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Mädchen (Madchen), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:34 (nineteen years ago)

Aw, they're just gorgeous! Gorgeous times two! I love the cat, "and I claim this one as my own."

luna (luna.c), Thursday, 11 January 2007 17:51 (nineteen years ago)

Cat's probably taking advantage of the wee bairn's heat.

Incidentally, my friend Gavin's wife gave birth to their lovely son, Jack. I don't have any pics (because I only just heard about it!), but I do have The Fall's "Fiery Jack" playing in my head.

GLC (ZakAce), Thursday, 11 January 2007 19:38 (nineteen years ago)

I thought I was going to miss the nesting urge, but about a week before Sarah was born it suddenly hit. One of my favorite memories is of Hubbin coming home from work one day and finding me (giant whale of a near-birth human) standing on chair arms taking down the living room curtains because I decided they needed washing.

Accidentally setting your nightshirt on fire at about baby-level because your tummy was sticking out over the stove eye is somehow more memorable for me.

do i have to draw you a diaphragm (Rock Hardy), Thursday, 11 January 2007 19:52 (nineteen years ago)

haha

meg, you're a week and a half ahead of me!

sunny successor agrees: gay dad always trumps slutty mom (katharine), Thursday, 11 January 2007 19:55 (nineteen years ago)

I've been bad about taking any video! This is all I've gotten lately:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rf77-ZlgxlU

He still doesn't really have any words but he can do this!

teeny (teeny), Friday, 12 January 2007 00:31 (nineteen years ago)

Accidentally setting your nightshirt on fire at about baby-level because your tummy was sticking out over the stove eye is somehow more memorable for me.

The reason I couldn't pass on any of my maternity togs is that they were all indelibly stained on the belly from bonking into the kitchen counter.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Friday, 12 January 2007 03:02 (nineteen years ago)

how come one of cookie monster's eyeballs is all googly and the other one doesn't move so much. creeps me the hell out.

tony conrad schnitzler (sanskrit), Monday, 15 January 2007 14:39 (nineteen years ago)

Accidentally setting your nightshirt on fire at about baby-level because your tummy was sticking out over the stove eye is somehow more memorable for me.

My wife's sister ironed a nice big triangle onto her bump.

onimo (onimo), Monday, 15 January 2007 15:46 (nineteen years ago)

indelibly stained on the belly from bonking into the kitchen counter

I read that as "bonking on the kitchen counter" and was getting all TMI!

onimo (onimo), Monday, 15 January 2007 15:47 (nineteen years ago)

Oh good, I was hoping this thread would pop up.

Lytton is 6 weeks now and is settling into a sleeping pattern - he seems to need about 10-11 hours a day, and is sleeping for stretches of 6 or 7 at night. On the one hand I'm pretty delighted by this, on the other, 7 hours uninterrupted sleep for a 6-week-old can't be normal, can it? We've been feeding on demand and not waking for feeds since about the first week. He's not been weighed for a while but was putting it on at a fair clip last time he was, and during the day he feeds a lot, every couple of hours or so.

Tom (Groke), Monday, 15 January 2007 15:50 (nineteen years ago)

On the one hand I'm pretty delighted by this, on the other, 7 hours uninterrupted sleep for a 6-week-old can't be normal, can it? We've been feeding on demand and not waking for feeds since about the first week. He's not been weighed for a while but was putting it on at a fair clip last time he was, and during the day he feeds a lot, every couple of hours or so.

If he's piling on the pounds and consistently following a growth curve and everything else seems normal, I would just thank your lucky stars and not worry about it. Ava was a great sleeper from around 10 days old and happily hugged that 25th-percentile for months; Tallulah has been the very opposite but even she is sleeping from 11pm to around 4:30am on a regular basis now.

As if on cue, TG stirs at the sound of Alice Coltrane and it's time to level off six scoops of Cow & Gate into 180ml of water...

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Monday, 15 January 2007 16:00 (nineteen years ago)

7 hours uninterrupted sleep for a 6-week-old can't be normal, can it?

Don't worry about it! Especially if you formula feed (or a combination), it's normal for babies to sleep longer. You fed on demand from the first week? You learned faster than I did!
And if you're *lucky* Lytton might go for four hours at a time from tomorrow. It's not uncommon for a baby to *fool* the 'rents. ;-)

TOMORROW OPHELIA IS ONE YEAR OLD. HURRAH! :-)

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Monday, 15 January 2007 16:25 (nineteen years ago)

Let's mave a multicontinental Ophelia Party!

