21st Century Feminists Suck

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(Also, however nasty and ignored domestic violence is, those quotes at the start of all this are funny and stupid, and not to do with domestic violence at all. Had the title not tried to turn this into a general dismissal of modern feminists, I'd have been quite happy with the thread maintaining that tone.)

Martin is totally OTM- this thread wouldn't have been so bad if Andrew had just titled it "the gender studies class my gf's attending sucks" (not that everyone would have agreed with him, mind you, but the examples he quotes in that first post are worthy of dissertation, at least.)

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Monday, 24 February 2003 23:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

Nooooo!!!!!! Don't you dare diss Blur!!! :)

You've not been on ILM much, have you? :)

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Monday, 24 February 2003 23:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

I don't understand this thread at all, but these seem U+K if they haven't been discussed yet..

Q1: Would someone go around bragging about beating their wife?
Q2: Would someone go around bragging about beating someone in a fight?

Graham (graham), Monday, 24 February 2003 23:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

Graham, there really are people who do brag about beating their wife. Really. Also, do bear in mind that it used to be legal: the expression 'rule of thumb' derives from the fact that it was illegal to beat your wife with a stick or cane thicker than the average thumb.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Monday, 24 February 2003 23:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

21st Century Feminists Suck

But do they swallow?

*runs away to bed*

Lara (Lara), Monday, 24 February 2003 23:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

Also, do bear in mind that it used to be legal: the expression 'rule of thumb' derives from the fact that it was illegal to beat your wife with a stick or cane thicker than the average thumb.

No, that's an urban legend.

Phil (phil), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 00:03 (twenty-one years ago) link

> RESUME SANCTIMONIOUS_GRANDSTANDING.BAS
> OK

Phil (phil), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 00:10 (twenty-one years ago) link

i'll second the thanks to John for getting up on that cross. Unpacking the symbolism of apparently transparent methodologies is as basic as questioning why black is bad and white is good (symbolically)

gaz (gaz), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 00:24 (twenty-one years ago) link

I get the very clear impression that my presence, as
unintimidating as I may be to folks who know, makes them nervous

Horace Mann, slim-built walker of the empty nighttime streets: you now have one more common experience to discuss with black people.

Hey, can we devote this thread to making a ranked list of which academic disciplines are most- through least-likely to include flights of fancy that would seem ridiculous or even abhorrent to anyone outside of the discipline? Gender studies is a field just out of diapers whose primary current mission is to figure out what its primary mission can or should be, so yeah, it might rank a little bit on the more-likely side. But based on something I read today that I wish I could share -- something I totally wish I could share except I really, legally, can't -- I'm thinking economists would be worse. Economists doing the everyday average thinking of economists wind up stumbling onto some thoughts that are, well, totally right and relevant to the field and yet horrifying to any individual with a single non-economic thought in his/her mind.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 00:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

Sure, I mean, that's Gary Becker in a nutshell.

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 00:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

Andrew, what university does your girlfriend attend? Cos I'm a Women's and Gender Studies major at Rutgers University (we have the top program in the country) and they sure as heck don't teach us shite like that!

Tell her to transfer to Rutgers!!!

Pam, Tuesday, 25 February 2003 01:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm going to climb up on this cross here and state that discussing the uses of words like "penetrate," "thrust," "invade" etc etc etc is in fact a decent use of time with potentially interesting results bearing on gender relations, and that the function/behavior of language is in fact a valid subject of feminist inquiry.

Penetrate, thrust, and invade are not words specific to sex or sexual imagery though. They get that way with exposure and innuendo, but in most contexts are NOT meant sexually. I don't understand why they would be offensive.

Maria (Maria), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 01:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

but if a certain value on a graph looks like a peak rather than valley you'd have to wonder...

gaz (gaz), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 02:03 (twenty-one years ago) link

hey! you wanna really fun example of academic idiocy from a Gender studies class?

Evidently one of the women's studies classes at PSU is tought by this guy who basically shows them porn web sites in class! Then he tells them to write papers about how it makes them feel! All the women I know who've taken it couldn't believe how porn-obsessed this guy was. Though it actually fit with my personal observation that any time I took a class that was largely women the professor, if male, felt some strange obligation to discuss sex and show pictures of naked women.

There. Aren't perverted psuedo-flasher professors a lot more fun then thoughtless feminism.

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 02:21 (twenty-one years ago) link

Maria - not offensive necessarily - just worth thinking about.

