I am often wary of referring to people on ILE / talking about ILE too much cause it reinforces that image. Some days it's all just in jokes and not talking about things in the open ended ways that made the community thrive in the first place. It's NOT a clique, but it's important maybe to bear in mind that it would look that way to newcomers.
Do you worry about this kind of thing?
― N., Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
it sometimes makes me feel as if I'm back in highschool, trying to fit in again...
but a lot of that is my own headspace, sooooo...
― Queen G, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Archel, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Nicole, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
Both are fun in their own way and surely one leads to the other, for the uninitiated.
But somedays it is a bit bobbins. Just like real life
― misterjones, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
But I mean even answering this now I'm thinking should I add some sort of disclaimer so people don't read it and go "what's HE talking about our ILE for".
― Ronan, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Tracer hand, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Sarah, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Pete, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Dan Perry, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
*insert protestion to the contrary and annoyance that anyone would think such a thing about you here*
― Ned Raggett, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Mandee, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Tracer Hand, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
I wasn't talking about you, but I did get schooled about some other people...
I was sorta in that by default in high school. Never formally so, but I was the one bringing the Monty Python tapes to watch.
― Sean, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Ron, Friday, 22 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
On the topic, I'm afraid everyone will hate me forever because I tried to defend Sting on ILM.
― Tim, Saturday, 23 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― Ron, Saturday, 23 March 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 25 January 2003 17:48 (twenty-one years ago) link
― MarkH (MarkH), Saturday, 25 January 2003 17:51 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 25 January 2003 17:52 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 25 January 2003 17:52 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 25 January 2003 17:54 (twenty-one years ago) link
― gareth (gareth), Saturday, 25 January 2003 18:23 (twenty-one years ago) link
It's probably hypocritical for me to talk about annoying things, but the multiple joke versions of threads are intensely annoying.
― Nicole (Nicole), Saturday, 25 January 2003 18:30 (twenty-one years ago) link
― ron (ron), Saturday, 25 January 2003 18:51 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 25 January 2003 18:53 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 25 January 2003 18:58 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 25 January 2003 18:59 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 25 January 2003 20:13 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 00:15 (twenty years ago) link
― Lars (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 00:23 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 00:30 (twenty years ago) link
― Lars (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 00:34 (twenty years ago) link
― Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 00:43 (twenty years ago) link
― Vic (Vic), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 00:45 (twenty years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 00:49 (twenty years ago) link
― Millar (Millar), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:16 (twenty years ago) link
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:22 (twenty years ago) link
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:26 (twenty years ago) link
― Vic (Vic), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:32 (twenty years ago) link
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:36 (twenty years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:37 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:38 (twenty years ago) link
― Millar (Millar), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:42 (twenty years ago) link
― ron (ron), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:46 (twenty years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 01:54 (twenty years ago) link
(unless you're talking about someone besides me, then I hate you)
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:00 (twenty years ago) link
― luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:03 (twenty years ago) link
― ron (ron), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:03 (twenty years ago) link
― Scaredy Cat, Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:19 (twenty years ago) link
― RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:21 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:29 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:41 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:43 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:46 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:47 (twenty years ago) link
and sometimes i saty away from the board for days at a time. coincidence?
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:47 (twenty years ago) link
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Lars (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 02:52 (twenty years ago) link
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:03 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:05 (twenty years ago) link
Just a perspective from a (relative) newbie here... :)
― Trayce (trayce), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:11 (twenty years ago) link
alt.music.alternative veterans from the 1990s to thread!
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:13 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:15 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:17 (twenty years ago) link
― Not Anything To Do With G*****a B*b (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:18 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:19 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:22 (twenty years ago) link
Ha, my name on several other boards is "jerkoff". I'm quite honest.
― Scaredy Cat, Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:24 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:25 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:26 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:28 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:31 (twenty years ago) link
>I vote for Ned!> > yur high, dood. ml and ned are the ugliest fukkers ever. you have> no taste.. now mention swag and andrew hyme and your in my klub....> > all you communyst drug fukers can suk my dik!> > kzk... in yo mama's hyney
Darling, sweetie, darling, this behavior of yours is SO gauche.
