WOW, that went well. She said she felt really comfortable with me and "it's like we've already been on twenty dates".
― "i find your antics mirthful and infectious" (King Boy Pato), Sunday, 25 October 2009 09:39 (sixteen years ago)
She's bored and ready to dump you already?
― RAPTOBER (sic), Sunday, 25 October 2009 20:51 (sixteen years ago)
queen girl pata
― chemical ali v. chemical frazier (m bison), Sunday, 25 October 2009 21:01 (sixteen years ago)
xxp - I am happy for you, and hope it works out, or if it doesn't, will at least be a source of entertainment for ilx.
― sarahel, Sunday, 25 October 2009 21:02 (sixteen years ago)
i had the same thought as sic but i forced myself not to post it, which gives me soaring moral eagle status.
― estela, Sunday, 25 October 2009 21:28 (sixteen years ago)
That totally works though. I have a friend who, while she's def not unattractive, gets a disproportionate amount of attention from guys. It always mystified me until I was out with her one day and noticed that she basically makes eye contact and smiles at every man she sees. I really think that's at least half of the reason ppl fawn all over her - it makes her seem approachable. I think I've always been the opposite - not because I don't like smiling but just because I'm usually too lost in my own world to think about smiling at strangers. Years ago I had a conversation with a bunch of ppl and these guys were saying that I was intimidating and not approachable when in reality I don't think I'm actually like that at all it just never really occurred to me to do the smile/eye contact thing.
― \(^o\) (/o^)/ (ENBB), Wednesday, September 16, 2009 6:59 AM (1 month ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
this is otm!
― how rad bandit (gbx), Sunday, 25 October 2009 21:51 (sixteen years ago)
i mean, not about enbb, i wouldn't really know, but about smiling and being approachable
― how rad bandit (gbx), Sunday, 25 October 2009 21:52 (sixteen years ago)
i am a huge frowny face
― harbl, Sunday, 25 October 2009 21:57 (sixteen years ago)
but sometimes i feel like...if u don't like frowny faces gtfo
― harbl, Sunday, 25 October 2009 21:59 (sixteen years ago)
that bombshell has got me doing some frantic envisioning revision.
― estela, Sunday, 25 October 2009 22:01 (sixteen years ago)
i had the same thought as sic but i forced myself not to post it,
ha ha, I left it unposted all night in case SOMEONE ELSE wanted to get in with first zing
― RAPTOBER (sic), Sunday, 25 October 2009 23:00 (sixteen years ago)
haters gonna hate
― "i find your antics mirthful and infectious" (King Boy Pato), Sunday, 25 October 2009 23:17 (sixteen years ago)
Phil - :D
― bear say hi to me (ENBB), Sunday, 25 October 2009 23:45 (sixteen years ago)
Also re the smiling thing - I think I smile a lot in general just not at random guys/strangers like the girl I was referring to does. I think she goes out of her way to do that esp when it comes to men.
― bear say hi to me (ENBB), Sunday, 25 October 2009 23:51 (sixteen years ago)
lol sic, didn't it just hang there and hang there.
but lately i've been wondering if the world would be a better place if everyone stopped picking on sincere young men with so much sex to give.
― estela, Sunday, 25 October 2009 23:59 (sixteen years ago)
...and all they get in return are easy zings and suggest bans.
― sarahel, Monday, 26 October 2009 00:08 (sixteen years ago)
I hope kbp has found qgp
― Bobby Wo (max), Monday, 26 October 2009 00:16 (sixteen years ago)
― bamcquern, Monday, 26 October 2009 00:52 (sixteen years ago)
I am meeting the girl after work tonight! IN YOUR FACE, DOUBTERS!!
― "i find your antics mirthful and infectious" (King Boy Pato), Monday, 26 October 2009 00:55 (sixteen years ago)
I think I continue to speak for everyone when I continue to say “liveblog”
― RAPTOBER (sic), Monday, 26 October 2009 02:15 (sixteen years ago)
YES.
― bear say hi to me (ENBB), Monday, 26 October 2009 02:18 (sixteen years ago)
picking up this waitress
― Doctor Casino, Monday, 26 October 2009 02:20 (sixteen years ago)
buy me out of my current phone contract, they want $125 for me to cancel their utterly pathetic service!! THEN I get an iPhone dude iPhone.
― "i find your antics mirthful and infectious" (King Boy Pato), Monday, 26 October 2009 05:24 (sixteen years ago)
you know, iphone is not necessary for liveblog.