J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 02:39 (twenty-one years ago) link

And while certain words aren't being used in an explicitly sexual context, they do have an unavoidable sexual overtone. And, as John says, it's worth discussing why, for instance, the language of sexual penetration is used in the context of colonization. The metaphor, whether consciously applied or not, colors how we think of colonization, in this case. I don't think "retard girl's" reaction was all that productive, since it doesn't lead to any intellectual investigation of the metaphors applied to colonization; it's just a knee-jerk response to a word she's been taught to think is bad. Not that it isn't bad, of course, but to ignore it altogether doesn't get anyone anywhere. I think a more useful line of inquiry for the professor (who may or may not have used the word deliberately) would be to say, "Yes, the connotation of this language is destructive and oppressive. But it's there. Let's look at it to see how it works and how it's shaped how we look at the world."

Prude, Tuesday, 25 February 2003 02:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

Prude, Tuesday, 25 February 2003 02:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

< /grad student >

Prude, Tuesday, 25 February 2003 02:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

But is that really the most useful route to understanding the process of colonization? I'm all for academic pluralism, but the results this kind of investigation has yielded seem paltry to me.

Amateurist (amateurist), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 03:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

it's worth discussing why, for instance, the language of sexual penetration is used in the context of colonization

Do you have any specific examples other than in the context of non-western university courses?

Most language examples that I’ve seen from western history texts are religious or Darwinian in nature (e.g. civilizing, taming, pagans, savages, etc.), animalizing those being subjegated. While ‘conquering’ and the like are reserved for more military peers.

No One (SiggyBaby), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 03:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

Also, haven’t most linguists abandoned the hoary theory that language and limitations of language shape our view of the world?

No One (SiggyBaby), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 03:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

Is messing around w/the way we ask questions better than investigating the questions themselves? Probably, how would I know?

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 04:02 (twenty-one years ago) link

Alright, alright, nevermind...sheesh.

Prude, Tuesday, 25 February 2003 04:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

21st Century Feminists rock

James Blount (James Blount), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 05:02 (twenty-one years ago) link

It's political correctness gone mad! Mad I tell you, MAD!

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 05:34 (twenty-one years ago) link

Also, haven’t most linguists abandoned the hoary theory that language and limitations of language shape our view of the world?

No. And I say that having spent the first few days of 2003 at the annual meeting of the Linguistic Society of America, selling a striking amount of George Lakoff's books. Including the forthcoming Metaphors We Live By, with Mark Johnson, which makes exactly the same unconscious-metaphors-shape-thought argument John is making.

(Paper $14.00 0-226-46837-2 Spring 2003 Available 03/03 "[T]he most original and valuable thing I've seen on the much-discussed topic of metaphor." -- James D. McCawley [/marketing])

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 07:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

Linguists, one may note, might be slightly biased by the fact that if language in reality does not influence our understanding of the world, their jobs are much less important than might otherwise be imagined. Nevertheless they may simply be right about the very important relationships between metaphor and category.

nabisco (nabisco), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 07:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

I've always hated metaphors.

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 10:01 (twenty-one years ago) link

But is that really the most useful route to understanding the process of colonization?

Maybe, maybe not -- the question might be put better as not "is that the most useful route to understanding...colonization" but "might this route yield interesting or productive ways to thinking about colonization," in which case I'd say that the answer is a definite yes -- language w/r/t colonization is an almost endlessly interesting subject

"is it the most useful route" rockism SHOCKAH!

J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 11:44 (twenty-one years ago) link

English: a language spoken by colonising people, which appropriates words from 'colonised' peoples' languages.

Every time you use language in a way that's oppositional to the person you're using it on, it's all about giving that other person/institution *very little leeway* other than directing them to points you'd like to make and things you'd like them to do. If you're really good at it, the letter you write to the bank telling them how they've fucked up, how they're going to fix it, and what compensation you must receive in return for their incopetence will be *watertight*.

suzy (suzy), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 12:21 (twenty-one years ago) link

How are we defining what is and isn't socially acceptable here? I don't think domestic violence is considered socially acceptable in the UK, especially violence by men against women. Is something "socially acceptable" because it is acceptable in SOME circles? If so, you could argue that rape, paedophilia and going round randomly beating up black people are also socially acceptable.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 12:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

I've just realised how behind the discussion I am here, but the question still stands.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 12:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

And there's far more than one 'society', people always fall back on that idea when they're angrily pointing at how crap everything is. ILX is one, no form of violence is particularly accepted here

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 12:31 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'd really like to know how that, just because it exists, domestic violence is socially acceptable. By that logic everything is socially acceptable. Rape is acceptable to some (small) groups of people, but that doesn't make it socially acceptable, does it? I, for one, don't know a single person who wouldn't be outraged to hear that a friend of theirs is/was being abused by their partner. Ergo, it is not socially acceptable amongst anyone I know.