I have to vote for myself, since I'm such a rampant egomaniac, if yourecall that amusing post back in May. But we need Gregory Parks in on this too.
― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:33 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:33 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:35 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:41 (twenty years ago) link
Has this thread become too old skool pally? Heavens!
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:43 (twenty years ago) link
Mind you that argument doesn't work for aus.tv which has to be THE MOST inane, useless, irrelevant-to-its-charter NG I've ever read.
Damn, now I'm showing myself as an old usenet jerkoff ;) I just never went on a.m.a back in the day.
― Trayce (trayce), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:48 (twenty years ago) link
― django (django), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:51 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:51 (twenty years ago) link
― django (django), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:54 (twenty years ago) link
― django (django), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:55 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:57 (twenty years ago) link
― Scaredy cat (Natola), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 03:59 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 04:00 (twenty years ago) link
― Trayce (trayce), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 04:01 (twenty years ago) link
― django (django), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 04:04 (twenty years ago) link
― luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 04:06 (twenty years ago) link
― django (django), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 04:15 (twenty years ago) link
― luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 04:17 (twenty years ago) link
― kayT (kaytee), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 05:57 (twenty years ago) link
― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 05:58 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 06:00 (twenty years ago) link
But threads that are nothing but interesting deep discussions are just as dull as those that are just banter. (Neither are as dull as the ILM list threads, though.) Give me some ebb and flow and I am happy.
― Chris P (Chris P), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 06:23 (twenty years ago) link
― Trayce (trayce), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 06:49 (twenty years ago) link
I found the in-jokes and special ILX lingo slightly daunting to begin with, but I just lurked for a week or so to get the gist of it all before diving in. And I'm very glad I did :)
― C J (C J), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 06:57 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:08 (twenty years ago) link
I don't think it's the palliness that people object to, but rather the endless allusions to things that happen offboard at meetups, FAPs, etc. - this makes you feel very left out and out of the loop and unpopular if you weren't at said events.
Or maybe that's just me.
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:15 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:16 (twenty years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:18 (twenty years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:19 (twenty years ago) link
x-post: this is getting too pally now. I will go away for a while ;)
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:20 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:21 (twenty years ago) link
― Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:22 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:23 (twenty years ago) link
― chaki (chaki), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:23 (twenty years ago) link
― Tim (Tim), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:26 (twenty years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:27 (twenty years ago) link
ILM is easier for me when I don't feel like revealing too much of myself or getting into things too deep because there is a focus, and a topic to remind me not to get too personal. (Not that this works, but relatively, it seems to work.)
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:28 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:30 (twenty years ago) link
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:34 (twenty years ago) link
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:35 (twenty years ago) link
― chris (chris), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:35 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:38 (twenty years ago) link
Aw, you know it's you ... No, wait, alt.fan.geri-halliwell? I don't even know you.
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 08:58 (twenty years ago) link
As for the FAP's and such, I'm obviously unable to attend them since I don't live in the UK or the US (or New Zealand or Australia). But that's okay; I don't come here to chat with friends I'd meet anyhow outside the InterWeb. I come here because you folks are genuinely fun to talk with, and even though your threads sometime are dull and injokey and cliquesque, more often they are funny and intelligent and a pleasure to participate in. If that wouldn't be the case, you wouldn't see me here.
[SOPPY MUSIC]
[CURTAIN]
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 09:03 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 10:35 (twenty years ago) link
I wonder if the thread's author should have a moral right to be able to say "um, can we get back on topic please" when things start to disintegrate? Just a thought out loud, not a suggestion.
― Mark C (Mark C), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 10:49 (twenty years ago) link
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 10:50 (twenty years ago) link
Of course they should. And people do, I'm pretty sure.
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 10:54 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:01 (twenty years ago) link
― mast ace (Squirrel_Police), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:05 (twenty years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:07 (twenty years ago) link
― Tico Tico (Tico Tico), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:10 (twenty years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:27 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:30 (twenty years ago) link
I've never met another Ilxor, haven't been on AIM in months, and that never bothers me.
