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The balls in question

NickB (NickB), Friday, 28 July 2006 11:01 (nineteen years ago)

They gave me that rubber ball to ease the labour. hahahahahahaha I think it was mainly to entertain my husband. It didn't help diddly squat. And two hours of labour! How lucky your wife was! I had about 21 hrs? I can't remember. Just that I begged for an epidural after ten hours.

Whatever. CONGRATULATIONS, NickB and Mrs NickB!

I also love hearing all the ILX kiddies talking. It's the sweetest thing!

Ophelia's eating habits are more difficult, I think, due to the heat. She doesn't eat much, prefers to stick her thumb in her mouth instead of a nipple, and then suddenly screams for food an hour and a half later. She drank for half an hour, which made me insanely happy. She's a pretty skinny baby. Funny how you want the exact opposite with a baby (compared with older kids/adults): you want'em chubby. She also dislikes some solid foods: she makes these *choaky* sounds when eating some things. :-( Ah well, I'm not worrying too much.

http://static.flickr.com/59/196313191_a06edf370c.jpg?v=0

She loves to play with that parasol.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Friday, 28 July 2006 11:11 (nineteen years ago)

Wow congratulations! It feels so close it moves me deeply!
happy, happy welcome to the new baby.

misshajim (strand), Friday, 28 July 2006 11:17 (nineteen years ago)

ugh, had a bad day yesterday, mostly attributable to sleep deprivation (mostly self-induced but the kid contributed some too) and my weight loss--I'm below my pre-pregnancy weight by a smidge and am finding it really hard to keep my caloric intake high enough to account for nursing. So I'm having blood-sugar dips a bunch. And then I freak out about like peak-oil or global warming and what kind of future the kid is going to live in and then it's tears all around. Anyway, I'm better now, just wanted to vent.

My real question--the boy (almost 8 mos now!) is not a fantastic little traveler and we're about to take a 5 or 6 hour trip. We did it once when he could be counted on to sleep a couple of hours in the car but I don't have high hopes for this time. The initial plan was to take off in the morning, before his morning nap, and at least get that hour asleep in the car. Someone suggested we take off in the evening and let him sleep part of overnight in the car and we're considering that now. Pros: kid probably sleeps whole way. Cons: we are a bit tired during the drive and when we arrive, and when kid wakes up for transfer to bed, he'll think nighttime sleep is over and be ready to play. Pros: we're going to my folks and they'd probably be delighted to get up at midnight and play with the kid for an hour until he realizes he's still tired.

my god, what a tiny little decision I have just elaborated, feel free to ignore all this, my life is all these tiny little decisions.

teeny (teeny), Sunday, 6 August 2006 11:54 (nineteen years ago)

Teeny, start eating Cinnabons. It's my solution to all your little decision issues.

http://ahumbleheart.org/mt-static/CINNABON.jpg

Je4nne ƒur¥ (Je4nne Fury), Sunday, 6 August 2006 12:28 (nineteen years ago)

Travel with children under age 5 or so is so stressful. Hang in there! Whatever you decide to do, you can always take turns napping when you get there while the other plays with your baby. If the grandparents really do want to stay up with him and play, though, even better!

Sara R-C (Sara R-C), Sunday, 6 August 2006 12:32 (nineteen years ago)

You're below your pre-pregnancy weight? I'm about there but should drop some more weight. Maybe we can switch bodies? ;-) I can't manage to shed the necessary kilos. :-(

In regard to travelling? We did it once, never again... until next year. Ophelia was screaming and crying the whole day when we went to my PIL. :-(

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Sunday, 6 August 2006 21:37 (nineteen years ago)

two weeks pass...
http://static.flickr.com/83/221904346_d7c17c2d1f_m.jpg

Come on, people, I wanna see pictures of your kids!


Ophelia has six teeth now. Luckily she doesn't bite my nipples so breastfeeding is a joy. I only do it twice a day now. What a change! I used to do +8 feedings a day. She eats quite well and is growing a little slower than before.

