abortion classic or dud?

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ok now I'm never going to in-n-out burger again.

Not the real Village People, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 20:49 (sixteen years ago)

I haven't met a pro-choice woman younger than 25 in years. (However, I mostly talk to working class and/or ethnic women, so that is probabally skewing the results.)

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 20:51 (sixteen years ago)

hm

k3vin k., Wednesday, 14 April 2010 20:55 (sixteen years ago)

i mostly ethnic women

velko, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:01 (sixteen years ago)

they never me

harbl, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:04 (sixteen years ago)

it what

plax (ico), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:05 (sixteen years ago)

get @ me, swarthies

velko, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:06 (sixteen years ago)

mmmm i just got a craving for my favorite type of food: ethnic

iiiijjjj, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:12 (sixteen years ago)

also just read a stat that said that by the age of 45 one in three women will have had a abortion, this seems... high?

This seems low/about right to me.

kate78, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:43 (sixteen years ago)

Prices at a clinic I used to work at:

Surgical Abortion
5 – 11 weeks LMP*: $415
12 – 13 weeks LMP*: $510
Oral Pre-medication: included
IV Conscious Sedation: $40
Rhogam (required if you have Rh- blood): $55
Post-surgical abortion follow-up: $40
Second Ultrasound, if needed: $50

Medication Abortion
5 weeks – 9 weeks, 0 days LMP*: $375
Rhogam (required if you have Rh- blood): $55
Post-medication abortion follow-up: included
Second Ultrasound, if needed: $50

kate78, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:44 (sixteen years ago)

thanks! what are the asterisks for? glad i started reading this thread, i mean, i usually feel like this is so outside of my own experience that its hard to think abt it, which is dead wrong obv.

plax (ico), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:49 (sixteen years ago)

i remember seeing a programme on abortion where they showed an early one where they inserted like a tube and it did a suction thing maybe and it took abt five minutes in total it seemed, surely that's not what costs 415 on that list(?)

plax (ico), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:52 (sixteen years ago)

the asterisks were to explain that LMP stands for "last menstrual period."

kate78, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:53 (sixteen years ago)

Another thing girls just "know" because you have to tell the doctors every time you go to the GYN.

Ask foreigners and they will tell you the gospel comes from America. (Laurel), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:54 (sixteen years ago)

haha i like never know the answer to that one

harbl, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:57 (sixteen years ago)

awkward boners not really feeling like such a biological scourge reading this thread anymore

plax (ico), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 21:58 (sixteen years ago)

i remember seeing a programme on abortion where they showed an early one where they inserted like a tube and it did a suction thing maybe and it took abt five minutes in total it seemed, surely that's not what costs 415 on that list(?)

Yes, it is. And the clinics make no money at that price. There are a lot of steps before and after the procedure: phone screening, ultrasound, counseling, blood typing, maybe starting an IV for sedation, recovery room, nurses on call.

kate78, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 22:00 (sixteen years ago)

When I'm not on any BC, I never know my LMP, I just go with how I feel that day and decide, "Yeah, it's probably about to start," or "I'm probably close to ovulation" or whatever. I never, ever look at a calendar. Lately, though, I always know.

Ask foreigners and they will tell you the gospel comes from America. (Laurel), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 22:01 (sixteen years ago)

I haven't met a pro-choice woman younger than 25 in years. (However, I mostly talk to working class and/or ethnic women, so that is probabally skewing the results.)