Like I said upthread: someone, somewhere, is always bitching about ILX. Either it's too pally/in-jokey/chat-roomy/twee/nice/cliquish, or it's too hostile/unsafe/argumentative/overrun-by-new-people. You can't have it both ways. You can't fix both problems. All you can do, apparently, is keep swinging back and forth between the two. The complaining is probably part of the cycle, which means we're about to be overrun with personal attacks, stalkerish behavior, and a few people leaving the boards or threatening to -- or maybe we have, cause I'm not caught up yet.
― Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:44 (twenty years ago) link
― NA. (Nick A.), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:50 (twenty years ago) link
― Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:53 (twenty years ago) link
Josh, if the reason you left Usenet was because it became too pally, I have to wonder at how you're defining the word "pally".
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:54 (twenty years ago) link
Yeah you can, in theory. It doesn't have to be either of things. In practice, maybe you're right that those are the two traps it can fall into.
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:57 (twenty years ago) link
i read and post on the "earnest" threads bcz the chances of finding somewhere else in the world where i get my ideas this stretched or challenged = v.slim indeed
― mark s (mark s), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 11:59 (twenty years ago) link
― Tico Tico (Tico Tico), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:01 (twenty years ago) link
My take on it is that the serious threads are often less about exchanging ideas and much more about scoring points off of each other in a genteel, academic manner and if I'm going to be involved in a point-scoring contest, it's much more entertaining to me to involve dick jokes.
Conversely, I really like the way people are treated when they post personal problems to the board. The outpouring of well wishes and sympathy usually staggers me, even given that many of us have met each other.
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:03 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:05 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:06 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:12 (twenty years ago) link
In Praise of Kate St. Clair
I mean look! Jason and Pete fighting over my affections! You wouldn't get that on ILE!
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:13 (twenty years ago) link
― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:14 (twenty years ago) link
*accidentally releases tons of guano onto own head and suffocates*
― mark s (mark s), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:19 (twenty years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:20 (twenty years ago) link
I have no problem whatsoever with chatcentric threads as long as they don't overtake other threads much, and I don't really think they do.
Incidentally, Dan in serious mode, which happens more than he gives himself credit for, is one of my favourite posters...
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:27 (twenty years ago) link
Wow, Matt. Thanks!
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:28 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:29 (twenty years ago) link
― Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:29 (twenty years ago) link
― django (django), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:32 (twenty years ago) link
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:38 (twenty years ago) link
If you're going to say things like "I'm undetectable on Usenet" without typing your name into Google Groups, you get what's coming to you.
You know my sordid Usenet troll past!
You wish - I know your stolid a.f.g-h FAQKeeper past.
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:53 (twenty years ago) link
I'm obviously not undetectable on Usenet and also any one of these fuckers could actually tell the name that I posted 99.9% of my Usenet shit under! I just trust my compadres not to sell me out to the mang.
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 12:56 (twenty years ago) link
I love jokey threads. But my favourites are the ones that make you think and laugh.
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 13:18 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 13:28 (twenty years ago) link
I just trust my compadres not to sell me out to the mang.
So I'm the mang now? Fabulous.
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 13:32 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 13:43 (twenty years ago) link
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 13:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 13:49 (twenty years ago) link
― gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 13:56 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 13:58 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:08 (twenty years ago) link
― kephm, Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:18 (twenty years ago) link
When I first visited (uh, lurked on) ILE, I felt like I was at this party and didn't know everyone. But lots of the folks looked really cool and I wanted to chat them up and become bestest buddies with them. So then I got up the courage to start posting and now I can post messages to people by name and know a bit about them and their personality. It's fun stuff. I should hope it's like that for most new people.