She loves her walker and sleeps 12 hours at night. During the day she takes one or two naps. The rest is PLAYTIME with mummy and daddy. She doesn't sit yet but does sort of lifts herself on hands and knees. She doesn't really crawl forwards, only backwards. But damn it's cute seeing her run around in the walker.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 10:50 (nineteen years ago)

I know you didn't really mean me, Nathalie, but I don't need much encouragement (shame about my great, looming mug):

http://static.flickr.com/78/217229418_74009f77b5_m.jpg

Ava now recognises rabbits (makes ears above her head, says "hop hop") and cats ("meow"). Showing some signs of recognising letters too (points at signs and says "mmmm" or "ohhh" for "M" and "O"). Also asks to be lifted up onto the couch ("up"). She gave me a kiss the other day! A smacker, right on the chin. Will not stop singing "E-I-E-I-O" from Old MacDonald or "Bob Bob Bobby Bob" (her version of the Bobinogs theme).

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 11:01 (nineteen years ago)

Oh man, I hope Ophelia turns out as pretty as Ava!

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 11:51 (nineteen years ago)

Whaddyamean, she already is!

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 12:30 (nineteen years ago)

wow, only nursing twice a day! Louis is having three good meals of solids a day but still nurses once or twice in between, and a few times overnight. He can handle cheerios really well, it's fun to see him pick them up and gum them. He can now point (not really at anything y'know, he can just make a pointer finger now) and for some reason I find this hilarious, we sit around and point at each other. He is also cruising with two hands on the couch and lately he seems to be trying to stand unsupported.

He's still waking up a lot at night and I can't figure out why, he knows how to put himself back to sleep but he still wakes up and is pissed off to be awake, cries for a couple of minutes, and then goes back to sleep. I'm a light sleeper so this always wakes me up too. It's not really a problem, both of us are getting enough sleep and he is such a happy guy during the day, but it's just odd.

teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 12:46 (nineteen years ago)

oh oops I forgot to include a picture, we went swimming:
http://static.flickr.com/87/219897283_9bde69f0f6_m.jpg

teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 12:47 (nineteen years ago)

Aw, sweet. Not very goth, though. ;-)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 13:26 (nineteen years ago)

xxpost I guess I shouldn't worry about feeding (as I always tend to do or rather tended to do...). I breastfeed mornings and evenings. Then fruit at lunch and veggies at around 4. :-)

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 15:43 (nineteen years ago)

Beautiful, beautiful children.

luna (luna.c), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 17:36 (nineteen years ago)

Edith in a bad mood:

http://static.flickr.com/66/204772719_428229cb57.jpg

Please excuse the untidiness.

PJ Miller (PJ Miller 68), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:09 (nineteen years ago)

You lot do realise one day your kids are going to google themselves and find their baby pictures all over the internets? Or, worse, their CLASSMATES are going to do it and subject them to years of roffling at them?

ailsa (ailsa), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:12 (nineteen years ago)

Children don't roffle at themselves in old pictures, they roffle at their parents. Bad luck, Mike :)

Mädchen (Madchen), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:16 (nineteen years ago)

I'd fucking HATE my parents if they put my baby pictures all over the internet with my name attached to them where people could find them. Just saying, like.

ailsa (ailsa), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:18 (nineteen years ago)

don't worry, iLx will be eternally poxy-fuled by the time any of these toddlers are online.

Handmaiden of Hip Hop (Molly Jones), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:20 (nineteen years ago)

Ailsa, with the poxyfuling I doubt they would be able to show it to their mates. ;-) And I think she'd be PROUD that I wuv her so so much. Which I do. Ophelia, honey, I love you so much it sometimes hurts. :-)

Hah, already said but who cares. *pushes submit button*

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:21 (nineteen years ago)

*vomits*

:-)

ailsa (ailsa), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:22 (nineteen years ago)

Look, Edith's mates, here she is upside down when she was a tiny tot!

http://static.flickr.com/79/222234139_0c9d48f48d_o.jpg

PJ Miller (PJ Miller 68), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:23 (nineteen years ago)

Mike, Peter, you are excused because I have googled your daughters by name and have found no pictures. Well, I've found lots of pictures, but not of them. I don't know anyone else's surname, or can't be arsed, whatever.

ailsa (ailsa), Tuesday, 22 August 2006 18:43 (nineteen years ago)

for your lil christian warriors: armor of god pj's.

gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Saturday, 26 August 2006 16:13 (nineteen years ago)

Y'know, if you put my daughter's full name into Google you get an ILX post from her in the year 2022.