I'm sorry. I did give this thread a shitty title. Let us from hereon in rename it to "Stupid Academic Foibles".

Also, someone upthread made reference to "bad words" (and presumably the existence of "good words" too). What the fuck is a "bad word"? Anyone who is offended by a word is a dick. Just because a word can have a sexual (and unpleasant for some) connotation, does not mean that it can/should not be used in other contexts.

Andrew (enneff), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 12:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

Every new word you learn = another soul who will be your eternal slave in the infernal afterlife

dave q, Tuesday, 25 February 2003 12:57 (twenty-one years ago) link

Yeah it was stupid to use such a flippant title, obv EVERYONE has to take anything that could be, if misread, taken as a slight on ALL OF FEMINISM or something extremely seriously.

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 13:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

Well, you know, I'm just a flippant kinda guy.

Andrew (enneff), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 13:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

Also, I'd just like to mention that I'd never shout "fucking die moron!" at someone in any kind of seriousness.

Andrew (enneff), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 13:18 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was being sarcastic, of course, tho I'm sure you know that... I think you've been ridiculously slighted on this thread. Also, I'm a SHITTY MOOD and i shouldn't be posting, sorry

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 13:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

> > Also, haven’t most linguists abandoned the hoary theory
> > that language and limitations of language shape our view of the world?

> No. And I say that having spent the first few days of 2003
> at the annual meeting of the Linguistic Society of America,
> selling a striking amount of George Lakoff's books. Including
> the forthcoming Metaphors We Live By, with Mark Johnson,
> which makes exactly the same unconscious-metaphors-shape-thought
> argument John is making.

and the reason it's neither hoary nor old is that it is a lively area of research with a lot of excellent empirical evidence to suggest it is a fruitful theory. The "Metaphors we Live by" is a re-issue of book published in the 80s, but the recently published.

I am currently reading the very absorbing, and slightly more recent (1999) Philosophy in the Flesh.

Alan (Alan), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 13:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

Anyone who can be offended by a word is a dick

Alright cuntface, you're a dick.
The point of offensive words is that people are offended by them. However the fact that people can be offended by words that you consider to be non-offensive does not make them a dick. It just marks out a potential difference in background, language usage, sensitivity.

Pete (Pete), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 13:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

Every new word you learn = another soul who will be your eternal slave in the infernal afterlife

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i heart dave q, thought of you yesterday when I bought the reissue of Zep's "Presence" instead of whatever else it was I was almost gonna buy

J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 14:31 (twenty-one years ago) link

God damn it I thought I formatted that thing correctly, they were supposed to intersect crossword-like at the "A" in "slaves" :(

J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 14:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

What would it have meant, anyway?

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 14:39 (twenty-one years ago) link

Anyone who can be offended by a word is a dick

I've had your back earlier in the discussion, Andrew, but this is just not right (or are you intimating that all of the black people who don't want to be called "nigger" are dicks?).

I do take issue with the concept of classifying the word "penetrate" as negative; free from sexual connotations it's completely neutral and even with sexual connotations I think anyone who automatically classifies sexual penetration as "bad" is bringing a large amount of their own baggage to the word.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 14:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

What would it have meant, anyway?

Dave Q's posting springs from the Zodiac Killer's claim that each person he killed would become his slave in the afterlife and he used the slaves/paradise acrostic in one of his letters to the cops

Dan - can any word ever exist free of connotations? I can't imagine so: the whole purpose of words is to connote, right?

J0hn Darn1elle (J0hn Darn1elle), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 15:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

Oh I see, creepy.

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 15:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dan - can any word ever exist free of connotations?

'Of' connotes...er. Margaret Atwood to thread?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 15:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

I thought the whole purpose of words was to connote AND denote.

Also, removing one set of connotations from a word is not the same thing as removing ALL connotations from a word.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 15:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

however you don't remove connotations by saying "NO! BAD CONNOTATION! SIT!"

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 25 February 2003 15:53 (twenty-one years ago) link


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