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suzy
Posted: November 27, 2018 at 12:30:31 PM
Most of the places in Minnesota named after les voyageurs at least *try* for the French pronunciation.

See Mille Lacs
“MUH LAX”

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how do you pronounce Missouri??

― Karl Malone

"miserable"

i've heard "mizzUHRuh" a jillion times, usually from older folks

Are we just talking about everything we want to in every thread now *confused*

Didn’t someone say on another thread they wanted to make ilx one giant thread?

no that was on this thread, it has already happened, this is the giant thread that it all is

I feel like it should have a more illustrious name

Like The Big Stage or Ragnarok

So im just hunting on red dead 2 now

xp - we could start a poll about this?

Yeah. Now that the mods have decided in secret to turn ilx into one giant thread, we should AT LEAST have a say in what it is called.

MEGADRAADJE

Nah. This is just one of the more extended thread derailments. The ILX ship will right itself and sail on.

You guys are way too rough on people who are totally fine or easy to just skip over.

― Yerac, Wednesday, 28 November 2018 02:16 (fourteen hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Ross seemed fine, if overeager and a little too earnest sometimes, and maybe that's saying something about how jaded and in-clubby ILX can be or seem, but let's not pretend he wouldn't have been clowned much harder by old ILX

I mean if you're seeing someone on a lot of threads too and they're kind of rubbing you the wrong way, then you can say something about it, just so long as it isn't attacking them in a mean spirited sort of way. I know he wasn't being actively offensive or mean, but it's nothing much more than some of the stuff LJ got sonned for bitd isn't it? Idk I can sense some narcissism of small differences and it feels kind of shitty, like talking behind someone's back, and worse if he's reading and feeling even shittier about himself, but it's not some brutal character assassination, it's more like ribbing for earnestness, and a lot of ILXors have been in his shoes. I think gr8080 has mentioned this in some other thread, how long it took to become accustomed and welcome. Treeship was kind of Ross. Until we beat the goodwill out of him lol

You don't have to scold us all into being nice either

I know he wasn't being actively offensive or mean,

...during daylight hours.

(After the 29th or so time that he blew up and abused people late at night, and after another thread of ppl who had not been on those threads going "wtf Ross is not offensive or mean, it is you who are the offensive and mean ones" and attendant pity party, he did actually get this under control. I assume and hope his pulling away from ILX is part of that ongoing sorting-things-out that he seemed to be doing. Walking away from here is usually a good sign re: IRL life.)

Ross isn’t on trial and no one should be made to feel guilty for “over earnestness” or whatever, that stupid fucking buzzword I only hear on this website. The instances sic describes sound like a different story but still—the past is the past and best of luck to Ross.

another thread of ppl who had not been on those threads going "wtf Ross is not offensive or mean, it is you who are the offensive and mean ones" and attendant pity party, he did actually get this under control

i remember at least one of these incidents. i don't remember it playing out in terms quite as black and white as that, but it was definitely an awkward situation to put it mildly. the obvious thing is that some of us know that he was going through a really rough time and struggling with some things. that doesn't give him carte blanche to attack others without reason, or for others to not feel hurt or threatened by what he said, of course. but, it does complicate things quite a bit. it's hard to watch people struggle and then unnecessarily lash out, and want to defend them but know you shouldn't. it's hard to know what to do. and then when he would turn around and apologize a few minutes later and hope that everyone would just move on, i mean, how do you react to that.

anyway, i know the overly diplomatic thing is also annoying in a different way, but it's always worth keeping in mind that other people are always, always going through more shit than they let on (no matter how much they let on).

"wtf Ross is not offensive or mean, it is you who are the offensive and mean ones"

anyway as for this part, if that actually happened that must have been really frustrating to deal with at the time. i don't read every single ilx thread (just 99% of them) but i don't remember that, but i also don't doubt that someone did it and was an ass about it. but hopefully you don't feel like everyone was feeling that way. my vibe at the time was definitely *conflicted*

he was nasty to me 1x but it was scattershot and not at all personal. ross i hupe ur good my mans!

ILX should close at night

Would be better for everyone

Ross’ fighting spirit was the best thing about him. wouldn’t take shit from nobody. bit unhinged perhaps but that’s character. he’s probably Steve buscemi in ghost world writing your names on a sheet of paper taped to his wall then applying lipstick as he reads this thread

who da fuck is ross

damaged hi-freq poster active 2018

prob a sock

aha

and why is he so bad and hated

I wouldn't characterise him as "bad" or "hated". It seems he was having a bad time and Karl and sic have explained upthread why it might be a good idea for him to take some time out, and for others to be mindful that irl he might be dealing with some shit that nobody knows about. I don't think there's really any need to carry this on further.

that is buscemi in billy madison

ILX should close at night

Only if everyone promises to get yessed-out and then posts about upon the site reopening in the morning.

xp- dang

b-b-but it's always night somewhere

He was an asshole and downright mean to people. Come on. I don’t read ILX regularly and even I read enough to know that he was unwell and it resulted in abusive behavior towards posters.

I do hope he gets the help he needs but you are all trying to be way too nice about this.

I shouldn’t have said he was an asshole but he often did exhibit assholish behavior and threw tantrums in a worryingly attention-seeking and disruptive way.

Can we rename this 'thread wherein we feed the ego of the Deus absconditus'?

xp - it is highly possible I did not see such threads

who da fuck is ross

LOL. I was just re-reading an old thread where he was defending T*******n when T*******n was at his most indefensible, I don't know why he would do that.

this is fine

I always assumed a lot of shady behaviour went on on the "mystery" board which whatever. I feel like the only drama i ever recently saw was the katherine thing and I hope she comes back or maybe I just don't read those threads. The first time I ever met tombot he kicked my bf hard in the shins but I think I got over it.

Getting mad at people for being sincerely mean and offensive or like, swindling people in real is different than bitching that specific people post too much or are too try hard, that's just kind of dipshitty.

Ilx is like a dilly bar

Vanilla ice cream dipped in shit

Imagine a bunch of strangers spending a lot of time debating each other about you. Remembering things about you. Must be nice!

all you have to do is have a public breakdown multiple times, sounds like a pretty bad deal imo

this seemed like a possibility to me but it always does
prob a sock

― lag∞n, Wednesday, November 28, 2018 12:17 AM (eight hours ago) Bookmark

xpost - Mayve don’t be abusive to other posters if you don’t want that to happen then.

(Not saying you are btw. I just meant that as a general rule that’s not OK.)

Yeah, seems like a pretty easy rule to follow.

otm

The ross thing was exactly as sic says, it would be like a day of blando pleasantries and then suddenly he would decide that whichever random innocuous bystander had insulted his family name or whatever and blow up and call them a “pedo” or “tard” and threaten to track them down & have their legs broken &c. Then he’d jump over to some sharing thread and say “hey guys (bystander) is making me have to leave ilx forever NOBODY TRY AND STOP ME” and everyone would be like “oh nooo we would miss all of these very cool and normal posts please stay”, then the next day he’d usually apologise to the person, then repeat. This was pretty much a weekly and later nightly thing for a few months although it seems to have passed a lot of ppl by, but it made things tiresome & unpleasant for a while. & I think enough ppl calling him out on it rather than pretending it wasn’t happening probably was what led to him cutting that shit out, & he was fine after that. He’s p well liked on here, it was just the behaviour that was unacceptable

Wow I didn’t know it was that bad. I remember some stuff with him deciding he didn’t like homeless people anymore after getting stabbed, or something.

i think its sick that ilx still has board drama