― Sarah McLUsky (coco), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:20 (twenty years ago) link
:(
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:22 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:28 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:30 (twenty years ago) link
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:31 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:32 (twenty years ago) link
― Sarah McLUsky (coco), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:32 (twenty years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:45 (twenty years ago) link
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:48 (twenty years ago) link
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:50 (twenty years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:52 (twenty years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:54 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 14:57 (twenty years ago) link
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:00 (twenty years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:02 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:02 (twenty years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:06 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:07 (twenty years ago) link
― Chris P (Chris P), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:09 (twenty years ago) link
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:10 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:10 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:14 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:16 (twenty years ago) link
― kate (kate), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:17 (twenty years ago) link
― Mandee, Wednesday, 16 July 2003 15:21 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:01 (twenty years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:03 (twenty years ago) link
http://www.german-cinema.de/archive/images/dr_mabuse_the_gambler_the_great_gambler_a_picture_of_our_time.jpg
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:06 (twenty years ago) link
― Mandee, Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:07 (twenty years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:08 (twenty years ago) link
― Chris V. (Chris V), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:13 (twenty years ago) link
― Chris V. (Chris V), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:16 (twenty years ago) link
― Sarah MCLUsky (coco), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:34 (twenty years ago) link
Nick said:
In theory, yeah, I just meant that in the time I've been on ILX, and especially ILE (there were a couple months when I was only on ILM ... which I hardly ever read now, for lack of time), it doesn't seem like more than a couple weeks ever goes by without there being a lengthy thread about one or the other of those problems.
Whether they're actually problems or not -- whether the perceived traits of ILX-at-the-time are there or are just transient things which might go away if ignored -- and whether they're traps or just things that happen, the way all social groups shift and mingle -- is a whole nother question. I don't have a strong opinion one way or the other, which is probably why I'm not bothered either by group-hug-chat-room ILX or I-hate-sparrows ILX.
haha he put intellectual in quote marks
Don't take that wrong, I was rushed for time and trying to clarify that serious threads don't always have to be about "intellectual" things (for lack of a word coming more quickly to mind), nor do intellectual threads need to be serious. We could probably have a rollicking thread about Saussure and dick jokes, really.
I wasn't dismissing or criticizing that or anything, it's just not an opportunity I lack elsewhere.
― Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 17:43 (twenty years ago) link
I'm not bitter or anything but it is a bit sad if this is happening others aswell.
In no way do I really consider this a big thing and I'm not on here enough to complain what with work and all but it is how I feel nonetheless. I haven't really talked properly to people here in ages despite posting daily, albeit a little less, it's very easy to fall out of the loop actually. But I'm sure I'll be back. Positive.
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 19:29 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 19:41 (twenty years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 19:42 (twenty years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 19:43 (twenty years ago) link
― bnw (bnw), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 19:49 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 19:54 (twenty years ago) link
― jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 19:55 (twenty years ago) link
― jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 19:56 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:01 (twenty years ago) link
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:02 (twenty years ago) link
― jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:11 (twenty years ago) link
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:18 (twenty years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:25 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:25 (twenty years ago) link
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:27 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:28 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:28 (twenty years ago) link
― s1utsky (slutsky), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:28 (twenty years ago) link
― s1utsky (slutsky), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:29 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:30 (twenty years ago) link
Man has always wanted a woman by his side to keep him companyWomen always knew that it takes a man to get matrimonial harmonyEverybody knows that a man who's feeling down wants some female sympathyGotta have love to carry on livingGotta have love 'till eternity
People need hope, people need lovingPeople need trust from a fellow manPeople need love to make a good livingPeople need faith in a helping hand
La la la la, la la la la-la, la la la la la la la-la la laLa la la la, la la la la-la, la la la la la la la-la la laa...
Flowers in the desert need a drop of rain like a woman needs her manIf a man's in love and his woman wants the moonThen he'll take it down if he canSomebody who loves you and somebody who caresIsn't that what you'd call a friend?Gotta have love to carry on livingIsn't it easy to understand?
La la la la, la la la la-la, la la la la la la la-la la laLa la la la, la la la la-la, la la la la la la la-la la laa...La la la la, la la la la-la, la la la la la la la-la la laLa la la la, la la la la-la, la la la la la la la-la la laa...
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:34 (twenty years ago) link
― luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:35 (twenty years ago) link
― luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:36 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:36 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:36 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:37 (twenty years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:38 (twenty years ago) link
― luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:38 (twenty years ago) link
― jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:39 (twenty years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:40 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:41 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:42 (twenty years ago) link
― Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:42 (twenty years ago) link
― s1utsky (slutsky), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:42 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:43 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:44 (twenty years ago) link
― s1utsky (slutsky), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:49 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:53 (twenty years ago) link
― luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:53 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:54 (twenty years ago) link
― Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:55 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:57 (twenty years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 20:59 (twenty years ago) link
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:01 (twenty years ago) link
― jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:02 (twenty years ago) link
― Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:03 (twenty years ago) link
I'm hearing it to the tune of Whitney's biggest single. With sample from Eminem.