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Saturday, 26 August 2006 22:29 (nineteen years ago)

My sister and niece (3 months), yesterday.
http://static.flickr.com/70/225086176_f4a179a07a.jpg

Andrew (enneff), Saturday, 26 August 2006 23:56 (nineteen years ago)

first cold. I thought the magic boob juice would protect him forever. :(

teeny (teeny), Monday, 28 August 2006 13:34 (nineteen years ago)

Aw. I remember the boy's first ear-infection. He was pukey and pathetic and his equilibrium was fucked up, resulting in falling down. So sad.

Somehow my son's speech class this year consists of only 3 students: him, his arch-nemesis/bully, and the girl he is in love with. What are the odds?

captain reverend gandalf jesus (nickalicious), Monday, 28 August 2006 13:55 (nineteen years ago)

Edith is a bit off colour today as well. I find it very depressing when she is even mildly ill. I don't know why. A thoroughly unreasonable sense of failed responsibility, I suppose.

PJ Miller (PJ Miller 68), Monday, 28 August 2006 15:57 (nineteen years ago)

i'm a dad,dudes. he's a month old yesterday and perfect.

Fritz Wollner (Fritz), Monday, 28 August 2006 19:05 (nineteen years ago)

yay! no chance of posting a picture? PRETTY PLEASE!

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Monday, 28 August 2006 19:19 (nineteen years ago)

Cool, congratulations!

Danny Aioli (Rock Hardy), Monday, 28 August 2006 19:21 (nineteen years ago)

teeny, oh dear, how is he holding up? ophelia had a bit of diarrhea but it's already gone. she's such a sweetie. every day i love her a little bit more. she's still not sitting independently yet which worries me a little bit, but she's running across the living room at breakneck speed. she has also started babbling. it's very much like talking but it doesn't make any sense whatsoever. "hahabablalalapopop... aaah YAH!" she also loves to scream and lift her arms up when something doesn't go her way or when lucy (our dog) doesn't react quick enough.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Monday, 28 August 2006 19:27 (nineteen years ago)

oh fritz why didn't you tell us earlier? I was worried! seriously! congratulations! pics pls!!

lou just has buckets of snot coming out, a bit of a cough, and is cranky. totally survivable. last night was a bit rough and tonight probably will be too, oh well.

teeny (teeny), Monday, 28 August 2006 19:53 (nineteen years ago)

We had to bring 15-month-old Cyrus in to the emergency room on Sunday. He cut his lip. Four stitches! Three of us had to hold him down while the good doctor sewed him up. He is eating fine now and doesn't even seem to notice the stitches, but I am traumatised forever. He's at daycare today. God I hope they're hovering over him to catch him if he falls so he doesn't bang it up again. Cyrus won't sit still a minute and still insists on climbing onto precarious surfaces, under teeetering objects, across tripping things, into sharp things --- sheeeesh. I wish I didn't have to work so I could hold him all day!

Maria :D (Maria D.), Tuesday, 5 September 2006 16:27 (nineteen years ago)

Poor Cyrus!

Ava is well into the shy-until-she-warms-up stage. Her reaction to seeing "Auntie" Gail at lunchtime today was hilarious - dug her head into her chest and pretended to play with the straps in her buggy, occasionally glancing up through her eyebrows at Gail. She couldn't have been cuter if she'd fallen into a skip full of kittens.

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Tuesday, 5 September 2006 16:37 (nineteen years ago)

Hang on - are Beth P and Ken L a couple??