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Monday, 15 January 2007 16:37 (nineteen years ago)

have

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Monday, 15 January 2007 16:37 (nineteen years ago)

I always see the ridiculous typo after I've hit submit, and for those few seconds that the message is still hovering there, I'm going "Noooooo!!!!!"

There should be an unsubmit panic button.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Monday, 15 January 2007 16:39 (nineteen years ago)

Silly Photoshopped onesie I made last night:

http://www.cafepress.com/schwantz.101126388

schwantz (schwantz), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 02:47 (nineteen years ago)

7 hours of uninterrupted sleep, count your fucking blessings.

we are seriously trying to ferberize the kid now, it is a bitch

kyle (akmonday), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 02:58 (nineteen years ago)

Here is our method:

At around 7, we feed them a big bottle of breast milk each (twins). Then, at 8:30, we bathe them (and blow-dry them - they love that!). Finally, one more feeding, swaddling (this is key - you may THINK they don't like to be swaddles, but they probably do), and some holding until they start to drift off. They usually sleep 6 hours after all that.

schwantz (schwantz), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 03:08 (nineteen years ago)

My first LOVED swaddling! They should make big giant Ace bandages for it.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 03:09 (nineteen years ago)

Even better - the Kiddopotamus!

http://www.kiddopotamus.com/p_swad.php

schwantz (schwantz), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 03:13 (nineteen years ago)

Those don't look very snug to me. I'm talking total larva look.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 03:16 (nineteen years ago)

Or cocoon, rather. Not saying my kid was a maggot.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 03:17 (nineteen years ago)

happy birthday ophelia!

teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 15:49 (nineteen years ago)

awww happy 1st, O

sunny successor agrees: gay dad always trumps slutty mom (katharine), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 15:52 (nineteen years ago)

feliz cumpleanos Ophelia! Has this year flown by Nath?

Ms Misery (MissMiseryTX), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 15:55 (nineteen years ago)

Happy birthday!

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 17:08 (nineteen years ago)

Happy birthday Ophelia!

Alice is in a fairly predictable routine now - unfortunately it's a routine that involves sleeping all day (waking briefly for feeds every 4 to 5 hours), screaming incessantly for no discernable reason between about 7pm and 9pm, then feeding every 2 to 3 hours at night without always going back to sleep properly in between. Any tips for reversing this pattern so the long sleeps are at night? (Oh and ideally for losing the evening screams altogether, of course).

Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 17:48 (nineteen years ago)

Happy birthday Ophelia! xxxx

luna (luna.c), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 19:39 (nineteen years ago)

Update: Alice has NOT had her evening screams today! Fingers crossed.

At 1 month:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/145/359488580_4588011fcd.jpg?v=0

Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 21:00 (nineteen years ago)

You ask, you get:
http://www.douglasandlisa.com/sterling/s132.html

More, of course, at sterlingwolk dot com.

Douglas (Douglas), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 21:28 (nineteen years ago)

Whoops, make that:

http://www.douglasandlisa.com/sterling/s132.jpg

Douglas (Douglas), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 21:30 (nineteen years ago)

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/161/359826283_b053b4596c.jpg

teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 21:46 (nineteen years ago)

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/154/357321988_5c83950a43.jpg

schwantz (schwantz), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 21:58 (nineteen years ago)

That's four beauties in a row right there. I'd missed Sterling! Will bookmark your website, Douglas.

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 22:36 (nineteen years ago)

Y'all have made my week. Please for to smooch each pictured baby for me (and also the twin wot was not pictured.)

luna (luna.c), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 23:02 (nineteen years ago)

well, ian is too big for swadding (6 1/2 months, over 18 pounds, and 30 inches long) now, but he liked it when he was little. last night went better, he only woke up once. it was a long wake and a long cry though (45 minutes) at the end of which we had to break down and feed him. he fell right back asleep though and didn't get up until 7. this is the best sleeping he's done since he was born.

he started crawling (and standing up) in the past two weeks:

http://bp2.blogger.com/_9fU1wm-nLUU/Ra0nWYcOEfI/AAAAAAAAADw/tHH57iLb0t8/s1600-h/DSCF1475.JPG

kyle (akmonday), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 23:10 (nineteen years ago)

er, make that:

http://bp2.blogger.com/_9fU1wm-nLUU/Ra0nWYcOEfI/AAAAAAAAADw/tHH57iLb0t8/s320/DSCF1475.JPG

kyle (akmonday), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 23:19 (nineteen years ago)

Oh! The babies are so sweet today for Ophelia's birthday!

