People Who Live In Suburbs: Classy, Icky, or Dudes?

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Well, yeah.

fo' schnitzel (Ye Mad Puffin), Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:12 (three years ago) link

one positive thing about single story buildings, is that they are easier to make ADA accessible -- thinking about the aging baby boomer generation, there will probably be a significant increase in the number of people who require ADA accommodations (i.e. have wheelchairs and walkers) in the next decade in this country.

― sarahell, Saturday, May 30, 2020 7:02 PM (eight minutes ago) bookmarkflaglink

yeah i've noticed that the trailer park i live in caters to people who are dealing with chronic pain and older people with mobility issues. and smokers lol.

crystal-brained yogahead (map), Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:14 (three years ago) link

like another thing that the idealistic proposals in this thread seem not to take into account is that it is more environmentally friendly to work with/adapt existing structures than to tear them down and build new buildings. I don't want to get into the issue of expense, because undoubtedly silby or someone like them will argue that the government should front the bill for all of this and money is no object, which is like, sure that would be nice, I would also like free ice cream and great sex every day of my life.

sarahell, Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:17 (three years ago) link

honey money can't buy you great sex

crystal-brained yogahead (map), Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:22 (three years ago) link

actually it probably can lol

crystal-brained yogahead (map), Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:22 (three years ago) link

i'm just saying the world isn't perfect and isn't gonna be

sarahell, Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:23 (three years ago) link

like the increase in remote work being allowed could help with the environmental downside to suburbs, and as that is one of the biggest problems suburban development has, maybe suburbs aren't that awful?

sarahell, Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:24 (three years ago) link

yeah but i think there are more cracks in the facade of money actually relating to "honest labor" than ever before, except maybe the silver movement in the 1890s or something, and that more people are starting to realize that 'free money' can actually be engineered somewhat or at least tweaked so it supports a different vision than the hellscape we have now.

xp i really hope remote work becomes a much more regular practice that would be a huge boon to air quality which is such an important issue.

crystal-brained yogahead (map), Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:27 (three years ago) link

re: air quality -- omg yes. it has been really nice these past couple months such that last night when the wind changed and the smell of the cops' grenades and gas wafted my way, I could actually smell it.

sarahell, Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:33 (three years ago) link

as major american cities increasingly become divided into areas blighted by poverty and areas that serve as consumer playgrounds for the rich, there is a version of suburban living that is far better at meeting people's daily needs at a reasonable expense.

call all destroyer, Saturday, 30 May 2020 18:51 (three years ago) link

ok yeah i had typed out then deleted something in that vein because i knew it sounded like i was rationalizing future poor choices, and i am, but there are serious material issues wrt urban living in the u.s. so no it's not "doing something bad" to live in the suburbs. the badness was done for us a long time ago. my city is the same as hundreds of others: white flight depleted the residential property tax base & we have a bloated police department and other unnecessary expenses bleeding money from the city. in order to attract businesses that wouldn't otherwise want to have offices here, the city negotiates tax-increment financing schemes so these corporations end up paying no property taxes. and the tax abatements for luxury condos. the result is that in order to live in the city i have to pay thousands more in property taxes than i would for even a more expensive house in the suburbs, and my taxes go toward fradulent cop overtime and settlements for when cops kill people. if i want an actual service performed by the city, it won't happen. someone dumped a pile of tires next to my house and 311 keeps closing my requests for them to be picked up. people from the suburbs come and dump mattresses and old boats here because they know no one will give a shit. i'm feeling extra bad about my life in the city right now, and i'm not that poor. most people don't think it's worth it to spend their short lives being shit on so they, individually, can save the environment.

contorted filbert (harbl), Saturday, 30 May 2020 19:44 (three years ago) link

As the saying goes, you can't buy what isn't on the shelf.

I am sure I would love a society of supremely livable, egalitarian, high-density cities, with wilderness in between. Sleek high-speed trains glide between these gleaming cities, past sustainable farms whose fields are tended by solar-powered robots. Private automobiles are relegated to history museums.

But the intermediate steps between our world and that one are, to put it mildly, unrealistic.

So in orbit's harm-reduction measures seem like a decent start. And way more feasible than BAN CARS NOW or whatever.

fo' schnitzel (Ye Mad Puffin), Saturday, 30 May 2020 20:36 (three years ago) link

wow harbl otm

crystal-brained yogahead (map), Saturday, 30 May 2020 20:39 (three years ago) link

I mean banning/limiting cars is the goal, I'm just saying...baby steps.

There's more Italy than necessary. (in orbit), Saturday, 30 May 2020 21:39 (three years ago) link

my city is the same as hundreds of others: white flight depleted the residential property tax base & we have a bloated police department and other unnecessary expenses bleeding money from the city.

