09:46 (twenty-three years ago)

As I said in my original post, I know it's necessary to debate, discuss clarify ALL areas of the abortion issue. But I don't think the emotional/psychological component can be ignored or downplayed. It is an integral part as ultimately, however much you argue about it, we are talking about human beings and the gamut of emotions they run when faced with abortion. And incidentally, as I already said, the emotions experienced don't necessarily have to be negative but absolutely, they (emotions)are experienced and I don't think any well-rounded debate on such a complex issue can deny or neglect to address this. Mystery, I understood in your post that you didn't invite opinions or reactions but I was talking specifically about Saskia. I absolutely did not mean that everyone should have fawned over personal stories, what I did mean was that at least an acknowledgement of someone's honesty or courage to post a personal experience of termination was an obvious thing to do. But instead, she was completely ignored and it was on with the show. This is what pissed me off. By all means have the debate, but whatever happened to common courtesy and empathy? A debate should not have to exclude these, especially when the subject matter is so emotive (on so many levels) for many of those who experience it.

Tatyana, Friday, 4 October 2002 10:33 (twenty-three years ago)

I think this is one of the few times where the non-threaded format of ILE tells against it. On a threaded discussion Saskia's post would have been separated and more open-to-reply (and I think would have received the direct replies it deserves), whereas in the current format it ends up lost amid argumentative noise.

But yes, given that I do think honesty and courage here are a good thing I probably should take more time to acknowledge when someone posts about personal experience: I don't do it for the same reason I don't reply to every 'Happy Birthday' thread - after a while it would feel more dutiful and less meaningful, and so I try and keep it for the rare occasions when I feel I have something more than rote empathy to offer. Maybe this is a bad policy. FWIW, thankyou Saskia, Mystery, Martin and everyone else for feeling able to write about your experiences, and thankyou Tatyana for pulling us up on it.

Tom (Groke), Friday, 4 October 2002 11:31 (twenty-three years ago)

Tom, your response is appreciated.

Tatyana, Friday, 4 October 2002 11:48 (twenty-three years ago)

two years pass...
An excellent article. Basically just a day at a clinic, but very well done. (And written by a rock-crit legend, no less.)

gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Sunday, 18 September 2005 03:58 (twenty years ago)

The next time I hear somebody talkin' about how lame ILX has become and how everything was better back in the day, I will point them to the super brill thread title: "abortion classic or dud?"

Forksclovetofu (Forksclovetofu), Sunday, 18 September 2005 07:16 (twenty years ago)

haha that toraneko thing i quoted is still the most frightening thing i've ever read on ilx!

J.D. (Justyn Dillingham), Sunday, 18 September 2005 08:16 (twenty years ago)

classic as a joke topic when you're pregnant!!

teeny (teeny), Sunday, 18 September 2005 13:21 (twenty years ago)

two years pass...

http://yaledailynews.com/story.html


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Art major Aliza Shvarts '08 wants to make a statement.

Beginning next Tuesday, Shvarts will be displaying her senior art project, a documentation of a nine-month process during which she artificially inseminated herself "as often as possible" while periodically taking abortifacient drugs to induce miscarriages. Her exhibition will feature video recordings of these forced miscarriages as well as preserved collections of the blood from the process.

The goal in creating the art exhibition, Shvarts said, was to spark conversation and debate on the relationship between art and the human body. But her project has already provoked more than just debate, inciting, for instance, outcry at a forum for fellow senior art majors held last week. And when told about Shvarts' project, students on both ends of the abortion debate have expressed shock — saying the project does everything from violate moral code to trivialize abortion.

But Shvarts insists her concept was not designed for "shock value."

"I hope it inspires some sort of discourse," Shvarts said. "Sure, some people will be upset with the message and will not agree with it, but it's not the intention of the piece to scandalize anyone."

The "fabricators," or donors, of the sperm were not paid for their services, but Shvarts required them to periodically take tests for sexually transmitted diseases. She said she was not concerned about any medical effects the forced miscarriages may have had on her body. The abortifacient drugs she took were legal and herbal, she said, and she did not feel the need to consult a doctor about her repeated miscarriages.

Shvarts declined to specify the number of sperm donors she used, as well as the number of times she inseminated herself.