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:04 (twenty years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:11 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:19 (twenty years ago) link
― s1utsky (slutsky), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:20 (twenty years ago) link
― Tep (ktepi), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:21 (twenty years ago) link
― luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:22 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 16 July 2003 21:30 (twenty years ago) link
More people meeting each other = more pally posts.
Also: when ILX started the core posters were a few Brits who mostly knew one another anyway and had a separate mailing list for banter and nonsense. Now the locus is a bigger group of New Yorkers who mostly met through ILX so it's natural ILX is the scene for a lot more social stuff.
― Tico Tico (Tico Tico), Thursday, 17 July 2003 08:01 (twenty years ago) link
― gareth (gareth), Thursday, 17 July 2003 08:04 (twenty years ago) link
― Tim (Tim), Thursday, 17 July 2003 08:10 (twenty years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Thursday, 17 July 2003 08:41 (twenty years ago) link
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Thursday, 17 July 2003 09:04 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Thursday, 17 July 2003 11:25 (twenty years ago) link
it bugs me that some people seem to be on ilx exclusively to make flirtatious three-word posts and flatter themselves
Yeah, this bugs me quite a lot. There are people who can be absolutely *guaranteed* to follow posts by certain other people with nudge-nudge flirtation and private jokes, and sometimes it's fine, sometimes it's irritating. Mostly I just think it would be better kept off-board, as it's a bit showy-off, kinda territorial and just a bit icky.
Anyway, I'm a touchy fuckx0r, so this may just be me (and amateurist, if I can speak for him, as I suspect he wasn't being sarcastic), but... there you go.
― Mark C (Mark C), Thursday, 17 July 2003 11:35 (twenty years ago) link
― Josh (Josh), Thursday, 17 July 2003 20:31 (twenty years ago) link
Ormskirk ILX - And You Will Know Us By The Trail Of The Bickering
― Matt (Matt), Friday, 18 July 2003 00:02 (twenty years ago) link
― Millar (Millar), Friday, 18 July 2003 00:10 (twenty years ago) link
― Mark C (Mark C), Friday, 18 July 2003 14:35 (twenty years ago) link
― Mary (Mary), Friday, 18 July 2003 21:33 (twenty years ago) link
― di smith (lucylurex), Saturday, 19 July 2003 01:28 (twenty years ago) link
So if I sometimes seem crotchety, it's largely for this reason.
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:10 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:12 (twenty years ago) link
"mouth"
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:13 (twenty years ago) link
― di smith (lucylurex), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:16 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:18 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:20 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:25 (twenty years ago) link
― di smith (lucylurex), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:27 (twenty years ago) link
― jess (dubplatestyle), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:48 (twenty years ago) link
Incidentally Jess I didn't have you in mind as one of the people who seems unnaturally effusive and enthusiastic.
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 05:06 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 05:07 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 19 July 2003 05:16 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 05:16 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 19 July 2003 11:40 (twenty years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 19 July 2003 11:57 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 19 July 2003 11:58 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Saturday, 19 July 2003 11:59 (twenty years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 19 July 2003 12:00 (twenty years ago) link
― Cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 19 July 2003 12:06 (twenty years ago) link
― stevem (blueski), Saturday, 19 July 2003 12:08 (twenty years ago) link
― stevem (blueski), Saturday, 19 July 2003 12:10 (twenty years ago) link
I have an ambivalent attitude to those threads. I rarely laugh at what's posted there, partly because it's about context (threads are always funnier if one sees them as they build anyway - there's a strange element of timing, despite the message board format) and partly just cause people have crappy senses of humour. Yet, I can't stop myself pasting stuff there from time to time. It's a weird compulsion. And I always read it in the hope of an ego boost. I do find it hard to believe that people are sticking to the 'laugh out loud' criterion most of the time.