Yeah definitely all of this. I didn't make time to get into it but I've been thinking about it all day: the creation of suburbs is all about racism and white flight and growing new white-only spaces and then patrolling them jealously and violently.

There's more Italy than necessary. (in orbit), Saturday, 30 May 2020 21:43 (three years ago) link

This is about the US again, right?

pomenitul, Saturday, 30 May 2020 21:44 (three years ago) link

Euler asked a question about North Americans specifically; the ensuing responses are US-focused, but I think everyone here would welcome other perspectives.

fo' schnitzel (Ye Mad Puffin), Saturday, 30 May 2020 21:48 (three years ago) link

Oh right, nm.

pomenitul, Saturday, 30 May 2020 21:49 (three years ago) link

England is something else that I can't get my head around. I'm obsessed with "Escape to the Country" and how the most rural places that the movers and presenters can imagine are still completely settled and farmed and full of villages. Even national parks have villages INSIDE THEM. And all these little villages have their own post office and a pub and a store and they're only like 10 miles apart from each other. Is the whole country basically a model train set?!

There's more Italy than necessary. (in orbit), Saturday, 30 May 2020 22:14 (three years ago) link

England is so cute.

There's more Italy than necessary. (in orbit), Saturday, 30 May 2020 22:14 (three years ago) link

The British isles have been settled by people building houses (and villages) for 4000 years and more. There is almost no countryside that is truly wild (as in untouched by human alteration) anywhere in the islands.

American Fear of Pranksterism (Ed), Saturday, 30 May 2020 22:22 (three years ago) link

I mean I intellectually know that but it still blows my mind.

North America had villages & cities thousands of years ago too but when we got here we killed their descendants and erased the evidence so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

There's more Italy than necessary. (in orbit), Saturday, 30 May 2020 22:25 (three years ago) link

In France, 'la banlieue' (the suburbs) is usually code for 'the projects'.

pomenitul, Saturday, 30 May 2020 22:36 (three years ago) link

It is but eg Vincennes and Clichy are suburbs and aren’t projects. Vincennes is more dense than Paris!

Joey Corona (Euler), Sunday, 31 May 2020 06:55 (three years ago) link

In DC, building height restrictions mean that many neighboring jurisdictions are considerably denser, indeed more "urban," than the city.

fo' schnitzel (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 31 May 2020 12:10 (three years ago) link

I’m from Arlington and have been heartened to see some smart development there on my trips home.

silby, Sunday, 31 May 2020 15:00 (three years ago) link

fwiw "acres of buffer" is completely out of the question in any of the suburbs I've looked at unless you have a few mil to spend. I was basically willing to consider any lot 6000sf or above and considered houses as small as 1200sf, and we chose a walkable "village" rather than "more for our money". Place we are renting has an 8000sf lot and is walkable to everything including metro north and bus. IDG why anyone would want anything above like half an acre unless they are planning to grow a substantial amount of their own food. NYC just feels like constant stress though, maybe that makes me "part of the problem" but I am kind of saying fuck it at this point.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Sunday, 31 May 2020 15:30 (three years ago) link

as a pedantic side note: the american habit of talking about 'western' consumer habits is v sloppy. there are lots of weird anomalies w/ carbon footprints for smaller countries especially, but the US/Canada/Australia are more than double the EU average per capita carbon emissions, either in total or just consumption-related (& still lower than a lot of big oil-producing states). kuwait, s korea, singapore, mongolia, saudi arabia, kazakhstan, trinidad & tobago, iran, oman, japan, and malaysia all have higher consumption-based emissions per capita than france or spain (w/ china in between the two).

The Cognitive Peasant (ogmor), Sunday, 31 May 2020 16:13 (three years ago) link

talking about 'western' consumer habits is v sloppy. there are lots of weird anomalies w/ carbon footprints for smaller countries

why would you think that the only measure of consumption worth noticing is carbon footprint? people consume land. they consume ocean resources. they mine, cut forests, dump toxic chemicals, and destroy wetlands. and they often outsource their mining, logging, and less energy efficient manufacturing processes to poorer countries, along with their carbon emissions and pollution.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 31 May 2020 19:03 (three years ago) link

and ship their trash/recycling elsewhere, don't forget

fo' schnitzel (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 31 May 2020 20:25 (three years ago) link

In France, 'la banlieue' (the suburbs) is usually code for 'the projects'.

