words with contradictory meanings

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ledge, Thursday, 29 July 2010 12:55 (fifteen years ago)

sanction

AWESOME example

progressive cuts (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 29 July 2010 12:55 (fifteen years ago)

ledge - "paper clip"

progressive cuts (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 29 July 2010 12:55 (fifteen years ago)

"Fast" in that sense just means "tightly", which is not in direct contradiction with "fast", meaning "speedy".

Tuomas, Thursday, 29 July 2010 12:55 (fifteen years ago)

xp nah i answered myself up there, it was dock. how does clip = join?

when you clip things together, eg with a paperclip

لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 12:55 (fifteen years ago)

i used to know loads of these. "cleave" is the classic imo.

dyke

لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 12:56 (fifteen years ago)

wear

... similar to weather

tom d: he did what he had to do now he is dead (Tom D.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:00 (fifteen years ago)

funny how "old" can mean "young" in some contexts.

If I talk about "the old me", I'm referring to the way I was in the olden days, when I was young.

if you see her, say ayo (unregistered), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:04 (fifteen years ago)

^ kinda how 'before' works in my head

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:07 (fifteen years ago)

hmm, I don't q

if you see her, say ayo (unregistered), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:12 (fifteen years ago)

*hmm, I don't quite follow you, darraghmac

if you see her, say ayo (unregistered), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:12 (fifteen years ago)

well your future is before you, but you can also look back on something that happened 'before' now

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:13 (fifteen years ago)

literal

thomp, Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:14 (fifteen years ago)

^ nah, there's actually a thread on how this is just misused

ha as there is for 'actually', actually

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:16 (fifteen years ago)

PRESCRIPTIVIST!

thomp, Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:17 (fifteen years ago)

xxxp ah, clever

if you see her, say ayo (unregistered), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:17 (fifteen years ago)

boned

peligro, Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:20 (fifteen years ago)

skim

Chaim Poutine (NickB), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:28 (fifteen years ago)

suck

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:30 (fifteen years ago)

haha i didn't see boned. i suppose this works in the same way.

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:30 (fifteen years ago)

skim

― Chaim Poutine (NickB),

losing you here tbh- as in 'to read quickly'?

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:40 (fifteen years ago)

maybe because skimming the ingredients vs. reading them makes you fat and skimming yr milk makes you thin

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:41 (fifteen years ago)

^ needed on crossword puzzle thread

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:41 (fifteen years ago)

cross? hurt irt friendship vs. help irt football

really scraping teh bottom of my headbarrel here

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:43 (fifteen years ago)

I suppose "doing the laundry" can result in either clean laundry or dirrty laundry, depending on how you interpret the verb.

if you see her, say ayo (unregistered), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:44 (fifteen years ago)

skim - to take away some of the surface layer OR to add to the surface layer ('skimmed with ice' or a skim of plaster)

Chaim Poutine (NickB), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:44 (fifteen years ago)

piece/peace (as in, carrying a piece vs. world peace)

again, streeeeetch armstronging this

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:46 (fifteen years ago)

apology

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:46 (fifteen years ago)

barely - "just enough to get by" versus "not quite enough to get by"

if you see her, say ayo (unregistered), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:46 (fifteen years ago)

hah, I feel like there are a lot of these in English because it feels like I come across them all the time but when it came time to double down and start the topic I could only think of one

:(

dyao, Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:47 (fifteen years ago)

custom?

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:48 (fifteen years ago)

hmm 'barely' just means for it to be close either way.

thread could get vicious if we all start to nitpick though

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:48 (fifteen years ago)

draw?

To draw on something (e.g. a cigarette) is to take something from it while to draw on something (e.g. a piece of paper) is to put something on it.

shakiraghmac (onimo), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:51 (fifteen years ago)

re: the fast discussion above, if "the door is fast" it can have opposite meanings -- if you are talking about a traditional door, eg it probably means it's stuck and something not moving can't BE any slower, whereas if you are talking about a grocery store automatic door it probably means it opens with the rapidity of an automatic door on the uss enterprise.

xxxxxp i don't think barely works because the words after it make it opposite, ie. i barely made the bus vs. i barely missed it. you could explain pretty much any adverb as contradictory by that logic. unless i am missing something?

xxp i should type faster

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:54 (fifteen years ago)

blow

conrad, Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:55 (fifteen years ago)

apology

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I like this, 'sorry I did something wrong' vs 'fuck you I did nothing wrong'.

how about rent? Seems that both positions in the state of affairs are described as renting.

Merdeyeux, Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:56 (fifteen years ago)

invaluable is probably with inflammable as one of the 'yes we know but everyone knows what you mean by it'

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:58 (fifteen years ago)

rent, lease, lend all the same there, yeah

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:58 (fifteen years ago)

does resign count? you have to pronounce it differently to get the other meaning. like "alex tanguay resigned with the calgary flames" vs. "the ceo resigned amid controversy."

actually the more i think about it, there's also "resigning to your fate" which is accepting the way things are vs. "resigning from your job" which is NOT accepting the way things are and making a big change.

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 13:59 (fifteen years ago)

i guess it just means like quit yr job vs. quit yr bitching, so maybe not opposite

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:00 (fifteen years ago)

hyphen makes the difference?