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 19 July 2003 12:17 (twenty years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 19 July 2003 12:24 (twenty years ago) link
For me, it's just because I have read something I think is pretty funny. There is no connection to me and I'm not trying to boost anyone's ego. No evil Machia-pally-ian scheme behind it at all.
― Larcole (Nicole), Saturday, 19 July 2003 12:27 (twenty years ago) link
― joan vich (joan vich), Saturday, 19 July 2003 13:10 (twenty years ago) link
― thom west (thom w), Saturday, 19 July 2003 13:49 (twenty years ago) link
― joan vich (joan vich), Saturday, 19 July 2003 14:01 (twenty years ago) link
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 19 July 2003 14:06 (twenty years ago) link
maybe not but then they are HUGE threads, and while some do dominate there is still a wide range of people both quoting and being quoted on there - and nobody has really complained about it (because they'll just get accused of hating fun).
the 'laugh out loud' threads i dunno - you either like that sort of thing or you dont- i guess i love it. i didnt want it to be just about backslapping, ego-stroking cliqueyness, but i dont really see the harm in that anyway if thats what people want to do. i suppose some people approach a thread like that and they wont laugh at anything on there because often people will not laugh at something when they've been forewarned that its absolutely hilarious.
― stevem (blueski), Saturday, 19 July 2003 14:28 (twenty years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Saturday, 19 July 2003 14:42 (twenty years ago) link
― JuliaA (j_bdules), Saturday, 19 July 2003 14:46 (twenty years ago) link
it seems that way to me, too, but then I have to sit back and realize that these other people ARE NOT ME, and have v. different emotional lives and may mean exactly what they say when they do that effusive ILXor love thing.
I have serious issues with strong emotions and other people probably don't. That's my problem, not theirs. I know exactly where Amateurist is coming from but at the same time I like to think I know where the other side is coming from as well
(obv I do not, to be honest)
― Millar (Millar), Saturday, 19 July 2003 14:51 (twenty years ago) link
In terms of people being supportive and that seeming trivial...there may be some insincerity on these boards, but it seems that very many of these sentiments are real. Especially with the more prolific posters, you get to know people a bit from their posts, and become fond of some of them. And it sucks to see anyone hurt.
― JuliaA (j_bdules), Saturday, 19 July 2003 14:57 (twenty years ago) link
― stevem (blueski), Saturday, 19 July 2003 15:08 (twenty years ago) link
― Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Saturday, 19 July 2003 15:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Millar (Millar), Saturday, 19 July 2003 15:52 (twenty years ago) link
― Millar (Millar), Saturday, 19 July 2003 15:53 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 18:14 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Saturday, 19 July 2003 18:23 (twenty years ago) link
It seems to me that the issue at hand stems simply from the fact that people are different from one another. Some people are not tolerant of this and would prefer if everyone posted as they themselves would post. Some people are not sociable, jokey types and reading sociable, jokey posts may grate on them. They don't feel genuine concern or empathy for other people, besides a select few loved ones, and assume that those who show concern and empathy freely must be faking it.
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 19 July 2003 18:44 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 18:59 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:03 (twenty years ago) link
Concern and empathy aren't really my pet peeves, as these can be and are in many different ways--it's excessive flattery and effusive sentiment that doesn't seem to have much basis. The sort of thing Jody alludes to when she calls ILE "We Love Us."
I know a woman, she's a friend of my mother's, and at get-togethers she inevitably gives a toast in which she rambles on and on about how much she loves everyone, how special everyone is, how beautiful and smart and etc.. Most people are rather embarrassed for her, for her toasts seems to be less about actually loving anyone (although I'm sure it is not *dishonest* per se) as her needing to feel a part of something, soak in emotion. (Said person all attends funerals of people she hardly knows and cries profusely, and calls up dying friends 10 times a day to see if she can "help," over the objections of said friend's husband.)
Does it not belittle certain feelings and thoughts if you go around expressing them in the most enthusiastic terms willy-nilly? Also does every thought and emotion have to be expressed in the most enthusiastic, hyperbolic terms?
