http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/3/3f/Puppy_Koons_Bilbao_frontal.jpg/450px-Puppy_Koons_Bilbao_frontal.jpg
agreed jim
― The Managing Director of Being (nakhchivan), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:40 (fifteen years ago)
a woman saying that spaghetti straps on heavy dresses look cheap and nasty leaves the door open to calling her stringy-haired and average-looking?
― no szigeti (c sharp major), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:41 (fifteen years ago)
does not follow.
Average is good enough for me tbh
― Tom A. (Tom B.) (Tom C.) (Tom D.), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:42 (fifteen years ago)
saying 'this is a style women think is going to make them look sexy but in fact it makes their breasts look awful why because of something inherent in the dress itself' is really not looks-ist.
― no szigeti (c sharp major), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:43 (fifteen years ago)
I'd say calling a whole phalanx of unnamed women "cheap and nasty" in a national newspaper is somewhat worse than suzy saying her hair's stringy here. YMMV
― progressive cuts (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:44 (fifteen years ago)
um. it's the spaghetti straps that look cheap and nasty?
― no szigeti (c sharp major), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:45 (fifteen years ago)
the spaghetti straps are what show more shoulder flesh, not the women.
― no szigeti (c sharp major), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:46 (fifteen years ago)
i did not realise until now that one could read that any other way.
― no szigeti (c sharp major), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:47 (fifteen years ago)
i am having serious difficulty trying to work out how you have managed to.
― no szigeti (c sharp major), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:48 (fifteen years ago)
If handing out fashion advice to others in a national newspaper was my job (and it's not even something I do at my own style mag), best believe the hair situ in the byline photo would be under control.
― are you robot? (suzy), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:51 (fifteen years ago)
im sure she's never printed a catty opinion on another woman's appearance in her life
― l'avventura: pet detective (history mayne), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:52 (fifteen years ago)
i'm sure she has! but i don't think that makes it 'fair play' to be dismissive about her appearance - and i also think it's pretty clear that her fashion column tries quite hard not to be catty about other women's appearances.
Her fashion column is, by the way, unthreatening, which is no doubt why I, as someone who knows jack shit about fashion, like it.
― no szigeti (c sharp major), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 12:58 (fifteen years ago)
think we can safely absolve h freeman of being winsome and unthreatening on this evidence anyway
― The Managing Director of Being (nakhchivan), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:00 (fifteen years ago)
Is ILX discussion of female writers worse that it used to be?
― Haunted Clocks For Sale (Dorianlynskey), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:04 (fifteen years ago)
nah it's always been dreadful
― no szigeti (c sharp major), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:05 (fifteen years ago)
xpost She has, even in the column, but it's usually directed at what I'd call a soft target eg. Sarah Palin. For the record, I'm more judgmental about writing style than personal style.
Nakh, I don't think you're a terrific reader of people this morning, maybe it's time for your nap.
― are you robot? (suzy), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:07 (fifteen years ago)
Suzy you can't really say to someone "I think you're wrong to say this woman is cute and by the way I am judging you in a non-specific way for thinking so" and then dismiss people for getting arsey with you.
― Matt DC, Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:10 (fifteen years ago)
B-b-but I just did, because it's not the same as calling someone ugly. TRAVIS, YOU'RE A YEAR TOO LATE.
― are you robot? (suzy), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:12 (fifteen years ago)
yeah i think it's a bit tendentious to say someone's byline photo confers 'winsome and unthreatening' when their columns are so caustic and unkind
― The Managing Director of Being (nakhchivan), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:14 (fifteen years ago)
I didn't say you called them ugly. However, "she's all thin, stringy hair, with kind of average looks" is definitely implying the less attractive side of "average" from what I can see.
― Matt DC, Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:15 (fifteen years ago)
It's exactly the sort of glass-half-empty trick you'd attack a Daily Mail writer for!
― Matt DC, Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:16 (fifteen years ago)
Female byline photos are ALWAYS about the 'chin-down, eyes up' winsomeness regardless of the writer's output, so I certainly shouldn't single her out, but it's always struck me as funny because it's something a contributor has more control over than most other stuff at work.
― are you robot? (suzy), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:20 (fifteen years ago)
so why did you single her out? that's just asking for tendentious speculation about why you would be so embittered w/ hadley freeman
― The Managing Director of Being (nakhchivan), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:22 (fifteen years ago)
Because she was the one YOU GUYS started talking about; I merely responded with an opinion that was actually pretty mild and unthreatening.
― are you robot? (suzy), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:24 (fifteen years ago)
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/noodle_vague/angry-phone-call.jpg
― dociah t. azzahole (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:29 (fifteen years ago)
you described her thin, stringy hair as notionally winsome/unthreatening, rather than attributing those qualities to the generic 'simpering byline photo' pose
read yr (own) posts
― The Managing Director of Being (nakhchivan), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:31 (fifteen years ago)
i think suzy conflated two decent opportunities for snark and got hoisted on her own petard
- the chance to decry ppl approving of female journalist's looks w/out reference to their actual work/thought- the chance to throw h freeman's own caustic looks-based sneering right back at her
― The Managing Director of Being (nakhchivan), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:35 (fifteen years ago)
Of course I read my own posts. However, I also read yours:
she used to have the world's cutest byline photograph
― are you robot? (suzy), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:44 (fifteen years ago)
Don't try to turn this into resentment, racism, or a lack of comprehension just because I happen to disagree.