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 23:46 (nineteen years ago)

Tallulah in her biker boots and ye-ye dress:

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/130/356265761_f3e181c6b9.jpg

Ava and Edith browse hat catalogues:

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/123/356276740_c663cb3d97.jpg

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Wednesday, 17 January 2007 00:02 (nineteen years ago)

(I'm on duty tonight - come on, Tallulah, you can make it until 7am...)

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Wednesday, 17 January 2007 00:03 (nineteen years ago)

Well, did she make it?

Alice was up at 3 and 6, unfortunately.

Tallulah has got so big and bonny considering how little she was to start with. Amazing!

Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 17 January 2007 07:20 (nineteen years ago)

She made it to 7:02am! Uncanny. However, Ava started screaming at 4:15 and would not settle in her cot, so we had the big girl('s blouse) sleeping with us (or babbling, bouncing and poking us) for those precious three hours when we ought to have been snoozing in peace. Perhaps it was the high winds that disturbed her. I was dreaming about having to spend £75 on eBay on an illuminated perspex Union Jack for work, so I thought that was what was distressing her.

Still, it's a good sign that the little one is ready to go through the night at 11 weeks.

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Wednesday, 17 January 2007 08:13 (nineteen years ago)

screaming incessantly for no discernable reason between about 7pm and 9pm

Oh no, this is perfectly normal: Babies often cry at the end of the day because of the tiring day they had. :-)


The year just flew by. I can still remember putting her in the crib next to us, worrying and stroking her bald head. Now she sits beside me taking all the ribbons out of the box (in the shop) saying "dadada." She's been such an easy baby. This and a crap memory - so I can't remember that well how I walked around like a zombie - make you long for a second one. :-)

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/154/359277623_a788cccf35.jpg?v=0

opening up her presents. not all because the real party is on sunday.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 17 January 2007 08:33 (nineteen years ago)

It has just occurred to me that Alice's head is totally Matt-shaped. I always thought of family resemblances being in various parts of the face, but not the whole head!

Mädchen (Madchen), Wednesday, 17 January 2007 10:59 (nineteen years ago)

So the bloody doctor - who made me worry about her head circumference a while ago - told me she heard a heart murmur but "not to worry." Ok, the bloody woman is 8 months pregnant, she must have some motherly instincts by now. DOES SHE NOT KNOW THAT NOT WORRYING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR A MOTHER! I mean, WHAT THE FUCK, woman, you did this one time, why TWO TIMES? I reeeeeeeaaaaaallllllly hope I'm right and she's hard of hearing due to big pregnant belly but y'know how it goes... I cried of course once I got home. I know that it's a minor thing and usually they don't operate at all, but HOW CAN I NOT FUCKING WORRY? She was banging on about the big head again and I wanted to smash her head in yelling:"WTF are you on, I did an ultrasound and they found NOTHING, you bleeding b*tch." I should not have gone to that (free) government healthcare center. Ophelia's private doctor had advised me not to go cause the doctors are not properly trained (usually *general MDs* instead of pediatricians) so they know shit about these things. God, I hope he doesn't hear anything...

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Friday, 19 January 2007 14:48 (nineteen years ago)

so you're going to follow up with a different doctor?

Ms Misery (MissMiseryTX), Friday, 19 January 2007 15:01 (nineteen years ago)

Edith has got a cold. Fortunately, her friends Quack Quack and Rufo the Dog have got the sniffles too, which helps to keep her spirits up.

Happy birthday, Ophelia. It looks like her present was a dog's bottom.

PJ Miller (PJ Miller 68), Friday, 19 January 2007 15:08 (nineteen years ago)

Nath, you poor thing! You SHOULD go back to your private doctor and tell him this stuff—he needs to set your mind at ease, and he also needs to know the reasons you went to the clinic, whether it was the high cost of going to him, or his lack of available time. We are all too hesitant to confront doctors about that stuff.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Friday, 19 January 2007 15:32 (nineteen years ago)

i had a heart murmur when i was born and it was there until I was 10 or so. they initially told my parents i'd need open heart surgery or i'd die; they got a second opinion, luckily. the murmur just got more feint the older I got and went away. so, get a second opinion. it's probably nothing.

kyle (akmonday), Friday, 19 January 2007 16:07 (nineteen years ago)


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