You're right though that I probably prefer less expression of "feelings" (in the overt, explicit sense) than many. It's a cornerstone of my personality, and yet I don't think it makes me "unemotional"--quite the contrary.
From my first post here I said only that I myself "balk" at these effusions, not that anyone was being insincere or dishonest ("faking it"), nor that anyone should have to stop them on my behalf.
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:17 (twenty years ago) link
Concern and empathy aren't really my pet peeves, as these can be and are EXPRESSED in many different ways
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:18 (twenty years ago) link
This sounds like me at 5am Sunday morning at Glastonbury.
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:19 (twenty years ago) link
And how are you determining what is excessive?I call bullshit on your economy of emotions, but, to each his own.
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:20 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:21 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:22 (twenty years ago) link
― amateurist (amateurist), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:23 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:23 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:25 (twenty years ago) link
Ha! I used to know someone like this. Opinions were split among mutual acquaintances -- her friends obv thought she was the ginchiest loveliest most generous person evah because she flattered them so and was always "there" and was very vocal about her there-ness, making sure everyone was 100% aware how full of 24/7/365 concern and sympathy and YOU ROCK and today's-your-birthday-isn't-it she was, while other people just found her really flaky and shallow and disingenuous. People like her have made me wary of all manner of compliments and excessive good will, because I always have to wonder about the person's motives and/or sincerity. I do sometimes see behavior on ILX that reminds me of hers... I'm not sure how to react to it, really. The people I care about know that I care about them, and if they need me I'm here and willing to help, but I refuse to launch a million-dollar campaign to elect myself Humanitarian of the Year. So if I'm noticeably quiet about these things, that's why.
― Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:47 (twenty years ago) link
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:50 (twenty years ago) link
I don't think this logically valid, Martin. They could be true to the person who makes them, no matter how often they do it, but still diminish the force of sympathy by their ubiquity. A kind of converse of compassion fatigue.
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 19 July 2003 19:53 (twenty years ago) link
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 19 July 2003 21:41 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 19 July 2003 21:45 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 19 July 2003 21:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 19 July 2003 21:59 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 19 July 2003 22:45 (twenty years ago) link
― Al Andalous, Saturday, 19 July 2003 22:56 (twenty years ago) link
― di smith (lucylurex), Saturday, 19 July 2003 23:45 (twenty years ago) link
― Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Sunday, 20 July 2003 02:31 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Sunday, 20 July 2003 02:43 (twenty years ago) link
― Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Sunday, 20 July 2003 03:34 (twenty years ago) link
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 05:36 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Sunday, 20 July 2003 05:40 (twenty years ago) link
― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 20 July 2003 05:40 (twenty years ago) link
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 05:43 (twenty years ago) link
― James Blount (James Blount), Sunday, 20 July 2003 05:46 (twenty years ago) link
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 05:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 20 July 2003 05:52 (twenty years ago) link
If you look at the thread list, I'm not shouting any more than anyone else.
Perhaps because at the start of two threads I said: GO! GO! ?That's pretty trvial. But I'm not worried about it. I will in the future say Go. Go.You will then be happy.
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 05:59 (twenty years ago) link
― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:01 (twenty years ago) link
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:02 (twenty years ago) link
― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:03 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:05 (twenty years ago) link
― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:06 (twenty years ago) link
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:07 (twenty years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:08 (twenty years ago) link
― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:11 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:11 (twenty years ago) link
erm. that might be a little difficult on this end....
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:14 (twenty years ago) link
― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:18 (twenty years ago) link
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:19 (twenty years ago) link
― oops (Oops), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:25 (twenty years ago) link
― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 20 July 2003 06:26 (twenty years ago) link
Stop corrupting me ILE!
― jel -- (jel), Sunday, 20 July 2003 08:42 (twenty years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Sunday, 20 July 2003 08:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Chris Barrus (Chris Barrus), Sunday, 20 July 2003 09:06 (twenty years ago) link
― Texas Sam (thatgirl), Sunday, 20 July 2003 09:13 (twenty years ago) link
Perhaps the NYC-ers could explain some of their injokes to us? I shall try to explain a London injoke in turn except that all I ever joke about these days is linux and Dr Who eg GOT A LIGHT? NO MATCH ahahhahahahahaha.
