Projection:
Psychology.
The attribution of one's own attitudes, feelings, or suppositions to others: “Even trained anthropologists have been guilty of unconscious projection of clothing the subjects of their research in theories brought with them into the field” (Alex Shoumatoff).
The attribution of one's own attitudes, feelings, or desires to someone or something as a naive or unconscious defense against anxiety or guilt.
― el sabor de gene (yournullfame), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 00:39 (nineteen years ago) link
Or, in the spirit of another ILXor:
Oh boy, a dictionary!
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― He Who He Just Can Not Be Named, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 01:16 (nineteen years ago) link
― Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:09 (nineteen years ago) link
― He Who Just Won't... etc., Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:19 (nineteen years ago) link
This is such bullshit! Rico can be buffoonish, but his first interest is consistently to help his family and his business. The guy is intensely loyal, and had his whole family life fucked by the one time he wasn't. Unlike Nate, however, he was genuinely guilty about what he did, and has worked very hard to earn the forgiveness of Vanessa. Rico's not a perfect guy, but he's definitely a good person for the most part, full of love for his family and friends. If anything, he's the total opposite of Nate - he has a very specific morality and lives for the benefit of others, often at his own expense. (He's more like David and Ruth in this way.)
― Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:20 (nineteen years ago) link
― He who don't..., Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:25 (nineteen years ago) link
― bah, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:27 (nineteen years ago) link
― Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:27 (nineteen years ago) link
― Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:30 (nineteen years ago) link
Come on, Rico was a little fuck. His wife's having major depression issues, so he starts seeing a girl on the side? It took him long enough to really feel guilty about it, didn't it? And then, he played the big macho bullshit with her about it being "his house" and "his kids" and "I don't like you going out with other people" and all this bullshit. Nate would've never pulled that crap. And Nate would've acted like the little lying weasel to manipulate Vanessa back into his life like Rico did. Because Nate's "in touch" with his feelings, "bro."
― gah, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:31 (nineteen years ago) link
― Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:33 (nineteen years ago) link
― Heyah, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:36 (nineteen years ago) link
― Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:36 (nineteen years ago) link
― I disagree about the stripper, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:40 (nineteen years ago) link
My friend and I were talking about Rico the other night, and it's kinda icky how virtually all of Rico's major flaws seem to be attributed to his culture and upbringing. But then again, a lot of the best things about him happen to be in contrast to the liberal white privelege of the Fishers.
― Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:43 (nineteen years ago) link
― cutty (mcutt), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:44 (nineteen years ago) link
Oh yeah! Did you forget that? Rico doesn't seem to give a shit about the people. What about the scene with Nate's first fuck lying on the mortuary table and Rico says, "How's she holding up?" to Nate? Cool?
The way the latino casket scene happened, it just sounded like Nate was saying, "Jesus, the regular expensive casket wasn't good enough, you had to charge them an extra $300 to switch the handles?" Remember, Nate didn't know what the fuck they were saying because they were speaking Spanish, so how does he know Rico isn't just trying to sell them the most expensive stuff?
Rico totally turned it around in an instant. It's hard to tell from a script, but the way the scene was acted, it just sounded like Nate was mindlessly responding without really thinking about what race the people were. His comment was directed more toward the fact that everything was the best of the best. "We take care of our family" "Yeah and go broke doing it" ... same shit I've heard in a dozen other circumstances. It's just a comment about wasting money, not about how poor latinos are.
― I disagree about the casket options, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 02:53 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 04:36 (nineteen years ago) link
― Rickey Wright (Rrrickey), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 05:54 (nineteen years ago) link
(you're killing yourselves...)
― el sabor de gene (yournullfame), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 07:24 (nineteen years ago) link
That wasn't the card I was playing at all because I don't think Nate was being assholish in the least. Just Rico.
Or perhaps you have never heard the following:
"A car in the city? You'll go broke on parking alone... or parking tickets!"
"Can't smoke anymore, you'll go broke."
― Ghost of Dan Perry's Brain (which is dead), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 13:59 (nineteen years ago) link
― Perry Whirling Hall of Braindead, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:02 (nineteen years ago) link
Right here, baby.
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:06 (nineteen years ago) link
― Picture... wow, brilliant., Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:08 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:10 (nineteen years ago) link
-- Picture... wow, brilliant. (jock...), August 3rd, 2005.
― Picture... wow, brilliant., Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:11 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:12 (nineteen years ago) link
What are you trying to say, anyway? Is sucking cock bad, wrong and insulting?
― -- Picture... wow, brilliant. (jock...), August 3rd, 2005., Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:20 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:21 (nineteen years ago) link
Thank you, sir. May I have another?
― Picture... wow, brilliant., Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:25 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:26 (nineteen years ago) link
― tee hee, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:28 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:30 (nineteen years ago) link
― do, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:32 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:34 (nineteen years ago) link
― joye, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:47 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:50 (nineteen years ago) link
― zbra, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 14:51 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 15:03 (nineteen years ago) link
― Mmm, I think I'm going to get a hot dog for lunch, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 15:11 (nineteen years ago) link
― j blount (papa la bas), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 16:54 (nineteen years ago) link
― Leon C. (Ex Leon), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 16:56 (nineteen years ago) link
Could I have some hair dye tips?
― Worst "Googler" Ever, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 17:18 (nineteen years ago) link
― The Original Jimmy Mod (The Famous Jimmy Mod), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 19:19 (nineteen years ago) link
― That guy on the right looks like my in-law, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 22:10 (nineteen years ago) link
wonder showzen!
― cutty (mcutt), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 22:15 (nineteen years ago) link
― milozauckerman (miloaukerman), Monday, 8 August 2005 04:16 (nineteen years ago) link
― Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Monday, 8 August 2005 11:56 (nineteen years ago) link
Fuck you Alan Ball for cancelling the show! Could you perhaps consider a spin off with Olivier and Brenda's mom?
― Lovelace (Lovelace), Saturday, 8 October 2005 23:08 (nineteen years ago) link
― Lovelace (Lovelace), Saturday, 8 October 2005 23:13 (nineteen years ago) link