ILX Religiosity and Spirituality and Agnosticity and Atheicity Poll

in general Jews are not interested in converting anybody FYI (we're "chosen" not "converted" dontchaknow)

What if god was one of us?

i'd imagine that proselytizing atheists are also trying to improve your future happiness in the same way as Christians

i think maybe college in the early 90's was just a time of great dumbness and darkness tbh wrt militant atheism and all sorts of stuff

eh idk about that sarahel - what real unhappiness arises because of someone having faith really?

(please to not pull the suicide bomber/victim of spousal abuse hitler card anyone thx)

maybe it depended on where you went to college and what you studied? atheism/religion wasn't the most salient topic of militantism where i was

i think a lot of unhappiness could arise from feeling trapped in/beholden to a faith

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well, presumably the militant atheist thinks that those with faith are delusional, like people who thought the earth was flat, or women who think their abusive boyfriends are just "misunderstood"

i think the evangelical impulse is pretty common in people - esp. in America - whether it's religion, or atheism, or OMG BACON etc

^ good point

the most grating thing about pushy atheists is the posture that their belief is based on PURE REASON despite their willingness to push logical fallacies in service of argument. like, i hope occam's razor slices you when you shove it up your ass, jerk!

levels of religiosity and poverty, global

http://www.ritholtz.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/0904OPEDBLOW_600sub.jpg

no country is simultaneously as rich and as religious as the US.

what real unhappiness arises because of someone having faith really?

Uh, the thing I referenced upthread?

My in-laws are in some dire personal and financial straits, and seem to be waiting for Jebus to bail them out without doing anything on their own, then are confused when nothing gets better. And they are in those straits because he quit a perfectly good job as a project manager at an architectural firm to become a minister, eventually sinking all their savings into purchasing a storefront church which dealt primarily with drug addicts. Who really don't tithe quite enough to support a full-time minister.

Or maybe you've heard this thing where, like, people let their kids ACTUALLY FUCKING DIE because they don't treat them for illnesses and just pray?

and maybe this is how i view it coming from a family where one's religious beliefs/spirituality/whatever was a private personal thing, and growing up in a town where the majority of people had much more conservative beliefs than my family, but my parents didn't want to rock the boat or act like jerks, so they'd just say things like, "Oh, how nice for you!" or "That is very inspiring." but "Oh, what a shame, I really have a lot of work to do, I can't attend."

ugh atheistic proselytizing is just the worst

― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Thursday, September 9, 2010 4:40 PM (20 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
eh as bad as any other type of proselytizing really?

― k¸ (darraghmac), Thursday, September 9, 2010 4:42 PM (18 minutes ago)

yeah what d said, in-yr-face atheists obviously suck but they probably get more than their due shit from non-militant atheists who are embarassed by them

xp yeah goole that chart was used as an op-ed in the NYT this weekend, thought it was pretty cool

where would a pushy atheist invite you for services? a TMBG concert?

they'd probably send you copious links to TED talks or something

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fwiw i happen to think that materialist rationality and spooky magical thinking can easily coexist in the same mind, like if i find $5 in a book about elephants i can happily think "hey, thanks ganesha" without deluding myself that an elephant god put that money there for me to find

i dunno - i mean when people proselytize about things - anything - there are basically a few reactions you can have:

1. i totally agree with you - oh, here's some new evidence to bolster my already strong beliefs - cool!
2. i totally agree with you, but it's kinda old news
3. hmm, interesting, tell me more!
4. i have mixed feelings, and i really don't want to go there
5. please stop

like last night i was reading some issue of XLR8R at a friend's house - and one of the interviews had this chick talking about her life-changing experiences at a Vipassanna meditation retreat - and a couple of my friends a few years back had done this, and had similar life-changing experiences, and "suggested" that I do this meditation retreat - but it was one of those things that, for me, was very much a "Please stop" moment.