I was pro-life in high school. It's mostly because you're at the age where things are taught to you in black and white, so you think in black and white, and it's easy to point fingers when you a. haven't had to support yourself and b. you may not have even had sex yet

Phoenix in Flight (Cattle Grind), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 22:22 (sixteen years ago)

That's what I was thinking, too.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Thursday, 15 April 2010 03:46 (sixteen years ago)

this is probably an icky stereotype, but i've always assumed that women between the age of, say, 17-25 that are pro-life are "frigid virgins." uncharitable (and maybe sexist?) but it ties in pretty well with shakey's hypo re: opinions on pre-marital sex ----> abortion

like, any young woman with an active sex life that involves birth control is aware of situations in which those precautions might ~fail~ and despite any protestations to the contrary, i'm guessing that even the staunchest pre-marital sex-havin' pro-lifer would reassess her beliefs if she got Knocked Up

GREAT JOB Mushroom head (gbx), Thursday, 15 April 2010 14:44 (sixteen years ago)

If abortion had even been DISCUSSED (that I was aware of) I can guarantee I would have been pro-life, because I was pro-every other shitty conservative worldview, that's for sure.

Ask foreigners and they will tell you the gospel comes from America. (Laurel), Thursday, 15 April 2010 14:46 (sixteen years ago)

i'm guessing that even the staunchest pre-marital sex-havin' pro-lifer would reassess her beliefs if she got Knocked Up

― GREAT JOB Mushroom head (gbx), Thursday, 15 April 2010 14:44 (12 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

It would be nice to think so. More likely, they'd be all "Jesus has sent me a trial for me to ascend to heaven, or be forever damned" ....

Mark G, Thursday, 15 April 2010 14:59 (sixteen years ago)

they'd just raise a dangerously repressed telekinetic imo

Jesse James Woods (darraghmac), Thursday, 15 April 2010 15:02 (sixteen years ago)

no idea how to google for this... i read a collection of anecdotal evidence from abortion providers who had served pro-life parents whose daughters had become pregnant. funny, they nearly all expected special treatment. "is there another door we can come in and out of?" etc.

really wish i could find that again.

goole, Thursday, 15 April 2010 15:07 (sixteen years ago)

http://mypage.direct.ca/w/writer/anti-tales.html

well that wasn't hard.

goole, Thursday, 15 April 2010 15:09 (sixteen years ago)

door marked 'hypocrites' in neon

Jesse James Woods (darraghmac), Thursday, 15 April 2010 15:11 (sixteen years ago)

I've counseled thousands of women having abortions and a refrain I heard pretty frequently was, "I'm against abortion...for everybody but me."

kate78, Thursday, 15 April 2010 16:37 (sixteen years ago)

like, any young woman with an active sex life that involves birth control is aware of situations in which those precautions might ~fail~ and despite any protestations to the contrary, i'm guessing that even the staunchest pre-marital sex-havin' pro-lifer would reassess her beliefs if she got Knocked Up

The ones I knew just went ahead and had the baby.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Friday, 16 April 2010 03:21 (sixteen years ago)

in ref to: "Better to just hope you don't have a baby" or whatever:

Better than what? We're talking about people for whom the EC is not an option.

billion holla baby (roxymuzak), Friday, 16 April 2010 06:16 (sixteen years ago)

new zealand abortion law is based on fetus viability, i.e. you can't legally terminate a pregnancy later than 20 weeks bc a fetus is considered to be viable outside the womb at that stage.

― just1n3, Wednesday, April 14, 2010 4:03 AM (2 days ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
bahhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Hi Justine, I dont think this is nz law, we have abortion on demand at any stage of pregnancy.

Still as sad as it ever was, oh well.

kiwi, Friday, 16 April 2010 12:44 (sixteen years ago)

fetus viability is such a weird precept

plax (ico), Friday, 16 April 2010 13:04 (sixteen years ago)

agreed

billion holla baby (roxymuzak), Friday, 16 April 2010 14:34 (sixteen years ago)

ummm if that's the case, then it's changed in the last 10yrs. it was certainly not legal in 2002.

just1n3, Friday, 16 April 2010 15:02 (sixteen years ago)

from the wikipedia page on nz abortion law:

Abortion is not allowed under any circumstances after 20 weeks of pregnancy except to save the woman's life.

fyi 'to save the woman's life' excludes the woman's threats to kill herself if she has to go through with the pregnancy.

just1n3, Friday, 16 April 2010 15:04 (sixteen years ago)

Specific exclusion.

