Are you a disher or a taker?

I'd like to think I take dishes and throw them, but the reality is that I've found the dishing bit rather dangerous because it bites and people have a forgiveness problem with it so, nowadays I tend to be a taker and seethe in quiet 'till everything blows over, seeings as I don't bear grudges myself: life's too short.

both, but a disher only when provoked

i have taken and thrown dishes, and it felt pretty good yeah.
now i dish and take.
but sometimes i find i have to dish a lot before i get anyone to dish back so i can take. now that gets frustrating.