― are you robot? (suzy), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:45 (fifteen years ago)
going back to freeman, her fashion columns are mostly "i hate hipster trend x". or "this new cool thing guardian readers may like, it's a ruddy nonsense!".
so comment is free lifestyle writing then, basically.
― I see what this is (Local Garda), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:51 (fifteen years ago)
for the third time suzy, i am sufficiently convinced of yr nonracist bona fides that i could make a throwaway joke abt yr inexplicable h8 of hadley freeman and her terrible junkie hair
― The Managing Director of Being (nakhchivan), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:51 (fifteen years ago)
nb - not saying she's an actual junkie ;)
― The Managing Director of Being (nakhchivan), Wednesday, 29 September 2010 13:58 (fifteen years ago)
enjoying the r-bombs in this thread, was worried it was going to be social network spoilers for a bit
― caek, Wednesday, 29 September 2010 14:35 (fifteen years ago)
http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/lloyd-marcus-tea-party-blog/2010/oct/08/lloyd-marcus-tea-party
is this going to turn out to be a clever spoof, like that faux-david aaronovitch character they used to have?
― rmde @ the romo dumplings (history mayne), Friday, 8 October 2010 12:41 (fifteen years ago)
Guardian comment-is-free seems to be full of right wingers telling each other how left wing all the cif people are while the strawmen have left the building.
Good grief you can't say things like that on CIF!!!It's all about "entitlements" and big, all encompassing government on here.
Your story will be unacceptable to the Guardian crowd.
Oh dear, you're not going to be popular on here.
*awaiting the deluge of white liberals to tell you how you should really feel*
oh dear, you conjured up those dirty words: "Self Reliance", "Aspiration", "Initiative", "Personal Responsibility"...
you should know those are bad things here on CiF where, for many people, "social justice" is about keeping us all down at the lowest common denominator, helpless and dependent on nanny government who will always provide us a convenient scape-goat to blame when people don't provide us the things that we want....and its always their responsibility to provide those things right?
― san te cross (onimo), Friday, 8 October 2010 12:59 (fifteen years ago)
Ha, OTM.
Amused to see a ranting right-winger on there called BrownOutNow. Keep up, pal, there was an election.
― The baby boomers have defined everything once and for all (Dorianlynskey), Friday, 8 October 2010 13:35 (fifteen years ago)
add an s and it probably makes sense :(
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 8 October 2010 13:36 (fifteen years ago)
yeah it really is like that...it's weird. seems the only people that can be bothered to comment are the negativos
― I see what this is (Local Garda), Friday, 8 October 2010 13:36 (fifteen years ago)
it's pretty much the same on the daily mail comments. comments are great.
― caek, Friday, 8 October 2010 14:57 (fifteen years ago)
http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/musicblog/2010/oct/19/indie-professor-guest-pass
― former moderator, please give generously (DG), Tuesday, 19 October 2010 16:57 (fifteen years ago)
That column is total garbage.
― ears are wounds, Tuesday, 19 October 2010 18:35 (fifteen years ago)
A panel debate on web moderation
― Alba, Monday, 25 October 2010 12:51 (fifteen years ago)
is rusbridger's daughter still on the job?
― former moderator, please give generously (DG), Monday, 25 October 2010 13:00 (fifteen years ago)
all reference to her seems to have disappeared from the guardian's website. wonder if she has a new new name.
― incredible zing banned (history mayne), Monday, 25 October 2010 13:16 (fifteen years ago)
that's enough, laurie penny
― make em say ukhh (history mayne), Wednesday, 27 October 2010 15:48 (fifteen years ago)
On a related note, I'm guessing the Evening Standard's fashion churnalist Karen Dacre is Paul Dacre's daughter?
― James Mitchell, Wednesday, 27 October 2010 16:48 (fifteen years ago)
Forgive them almost anything after 'Kicker Conspiracy' being the most visible thing on the front page today.
― emil.y, Wednesday, 27 October 2010 16:51 (fifteen years ago)
that definitely made me enjoy being in a train station newsagent about two to five times as much as i would have otherwise
― thomp, Wednesday, 27 October 2010 16:57 (fifteen years ago)
― former moderator, please give generously (DG), Monday, 25 October 2010 14:00 (2 days ago) Bookmark
http://www.guardian.co.uk/discussion/user/BellaM for the collected works. i've given up on feeling irritated by the nepotism because forcing rusbridger's daughter to spend her days reading the comments on the guardian website is too perfect an example of "the sins of the father..."
― joe, Wednesday, 27 October 2010 17:12 (fifteen years ago)