ringtones for a broken GAY SPRING 2014

Hi surm. I like your chutzpah. I have done all the things you listed. Ultimately though why not keep on stumbling on.

I’m increasingly gay with each passing year. Last year my beard turned 1/3 gray in 6 months. 2018 was a rough one, 2019 is already better.

I miss hordes of p town types all in a giant room singing along to whatever they sing along to now BUT i’m still enjoying a pit stop in a tiny town. Tonight the stars are just so clear it looks somehow extra-dimensional.

:-) thank you for your kindness and i'm glad you posted. did i know you five years ago? was it the same username and i've forgotten? all the mistakes i've made.... i regret them deeply, but stumble i will. i'm glad to hear 2019 is already better for you than the shit show that was 2018. i am finally beginning to feel that way too. i can totally relate to the beard.

are you on a road trip?

Hi surm

I like that you bumped this thread because it reminded me of the happier days

omg hiiiiiii!!! i'm glad you like it. how are you?

I don't know!

I did an orchestral arrangement for Christine & The Queens today for her appearance on the French Grammies, that was fun. The song is "La Marcheuse" and it's a really beautiful song

My bf wants to cheat on me, which is interesting! I am getting a cold sore rn so I think I'm going to give him my blessing, the cheater's blessing, go enjoy strange dick while I ointment my lip

ha! ok your day sounds truly wonderful, i hope you feel proud AF. and i guess you and your bf have never done the open thing?

It's kind of imposed upon me. He fucks around and I'm having to learn to deal with it. It's odd! We have such a great sex life but his wandering eye is a constant. Considering how previous relationships I've had have been devastated by cheating and/or lying-about-cheating I'm trying to grow up and live with it

My week has been strange. Somebody who owed me an apology, but from whom I never in my wildest dreams expected an apology, called me and apologized a couple of days ago and I started crying a lot and that was a good thing

i miss y'all

xp that's a beautiful thing. that happened to me once and it changed my life, i'm still in touch with that friend and her apology forever changed our lives.

i would say.... you're definitely not a child bc you prefer monogamy. easy to forget that in this day and age when everybody's open. i think it's important for both people to feel like they're not giving up too much.

clouds!!!!

Hi clouds!

I would prefer monogamy, but I love this man wholeheartedly and if he wants to fuck other men then I want to meet that need, rather than have him sit around wanting to fuck other men and resent me for imposing boundaries on him

totally hear that. we've been open for years--in fact my boo just got home from a date--so i feel you 100%.

clouds how's life?

surm, I missed you making an ass of yourself on ilx in very real and concrete ways, sadly! lovely to see you! and clouds!

good morning!

surm, I wish I ran into u in ft greene more often

Jed, that's so nice to hear for some odd reason! Alfred! Morbz! Morbz it would be lovely to grab a drink in the neighborhood soon. I hope everyone's off to a relaxing weekend.

surm, I hung out with Morbs and j0rdan last Saturday. Wish you'd been there.

Hola Surm!

PLAX I WAS WAITING FOR YOU
Thank you for being here
Xp Alfred that sounds excellent. Jordan has always been a true gentleman. I remember the time I ran into him at a club in NYC, I just wanted to put him in my pocket like a lucky penny.

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<3 <3 <3 plax what will you do today?

now that we've all met for virtual brunch, surm, can you start a winter '19 gay thread?

omg im stuck in a library writing an incredibly boring essay about the use of research evidence in public policy.

its raining.

I'm also in the library and it's raining.

I'm Also in the Library and It's Raining: WINTER 2018/2019 GAY THREAD