=== temporary username === (Mark C), Tuesday, 5 September 2006 21:35 (nineteen years ago)

That implies that some callous dastard has thrown away hundreds of kittens :'(

=== temporary username === (Mark C), Tuesday, 5 September 2006 21:38 (nineteen years ago)

I am going to do that next time I see Auntie Gail, only I will have to fiddle with my flies.

PJ Miller (PJ Miller 68), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 06:32 (nineteen years ago)

Oh I've missed loads of this thread somehow. So much cuteness! Hope wee Cyrus is ok - injury and illness does seem to be a lot more traumatic for the parents. When I think of all the accidents my sister and I had in our infancy I wonder how my mum and dad stayed sane. Possibly they didn't.

I'm 24 weeks pregnant! How did that happen? Currently not sleeping very well and have a mild case of SPD, but the good news is we've finally chosen a pushchair (probably). Oh and while I'm here can anyone point me to our several baby name threads as I am still struggling on that front? Thanks!

Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 08:05 (nineteen years ago)

"How did that happen? "

Uuuuh, SEX! ;-)

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 08:38 (nineteen years ago)

Haha. Amusingly enough, the medical advice for alleviating spd is 'keep your legs together as much as possible'. If only I'd done that six months ago eh.

But seriously, the time is going alarmingly quickly! I'm supposed to have my hospital bag packed already, 'just in case'. Arrgh.

Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 08:41 (nineteen years ago)

Archel you know I dreamed your baby's name, AND it was conveniently unisex, so it's all sorted.

=== temporary username === (Mark C), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 08:49 (nineteen years ago)

Unisex in the sense that it wasn't male OR female or in fact a real name at all, you mean? ;)

Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 08:53 (nineteen years ago)

I hope Cyrus is better soon, and doesn't bump his lip again. I think children who have a devil-may-care adventurous streak in them are really cool (despite all the worry they cause their poor parents!)

I don't know about packing your hospital bag "just in case" at this point in time Archel - although my second daughter was born at only 34 weeks (and I wasn't organised enough to have packed anything apart from a walkman and some CDs).

All these adorable babies on this thread! It seems a lifetime ago that my two girls (now 8 and 10) were that tiny.

I'm not on my own computer at the moment, so I have very few pictures at my disposal. All I can currently lay my hands on are these :

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v506/Paronomasiac/scan0008.jpg

In which Rhian demonstrates how cold and grey the sea is in Wales

and

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v506/Paronomasiac/SarahGraceTigger.jpg

In which Sarah is attacked by a giant tiger


C J (C J), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 09:03 (nineteen years ago)

I certainly didn't bother with a bag when I was six months pregnant. I don't think it's that necessary (unless maybe you have a caesarian) as you'll be puffing for approximately 20 hrs (that's the average amount of labour) so your family can get your bag in the meantime. :-)

Will you be staying in a one person room or not? I did. It wasn't that costly. Everything incl. 1000 euros, which seemed a good deal, as I wanted privacy and only my baby crying in the middle of the night. ;-) If you don't - so staying with one other mother in a room - then it costs 300 euros.

CJ, your daughters ars so beautiful!

Maria, I hope Cyrus heals up pretty quickly. :-)

http://static.flickr.com/90/235760090_35f1176228_m.jpg

She loves her thumb.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 10:17 (nineteen years ago)

Aw Olivia is getting so big and bonny :)

I'm not sure how it works in NHS hospitals but I have a feeling they don't accept cash for rooms here... I never wanted to give birth in hospital in the first place so I'm hoping - well fantasising - that I go into labour early in the morning, have no problems at all and get home the same night. Somehow I doubt this will happen!

Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 11:10 (nineteen years ago)

At my local NHS hospital they've got a birthing unit with all private rooms, en-suite facilities, birthing pools etc. BUT you can only give birth there if you've had a totally normal pregnancy (which luckily I have so far) AND you can't get an epidural there - if you need one mid-labour you have to go to the general maternity ward (which I imagine as some big communal screaming room).

Meg Busset (Mog), Wednesday, 6 September 2006 11:26 (nineteen years ago)


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