― Sarah (starry), Sunday, 20 July 2003 09:25 (twenty years ago) link
― Texas Sam (thatgirl), Sunday, 20 July 2003 09:31 (twenty years ago) link
― Sarah (starry), Sunday, 20 July 2003 09:45 (twenty years ago) link
― Mary (Mary), Sunday, 20 July 2003 11:37 (twenty years ago) link
BTW I now have great hatred for the Tottenham Swan bcz of many nights spent waiting for the sodding N73 to start running but all there are are bloody 73's going to Tottenham. Grrrr. And all you want to do is go home cos you are tired and drunk and grumpy and all your friends have gone home and buses only go to TOTTENHAM. Unless you go to Angel and change. I can recommend this method.
― Sarah (starry), Sunday, 20 July 2003 11:47 (twenty years ago) link
― RickyT (RickyT), Sunday, 20 July 2003 11:54 (twenty years ago) link
― Mary (Mary), Sunday, 20 July 2003 11:59 (twenty years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Sunday, 20 July 2003 12:36 (twenty years ago) link
― Jerry the Nipper (Jerrynipper), Sunday, 20 July 2003 12:56 (twenty years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Sunday, 20 July 2003 13:22 (twenty years ago) link
― s1utsky (slutsky), Sunday, 20 July 2003 14:56 (twenty years ago) link
― gareth (gareth), Sunday, 20 July 2003 16:20 (twenty years ago) link
― Al Andalous, Sunday, 20 July 2003 16:22 (twenty years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Sunday, 20 July 2003 16:23 (twenty years ago) link
― Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 20 July 2003 17:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Mary (Mary), Sunday, 20 July 2003 17:49 (twenty years ago) link
What is this? This whole thread was started because I was concerned how the board looks to newcomers. Newcomers are more qualified than anyone to give their thoughts on how pally and inward-looking it comes across as. I'm surprised you should be like this Sam.
― N. (nickdastoor), Sunday, 20 July 2003 17:58 (twenty years ago) link
― stevem (blueski), Sunday, 20 July 2003 18:14 (twenty years ago) link
Sarah, you are right it's the syrup/pork that binds us all.
― Texas Sam (thatgirl), Sunday, 20 July 2003 18:21 (twenty years ago) link
Palliness is what makes people want to stay and keep up with everything. We're FRIENDS, here, of a sort, some moreso than others, and that's what friends do - make injokes and call each other silly things.
― Millar (Millar), Sunday, 20 July 2003 18:25 (twenty years ago) link
― Texas Sam (thatgirl), Sunday, 20 July 2003 18:27 (twenty years ago) link
― stevem (blueski), Sunday, 20 July 2003 18:31 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Sunday, 20 July 2003 20:57 (twenty years ago) link
― Larcole (Nicole), Sunday, 20 July 2003 21:03 (twenty years ago) link
*hugs Nicole*
― Sommermute (Wintermute), Sunday, 20 July 2003 21:09 (twenty years ago) link
― Sommermute (Wintermute), Sunday, 20 July 2003 21:11 (twenty years ago) link
When one wanders into an internet community for the first time, as with a party in real life really, more self-conscious types (eg ME)
i find this initial statement interesting, because N you don't come across as particularly self-conscious on the internet at all.
― The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 20 July 2003 21:49 (twenty years ago) link
that's everybody, I think. Unless you're me in which case the content of the AIM chat convo is whatever I have to say abt what is on my TV at the moment and not much else.
― Millar (Millar), Sunday, 20 July 2003 21:51 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Sunday, 20 July 2003 22:27 (twenty years ago) link
Oh it gives me hope.
― Chris P (Chris P), Monday, 21 July 2003 01:36 (twenty years ago) link
― Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Monday, 21 July 2003 03:50 (twenty years ago) link
― Matt (Matt), Monday, 21 July 2003 03:57 (twenty years ago) link
― nickn (nickn), Monday, 21 July 2003 04:48 (twenty years ago) link
― Mark C (Mark C), Monday, 21 July 2003 12:38 (twenty years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 21 July 2003 12:52 (twenty years ago) link