Elephant gods would be too busy using their omnipotence to procure copious buns imo. xp

i have more pls stop moments relating to belief in the metaphysical parts of catholicism than any other single subject bar rafa benitez i think

Vipassanna meditation retreats & Joanna Newsom are kinda of equal proselytizing prevalence in my life in terms of "Please Stop!" moments

my one major problem with atheism per se is that it doesn't offer any sort of alternative to the many other good things that religion can offer -- wisdom, values, community, etc. and if the only virtue of atheism is "being right" it's small comfort against creeping nihilism.

(n.b. i'm not talking about 'humanism' or anything here, just atheism per se)

my one major problem with atheism per se is that it doesn't offer any sort of alternative to the many other good things that religion can offer -- wisdom, values, community, etc.

Those things are provided by people not gods. Therefore we can easily carry on providing wisdom, values and community in the absence of god.

lol don't make me get all banaka on you. being right ought to be comfort enough, even though it isn't...

"atheistic proselytizing" = when religious people talk about religion, stfu, we don't want to hear what you have to say even though we brought it up.

my one major problem with atheism per se is that it doesn't offer any sort of alternative to the many other good things that religion can offer -- wisdom, values, community,

cmon elmo seriously?

god put all those things into each of us?

yeah i'm not a theology major but that strikes me as really simple and wrong

you'll notice that i didn't say "god" -- i said & meant "religion"! xpost

well yeah, fair enough

but i mean, that stuff isn't there for atheists? i mean, pretty sure i got some of that stuff tbh

free juice and cookies at the komsomol meetings, seems nice enough

Why should atheism preclude you from being engaged with a religious institution on any level that matters? I don't think open atheism will ever gain a credible foothold in the US until you allow for it to include church-going ones.

i'm really confused by that philip. a church of atheists, or atheists involving themselves in existing (or new!) religions?

There's a line in Julia Sweeney's conversion story where she keeps pressing her priest until he finally takes her aside and goes, "Juilia, the Bible is basically a bunch of stories."
I'm just saying that the priest ought to be allowed to say this openly, and not just in secret people who are fretting over their faith during family crises.

pretty sure priests say that oenly all the time, but i don;t see the jump to atheists having to join churches. why?

You know, I might spot you "community," although I think that's less a function of religion per se than of churches and sects, but I question whether "religion" -- again, religion per se, just like atheism per se -- provides "values" and "wisdom." The values provided by religion are as often negative -- or, at least, negatively impactful on actual people -- as they are positive. And wisdom? What wisdom, specifically, is provided by "religion" per se?

I am atheist/agnostic but I have found value in a religious or spiritual tradition that I did not grow up in.
- going with this over option 1, but I don't really think of Zen as being religious or spiritual

There are a lot of ways to say 'the Bible is basically a bunch of stories', and a lot of them don't involve being an atheist.

I think one way in which there can be church-going atheists is if you are new to a religious area, and want to get to know the community, it doesn't seem unreasonable to go help out at a church. I think one or two ilx0rs have stories of doing similar?

There are tons of church-going atheists at Unitarian Universalist churches, folks.

Phil D otm

xp to emily- or a soup kitchen, sports centre, etc. i get that you're saying it's a possibility, but i don't think it's what philip is saying- he seems (and apologies if not) it's a pity atheists don't get to go to church to experience community and wisdom

Also it's a bit rich to be all "where have you ever created communities?" to a segment of the population that is still only 2% worldwide.

ya true in civ we'd still be in wagons

i now regret not taking more time and including "not allowing your child medical attention" in my pulling the hitler card list. the other thing you site about dude sacrificing money so that he can spread the faith is maybe a little more real, but still v v uncommon. what im saying is that for the garden variety believer, i dont see how convincing them of atheism is going to save them from unhappiness as a general rule - most religious peeps find great comfort in their religion as i understand it throughout their lives, the last thing they need is me trying to save them from their supposed ignorance.

"There are a lot of ways to say 'the Bible is basically a bunch of stories', and a lot of them don't involve being an atheist."
What would be the practical difference? I feel like there'd be no beef between an atheist and any Christian who starts from that POV.

I don't think the pity is that they can't go (in fact I think a lot of them do go), it's that they can't go openly, and serve as
a moderating influence.

! on what/whom?