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:06 (fifteen years ago)

Don't get "ambivalent" unless you're just counting the mistaken use of "ambivalent" to mean "indifferent".

Sundar, Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:15 (fifteen years ago)

ambivalent can be to feel v strong but conflicting feelings, or it can mean not to care one way or the other.

iirc

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:19 (fifteen years ago)

"take care of" -- see nurse vs. hitman

the depressed-saggy-japanese-salaryman of ilx posters (Will M.), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:20 (fifteen years ago)

think the hitman would take that one

ledge, Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:20 (fifteen years ago)

catholic

Theodore "Thee Diddy" Roosevelt (Hurting 2), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:21 (fifteen years ago)

nice

progressive cuts (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:23 (fifteen years ago)

(that was a response to Hurting 2)

progressive cuts (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:23 (fifteen years ago)

xxxxxp i don't think barely works because the words after it make it opposite, ie. i barely made the bus vs. i barely missed it. you could explain pretty much any adverb as contradictory by that logic. unless i am missing something?

but y'see, it's totally ambiguous, even in the examples you gave. If someone said to me, "I barely made the bus," I'd have a hard time telling if they meant "I made the bus, but I almost didn't" or "I didn't make the bus, but I almost did" without further context. the words after it don't clarify things much at all.

the problem with "barely" is that the formal, historical definition of it is "just enough", but another informal definition is "not nearly enough" (thefreedictionary.com's entry says just this). unless you know which definition someone is using, it could go either way regardless of which verb (made vs. missed) is being modified.

if you see her, say ayo (unregistered), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:26 (fifteen years ago)

I 'barely made the bus' = i made the bus, but it was close. there's no other reading i could give it.

"It's far from 'lol' you were reared, boy" (darraghmac), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:32 (fifteen years ago)

I think the word just means something like aiming to gain favour or approval from others in a sycophantic manner. That aim can meet with success or failure - but the meaning of the word doesn’t change ?

Bob Six, Sunday, 10 August 2025 22:00 (ten months ago)

yes you're right it's really the verb "to ingratiate" that i'm opposing to the adjective "ingratiating" .. the latter is basically always negative isn't it? like someone is doing it in an annoying way. but you could say "he's ingratiating himself (in?)to the room" - same word, different part of speech - and it wouldn't necessarily have that connotation of being an obvious suck-up, in fact it might mean the opposite

Tracer Hand, Sunday, 10 August 2025 23:34 (ten months ago)

Please patronize my business!

Stop patronizing me!

je ne sequoia (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 10 August 2025 23:46 (ten months ago)

GARNISH, am I right

kinder, Monday, 11 August 2025 18:37 (ten months ago)

you are right and so was elmo argonaut 15 years ago but kudos it really is a canonical example of this sort of thing

Tracer Hand, Monday, 11 August 2025 18:38 (ten months ago)

I'm not right and the Connections on Aug 2 was bad No way that's purple: the NYT Connections thread
Grr @ elmo for making the Connections seem reasonable

kinder, Monday, 11 August 2025 18:47 (ten months ago)

Turgid, when applied to eg (a) a ballad, or (b) a river.

fetter, Thursday, 14 August 2025 16:52 (ten months ago)

c) penis

Peter No-one (Tom D.), Thursday, 14 August 2025 16:57 (ten months ago)

six months pass...

advent

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 17 February 2026 09:46 (four months ago)

in the christian calendar it’s the time of waiting, BEFORE the big day

in secular usage it means the big thing has happened and we are now living in that new reality eg “the advent of steam power”

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 17 February 2026 09:48 (four months ago)

Please patronize my business!

Stop patronizing me!

A patron can be the owner of a business (esp. a restaurant) or a customer of it.

fetter, Tuesday, 17 February 2026 10:31 (four months ago)

Hmm. Both "boss" and "benefactor." I guess a restaurant is saying the customer is king?

The negative sense in "don't patronize me" is sort of "don't pretend you're being magnanimous," almost "I don't need your generosity."

calmer chameleon (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 17 February 2026 10:36 (four months ago)

Peeled

Unpeeled

Mark G, Wednesday, 18 February 2026 14:05 (four months ago)

I never know whether "pitted" olives have pits or don't.

Venus of Willendorf on Golf (jaymc), Wednesday, 18 February 2026 14:13 (four months ago)

There are tons of those, pitted skinned boned

jus au rascal (wins), Wednesday, 18 February 2026 14:21 (four months ago)

"Shell" as well.

calmer chameleon (Ye Mad Puffin), Wednesday, 18 February 2026 14:36 (four months ago)

boned vs deboned

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 18 February 2026 14:48 (four months ago)

idg this?
a peeled banana has been peeled. an unpeeled one hasn't.

kinder, Wednesday, 18 February 2026 14:55 (four months ago)

We have a machine at work with 2 different calibrations for spelt wheat: DEHULLED and UNHULLED. They mean opposite things

jus au rascal (wins), Wednesday, 18 February 2026 16:33 (four months ago)

xp i think the idea is you could plausibly say, "She unpeeled the banana." and most people would understand this to mean the banana had its peel removed.

Cattedrale metropolitana di Santa Maria de Episcopio, Wednesday, 18 February 2026 16:57 (four months ago)

Yeah it's adjective vs verb usage i think

podcast Diderot (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 18 February 2026 17:14 (four months ago)


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