Art major Juan Castillo '08 said that although he was intrigued by the creativity and beauty of her senior project, not everyone was as thrilled as he was by the concept and the means by which she attained the result.

"I really loved the idea of this project, but a lot other people didn't," Castillo said. "I think that most people were very resistant to thinking about what the project was really about. [The senior-art-project forum] stopped being a conversation on the work itself."

Although Shvarts said she does not remember the class being quite as hostile as Castillo described, she said she believes it is the nature of her piece to "provoke inquiry."

"I believe strongly that art should be a medium for politics and ideologies, not just a commodity," Shvarts said. "I think that I'm creating a project that lives up to the standard of what art is supposed to be."

The display of Schvarts' project will feature a large cube suspended from the ceiling of a room in the gallery of Green Hall. Schvarts will wrap hundreds of feet of plastic sheeting around this cube; lined between layers of the sheeting will be the blood from Schvarts' self-induced miscarriages mixed with Vaseline in order to prevent the blood from drying and to extend the blood throughout the plastic sheeting.

Schvarts will then project recorded videos onto the four sides of the cube. These videos, captured on a VHS camcorder, will show her experiencing miscarriages in her bathrooom tub, she said. Similar videos will be projected onto the walls of the room.

School of Art lecturer Pia Lindman, Schvarts' senior-project advisor, could not be reached for comment Wednesday night.

Few people outside of Yale's undergraduate art department have heard about Shvarts' exhibition. Members of two campus abortion-activist groups — Choose Life at Yale, a pro-life group, and the Reproductive Rights Action League of Yale, a pro-choice group — said they were not previously aware of Schvarts' project.

Alice Buttrick '10, an officer of RALY, said the group was in no way involved with the art exhibition and had no official opinion on the matter.

Sara Rahman '09 said, in her opinion, Shvarts is abusing her constitutional right to do what she chooses with her body.

"[Shvarts' exhibit] turns what is a serious decision for women into an absurdism," Rahman said. "It discounts the gravity of the situation that is abortion."

CLAY member Jonathan Serrato '09 said he does not think CLAY has an official response to Schvarts' exhibition. But personally, Serrato said he found the concept of the senior art project "surprising" and unethical.

"I feel that she's manipulating life for the benefit of her art, and I definitely don't support it," Serrato said. "I think it's morally wrong."

Shvarts emphasized that she is not ashamed of her exhibition, and she has become increasingly comfortable discussing her miscarriage experiences with her peers.

"It was a private and personal endeavor, but also a transparent one for the most part," Shvarts said. "This isn't something I've been hiding."

He, he

am0n, Saturday, 19 April 2008 05:39 (eighteen years ago)

rereading this thread has proven to me, pretty much definitively, that anyone who says ilx hasn't gone downhill is full of shit. it's hardly a perfect thread, but it's worthwhile and thoughtful in a way that 99% of ilx isn't, anymore.

Charlie Rose Nylund, Saturday, 19 April 2008 06:43 (eighteen years ago)

She did admit it was all a hoax, though. (xpost)

http://www.theage.com.au/news/world/yale-abortion-hoax-performance-art/2008/04/18/1208025477707.html

StanM, Saturday, 19 April 2008 07:53 (eighteen years ago)

Stam "comin' correct" M

roxymuzak, Saturday, 19 April 2008 13:53 (eighteen years ago)

*STAN

roxymuzak, Saturday, 19 April 2008 13:54 (eighteen years ago)

rereading this thread has proven to me, pretty much definitively, that anyone who says ilx hasn't gone downhill is full of shit. it's hardly a perfect thread, but it's worthwhile and thoughtful in a way that 99% of ilx isn't, anymore.

-- Charlie Rose Nylund, Saturday, 19 April 2008 06:43 (7 hours ago) Bookmark Link

Good point here from somebody I've never heard of.

Noodle Vague, Saturday, 19 April 2008 13:57 (eighteen years ago)

She did admit it was all a hoax, though. (xpost)

http://www.theage.com.au/news/world/yale-abortion-hoax-performance-art/2008/04/18/1208025477707.html

-- StanM, Saturday, 19 April 2008 07:53

man ur supposed to let it become a shitstorm thread first before dropping that

am0n, Saturday, 19 April 2008 16:31 (eighteen years ago)


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