Mark G, Friday, 16 April 2010 15:08 (sixteen years ago)

we just got rid of that in ireland

plax (ico), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:33 (sixteen years ago)

rid of what? abortion is legal there?

I Love Milf (k3vin k.), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:35 (sixteen years ago)

Nope, I think that we won't force a woman to stay in the country any more if we think she's travelling to abort.

just darraghmac tbh (darraghmac), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:37 (sixteen years ago)

i meant, you used to be able to have an abortion if you were assessed to be suicidal as a result of the pregnancy. We had a whole referendum to get rid of it.

plax (ico), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:52 (sixteen years ago)

lonely gal just thinking abort things

velko, Friday, 16 April 2010 16:09 (sixteen years ago)

:D

I Love Milf (k3vin k.), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:10 (sixteen years ago)

Good summary of the Nebraska law re 20 weeks
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn18785-briefing-new-law-claims-a-fetus-can-feel-pain.html?full=true

Although I'm surprised that anyone really thinks it's relevant, whether or not you believe it should have human rights or w/ev surely the fact that its life is being ended is the 'key' point?

Not the real Village People, Friday, 16 April 2010 21:20 (sixteen years ago)

no the key point for anti-choicers is ginning up scientific evidence to support the contention that a fetus is alive, independent of it's mother, and therefore entitled to rights.

Looking forward to the gov't issuing "conception certificates" to fetuses btw... anti-choicers arguments are so illogical and nonsensical they would have clearly batshit and impossible-to-enforce ramifications should their arguments ever be taken seriously from a legal perspective.

I won't vote for you unless you acknowledge my magic pony (Shakey Mo Collier), Friday, 16 April 2010 21:26 (sixteen years ago)

yeah the people that push for these kind of laws aren't doing it because they think there really is a magical cutoff point, they're trying to push the boundaries of the law to (1) make it harder for at least a few people to get abortions, and (2) get someone to challenge it in court to eventually have roe v. wade overturned. roe has a bunch of language referred to as the "trimester framework" which treats abortion laws differently depending on the stage of the pregnancy during which abortion would be restricted. so you can restrict almost all abortions during the third trimester, but really can't ban anything during the first trimester, and the second one is somewhere in between. it's been modified since then by other cases but it's still around. also it's stupid. anyway i think that's what laws like that are trying to get at.

harbl, Friday, 16 April 2010 21:29 (sixteen years ago)

soon it will be a crime to wear a condom

Phoenix in Flight (Cattle Grind), Friday, 16 April 2010 21:30 (sixteen years ago)

x post justine, it certainly was never the intention of Parliment that we now have abortion on demand; the loophole as I understand it for late term abortions is danger to the mental health of the mother, ie abortion on demand.

From Crimes Act 1961

3) For the purposes of sections 183 and 186 of this Act, any act specified in either of those sections is done unlawfully unless, in the case of a pregnancy of more than 20 weeks' gestation, the person doing the act believes that the miscarriage is necessary to save the life of the woman or girl or to prevent serious permanent injury to her physical or mental health

kiwi, Friday, 16 April 2010 22:30 (sixteen years ago)

A local pro-life group is picketing at the home of the doctor who delivered me because he performs abortions. Grrr.

tokyo rosemary, Saturday, 17 April 2010 13:34 (sixteen years ago)

maybe y'should send him a note saying thank you, & keep on keepin on

(can't decontaminate the general anything-on-ilx air of snark from this post, it's meant to be a sincere, wouldn't that be nice?, suggestion)

Earning your Masters in Library and Information Science is beautiful (schlump), Saturday, 17 April 2010 14:15 (sixteen years ago)

that orig. scanned as sincere 2 me

plax (ico), Saturday, 17 April 2010 15:05 (sixteen years ago)


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