― tehresa, Monday, 26 October 2009 05:28 (sixteen years ago)
For me it is!!
― "i find your antics mirthful and infectious" (King Boy Pato), Monday, 26 October 2009 05:49 (sixteen years ago)
picking up this waitress is in top 5 threads of all time, easy
― lad: "et tu, lady?" (haitch), Monday, 26 October 2009 05:50 (sixteen years ago)
where are you meeting her, I'll come and liveblog from a discreet distance
― RAPTOBER (sic), Monday, 26 October 2009 06:30 (sixteen years ago)
we also need phonecam footage
― undergrad lovers (electricsound), Monday, 26 October 2009 06:32 (sixteen years ago)
This isn't OK Cupid but I think it's in the same ballpark. Anybody ever have a fringe friend on Facebook that you find attractive and would like to go out with, but you realize no good catalyst for contacting again them really exists? Kind of a bummer.
― Cunga, Monday, 26 October 2009 08:07 (sixteen years ago)
whoops, "them again." forgot to take my dyslexia pulls
― Cunga, Monday, 26 October 2009 08:08 (sixteen years ago)
typical jim!!
― "i find your antics mirthful and infectious" (King Boy Pato), Monday, 26 October 2009 10:18 (sixteen years ago)
one notes that Phil is home and on the internet.
― RAPTOBER (sic), Monday, 26 October 2009 10:32 (sixteen years ago)
and i don't remember hearing anything about awesome metal shows
― undergrad lovers (electricsound), Monday, 26 October 2009 10:39 (sixteen years ago)
OK so am I right in thinking that she's the one you're exchanging cutesy status comments on facebook with now?? ;-p
― bear say hi to me (ENBB), Monday, 26 October 2009 11:06 (sixteen years ago)
^ stalker
― RAPTOBER (sic), Monday, 26 October 2009 11:11 (sixteen years ago)
Your detective skills are second to none, Erica!!
― "i find your antics mirthful and infectious" (King Boy Pato), Monday, 26 October 2009 21:18 (sixteen years ago)
I was logged in to OK CUPID and someone messaged me. I was nice and talked back. And now she wants to go to the concert I was gonna see tonight with me. How do I say no? It's probably not a good idea. I had told her that none of my friends want to go with me and that I even contemplated posting an ad on craigslist to find someone to go with (but I didn't). Maybe that's why she's trying to invite herself to go to a concert with me...
― What the hell is hamster love (CaptainLorax), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 18:48 (sixteen years ago)
what's the problem here?
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 18:49 (sixteen years ago)
haha yeah i hinted to this girl who messaged me on a dating site that i was desperate enough to go to this show with someone that i was considering trolling for randoms on craigslist and she was all like "oh, i'd do with you" what a crazy bitch lol
― all yoga attacks are fire based (rogermexico.), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 18:52 (sixteen years ago)
okay, I blew her off for now
― What the hell is hamster love (CaptainLorax), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 18:55 (sixteen years ago)
I'm not claiming to have common sense but that could have been a real problem
― What the hell is hamster love (CaptainLorax), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:29 (sixteen years ago)
i still don't understand the problem. You wanted company at an event you wanted to go to, and a member of the desired sex offered to go with you.
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:31 (sixteen years ago)
Yeah I still don't really see the problem here.
Phil - yeah, I know - I'm pretty sharp.
― bear say hi to me (ENBB), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:31 (sixteen years ago)
I'm really picky when it comes to the opposite sex. Probably why I never have a girlfriend or friends that are girls
― What the hell is hamster love (CaptainLorax), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:40 (sixteen years ago)
The girls that I desire, like this one cutie at the bar with really short hair and barrettes who sang love shack perfectly, always have boyfriends
― What the hell is hamster love (CaptainLorax), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:42 (sixteen years ago)
or girlfriends
― What the hell is hamster love (CaptainLorax), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 19:51 (sixteen years ago)
You want people who aren't interested in you, but blow off the ones that are? That's an annoying affliction, try it the other way around for a while.
― mh, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 21:45 (sixteen years ago)
at least you might get laid.
― sarahel, Tuesday, 27 October 2009 21:46 (sixteen years ago)
groucho lorax
― any old tawny port in a storm (electricsound), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 21:56 (sixteen years ago)
I don't want to be with someone whom I'm not interested in. Furthermore it would be bad if we got drunk and had sex and she likes me and I don't like her... I have never broken a girls heart before.
― What the hell is hamster love (CaptainLorax), Tuesday, 27 October 2009 22:57 (sixteen years ago)