Internet Dating

what is plentyoffish?

one of the free ones :)
http://www.plentyoffish.com/

adultfriendfinder

^^^not a "dating" site by traditional definition.

lol

so did we decide that there isn't anymore dating sites to try?

that nerve.com thing is crap, you can join it but you have to pay to upgrade and have email capabilities. not many users either

an ex of mine later used salon personals, found a dude, they got married, have a six-month-old kid, all is grebt

I would never pay for a dating site like eharmony or adultfriendfinder etc.

one of the free ones :)
http://www.plentyoffish.com/

that nerve.com thing is crap, you can join it but you have to pay to upgrade and have email capabilities. not many users either

Nobody wants to date a skinflint, dude.

everyone needs to check out the new york review of books personals pronto.
http://www.nybooks.com/classifieds/personals

BEAUTIFUL-LOOKING, smart, and sexy (and that’s not just my family talking). NYC woman, full of great compassion, empathy, and sly wit. Fun and funny, can be counted on for good times, good company. Athletic lean body, lively zest for life. Easy to talk to, easily amused, creative. City person but adores the Berkshires. Spunky, good joke-teller. Lover of words, animals, books, beauty, Chinese food in Chinatown, al dente pasta, sharp cheeses, documentary films, yoga, hardware stores, Scrabble. Wants to travel the world, unwind at home, cuddle up and watch good movies, share cultural things, music, Sunday crossword and simple pleasures with articulate, attractive, active, in-shape, financially sophisticated, liberal-thinking man, 52–68

lots of good finds there imo.

"financially sophisticated"

SACRED EROTIC ...The Incredible Lightness of Touch. Private, safe, tasteful. Greenwich Village. (212) 645-4995

http://img217.imageshack.us/img217/3002/picture1rg7.png

― Alba, Monday, August 11, 2008 8:09 PM (2 months ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

Except I just clicked on the bit that said "unfit" on the site and it's basically just talking about spambots and the like. I was kind of amped for these guys to cement my self-image but I guess not this time

am i the only one reading that as "plenty offish"?

schtop, thish plenty offish site ish not ready for the Championsh League or UEFA cup 2008/9

Just got offish

genius username sir

maria, don't let that stop you, because in the end when you finally meet some awesome dude it will be u who has teh last laugh.

^^^ THIS

Despite having made plenty of friends online (not on dating sites) I was a bit weirded out by the judgMENTAL lunacy of online dating. But once you get over that and realise everyone's in the same boat, it becomes much easier and even fun - and an incredible boost to the self-esteem (this fillip cannot be stressed enough).

I found the simplest way to deal with it was to ignore the whole "our computer has decided these people are PERFECT for you, based on a bunch of shallow bullshit you filled in very quickly" and just check out who's online at the same time as you - in other words, treat it exactly like walking into the pub and looking around to see who's cute :-)

am i the only one reading that as "plenty offish"?

i thought it an odd name... it only now occurred to me that it is supposed to be plenty of fish!

i want to know if caek's carbon dating joek worked or not

something tells me that i would never meet the kind of guy i like on a dating site

You won't even sleep with hipster!

AND..?

http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b49/RosaHelikopter/whatdoyoulike.jpg

loooool

so what's new in the *free* online dating world?
the three sites I've used have only proved to be crap.

also *free* online sex personals - got any links?

none of that upgrade to a gold member bullcrap

craigslist.org

facebook,duh
whe needs dating sites when theres facebook anyway

whe needs dating sites when theres facebook anyway

CHRIS-D from BILSTON

hi im lookin for a woman between 18-21.
Age 21
Relationship Status Single
Hometown BILSTON
Seeking a woman
Between 18 and 23
CHRIS-D is loopy about happy

CHRIS-D’s statement
well i love playing football, i av a god payed job for my age. which is ok.apart from whe ni av to work 7am-8pm, i have a dog called millie, i like watchin t.v, films, playing the ps2, i love k.f.c, im not that keen on Mcdonalds its abit boring now.err, i like to drink stella and vodka. i like goin out. n i hope i hear from a lucky girl LOL

hi im lookin for a woman between 18-21.

Seeking a woman
Between 18 and 23

but are you a lucky girl LOL?

sounds like it might be a deal-breaker with this guy

none of that upgrade to a gold member bullcrap

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3152/2407339160_3b4d4af426.jpg

why yes, it appears i am!
xpost

k i hook you up

pof has done me already. met up with a cutie just last night.

Dude, if you can't be bothered to shell out a few quid to get a proper membership to a proper site, don't go bitching that you can't meet anyone.

Sorry, I'm still feeling pissed off about some guy the other day that I felt was jerking me about - he kept sending these one-line flirty emails, and I kept answering back, thinking, OK, this could lead to something... after the third email he asked me to buy him an upgraded account!

Like... fuck OFF.

I'm perfectly happy to go dutch on dating, but I am *NOT* paying for some loser boy who can't be bothered to, like, invest in his love life himself.

wow :|

after the third email he asked me to buy him an upgraded account!

That’s good; he’s honest, he’s giving you a chance to show your strengths and independence by letting you pay for him. I think it’s a good start, give him a chance!

He's honest, so I'm gonna be freaking honest right back...

I DON'T WANT NO SCRUBS, A SCRUB IS A GUY THAT CAN'T GET NO LOVE FROM MASO-BOO!!!!!!

So basically, women want men to lie in the beginning, now wonder (some) men need the webdate thing.

also *free* online sex personals - got any links?

Don't tease me when I'm getting fucking drunk and in the mood to SHOUT at someone. :-(

You get what you pay for amirite? (xp)

Sorry, i'm in that kinda mood.

Will annoy someone else.

Dude, if you can't be bothered to shell out a few quid to get a proper membership to a proper site, don't go bitching that you can't meet anyone.

Sorry, I'm still feeling pissed off about some guy the other day that I felt was jerking me about - he kept sending these one-line flirty emails, and I kept answering back, thinking, OK, this could lead to something... after the third email he asked me to buy him an upgraded account!

Like... fuck OFF.

I'm perfectly happy to go dutch on dating, but I am *NOT* paying for some loser boy who can't be bothered to, like, invest in his love life himself.

just cuz I'm a guy I should be the one who pays apparently. HEY we both dont want to pay - don't get angry at cheapskates it sounds hypocritical

especially broke cheapskates

Yes, just because you are a guy, you should pay for your own upgraded account.

Some dude wants to go on a date with me tomorrow, and I fear I may be too hungover if I carry on like this.

x-post, paying for your OWN internet dating subscription, YES YOU BLOODY WELL SHOULD.

I paid for mine own.

How would you feel if you'd been chatting to some chick online, and then after exchanging a few messages, she asks you to buy HER a subscription to the dating site? You'd tell her to fuck right off, wouldn't you.

In actual dates, he buys the first round, I buy the second - fair and square.

she just said she'd be happy to go dutch you fucking retard/sock (delete as appropriate)