― pomenitul, Saturday, May 30, 2020 3:36 PM (yesterday)

yes, we are all quite aware of this, and have been making banlieue jagger jokes for at least a decade

sarahell, Sunday, 31 May 2020 21:43 (three years ago) link

banl0u1s

contorted filbert (harbl), Sunday, 31 May 2020 22:01 (three years ago) link

aimless you might be surprised to learn that I'm actually well aware of the existence of not just forestry and mining, but all the things you mention in your post, and had in fact taken them into account before asserting that US consumption cannot reasonably be conflated with some wider 'west'. carbon footprints are just convenient & readily available stats to give some indication of the stark differences between the US and European averages, but if you prefer you could look at meat consumption, fish consumption, energy consumption, the exporting of plastic waste, the production of solid waste or the importing of timber, all of which have interesting breakdowns, & none of which show the US in line with the other 'western' countries, ahead of everyone else

The Cognitive Peasant (ogmor), Sunday, 31 May 2020 23:15 (three years ago) link

In France, 'la banlieue' (the suburbs) is usually code for 'the projects'.

― pomenitul, Saturday, May 30, 2020 3:36 PM (yesterday)

yes, we are all quite aware of this, and have been making banlieue jagger jokes for at least a decade

― sarahell, Sunday, 31 May 2020 21:43 (one hour ago) bookmarkflaglink

excellent

plax (ico), Sunday, 31 May 2020 23:18 (three years ago) link

US consumption cannot reasonably be conflated with some wider 'west'

yeah sorry for this i meant western as in "western movies"

crystal-brained yogahead (map), Sunday, 31 May 2020 23:34 (three years ago) link

and the pet shop boys song "go west"

crystal-brained yogahead (map), Sunday, 31 May 2020 23:35 (three years ago) link

my galaxy brain armchair bored-and-high-posting cannot be faulted for a lack of attention to detail

crystal-brained yogahead (map), Sunday, 31 May 2020 23:37 (three years ago) link

what about the west end girls in a dead end world?

sarahell, Sunday, 31 May 2020 23:41 (three years ago) link

having a peruse one thing that european countries and the US are leading the table together in is e-waste exported per capita. "the west" as a trope feels like a hangover from the cold war or mb some nonsensical clash of civs biz, but unless western literally just means high consumption its noticeable that lots of Definitely Not Western countries have p high consumption in some respects, and that the US is way ahead of most large european countries on most of these metrics

The Cognitive Peasant (ogmor), Sunday, 31 May 2020 23:44 (three years ago) link

how do we feel about "the global north" ?

budo jeru, Monday, 1 June 2020 00:08 (three years ago) link

aimless you might be surprised to learn that I'm actually well aware of the existence of not just forestry and mining, but all the things you mention in your post, and had in fact taken them into account before asserting that US consumption cannot reasonably be conflated with some wider 'west'

All of which information was rather vital to understanding what you were asserting and was missing until you supplied it. If I am surprised, it is because you were vague.

But all you have now brought to the discussion is that there are some anomalies that do not fit a simplistic model, not that on average the 20 wealthiest countries, which tend to be clustered in Europe and North America, and are often considered to represent a lifestyle described as 'western', consume far more of the world's resources per capita than the average of the remaining 140 or so countries.

Nor do you address what I perceive as the strong desire among the populations of those 140 less wealthy countries to raise their standards of consumption to match those of the 20 wealthiest predominantly 'western' nations and why you think such desire is not important to the future behavior of those nations.

Or we could just agree that the expectation of an ever-increasing global population acquiring ever greater amounts of consumer goods per capita is not something that can be sustained, when we are already in the midst of the Sixth Great Extinction Event at current levels of human pressure on the environment, and leave it at that.

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 1 June 2020 03:08 (three years ago) link

coincidentally this quite credible Pet Shop Boys pastiche is also relevant to the thread

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wqfcwgT0Ds

fo' schnitzel (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 1 June 2020 12:15 (three years ago) link

three months pass...

I made it

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Tuesday, 8 September 2020 00:48 (three years ago) link

What happens out there?

contorted filbert (harbl), Tuesday, 8 September 2020 01:40 (three years ago) link

Is it still bad

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Tuesday, 8 September 2020 01:50 (three years ago) link

A family stopped by to bring us muffins.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Tuesday, 8 September 2020 03:25 (three years ago) link

And Trump lawn signs? (I kid, I kid...)

nickn, Tuesday, 8 September 2020 03:34 (three years ago) link

were the muffins dudes? or classic? or icky?

sound of scampo talk to me (El Tomboto), Tuesday, 8 September 2020 06:07 (three years ago) link

I've seen one trump sign so far, but I chose an extremely granola suburb.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Tuesday, 8 September 2020 13:51 (three years ago) link

TBF, that's one more than the number of Biden signs I've seen.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Tuesday, 8 September 2020 13:52 (three years ago) link


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